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I I'm Not Good At Socializing

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    Not The Social Bee I Wanna Be

    when i was a kid I was always shy...grew up in a family of abuse. I always looked up to the minglers who could take the girl to the prom or whatever. I was always too shy to ask anyone, fears of who it would be, what i would look like ..etc..etc..anyways it turns out I am just...
    Iamhmhy Iamhmhy 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 31, 2012

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    Justaghost127 Justaghost127 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I Like To Think I Am But Im Definately Not Good At Socializing

    I don't know why. Im good with understanding people. Sometimes Im over confident in social situations. But it has become apparent, now that Im almost 27, that the main reason Im not more successful despite my skills is because somewhere in my adolecent years learning how to be...
    AWierdGirl AWierdGirl 26-30, F Jun 14, 2012

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    It's Hard

    I have always been the shy one ever since I was little my mum says when I went to play school I used to be on my own keeping to myself rather than being with the other children however as I grew up I felt myself getting shyer. When I started going to school where I live now I...
    RHSK143 RHSK143 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2011

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I've been told I'm weird, I've been told I'm antisocial and I've been told I'm just trying to call for attention and the worst part is that those words came from the people I call friends everyday. I've tried so many times to changue the way I act in crowds or when I meet new...
    rick852 rick852 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    In my youth I could play the crowd and still it is a talent.  The crowd is different from the individuals.  It is not the sum of them.  It's another entity and it has a life of its own, independent from the lives of its members. Crowds can pretty easily be...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 9 Responses Apr 19, 2010

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    :(

    I struggle not to be jealous of people who easily speak up and get people attention. And I am living with one, actually. I just had a dinner with some friends at my place (I invited them) and I had to invite my housemate for dinner too just so I do not seem to try to exclude her...
    uggh uggh 22-25, F 4 Responses May 15, 2012

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    Shy

    i have always been a little shy and awkward.i don't like dancing in front of people or jumping into group convos,i have insecurity's that hold me back from doing what i love and people don't understand, and its really hard to explain this to somebody who is perfectly fine with...
    mimilove76 mimilove76 16-17 1 Response Sep 1, 2011

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    Social.

    Yeah i am pretty shy and reserved around people i don't know. Always on gaurd, but it doesn't matter. If someone really wants to talk to me they will and i will talk back.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    Usually, I really just avoid talking to people

    I don't really know altogether. Most people assume it's because I'm shy, but in reality it's because I have nothing to say, and so I know it'd be awkward and boring for someone to talk to me. If I get to know someone, I talk all the time, and it's obvious to them that I'm not...
    RedxHorror RedxHorror 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

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    If barely knowing 3 songs is good then I'm pretty good :P
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    As a kid I've always been bullied for my looks and brought down. Although as I've gotten older and told I'm good looking I don't know if it's true, all because of when I was...
    TayCon321 TayCon321 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I'm not necessarily sure how to deal with my situation. Since I first met this guy I have always loved his personality, he is a genuine guy who cares for his future and is...
    Gonzalez0430 Gonzalez0430 16-17, F 20 hrs ago

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    I don't understand... besides my friend on here who I could not ask for a better friend btw (ily kristin, you're amazing) I have one person in my life who makes me feel good. She's...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    im not alone right now 3 out of my 4 siblings are home.i couldn't concentrate on my school work because they have music on so i can't concentrate. my work is due today . so i got...
    jynx1 jynx1 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Well hello dear readers.. I wanted to share my stories and experience because I think that every experience is worth sharing.. It all started in August when I was hooking up with...
    singingthestoryofmylife singingthestoryofmylife 16-17, F Jan 11

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    If someone can give me a good reason to not delete my account, I will hang on to it. Otherwise, I'm getting off here for good. Tired of EPAllie and I'm tired of people judging me...
    Fartdude88 Fartdude88 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Every ****** g day. Today (now technically yesterday) is my birthday and I feel like a giant POS. My wife made me feel like **** because she said she would cook dinner when I got...
    snake215 snake215 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Think I'm cursed, all I said I wanted for Christmas was family time and all I've had is alone time, spend more time crying than laughing. And I know there are going to be people...
    Nethaly Nethaly 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I've been feeling this more and more recently, I've become quiet, distant... I cover it well which I guess is what I do, but I can't do it no more. I just don't feel good enough...
    codenamekidnextdoor codenamekidnextdoor 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Anyone wanna be my sugar daddy? I promise I'll be a good girl and always be faithful to you ❤️ and if I'm not a good girl maybe you should spank me and make me behave
    Sweetheart126 Sweetheart126 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Which is why from now on I'm keeping everything inside
    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have only 2 that know that I regularly crossdress, my wife who has come a long way since I dropped the bomb about it and a good friend who here lately I have told him everything...
    Allyson02 Allyson02 31-35 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I'm holding a handful of death and I'm on the edge of swallowing it. I can't do this anymore. There are so many reasons to stay but not one of them is good enough
    painseeker16 painseeker16 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I feel like I'm not good enough that no one will ever like me or love me for who I am and I just sometimes give up
    Pizogoon Pizogoon 18-21, M Jan 6

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    Officially not a single person gives a **** about me anymore... I'm jumping from this bridge. I can't take this anymore... Goodbye. :'(
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I do. it's true. no one feels worse than you. you think. you're dead. I'm alive only in my head. I sink. sink deep. silently as I think. alone. my throne. my blood turns a light...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M 22 hrs ago

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    I'm still Christian but I have agnostic thoughts and views sometimes . At the end of the day the Big Bang is stupid every ancient civilization taught Creationism of some sort...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    This group name made me laugh a bit when I saw it. Not because people's stories and everything. But because it's true. Since the day we were born we started dying. So yes, everyday...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    I feel like I always miss the mark by just a little. I'm 5'11 or 6'0 and most people say 6'3 or 6'4 is the ideal height. So I'm barely above average, My 'equipment' is 5.5 inches...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Thanks Ricky, so glad to know the short space in time I meant so much to you that you threw the biggest tanty like a two year old and blocked me. I expected more of you, sadly I...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Can some of you please lie to me so I can feel better about myself for just a few hours? I know I'm butt ugly but I'm at the point where some lies would be good enough:(
    1972guy 1972guy 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    soon, this will all be over, a distant memory... a sad nightmare... not like anyone cares though.... everyone is worried about themselves, while the ones smart enough to die...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M 22 hrs ago

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    Eyedea & Abilities - Junk: http://youtu.be/_XOa8eaTZuo "I wanna suck out all your junk and kiss it back into the parts of your heart that you keep locked up, when you awaken I...
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F 21 hrs ago

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    My whole family think I'm strange and weird just because I watch shows like supernatural and doctor who but hey if I like it, it doesn't matter what their opinion is.
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I have never fit into any group of people; Popular, Secular, or Obscure. I honestly believe that none can hold a friendship or love interest with me. I like to think that i'm fine...
    DisGuyOvahEere DisGuyOvahEere 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    And.... *drum roll please* let the drama begin.I hate holidays, as far as ones go this hasn't been too bad actually I survived it with a load of avoidance, the internet, and well...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    the one thing in the world I just started talking with daily, she was talking with me and quickly hung up and I just waited until she texted me that she cut herself up, and idk...
    kieth1994 kieth1994 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I guess this isn't really the title I was looking for. I DON'T WANT TO, but, if someone tried, would I let them? Would I have sex before them, if there was someone I really loved...
    ThisIsJustForFun ThisIsJustForFun 13-15, F Jan 2

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    I just full cross dressed with make up and everything and damn I feel good
    noobs1990 noobs1990 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    Hello I know I've been gone for ages but with Mr g gone I've had nothing to say M It's nearly a year on and it still feels weird without him but I'm coping. So if anyone's...
    Dancingsaxophonist Dancingsaxophonist 13-15, F Jan 6

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    I'm sorry, and thanks for all the great memories.... Yesterday was great, and I had a great time... But I just cant... I can't and I just .... I cant... goodbye...
    debonaireash debonaireash 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    all I've wanted for three years is to find a girlfriend but fate seems to hate me. every girl I liked was either in a relationship or didn't want to be. On top of that I'm...
    tghn tghn 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    I'm trying to write a novel, however its taking FOREVER and my creativity level is next to none. Maybe I'm not cut out for writing? That would be a kick in the nuts (if I had nuts...
    Enrapture47 Enrapture47 18-21, F Jan 18

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    It's not pretty but me, myself and I are in a relationship with each other, the killer is we don't see eye to eye. I basically feel that all the goodness in me is being held back...
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    So, I've been really reluctant to post anything here but I'm just taking a leap of faith I guess. Two years ago, I was extremely depressed and was getting suicidal and I wrote a...
    BryannaC BryannaC 18-21, F 3 days ago

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