I Im In Love With My Best Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 241 People

    This, this isn't a "I think so".

    This isn't a "maybe I feel". This is a fact. I'm in love with my best friend. I've crushed on him for a while and he has been head over heels for me ever since we first started talking. I've known him for over 2 years and today was our 2 month anniversary. Yes, I'm dating the...
    FallenxPerfection FallenxPerfection
    18-21, F
    Jan 20, 2014

    Why Can'T I Change It

    I've liked one of my best guy friends for the past 2 years. We have both done things with other people but I just can't shake the feeling of butterfly's every time I see him. I can't stop texting him, but every time he gets a new girlfriend I sit back and even support him even...
    Cloepaige Cloepaige
    18-21, F
    Nov 9, 2013

    We're both girls. She's the reason I'm bi.

    But she's straight. I just want a chance. She holds me when I break, tells me everyday how much she loves me, and even says if she liked girls, I'd be the first girl she'd date. I really hate this. I get so jealous, and want to just be her best friend. No feelings of actual love...
    HayleahKjellberg HayleahKjellberg
    18-21, F
    Dec 8, 2013

    I'm married . But Iv loved my best friend

    for years & this past year we have gotten so close . My husband & I have been having problems pretty much since we have been married . My bestfriend has been there the whole time . I don't know what I would do without him . He is the only one who really gets and loves me for who...
    kashx kashx
    22-25, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    A Girl I Never Thought I Would Find..

    This is seriously one of the lamest things I think I've ever done. But I feel like sharing this so here I go.. First a few things about me for context. I take relationships (meaning dating relationships and friendships) pretty seriously. I mean im not a robot, I have a sense of...
    Halo411 Halo411
    Nov 4, 2012

    I'm in love with my very best friend.

    She's basically family I guess. She stays the night a lot and says she thinks she's likes girls also. She used to have a crush on me a while back when I first came out but I never gave her a second glance of anything more than a really good friendship, now I like, no Love her...
    Stargirl345 Stargirl345
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 21, 2015

    Hi everyone, I was hoping somebody could

    please give me some insight on a dilemma I am in. I have been friends with a guy for 3 years now. We crossed the line of friendship many times and I took his virginity 2 years ago. After he fell in love with me and I had feelings for him but I wasn't sure if it would work...
    mzgirl mzgirl
    22-25, F
    Apr 22, 2015
    comicalbasketcase comicalbasketcase
    Sep 21, 2015

    I love the woman I'm with

    so much. she's the most gorgeous sexy beautiful smart intriguing talented incredible lady I've ever known. i will climb any mountain, cross any ocean, triumph over any shortcoming ive had, become a better person and better man in every way I can and continue growing for her and...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015

    I'm the happiest girl in the world!

    I can't stop smiling oh my goodness! I have a boyfriend😊 and I feel so happy. And Jess makes me smile and he's the most amazing person I've ever met and he's mine 😍 I'm so lucky.
    KylieLaine KylieLaine
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 6, 2014

    Well. We're dating now.

    . Amazing really. The best thing is nothing changed besides the title between me and him we are that close. Both our exes begged us to date and all our friends have just been waiting for it. I honestly haven't been this happy in a real long time. I don't know what the point of...
    Shadowgirll Shadowgirll
    18-21, F
    Dec 21, 2014

    We met only this mornin'

    but our friendship quickly blossomed to something else.. He's not much of a talker but he sits with me and gives me every ounce of his attention when I talk to him. He actually listens! Idk I feel like he's the only one who gets what I'm really about.. Meet joe. My boyfruit
    Faelanthewulf Faelanthewulf
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2015

    I open my eyes in the morning

    and all I can see is his face in my mind. Then when I realize he is not here a great loneliness envelopes my heart. I constantly text him but he barely responds. We are drifting apart and my love for him will never die. This passion within me burns my heart when I see is...
    jay2heart jay2heart
    18-21, M
    Oct 27, 2014


    He's gone and I miss him. I cant wait to kiss him. I'm here and I'm thinking of my actions towards him. I'm not proud of me not being the girl I want to be. I only hope that, clearly, you could see that my love to you is completely free. Works in return are unnecessary. You hold...
    janealoneontheplain janealoneontheplain
    18-21, F
    Mar 20, 2013

    So I'm in love with my best friend & I wanna

    know how he feels see I can't ruin our 11 years of friendship so I rather keep to myself but I think about him 24/7 and every time I see him I just wanna hug him forever and kiss his cheek or put my head on his shoulder in the car I don't know what to do 😭😭😭
    jgnune jgnune
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    So I've known my best friend

    for 16 years. And I've been in love with him for like ever. We finally met. But he's not sure if he's on the same side of the fence. He happens to be poly. It almost felt like I got friend zoned. He knows how I feels, but says he thinks he's on the other side of the fence, but...
    enigmaninja enigmaninja
    31-35, F
    Jan 5, 2016

    I think I'm in love with my best friend.

    Let's just call him Bob, So I met Bob in 5th grade, I despised him greatly because he was annoying. So, I basically bullied him. However, he had a near-death incident in the gym and i started feeling scared for him for the first time. Months later, it was finally summer break. I...
    kng123 kng123
    22-25, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    I think I'm falling in love with my best guy

    friend. We tell each other everything. We hangout a lot and go fun places together. We occasionally hookup, like 1/3 times we hangout. I'm starting to really like him. I had feelings for him once before and when I told him he thought it would be a bad idea to date because he...
    Destinyyyh7 Destinyyyh7
    18-21, F
    Apr 14, 2014

    I've known my best friend

    since i was 12 or 11.. he's been going on dates and such lately (us being older now hes trying to go out and find himself) and you know.. im his best friend and hes mine... so im the one he comes to when he wants to talk about how much he likes this new girl and it is breaking...
    comicalbasketcase comicalbasketcase
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    I met him when I was about 5

    or 6. In our little group of friends when we played mom and dad we would always be mom and dad and little things like that. I always thought that that was a dumb thing little kids do. When I was ten I left my country (cuba) to go to live in another one. Im 15 right now and i've...
    ivanaes93 ivanaes93
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014
    Harryharry123 Harryharry123
    26-30, M
    Aug 27, 2014

    We met 3yrs ago and it's like we have

    everything in common so last year during summer I texted him and told him that I couldn't sleep so he kinda gave me suggestions on how I could & now he does that every single night. I call him Babycakes (don't ask) and he calls me Sweetpea. So I told my other friends about that...
    woahfooddd woahfooddd
    18-21, F
    May 3, 2014

    I love someone and would give the world to have

    her, but..... I'm in such deep love with someone, and I cannot shut her out of my mind, not even for a second. I wake up several time a night thinking of her, and never stop thinking of her during the day. She's my best friend, and when we spend time together, we really do get...
    aldream221 aldream221
    36-40, M
    Jul 23, 2014

    I finally told her how I felt.

    She Said one day ill be her wife but then I asked her out and she said no. I'm so confused
    rockyboo rockyboo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    Cali your so amazing to me you always help me

    threw everything, you never leave my side, you accept my decisions and always go out of your way to make me feel special and loved, you always tell me I don't need make up because you think I'm beautiful just the way I am you have done so much for me and I am glad I have someone...
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful
    18-21, F
    Nov 25, 2014

    I love the way he treats me,

    the way he wants to talk to me, the way he asks to spend time with me, but.. He says he can't be the guy I want and need, he says he wants to be more than beat friends but doesn't want to ruin our friendship and for me.. I'm torn. I know where he stands and what he wants, but it...
    Maybaby1 Maybaby1
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2014

    I'm in love with my best friend,

    but he doesn't know it. He has brown, floppy hair that he always flips to the side and he has the most gorgeous blue eyes and creamy pale skin. He's freaking beautiful, if it's right to call a boy beautiful. He's the same age as me now, 16. I'm worried at what he'll do if he...
    MusicalMariBelle MusicalMariBelle
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 24, 2014

    I think the right person

    for me is my best friend. He is just the kindest and sweetest to me and I honestly don't know how I was this lucky... Problem: I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. Both of us are rocky in our current relationships and after this weekend (I ran away and went to his house...
    Shadowgirll Shadowgirll
    18-21, F
    Dec 13, 2014

    I am in love with my best friend,

    she is a girl and she is straight so I know we won't be able to be together and she is like my sister so it feels sort of incestuous for me to like her in a romantic way. I want to tell her I like her but I'm hopeless at talking to people about my feelings in person so I might...
    Hornybouncytits Hornybouncytits
    18-21, F
    May 26, 2014

    I'm in love with my best friend I've known him

    for 2 and a half years. But he doesn't know that I like him. I don't know what to say to him
    wigsppliter wigsppliter
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 5, 2014

    I found the perfect person.

    She knows everything about me. I'm so lucky to have her.
    mvillevamp2013 mvillevamp2013
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2014

    So I've know my best friend (guy)

    for 3 years now and I've always liked him but it wasn't until the day I gazed into his eyes and felt such a strong connection that I fell in love with him. Every time I would date other guys, he would always be in the back of my mind somewhere and I finally told him I liked him...
    Imshysorry Imshysorry
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2015

    I've loved him from the start!

    ! he's my other half and my one and only!! can't imagine my life without him and can't wait to spend forever with him!!
    keke1432 keke1432
    18-21, F
    Feb 25, 2015

    Literally. It was love at first sight,

    this man means more to me then anything in my entire life ever has. He loves me for me, every little piece even the broken ones, most of those which he has fixed. I'm so thankful that God brought us together <3 I couldn't be more happy, he's my rock, my silly string, my...
    beckebreez beckebreez
    22-25, F
    Feb 13, 2015


    So I got a letter from my boyfriend today and it had the coolest drawing on it for my birthday with the sweetest sayings and feelings. I love him❤
    2Long22 2Long22
    26-30, F
    Aug 27, 2013

    I'm not in the friends zone per say.

    I feel like if I really tried I could get her. The problem is she has a boyfriend. And apparently he is actually a really good guy. I don't feel like I'm a good boyfriend and I'm scared to try and make her give up o something that could make her extremely happy(current...
    Macallanslover Macallanslover
    22-25, M
    May 9, 2015
    heyimjane heyimjane
    18-21, F
    Feb 16, 2014

    I mean he is everything

    and more. I kinda fell for him but never commit to him. It's just really complicated. He played me. He is such a hoe. Now he doesn't say things that he used too and I just talked to him on the phone after three months all my hate went away as soon as I heard him laugh. He claims...
    sashafiercexo sashafiercexo
    18-21, F
    Sep 7, 2014

    Maybe our best friends are our soul mates,

    but not the people we date/marry etc.
    MaddieJ MaddieJ
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    I met my boyfriend online from 2300 miles apart.

    our chemistry was so strong it was impossible to fight or deny. There were so many predicaments we both faced at the time that being together would mean that we would have to make tremendous sacrifices just for the moment we could finally touch. I fell so deeply in love with...
    jaynesreflection jaynesreflection
    31-35, F
    Feb 7, 2015

    I have a girl best friend were gunna call her k

    (she's not the one I'm in love with) we'll we were best friends for like 3 years over all and I knew my guy best friend since 4th grade. But we lost contact when I started middle school (he's a year younger) when I was in 7 grade my best friend and him got extremely close then...
    thecatso thecatso
    16-17, F
    Nov 13, 2014

    Ok I'm in love with my best friend him

    and I have been friends for 5 years and now I love him and all I want to do is kiss him when I'm around him it's driving me crazy and it's hard being unable to love the person who you love ps I'm gay and he doesn't know I want to tell him but I don't know what he would think or...
    bloodofcour bloodofcour
    18-21, M
    3 Responses May 3, 2014

    I'm in love with my best friend.

    . I wish I wasn't, but I am, when I look at her I want to trace her beautiful face, I want to run my hands through her long curly blond hair. I want to kiss her perfect pink lips. I've never been attracted to girls before, but with her it's different.. I love her funny easy going...
    StuckInTheShadows StuckInTheShadows
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2014

    It's the sex isn't it?

    That is it right? once you sleep together... there's no turning back. Jealousy, I love you's All for what? If you are never going to be mine.
    createglamour createglamour
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 19, 2015

    So I'm saying a massive thanks to God,

    because he have me a chance to see my best friend Shane. I am ecstatic, I don't think I'll ever stop smiling. Like OMG it was like out of a movie. Except i ran into him near the bathrooms but still I'm not complaining I am so thankful that I got to see my best friend I love and...
    MickeyTomlinson MickeyTomlinson
    18-21, F
    Mar 26, 2015

    He basically started out

    as my Bestfriend ... He would throw hints but I would ignore them.. Until after spending time with him I found out how good of a person he was and I became secretly interested in him.. I finally put it out in the open when I told a mutual Bestfriend of ours that I liked him... I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 10, 2013

    I met her 4 years ago

    and I thought she was the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. I quickly became friends with her and I started caring for her in a deeper sense rather than a simple crush. 3 years later she is dating a guy who I know is nothing but trouble. Now don't get me wrong this guy is a...
    NotFarFromReality NotFarFromReality
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2014

    He is my every waking thought

    and my every late night dream. I see him in the beauty around me and being without him breaks my heart in two. He calls me when were far away and tells me he loves me every night. He is my soul mate, my best friend, my secret lover, and my everything. He knows my feelings...
    silentscreamer24 silentscreamer24
    26-30, F
    Nov 20, 2014

    About a month ago I met a boy at a week long

    service camp. I am a 14 year old girl and he is a 16 year old boy. We instantly became best friends, he also lives 2 hours away. We text each other all of the time and text until 2 in the morning. I am really in love with him, and I don't know what to do because he has had 2...
    gskudbhsb gskudbhsb
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    Ok so I've known her 8yrs she is rly pretty we

    go through the same stuff anorexia depression self harm she understands she is driving me crazy she is cutting so much but I love her she needs to stop I did and I no it's hard but she thinks she is ugly she is beautiful anyways she just cut her hair Chin length perfect for her...
    Worriedaboutthefuture Worriedaboutthefuture
    16-17, F
    Dec 3, 2014

    So I'm in love with my best friend.

    ... But I know I don't have a chance with her. But should I try? Is it worth it? Coz I don't wanna make it awkward...
    RyanBrooks21 RyanBrooks21
    16-17, M
    Jun 8, 2015

    To Amy

    You don't know how much you steal my heart away. I told myself that I would never date until I got better and idk..it's just very confusing. I want you but I know that I can not have you. I'm alright with that...but only because I value our friendship so much. I know that you're...
    HappyZappyZaperson HappyZappyZaperson
    26-30, T
    1 Response Jan 16, 2013
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