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I In Love With a Married Man

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    Suffering In Silence

    I have been suffering for the past 4 months because of someone at my work that I fell for completely unexpectedly. I have known of him since I began working at the company, but I someone became infatuated with him after I thought that he could have been flirting with me. I felt...
    looking4comfort looking4comfort 26-30 2 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    I Know That I'll Pay For My Choices..

    I am 21 years old and in love with a married man. I never thought that I would ever be the type of person to put myself in this situation. Having been cheated on in the past I always vowed to be a faithful and never  put someone else through the pain...
    lovesick21 lovesick21 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2010

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    I Know I Shouldn't But, I Do

    There's a co-worker of mine and he's young and married. His wife is gorgeous so, I don't think he'd ever see me in that light. But, I really like him a lot of I know I shouldn't but, I do.  I don't know if he's the least bit attracted to me. But, I think about him all the time...
    angey1227 angey1227 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    So I just talked to the cousin of the MM

    and was relaying to her what it was like seeing him the other day. I told her I felt rude bcuz he was literally 3 feet behind me and I couldn't even say hello. She said, "no, be rude and walk away.". I have NO IDEA how to take that! She is my BFF from daycare but also his...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F Sep 12, 2014

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    It All Happened Accidentally...

    The thing about me falling in love with a married man is, I'm a married woman myself. My husband and I got married for completely the wrong reason; he had no health insurance, and I had just started a job with really good benefits. Ironically enough, that job would also be the...
    theotherwoman37 theotherwoman37 22-25 May 1, 2012

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    Starting To Hurt

    I am not proud of myself, yet I am in a situation that I am finding very hard to get out of.  I only have my closest female friend to talk to about it, as she is the only one who knows.  I've been involved with the same married man for at least 20 years.  In the...
    lovemycowboy lovemycowboy 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    Just Started

    I'm just 21 this year, but I really like this married guy friend, whom I know for about 7months. I'm not sure if it's still like, or the feelings has move forward to loving him. We didnt have sex, not even kisses. But I know for sure, we enjoy each other company. There's once i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 21, 2011

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    Love A Married Man

    I am a married woman in love with a married man. I have been married for 20 years but not happy for the last 5, I have been planning to leave my husband for about 6 months. Just before Christmas I met a couple through business links. The man is at the forefront of the business...
    Cocktail7 Cocktail7 36-40, F 13 Responses May 28, 2013

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    My MM & I have been together

    for almost 3 years. We dated in high school & college but parted ways & had not spoken to each other for 23 years until he contacted me on Facebook. My marriage was hanging by a thread at this point, I was married to a drunk, narcissist for 16 years and my MM showed me I can...
    Gossipgirl1408 Gossipgirl1408 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    Loving a Married Man

    I write this because I am in love with a married man.  He tells me his marriage has ended long ago, but they stay together for the sake of their child and their grandchild. I say life is too short to stay in a relationship that is non fulfilling of needs and desires. He...
    crazydreams crazydreams 46-50, F 54 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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    Inlove With A Married Man Also

    i met this tall guy oneday i was working he told me he was married iam also married , ok  we started really loving eachother up untill now so he says ok we both made vows to god that we will never leave eachother we will be together threw thick an thin. ok he says hes gettin an...
    tispymom tispymom 46-50 Jan 27, 2011

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    I've been with my MM

    for a year and a half. I never planned on falling in love at first we were just friends and he'd talk to me but it turned into something more. He told me he loved me and at first I just brushed him off. But with every action he showed he did. Now I love him so much. I want him...
    realicegoddess realicegoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Light At The End Of The Tunnel

    My MM's divorce went through yesterday. He is so happy to finally be free and I am happy for him. We've been friends for 2 years (and in love for a year of that time). I told him the whole way through that I want him to be free and single for at least a month before we...
    Valnay Valnay 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 13, 2010

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    Started For Revenge, Now I'm Hooked!

    I'm 48. I was married to his former best friend. In fact, it was HIM who introduced me to my ex husband 17 years ago! Well, my ex was a control freak and turned out to be an abusive husband. Their friendship ended because my husband was jealous of his success. We would run into...
    barbiegirltwo barbiegirltwo 46-50, F Jul 23, 2012

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    He Tells Me He Loves Me...

    Ok, so I have to confess to someone, because I know what would happen if I confessed to any of my friends here. I'm madly in love with a married man. First off, both of us are in the military, and he was stationed here in Korea with me. It happened, just after I had broken up...
    lovingmakinghiseyeschange lovingmakinghiseyeschange 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    Loving You Is Not Right...

    I'm in LOVE with a wrong guy, coz he's already married!!! at first, we are just for flirt, but as time goes by and we both agreed that we have this commitment with each other. i really don't know what to do now, coz i think i was totally screwed up in a relationship that no...
    fasciola fasciola 22-25 2 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    Is It Right To Be In Love With A Married Man?

    I'm 22 years old and about to graduate in college.I'm in love with a married man with child.We are almost seven months now.I'm happy with him and love him so much that i ended my 4 years relationship just for him.At the first 4 months that we are together he always text and call...
    imjustinlove imjustinlove 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Wrong Love

         I'm not proud of where I am right now. For the past two years , I'm in love and having an affiar with a married man who I worked with.  I have despised the "other woman" all my life,  just to end up being one. It makes me crazy that I have no one to share it with. I...
    applescell applescell 36-40 1 Response Jan 23, 2011

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    In Love With A Man Engaged To Another Girl

    I met a man lately and we've started to go out together. The thing is that he got engaged to another girl 5 months ago. The girl is from the same Island as me but he's from another one. However she moved to his place there and they now live together. He even came to spend the...
    soune soune 26-30 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    A Positive Post & A Shoulder To Lean On...

    Like most of you, I come here and write because I am in love with a married man.  I have been in a relationship with him for 3+ years, and yes sometimes it is hard but the good moments are so good that I can't give it up.  I know we are made for each other, and he knows...
    prettywittynell prettywittynell 22-25, F 14 Responses May 29, 2010

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    I am inlove with a MM.

    But unlike alot of you, I went into this with my eyes wide open. As in, he told me from day one, his not looking to break his family or hurt his wife. He told he loves his wife. Initially, for me, he was just a sexual fling. And I was determined that whatever he says is gonna be...
    tklovesjh tklovesjh 31-35, F Apr 26

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    He's In A Relatoinship, But Somehow Wants Me Too.

    The man I love or would atleast like to be in a relationship with, has a girlfriend and has been with her for a couple years now. He says he loves her, but he isn't happy with her anymore. We are just really good friends, but sometimes he wants to have sex with me. I ...
    sexybaby0422 sexybaby0422 16-17, F 1 Response May 29, 2010

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    Im Inluv With a Married Man

    we have been together for a year now,at some point i want to leave him....please help i somehow dont want to leave him.....he is a great guy  
    meb2ne meb2ne 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2009

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    What Do I Do

    I'm a 23 years female, who has a daughter who just got out of an relationship of five years with her baby daddy, i found out that he was cheating on me the whole time i was pregnant, but anyway. the man of my dreams came into my life but the kicker is that he is married but, THEY...
    sixten sixten 22-25 2 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    So I just talked to the cousin of the MM

    and was relaying to her what it was like seeing him the other day. I told her I felt rude bcuz he was literally 3 feet behind me and I couldn't even say hello. She said, "no, be rude and walk away.". I have NO IDEA how to take that! She is my BFF from daycare but also his...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F Sep 12, 2014

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    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F Dec 13, 2014

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    Fallen In Love With a Married Man...

    Update Again... It has been almost 3 months since we have been together and we are happier than ever. The kids love me. I had problems with the older one being very disrespectful and resenting me. My guy talked to her and told her how it made me feel. She hasn't done it since...
    MissCuriousity MissCuriousity 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Trying To Figure It Out

    The first time he spoke to me was in the stairwell at work. The exchange was flirty and exciting. He followed it up with an email that turned into text messages, and that eventually became a meeting in the park. It was only hours before that meeting that I learned he was not...
    EverydayMiracle EverydayMiracle 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I'm not in love with my husband at all anymore. We both have stressful careers, work different shifts, & have two children. I'm not under the impression that a relationship with...
    pieces22 pieces22 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    What this should actually say is "I "was" in love with my teacher". As I am no longer a student and haven't been for many years now. However, when I was in high school I loved two...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    im not truly looking for any once advice but its just a kind of confession . i am truly in love with a girl. truly blindly and madly, yeh ! im 20 yrs old and and my love is also of...
    secondfuture secondfuture 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Really horny rn👅 maybe a married man will help my craving?
    Musso18 Musso18 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have been dating a married man for about 2 weeks now. His wife is not nice. She has said that she don't ever want him to be happy. she is out of state right now and he is happy...
    deseret deseret 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hello. I'm new here and thought maybe an support group might help. Something I'm not proud of and I don't know how to undo my emotions. Started out as a friendship. I was...
    Qbp812 Qbp812 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am in love with my best guy friend who claims he is straight, I can't give up on my love for him, and I feel like if I get close enough, he will see he loves me too. All I can do...
    olone olone 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm married. My husband is verbally abusive quite often, and sometimes I really wish I could get out of this relationship. But I still love him. I also love someone else, though...
    Diipali Diipali 26-30, F a week ago

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    This is my dilema and the most obvious is that it is NOT a dilema but the feelings I have makes everything feel so wrong. I in a sense do know the person I am inlove with, but I...
    LoveUnite LoveUnite 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This is a brief telling of the three years I spent with this teacher all the way until I fell head over heels in love with her. This might bother your eyes with the block wall of...
    AKoolGuy AKoolGuy 18-21, M Aug 27

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    I have no spouse to be in love with but I would like one. I have been reading through your experiences hoping to learn something in order to avoid marital pitfalls. I have noticed...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    there's this girl in my research group with zero manners. she annoyed me enough to make me write this. she interrupts when someone is talking, she throws brainless opinions before...
    Mateom93 Mateom93 22-25, M Aug 26

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    My husband and I have been together since we were 15 years old. We married at 20. I am now pushing 28. We have three young kids (5,3,2). I am not in love with him like I once was...
    PurpleOrchids PurpleOrchids 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 25

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    Yes. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and he is so unbelievably sweet and I love him. But he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. And in one way I want that...
    josieyoung101 josieyoung101 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I have been married for 16 years, together 17. We married fairly young, and quickly. My husband is a good guy (overall)and there is no abuse or red flags. Though, there are...
    emk38 emk38 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    those are so hard to come by....fa real. for once, I wish I had a man that protected me, so I wouldn't have ta act like the bad azz all the time! sometimes, I wish I jus had a man...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 24