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I In Love With a Married Man

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    I Know That I'll Pay For My Choices..

    I am 21 years old and in love with a married man. I never thought that I would ever be the type of person to put myself in this situation. Having been cheated on in the past I always vowed to be a faithful and never  put someone else through the pain...
    lovesick21 lovesick21 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    Starting To Hurt

    I am not proud of myself, yet I am in a situation that I am finding very hard to get out of.  I only have my closest female friend to talk to about it, as she is the only one who knows.  I've been involved with the same married man for at least 20 years.  In the...
    lovemycowboy lovemycowboy 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    I Know I Shouldn't But, I Do

    There's a co-worker of mine and he's young and married. His wife is gorgeous so, I don't think he'd ever see me in that light. But, I really like him a lot of I know I shouldn't but, I do.  I don't know if he's the least bit attracted to me. But, I think about him all the time...
    angey1227 angey1227 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    Fallen In Love With a Married Man...

    Update Again... It has been almost 3 months since we have been together and we are happier than ever. The kids love me. I had problems with the older one being very disrespectful and resenting me. My guy talked to her and told her how it made me feel. She hasn't done it since...
    MissCuriousity MissCuriousity 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Im Inluv With a Married Man

    we have been together for a year now,at some point i want to leave him....please help i somehow dont want to leave him.....he is a great guy  
    meb2ne meb2ne 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    He Tells Me He Loves Me...

    Ok, so I have to confess to someone, because I know what would happen if I confessed to any of my friends here. I'm madly in love with a married man. First off, both of us are in the military, and he was stationed here in Korea with me. It happened, just after I had broken up...
    lovingmakinghiseyeschange lovingmakinghiseyeschange 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    Trying To Figure It Out

    The first time he spoke to me was in the stairwell at work. The exchange was flirty and exciting. He followed it up with an email that turned into text messages, and that eventually became a meeting in the park. It was only hours before that meeting that I learned he was not...
    EverydayMiracle EverydayMiracle 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2012

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    Started For Revenge, Now I'm Hooked!

    I'm 48. I was married to his former best friend. In fact, it was HIM who introduced me to my ex husband 17 years ago! Well, my ex was a control freak and turned out to be an abusive husband. Their friendship ended because my husband was jealous of his success. We would run into...
    barbiegirltwo barbiegirltwo 46-50, F Jul 23, 2012

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    Loving a Married Man

    I write this because I am in love with a married man.  He tells me his marriage has ended long ago, but they stay together for the sake of their child and their grandchild. I say life is too short to stay in a relationship that is non fulfilling of needs and desires. He...
    crazydreams crazydreams 46-50, F 52 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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    It All Happened Accidentally...

    The thing about me falling in love with a married man is, I'm a married woman myself. My husband and I got married for completely the wrong reason; he had no health insurance, and I had just started a job with really good benefits. Ironically enough, that job would also be the...
    theotherwoman37 theotherwoman37 22-25 May 1, 2012

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    Just Started

    I'm just 21 this year, but I really like this married guy friend, whom I know for about 7months. I'm not sure if it's still like, or the feelings has move forward to loving him. We didnt have sex, not even kisses. But I know for sure, we enjoy each other company. There's once i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 21, 2011

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years.

    He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for about 5 months. We have the greatest time together. I didn't expect to fall in love with another man. The only problem is that I'm...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Love A Married Man

    I am a married woman in love with a married man. I have been married for 20 years but not happy for the last 5, I have been planning to leave my husband for about 6 months. Just before Christmas I met a couple through business links. The man is at the forefront of the business...
    Cocktail7 Cocktail7 36-40, F 11 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I've been seeing this guy

    for over 5 months. He is married but not living with his wife. They have two children together. She uses the kids to get back at him for leaving her. She tells him she still loves him and for him to come back home. She knows me and him are together and uses that to take him away...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    In Love With A Man Engaged To Another Girl

    I met a man lately and we've started to go out together. The thing is that he got engaged to another girl 5 months ago. The girl is from the same Island as me but he's from another one. However she moved to his place there and they now live together. He even came to spend the...
    soune soune 26-30 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    Loving You Is Not Right...

    I'm in LOVE with a wrong guy, coz he's already married!!! at first, we are just for flirt, but as time goes by and we both agreed that we have this commitment with each other. i really don't know what to do now, coz i think i was totally screwed up in a relationship that no...
    fasciola fasciola 22-25 2 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    A Positive Post & A Shoulder To Lean On...

    Like most of you, I come here and write because I am in love with a married man.  I have been in a relationship with him for 3+ years, and yes sometimes it is hard but the good moments are so good that I can't give it up.  I know we are made for each other, and he knows...
    prettywittynell prettywittynell 22-25, F 14 Responses May 29, 2010

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    Inlove With A Married Man Also

    i met this tall guy oneday i was working he told me he was married iam also married , ok  we started really loving eachother up untill now so he says ok we both made vows to god that we will never leave eachother we will be together threw thick an thin. ok he says hes gettin an...
    tispymom tispymom 46-50 Jan 27, 2011

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    What Do I Do

    I'm a 23 years female, who has a daughter who just got out of an relationship of five years with her baby daddy, i found out that he was cheating on me the whole time i was pregnant, but anyway. the man of my dreams came into my life but the kicker is that he is married but, THEY...
    sixten sixten 22-25 2 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Is It Right To Be In Love With A Married Man?

    I'm 22 years old and about to graduate in college.I'm in love with a married man with child.We are almost seven months now.I'm happy with him and love him so much that i ended my 4 years relationship just for him.At the first 4 months that we are together he always text and call...
    imjustinlove imjustinlove 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Light At The End Of The Tunnel

    My MM's divorce went through yesterday. He is so happy to finally be free and I am happy for him. We've been friends for 2 years (and in love for a year of that time). I told him the whole way through that I want him to be free and single for at least a month before we...
    Valnay Valnay 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 13, 2010

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    Suffering In Silence

    I have been suffering for the past 4 months because of someone at my work that I fell for completely unexpectedly. I have known of him since I began working at the company, but I someone became infatuated with him after I thought that he could have been flirting with me. I felt...
    looking4comfort looking4comfort 26-30 2 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    He's In A Relatoinship, But Somehow Wants Me Too.

    The man I love or would atleast like to be in a relationship with, has a girlfriend and has been with her for a couple years now. He says he loves her, but he isn't happy with her anymore. We are just really good friends, but sometimes he wants to have sex with me. I ...
    sexybaby0422 sexybaby0422 16-17, F 1 Response May 29, 2010

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    Wrong Love

         I'm not proud of where I am right now. For the past two years , I'm in love and having an affiar with a married man who I worked with.  I have despised the "other woman" all my life,  just to end up being one. It makes me crazy that I have no one to share it with. I...
    applescell applescell 36-40 1 Response Jan 23, 2011

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    I'm falling for a guy who Is a REALLY good friend and he tells me everything! We have no secrets except the one where I like him. I'd say I'd have a shot if he wasn't in love with...
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    I have gotten myself into a mess! Have been having a affair for a few months now. When it started I thought it would be like having a "good buddy" someone I could talk with and...
    Bella0206 Bella0206 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've liked this guy for almost 2 years. We used to work together. He has been married this whole time and I've tried my best to respect his marriage and not to come on too strong...
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    I love a man who is not my husband. This does not diminish the love I have for my husband. It is a different entity all together. But it still makes me feel guilty that I even...
    lyssabee0215 lyssabee0215 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    im 37, divorced. no kids. and hes 29 yo soooo sexy and goodlooking young man. after 5 years , finally i decided to feel 'alive'again and wants to feel fun. i spent time w him for...
    salyna salyna 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    My friend is a cutie and i cant have him but i would do so much to him if i could Mmmmmm!
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 26

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    MIKA!!!!!!!!!!!! Lol 😂😂😂
    WonderinginWV WonderinginWV 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I am in love with a man who doesn't love me. We haven't spoke. In over three months . What's wrong with me? Why do I think about him constantly?
    clairemoon clairemoon 36-40, F 4 hrs ago

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 3 Responses Mar 21

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    This is crazy to me. But here's goes my first official boyfriend in HS... Omg I was head over heals and we were perfect for each other... Flash forward to home coming his junior yr...
    thegirlWHOwait3d thegirlWHOwait3d 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    My first love was the boy across the street . We grew up together . We played together , went to school together , attend the same church , and eventually we fell for each other...
    kstu1 kstu1 18-21, F 47 mins ago

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I met him 36 years ago, he was 17, I was 15. We dated a couple of years and broke up, went our separate ways. I got married when I was 27, had 2 kids. After 22 years of marriage...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am married for 7 years with one lovely daughter. From day 1, I knew I can never give him the love that I had for my ex boyfriend whom I left because I thought he has someone. My...
    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I realize I have no friends on here or many in real life due to my own issues. I've always been a loner and very introverted. I am seeing a married man who I adore very much and...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had an affair with a Married Man. Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I work at a medical office and sometimes I have patients who will flirt with me but I just brush them off because I'm at work and I need to be professional. One day I was on the...
    soul711 soul711 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    DENIAL. ANGER. BARGAINING. DEPRESSION. ACCEPTANCE. High School Sophomore Year Health Class. The 5 stages of loss. "It doesn't necessarily always happen in this order, nor does it...
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    I am in love with my ex fiancee. we broke up back in 2012 and 3 months later he is married with a baby on the way. and now that we have both moved back to the same area and town he...
    hisbutterfly89 hisbutterfly89 22-25, F Mar 18

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