Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I I'm Too Nice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 174 People

    I always let people walk over me

    or I give people way too many chances. Most of the time I don't tell people how I feel because I don't want to hurt their feelings or make them sad. For me I'd rather be hurting than hurt others but there comes a time when I have to put my foot down and just say it how it is...
    Starkillera Starkillera 22-25, F Jul 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Naughty And Nice

    Yeah it's true, I I'm just too nice, you see what I did there, "I I'm Too Nice". Yeah I know it's Ep's fault but I just had to point that out there. As for me I'm just a nice guy, but also I can be very naughty at times as well you see, there's so many nice things I've done that...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Jan 3, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    im a nice pearson people

    who think im a perv a truly mistaken im cool
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Let Holy Rollers In My Home To Talk.

    I can't say no to Jehovah's witnesses and let them in to tell me their shpeel. I am a practicing Buddhist. They do have some good things to say. I am tuned into a sort of empathy and don't want them to feel rejected, even though I would never go to their church. I am...
    BuddyBo BuddyBo 56-60, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I always end up giving people third chances

    when they don't deserve it and even when I know they're just going to disappoint me again. But now that I've begun to realize that this pattern of "Sorry, please give me another chance. I won't do it again." just doesn't work out and is harder to do than your mere words can tell...
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F Dec 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sometimes i'm too nice with people!

    When people say bad things about me in my face i just keep quite and smile ! But i really want hit them, in the face, hard!
    mael95 mael95 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 6, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I can never say no. I put people's needs before mines, so I end up grabbing at the end of the rope all of the time. It's not fun, but I can't help it.
    leonelalol leonelalol 13-15, F Feb 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People say I'm too nice for my own good but its just in my nature. I consider myself a very ugly and selfish person and THAT'S WHY I HIDE IT BY BEING NICE. I forgave my...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think people think I'm weak because I'm nice?? To a degree I do find it hard to say no to people, not saying no to people is starting to get me in trouble (nothing serious) but...
    Megaguy2010 Megaguy2010 22-25, M Feb 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't want to work,hate interviews. I'm happy with my life,traveling in my bf's jet and eating + Allowances every month.Does anyone hate working?
    plinko20 plinko20 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Even when i know they are bad for me, i always do what's best for them anyway. Why do i always let myself stand in this position? It's like i allow to be taken advantage of, regret...
    ChlaraX ChlaraX 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know why I allow myself to be taken advantage off. I tend to be helpfull but when the people I help don't seem to try and improve their situation ( i.e money) I sympathize...
    WinterSunShine WinterSunShine 18-21, M Feb 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Many men who have been b|tch slapped into the friend zone know this all to well
    DonnaDomm DonnaDomm 26-30, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think I'm too nice sometimes. The other day an old friend called me saying her boyfriend cheated on her. Immediately I rushed to her house without giving a second thought to it...
    MissWallflower MissWallflower 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am too nice, I'm the person that would give my last dime to someone else even if I needed it more. I am the person to offer food before I eat it. I am the person that always...
    kaylakanoelani kaylakanoelani 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hot damn! Called a police and a fireman I'm too hot Hot damn! Make a dragon wanna retire, man
    MrBeardtastic MrBeardtastic 31-35, M 5 Responses Feb 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel like I don't have any friends. Even though people say that they are my friend, I feel like I really don't have any friends. I don't have the sort of company of friends...
    Benster5 Benster5 36-40 Feb 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So life sucking!!! I can't win.. What are you doing to me? I see you and get shy, yet all I want to do is talk to you, wrap myself in your arms... But I can't... Anxiety controls...
    catho catho 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So true. It's odd but even cutting is numb. I'm too tired man. I think I pushed my Soul too far from task not life.
    ForTheFallen ForTheFallen 22-25, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm such a shy person. When I meet knew people, I feel like I can't think of anything to talk about. It's kind of awkward. Some people just assume that I think I'm too good to talk...
    Amd81491 Amd81491 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't be even the tiniest bit rude or mean to anyone, even if they deserve it. I feel absolutely terrible if I hurt someone's feelings... It's too bad being "too nice" leads to...
    Abnormalize Abnormalize 16-17, F 7 Responses Feb 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I walk by people and don't punch them in the face I'm being wayyy too nice :)
    xxangellynnxx xxangellynnxx 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i wont change for no one!! ok, granted that when the going gets tough,i stand firm and stand up for myself, but what i dont get, is why so many nice people,want to become...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm tired of people walking all over me. I get taken advantage of so much lately, and I'm sick of it. I'm not your freaking doormat! I'm done being nice...it's way too much anymore...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 16-17, F Feb 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm trying to please others way too often. Sometimes it would be better to stick with my own opinion.
    lindahe lindahe 31-35, F Feb 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm a very nice person but because of that I'm more cautious of other peoples feelings than my own and u know its not fair to me and I know they don't really care. But, I just can...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    my students always tell me that I have a nice voice, and love hearing me talk.
    coachaxel coachaxel 26-30, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This year will be our tenth wedding anniversary, fourteenth year together. My husband recently told me that he wants to see other people, that he's unhappy with his life, and that...
    Baralinel Baralinel 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm sorry I was your first kiss. I'm sorry you regret it. I'm sorry you fell in love with me. I'm sorry I could not return that love. I'm sorry you feel the need to say goodbye to...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 18 Responses Feb 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wanna say I am a nice human being, so come get to know me, please.
    bnaesf bnaesf 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not that I have a nice voice. It's just that my accents makes me sound funny... not sure if it is a compliment or just a plain insult.... either way, I think I have my funny...
    EmeraldBoy4 EmeraldBoy4 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ^ That right there, that terrifies me. I have a friend who's Bi, and I don't know if she likes it... I don't think anyone would and that's why it scares me. Also coming out. I don...
    HiddenNumber4 HiddenNumber4 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have such an incredible life at first glance; I'm educated, recently lost 30 kilos, stay healthy, I have a roof over my head, travel the world and have some extraordinary...
    hnmad hnmad 31-35, M 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I stayed home today because I was sick. I'm aunt (she takes care of me) was in the kitchen making food. I tried making Conversation which is hard because she is a *****. Anyway in...
    cutekittycat cutekittycat 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been known to serenade once in awhile. I love to sing, I've been doing it since the 3rd grade. I've found though, that much like any art, it is subjective. I'm sure some...
    KevinAdams123 KevinAdams123 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love to sing but I don't know if I'm any good. I've had lessons before but that was for a short while... I guess I wish I could sing like an angel, although I've been told I do...
    hannahrose29 hannahrose29 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know why if I post too many times or too many links on the same topic people just think I'm absolutely crazy and nuts and not rational or capable of being a decent person...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Feb 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm listening to The Cure way too much.
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it when I lose control when I drink too much. It's been a long time since I got really drunk. Last Friday was a little out of control, I finished more than 2 packs of smoke...
    grrrey grrrey 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    After almost 4 yrs of lies, lack of affection, communication, and attention, and an almost nonexistant sex life I am ready to divorce. I have talked to my husband about spending...
    txhouswife42 txhouswife42 41-45, F 23 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am in an intensive outpatient for my eating disorder as of current. I attend 6 days a week, 10 hours a day. Before this, I was in school for welding, doing my thing all smiles...
    Yourbaaaby Yourbaaaby 18-21, F Feb 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm going to leave ep, I think it's for the best, there are too many creepy people out there and I'm fed up of it all
    happygolfer97 happygolfer97 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 13

    Your Response

    Cancel