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I I'm In Love With Two Men

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    In Love With Two Men...

    I am officially in love with two different men. Believe me, I was always the first one to step up and say that it was impossible to love two people at once, and chances are, if you feel that way, that you don't truly love either. But that is certainly not the case. Boy, have I...
    JennaBot9000 JennaBot9000 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2010

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    I Love Him So Much... But I'M Confused...

    So... I have the most amazing boyfriend on the face of the earth. But... There's another guy... Me and my current boyfriend have had our problems, they were all my fault, and we were broken up a few times. The first time was that I had a change if feelings and dated this other...
    JustCallMeKitty JustCallMeKitty 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    I'm In Love With 2 Men Also

    I am 42 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years. The last 8 have been a struggle financially wise which does unfortunately transfer to emotionally. I feel we have done quite well and seem to balance each other. When one is down and discouraged the other is...
    Johnnalee Johnnalee 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Even Had Sex Between The 2 Of Them

    im 21 years old and currently working in a big company. i have my bf no.1 for almost a year now,his 9 years older than me,i used to be happy wiith him,but later on,we're quite having some issues when it comes to money.what i mean is,sometimes,i felt like he needs me because i...
    redrasta10 redrasta10 18-21 2 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    PAIN

    I'M IN LOVE WITH 2 MEN, MY BOYFRIEND OF 2 & A HALF YEARS, & A MAN I MET ONLINE, JUST OVER A MONTH AGO, WHO I'VE MET, & IT HURTS, AS I CAN'T B WITH THE MAN I MET ONLINE, BUT THE IDEA WAS 2 START A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MAN ONLINE, AS MY BOYFRIEND KNOCKS ME ABOUT A...
    ange1 ange1 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    It Never Ends............

    well i met jeremy almost 4years ago and we are inseperable and well i met brandon a year ago and well both guys are so amazing and well they both have good qualitys for instance jeremy and i are like bonnie and clyde we are both the bad boy/girl type lol and brandon is also got...
    sexymama27 sexymama27 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Still Being A Total Dumbass

    I just want to say fro the record that i have never cheated on anybody in my life nor do i intend to start! This all started with a very nice guy whom i loved who just wanted a fling. I had just gotten out of something serious so i said yes y not. i didnt want anything serious...
    isapheonix isapheonix 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    I am a 25 year old mother.

    When I was 22, I had been dating a guy for 4.5 months when I became pregnant. I never wanted kids and it was a total surprise to me and him especially. I knew right away that I wanted to keep the baby and I wanted nothing more than things to be normal and right, but he was in...
    mrhone mrhone 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I Fell In Love With My Friend...

    This is kind of a rant or confession; I just want someone to know how I'm feeling and what's going on. I've been married to a much older man (21 years of age difference) for 14 years. We've been having a good relationship, he is really lovely person and we have a lot in common...
    violetdiva violetdiva 41-45, F 12 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Real Love Or Cyber Love So Confused!

    Well. Back In 05 years  i had chatted with this guy who lives in florida and im from the north and we ended up having an extreme connection we would talk all night,txt during school hours,chat on the web. we dated for a year. we broke up but we kept a friendship. then...
    Whatsright Whatsright 18-21 1 Response Dec 14, 2010

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    I Know What I "want" To Do. It's The What "should" I Do I Question.

    I'm 41 and so confused. My story goes back 12 years ago. I met this wonderful man from another country online while I was married. We talked and emotionally connected for 6 months before our 1st encounter. I was very unhappily married back then and was desperately searching for...
    everywhere02 everywhere02 41-45 2 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    Only One

    Yes I am in love with two men, But I can only ever really love one... Being in love is not the same as Love, Being in love is like being in Lust... The infatuation quickly fades, And fantasy never becomes a reality. Loving someone means pining for and falling in love with them...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Jul 29, 2012

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    My Two Men

    I'm new to this site, but hope that others might be able to relate and share some real-world advice. I am 27 years old, married for 3 years, have been in my current job for 4 years. I met my husband at college--at first sight, it was definitely not a love relationship--not even...
    jesussavior jesussavior 26-30 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    A Coin Flip....

    I'm in love with two different men, I want to say very different but they're not. They're like two-sides of the same coin. They're both dorky, intelligent, sexy and make me laugh so much. It makes my day when I communicate with either of them. So let me start of saying that I...
    LoredeLune LoredeLune 22-25, F Jun 14, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am desperately in love with 2 different guys. One is my ex of 3 years I haven't seen him in two yrs and the last time I spoke to him I told him I'm still not over him. But I'm...
    lizard42o lizard42o 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    And I just left one for the other. I've never cried so hard in my entire life.
    Grace0111 Grace0111 18-21, F Nov 7

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    I've used crack for half my life. It's saved my life on more than one occasion. Though it's cost me more than I wish.
    christinecrazy christinecrazy 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 7

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    Er I was. Now that I'm 35 myself, will that change? There have been times when I have been attracted to older men too. Those were mostly celebrities or my high school teachers. If...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Nov 12

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    His tall frame, his firm body, his easy manner... And her dimples, her complexion, her smile.... Both of them twirling, dancing, enjoying the music... People wonder how one can be...
    BlackEyedBean BlackEyedBean 41-45, F Nov 9

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    So after 9 years of emotional torture "we are gonna be together", "I'm not ready", "I messed up I want you back" (after I just wed) TO after you wed "I'm not happy, I want you to...
    SuzanneTS SuzanneTS 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    I'm in my last year of high school and I feel like I'm failing at being smart, I haven't had this problem before, I was always the "smart one" but the last couple of months I've...
    elisasama elisasama 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have had my share of failures with relationships. I'm gonna turn 29 next month, I'm divorced, I'm a single mother of two, I do pretty good for myself, I have a career. I wasn...
    prettymaria prettymaria 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 25

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    I have insomnia, so I blurt out some very strange things indeed. And I tend to get very giggly and hyperactive when I'm overtired, not to mention my brain overloads, and it's just...
    ruralroyal ruralroyal 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    I have never been professionally diagnosed, however, and I'm too afraid to mention it to my parents. I exhibit the usual "symptoms" I suppose you could call it. At times, sometimes...
    Derse Derse 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    There is this guy I'm obsessed with in my school. I have two classes with him and in one class he sits directly behind me. I catch myself staring at him. And sometimes our eyes...
    Edward23456 Edward23456 16-17, M Oct 28

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    I just read a post about a woman who was constantly falling in love with married men... She analysed the situation she was in and realised why this was happening to her. Now I...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I usually pay no mind to my feelings, I'm happy with my bf anywats. it's good to just keep things the way they are.
    KayaNakaku KayaNakaku 16-17, F Oct 23

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    No point trying to guilt me into getting back together with you. If you didn't treat me like complete **** we would probably still be together.. I can see it now you being an...
    Amy402 Amy402 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24

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    So today was bad. really bad. I recently lost my half sister which is quite painful. After my lesson today, I went to eat where eberyone from music school eats, studies, drinks...
    CitylessDesires CitylessDesires 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    I'm in love with my best friend. She's perfect in every single way. Even though she's not straight, I could never tell her how I feel. She's so far out of my league she would never...
    justtheaveragenerd justtheaveragenerd 18-21, F Nov 7

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    I'm not sure what changed but I'm okay with my life so much now. It use to bother me that I don't know what it feels like to be in love. Or that I don't have any children of my own...
    solojo solojo 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    I can never forgive myself for what I did to him. He was broken and hurting and what did I do? I gave up. On myself. On everything. But worst of all of my crimes I gave up on him...
    InsanityIsTheButterflysDrug InsanityIsTheButterflysDrug 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    I really love my teacher. The looks she gives me is just so bearable to look at. I think I blush every time I see her. Her light green eyes looking at mine. I think I see a sparkle...
    kase202 kase202 13-15 Oct 28

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    I'm at my breaking point and I can't stop thinking that death is the only way ill be happy. I can't think of anything that cheers me up and the only thing stopping me is that I don...
    JenKnibs JenKnibs 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    Emotions aren't logical. Logically we should be using our brains and weighing the pros and cons of our involvements. The heart wants what it wants even when it doesn't make sense...
    askmeplease askmeplease 41-45, F Nov 7

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    So I've known this guy for like three years, we've only been good friends for like a seven or eight months though. I met him at work and for the longest time he identified as...
    cosmicdump123 cosmicdump123 18-21, F Nov 10

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    Actually. Technically I didn't MEET him online; it's quite a long story. By the end of it, you'll probably laugh and say, "Ha! You're only 14; how do you know anything? How can you...
    DisguisedAsMe DisguisedAsMe 13-15, F a week ago

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    I try not to be a jealous person but I cant help it. I thought I was going to have fun in high school but so far I'm not. I am trying to make new friends but it is really hard so I...
    volleygirl45 volleygirl45 13-15, F Oct 24

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    It has been just over a month since my divorce. Like everybody else, I was horrified when it ended. Still am. I didn't know how I was ever going to recover. Somehow, today, that...
    MichelleM1988 MichelleM1988 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I shouldn't let things bother me, such as the possibility that I'm not satisfactory on a physical level. But it really gets my goat. Past experiences maybe? Sure. Why don't I...
    Peacepuppy Peacepuppy 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    He is my every waking thought and my every late night dream. I see him in the beauty around me and being without him breaks my heart in two. He calls me when were far away and...
    silentscreamer24 silentscreamer24 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    My son snapped at school again today. Threatened to jump out the window and kill himself. Councilor told him that wasn't an option because the window doesn't open enough obviously...
    ThistleAndWeeds ThistleAndWeeds 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    I'm amazed at what people throw away .. On dump day, I see all manner of furniture in good condition carried out to the street for collection. Finally one day, I saw a small fold...
    MidnightBlu MidnightBlu 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via mutual spiritual interests. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my...
    bettecc11 bettecc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over phone and...
    sarahc11 sarahc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over phone and...
    sarahc11 sarahc11 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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