I In Love With a Man Who Isnt My Husband

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    I Fell For Him, But....

    Things have not been good with my marriage for a few years now. We have not shared a bed for 2 years, we live separate lives, but try to maintain a family atmosphere for our beautiful sons. My husband still loves me, he is waiting for me to get over my moods, my unhappiness, and...
    essie1 essie1
    36-40
    5 Responses Sep 17, 2008

    Finally Found My Soulmate But He Isn't My Husband And I'm Not His Wife

    After years of admitting to myself that my husband isn't my soulmate but it was OK because we had love, I've found him. I am passionately. unequivocably, deeply and unashamedly in love with a married man. We both have kids, we both have families and separate circles of friends...
    LittleMissL LittleMissL
    31-35
    12 Responses Aug 6, 2010

    The Feelings Of Passion Are Overwealming

    This man was my boyfriends friend. We used to hang out all the time. He and I got along so well, had so many things in common. For years we never crossed the line. Then one night we kissed. It was magic. Now Ive had my fair share of love affairs. This is the first time I have...
    ragincajun ragincajun
    31-35
    1 Response Apr 13, 2011

    I love a man who is not my husband.

    This does not diminish the love I have for my husband. It is a different entity all together. But it still makes me feel guilty that I even considered him. Bc my attention should only be on my husband. I take no pride in this. It's a horrible excuse but it just happened...
    lyssabee0215 lyssabee0215
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

    No Title!

    i am 25, it has been 3 years since i get married....it was a kind of arranged marriage...i have never feel being in love with my husband....but the point i wana to share is i am always seeking to play with strangers...it turns to be my every day game....i hate my self...i just...
    sarahsh47 sarahsh47
    22-25
    4 Responses Aug 22, 2011

    Confused

    I am glad I found this site/forum. I thought i was the only person going through these same issues. I have been dating someone for the past 5 months and things are going great. We met when my husband and i were separated. when we decided to reconcile for our daughter i never...
    Victoria82 Victoria82
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 26, 2010

    I'm Sick and Tired of Hurting Like This!

    I'm getting sick and tired other people's feelings and wants to before mine. I want to be with this guy and everything and i talked to my aunt uncle and my parents about it and my dad just talked me out of it I'm sick of it! I hate doing this this is NOT fair to me i called the...
    wtpoohbear19 wtpoohbear19
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2007

    Missing Texts

    He filled my inbox with XXXXs, :-)s and laughter.....for a while......Now its "Hi from Orange, you didn't top up last month" : (
    lostbird lostbird
    51-55, F
    14 Responses Nov 8, 2007

    Lost Friend

    Hi,im starlit this guy ive known him for 20 year's, i really dislike him the first time i met him, he was always out at White Rock Lake  (InTexas) flirting with the girls! That's where our gang hung. He even went to prison twice i still didn't like him. The last time he got...
    starlit starlit
    51-55, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2006

    So Sick And Tired

    i look at my husband and he angers me i think i can feel he is minipulating i catch him lies all the time like when he sends money to his country and i have to find out when i find a piece of paper and is this normal everytime my cell rings he askin who is it who is it ive caught...
    BORIQT1 BORIQT1
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2011

    I Love An Airman And A Marine....

    I love two men each for diffrent reasons the Airman is the father of my children and someone who has been in my life for as long as I can remember. We married at 18 I do love him for many reasons but he trys to make me be someone I am not and makes fun of me for just being me. He...
    ktenason ktenason
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2012

    I Don't Have a Boyfriend O...

    i don't have a boyfriend or a husband but i love this man we talk almost everyday we never met he want's to meet me but i don't think things are going to work out between us
    wtpoohbear19 wtpoohbear19
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2007

    So yea I'm having an affair with my sister in

    laws husband... We've been seeing each other on and off over the past 7 months. My marriage to his wife's brother has been in the toilet for years, his well pretty much the same, he hasn't slept in the same room as her for over a year now. Recent events in December brought our...
    bowerstoy bowerstoy
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 3, 2014

    Theres Only One Man For Me

    I fell in love with my cousin when I was 8 yrs old. I remember the first time we met we were flirting heavily, at this age meant giggling & pushing each other. Then he said, You know your really cute. I thought YES! Then this girl who was watching tv says UH you know you to...
    Shiver Shiver
    26-30, F
    15 Responses Oct 23, 2006

    He Could Have Been Mine

    For some years I had the most wonderful lover, I even took him from his wife, but I became so complacent I pushed him away. It didn't take very long or many other lovers to realize what a mess I'd made and how much I still loved this very special man. He taught me so much...
    lickitTsplit lickitTsplit
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jul 17, 2011

    I Love My Husband But...

    To begin with I have a wonderful husband. We are married for 10 years and have adorable kids. We are so happy and never had a big fight. We always tell each other how much we love each other. We are perfect expect for one thing. I have a guy bestfriend for like 21 years. He is my...
    bubbleguppies bubbleguppies
    31-35
    6 Responses Apr 26, 2011

    What to do. What to do.

    I should choose and let go of one. I know who I want. It's just the timing is all wrong. Ugh. So here I must be patient until the right time does come along.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 12, 2014

    Well, I Am...

    I'm in love with my boyfriend. He's not my husband, he's my bf. Ok I'm sorry that's lame. I apologize to all the people on here who really have a legitimate problem and I'm here if you want to talk.
    Warmthoughtsofyou04 Warmthoughtsofyou04
    31-35, F
    4 Responses May 23, 2008

    I Am In Love With a Man That Is Not My Husband .....

    I HAVE KNOWN THIS MAN FOR  THE SAME AMOUNT OF TIME I  HAVE BEEN MARRIED I MET WHEN I WAS MARRIED TO MY 1ST HUSBAND AND  NOW I AM REMARRIED TO A DIFFERENT MAN AND HE HAS CONTACTED ME AGAIN AND I AM FALLING INLOVE ALLL OVER AGAIN . I REALLY DONT WANT TO DO THIS BUT I...
    queenpin queenpin
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Oct 17, 2006
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