I Im Scared to Fall In Love Again

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    I'm going through a divorce

    and I want to start dating soon, but I'm still kinda scared to do so. My ex pointed out all if my flaws to me and I don't want to put another woman through that. I know I need to heal, but I'm scared to date and be attached to someone who thinks I'm a loser.
    supercoolguy23 supercoolguy23
    26-30, M
    Jul 8, 2015

    One Day . . <3

    Im hurting so bad ; to hear the words I dont like you come out of someones mouth youd give the world for is probably the worst feeling in the world , to be in love with someone who doesnt love yu is crucially painful , You think of all your wrongs and how you couldve made it...
    Courtney468 Courtney468
    Jan 28, 2011

    In Love But Seem to Be Holding Back

    ok so thought i would just share this. what whatever the reason. I been though a lot of relationships, most bad. And i finally found this great guy, he is amazing. But i found him online which I'm unsure of there. We have made plans to see each other and in the future move in the...
    JustBeingMe24 JustBeingMe24
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2008

    I love him like crazy

    but I'm scared his gonna hurt me so much 😔
    daniellla daniellla
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2015

    After my ex husband used me,

    abused me, and threw me away, I'm scared to even really look at a man. I don't want to be hurt again. My soul can't take it
    MissHD MissHD
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2013
    Encontrados Encontrados
    41-45, M
    Sep 13, 2015

    I Hope It's Real!?

    I have met someone here on ep, someone very special ...we have been talking for awhile and really love each others company but he is in the UK and im stuck here in the US..he says he is so into me and so am I but can this really work Because im falling for him more and more...
    Samantha13575 Samantha13575
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2012

    I'm literally scared to

    even date again... if you've ever read about my previous dates you would know that they have all be horrible and some have changed me for life... so the thought of going out with anyone is almost impossible for me... and then I meet a nice guy and theres so much pressure to go...
    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 13

    I'm seeing this guy. When we see each other

    it's amazing. Passionate. It's perfect. He's perfect. Everything about him is perfect. I try to sleep with other people and talk to other people so that I prevent myself from developing feelings for him. But it doesn't work. All I want is him. He's flat out told me he's falling...
    Nandp329 Nandp329
    16-17, F
    Mar 12, 2014

    ive been dating this amazing guy

    for five days and so far hes just so different from everyone else. hes sweet, and loving, and sympathetic. but this is my 11th boyfriend now and he hasnt given me a reason to think or feel this way but, im just really scared that he'll get really close and then leave once things...
    ilovepie12345 ilovepie12345
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 9, 2015

    the first time i fell in love i ended up heart

    broken and destroyed. it's 2 years later and i still don't know how to let anyone else in again, i just push away because the fear of getting hurt again is too much.
    kr1sten kr1sten
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2014

    I done ****** up.. That

    didn't last long
    SparkledRed SparkledRed
    18-21, F
    Apr 16, 2015

    I have felt pain and betrayal

    and I'm so afraid to feel it again.. It's like once you been hurt, you're so scared to get attached again. Like I have this fear that this person I'm starting to like is going to break my heart and I will be all alone again... :(
    Pinaybarbie Pinaybarbie
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015

    I always feel like when someone says I'm cute

    it's some kind of sick joke or they just want sex... I can't trust anyone anymore...
    KianaNicole1010 KianaNicole1010
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

    I'm scared to get close.

    But I hate being alone.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    i am not saying that i am not afraid to get my

    heart broken again last time it felt like some one just stabbed a knife in my heart i lost the count of the tears that i cried i screamed a lot each night i asked to the moon in sky why it happened with me why people lie why people like to break my heart why...
    bimvim bimvim
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 10

    What Becomes Of The Brokenhearted--i Hope Not Like Me

    Growing up I have felt and made to feel that I was ugly and that no one would love me or that I would get a chance to experience a relationship or least of all be married. Yes I dealt with low-self esteem but I didn't realize how bad it was until I went to college. During high...
    volcanicgem volcanicgem
    Apr 20, 2011

    I am scared to get attached to someone.

    I am scared to love. I want you. I like you a lot. But I'm scared of you. I'm scared to get hurt. I know one day your going to walk out of my life just like everybody else did. I'm scared you'll stop caring for me. That's why I push you away. I don't want to get close...
    fifidogg fifidogg
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    I'm Not Good In Realtionships

    I am awful at finding the right guy, any boy I go with who actually likes me and I kind, I think I'm Falling in Love. I was 14 and I fell in Love, I was then R.A.P.E.D if i dare say it. I was 17 and my I thought loved me cheated on me with my best friend. I still don't know if i...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 19, 2012

    It's not that I'm scared to fall in love AGAIN,

    because hell .. I haven't been in love. But I have strong feelings for this guy. My bestfriend, my crush. We've kinda had a thing for the last 3months. We're basically dating. But here's the catch, I'm scared to be official (if we ever want to do that). I'm scared to 'love' him...
    lovehateforever997 lovehateforever997
    18-21, F
    Dec 23, 2013

    I'm afraid that all my relationships will end

    I'm disasters since my last 3 1/2 were messes. T
    justinbartolome justinbartolome
    16-17, M
    Aug 14, 2014

    I'M Scared

    I've met someone recently not on here but were currently dating, I'm so afraid to loose him it's unreal what If he turns round one day and says he doesn't love me any more it would hit me so hard I would be frozen in time forever Because when I fall in love I find it hard to...
    neeks16 neeks16
    16-17, F
    Aug 26, 2013

    Every time I start to like another person again.

    Everyone around me gets mad and talks bad about me. Why should I try to be with another person? I'm afraid if i find someone ill end up losing my friends and said person I fall for.
    7Bird 7Bird
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 6, 2014

    After being cheated on its

    so hard to trust someone else when you begin to see the same (low-key) signs.. 😣💔
    SparkledRed SparkledRed
    18-21, F
    Apr 15, 2015

    Well I already fallen in love again,

    I'm just scared to open up to him really. He's told me he loves me, and I want to say it back but I just can't get myself to. I'm scared of getting hurt again. I'm always scared of saying how I feel. He's leaving for the military and i won't see him for 5 and a half months. I'm...
    blooop123 blooop123
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2015

    I'm scared that I'm going to be set up to be

    let down, like if I even try to put myself out there then I'm just going to fall and have nobody to catch me. It's hard.
    tjaayx tjaayx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2014

    Ive only truely loved 3 guys

    and each one has broken my heart. Each heart break was leaving me with the urge to kill myself becuase the pain was all too much. Im so scared of being heart broken again. All love ends in is pain, and so far no guy has ever seemed to have proved me differently. My fear is...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2014

    You know what's scary?

    Life. Life is scary. But the scariest thing is to share it with someone. That's TWO lives intertwined forever and that's scary af. But as humans we crave affection and love. We were made to be loving creatures, it's in our nature to love and be loved. So we find ourselves...
    badbabygirl badbabygirl
    22-25, F
    May 12, 2015

    i d0nt want to fall in love again.

    ..bcoz it hurts...and the fear of losing the person...:'(...
    luv19 luv19
    1 Response Nov 9, 2014

    I always talk positive about someone

    who would mean a lot to me. But for some weird drastic reason they change in that moment. It's like a curse I have, well I believe to have. I get really scared especially when I want to express myself to the people I love just incase that happens because it's happened several...
    AyeshaAlex AyeshaAlex
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2014

    Literally my worst fear is to get close to

    anyone because once I fall for someone every thing else is blurry, I am determined to not let it happen again, way to much pain, I am so emotionally damaged at a young age I will push anyone away that try's to get close to me cos they'll end up leaving sooner or later might...
    maddieXxx maddieXxx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014
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