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I In Love With a Married Man

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    Starting To Hurt

    I am not proud of myself, yet I am in a situation that I am finding very hard to get out of.  I only have my closest female friend to talk to about it, as she is the only one who knows.  I've been involved with the same married man for at least 20 years.  In the...
    lovemycowboy lovemycowboy 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    I am inlove with a MM.

    But unlike alot of you, I went into this with my eyes wide open. As in, he told me from day one, his not looking to break his family or hurt his wife. He told he loves his wife. Initially, for me, he was just a sexual fling. And I was determined that whatever he says is gonna be...
    tklovesjh tklovesjh 31-35, F Apr 26

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    It All Happened Accidentally...

    The thing about me falling in love with a married man is, I'm a married woman myself. My husband and I got married for completely the wrong reason; he had no health insurance, and I had just started a job with really good benefits. Ironically enough, that job would also be the...
    theotherwoman37 theotherwoman37 22-25 May 1, 2012

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    Wrong Love

         I'm not proud of where I am right now. For the past two years , I'm in love and having an affiar with a married man who I worked with.  I have despised the "other woman" all my life,  just to end up being one. It makes me crazy that I have no one to share it with. I...
    applescell applescell 36-40 1 Response Jan 23, 2011

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    Is It Right To Be In Love With A Married Man?

    I'm 22 years old and about to graduate in college.I'm in love with a married man with child.We are almost seven months now.I'm happy with him and love him so much that i ended my 4 years relationship just for him.At the first 4 months that we are together he always text and call...
    imjustinlove imjustinlove 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    My MM & I have been together

    for almost 3 years. We dated in high school & college but parted ways & had not spoken to each other for 23 years until he contacted me on Facebook. My marriage was hanging by a thread at this point, I was married to a drunk, narcissist for 16 years and my MM showed me I can...
    Gossipgirl1408 Gossipgirl1408 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    Trying To Figure It Out

    The first time he spoke to me was in the stairwell at work. The exchange was flirty and exciting. He followed it up with an email that turned into text messages, and that eventually became a meeting in the park. It was only hours before that meeting that I learned he was not...
    EverydayMiracle EverydayMiracle 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    A Positive Post & A Shoulder To Lean On...

    Like most of you, I come here and write because I am in love with a married man.  I have been in a relationship with him for 3+ years, and yes sometimes it is hard but the good moments are so good that I can't give it up.  I know we are made for each other, and he knows...
    prettywittynell prettywittynell 22-25, F 14 Responses May 29, 2010

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    So I just talked to the cousin of the MM

    and was relaying to her what it was like seeing him the other day. I told her I felt rude bcuz he was literally 3 feet behind me and I couldn't even say hello. She said, "no, be rude and walk away.". I have NO IDEA how to take that! She is my BFF from daycare but also his...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F Sep 12, 2014

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    Fallen In Love With a Married Man...

    Update Again... It has been almost 3 months since we have been together and we are happier than ever. The kids love me. I had problems with the older one being very disrespectful and resenting me. My guy talked to her and told her how it made me feel. She hasn't done it since...
    MissCuriousity MissCuriousity 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Loving a Married Man

    I write this because I am in love with a married man.  He tells me his marriage has ended long ago, but they stay together for the sake of their child and their grandchild. I say life is too short to stay in a relationship that is non fulfilling of needs and desires. He...
    crazydreams crazydreams 46-50, F 54 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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    Light At The End Of The Tunnel

    My MM's divorce went through yesterday. He is so happy to finally be free and I am happy for him. We've been friends for 2 years (and in love for a year of that time). I told him the whole way through that I want him to be free and single for at least a month before we...
    Valnay Valnay 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 13, 2010

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    In Love With A Man Engaged To Another Girl

    I met a man lately and we've started to go out together. The thing is that he got engaged to another girl 5 months ago. The girl is from the same Island as me but he's from another one. However she moved to his place there and they now live together. He even came to spend the...
    soune soune 26-30 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    I Know I Shouldn't But, I Do

    There's a co-worker of mine and he's young and married. His wife is gorgeous so, I don't think he'd ever see me in that light. But, I really like him a lot of I know I shouldn't but, I do.  I don't know if he's the least bit attracted to me. But, I think about him all the time...
    angey1227 angey1227 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    He Tells Me He Loves Me...

    Ok, so I have to confess to someone, because I know what would happen if I confessed to any of my friends here. I'm madly in love with a married man. First off, both of us are in the military, and he was stationed here in Korea with me. It happened, just after I had broken up...
    lovingmakinghiseyeschange lovingmakinghiseyeschange 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    I Know That I'll Pay For My Choices..

    I am 21 years old and in love with a married man. I never thought that I would ever be the type of person to put myself in this situation. Having been cheated on in the past I always vowed to be a faithful and never  put someone else through the pain...
    lovesick21 lovesick21 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    Suffering In Silence

    I have been suffering for the past 4 months because of someone at my work that I fell for completely unexpectedly. I have known of him since I began working at the company, but I someone became infatuated with him after I thought that he could have been flirting with me. I felt...
    looking4comfort looking4comfort 26-30 2 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    Im Inluv With a Married Man

    we have been together for a year now,at some point i want to leave him....please help i somehow dont want to leave him.....he is a great guy  
    meb2ne meb2ne 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    Started For Revenge, Now I'm Hooked!

    I'm 48. I was married to his former best friend. In fact, it was HIM who introduced me to my ex husband 17 years ago! Well, my ex was a control freak and turned out to be an abusive husband. Their friendship ended because my husband was jealous of his success. We would run into...
    barbiegirltwo barbiegirltwo 46-50, F Jul 23, 2012

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    Inlove With A Married Man Also

    i met this tall guy oneday i was working he told me he was married iam also married , ok  we started really loving eachother up untill now so he says ok we both made vows to god that we will never leave eachother we will be together threw thick an thin. ok he says hes gettin an...
    tispymom tispymom 46-50 Jan 27, 2011

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    He's In A Relatoinship, But Somehow Wants Me Too.

    The man I love or would atleast like to be in a relationship with, has a girlfriend and has been with her for a couple years now. He says he loves her, but he isn't happy with her anymore. We are just really good friends, but sometimes he wants to have sex with me. I ...
    sexybaby0422 sexybaby0422 16-17, F 1 Response May 29, 2010

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    Loving You Is Not Right...

    I'm in LOVE with a wrong guy, coz he's already married!!! at first, we are just for flirt, but as time goes by and we both agreed that we have this commitment with each other. i really don't know what to do now, coz i think i was totally screwed up in a relationship that no...
    fasciola fasciola 22-25 2 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    So I just talked to the cousin of the MM

    and was relaying to her what it was like seeing him the other day. I told her I felt rude bcuz he was literally 3 feet behind me and I couldn't even say hello. She said, "no, be rude and walk away.". I have NO IDEA how to take that! She is my BFF from daycare but also his...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F Sep 12, 2014

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    What Do I Do

    I'm a 23 years female, who has a daughter who just got out of an relationship of five years with her baby daddy, i found out that he was cheating on me the whole time i was pregnant, but anyway. the man of my dreams came into my life but the kicker is that he is married but, THEY...
    sixten sixten 22-25 2 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    I've been with my MM

    for a year and a half. I never planned on falling in love at first we were just friends and he'd talk to me but it turned into something more. He told me he loved me and at first I just brushed him off. But with every action he showed he did. Now I love him so much. I want him...
    realicegoddess realicegoddess 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    Love A Married Man

    I am a married woman in love with a married man. I have been married for 20 years but not happy for the last 5, I have been planning to leave my husband for about 6 months. Just before Christmas I met a couple through business links. The man is at the forefront of the business...
    Cocktail7 Cocktail7 36-40, F 12 Responses May 28, 2013

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    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F Dec 13, 2014

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    Just Started

    I'm just 21 this year, but I really like this married guy friend, whom I know for about 7months. I'm not sure if it's still like, or the feelings has move forward to loving him. We didnt have sex, not even kisses. But I know for sure, we enjoy each other company. There's once i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 21, 2011

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    This is a love story. Back in the year 2009 I fell in love with a man from Poland. I was 18 years old and he swept me off my little feet. Still now I often think about him. But he...
    auby91 auby91 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    call me a wh@@@ or a homewrecker.. but I've had to affairs with two men and loved them.. it was fun and exciting.. one guy we continue today. I've known him since I was 5 and we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 2

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    I'm having some marital problems and for the last year I don't know if my husband and I are just in a temporary crisis or whether we'll get through it. We split up for a little...
    shoogabonbons shoogabonbons 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I have been in love with him for years. We were seeing each other for a time about 4 years ago, but I blew it. I didn't realise we were perfect for each other, so I ended it for...
    sarahannr sarahannr 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    I'm 33 years old and my husband is 55 years old. We've been married for 9 years. We don't have any kids. I meet this guy ( 35 yrs old ) at my workplace we have a mutual...
    Emmaj2015 Emmaj2015 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I was lonely and desperate for a companion. His name popped up on my screen alongside a smiling face. Still to this day, I have no idea how to pronounce his name but seeing it...
    KAnnie98 KAnnie98 16-17, F May 9

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    happy 35th birthday its sad that i always remember your birthday and you never remembered mine during all these years .... now ... even though we don't talk anymore. .. i...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 1 Response May 7

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    any couples out there?? around 27-36??
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2

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    I don't fall in love easily. I don't connect with people easily. My anxiety prevents it. I've moved from job to job and never missed the people in them. I have an amazing fiance...
    glassbox27 glassbox27 26-30, F 2 Responses May 13

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    -I am struggling to love a fictional character- Hi! I happen to create this account this week and so far, this is going to be my first experience/story that I said. Anyway, it...
    ExoTrickz ExoTrickz 18-21, M 3 Responses May 3

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    Yes I am still in love with a man from other country.But I hate him too.
    des3low des3low 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    To be honest I don’t really know how it started or how it got to this mess. One moment I was waving awkwardly at him as he walked away from the front desk, the next I was below...
    Leaderkyuzizi Leaderkyuzizi 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    So i wanted to share my experience with you guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in...
    AlexaER AlexaER 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    You guys will not be hearing anything from me anytime soon. I cannot put up with my teacher's complexity any longer. You know, there is a good kind of mysterious, and a bad kind. I...
    XOAfraaXO XOAfraaXO 18-21, F 4 Responses May 5

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    He told me he was divorced. We've been dating for 9 months. Now he's talking about settling down, marriage and moving my 2 kids and I in with him. I'm 27 and he's 40. I see so many...
    nellinaples nellinaples 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am seeing a Married man he is older than me. The thing is, is he spends very little time with me. sure we text, and I send pics. I feel like a total booty call. he says I am more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 13

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