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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    I am sometimes so insecure in my relationship

    with the woman I love with all my heart and soul that I end up saying stupid things she gives me such a nice promise about our future and I just throw the words back at her this isn't because I don't believe them it's because I'm scared of losing you and am thinking the worst...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    Christmas Day was hard

    for me as even though I spent it with my girls and family I wasn't with the one I love and I hardly had any contact with her and this has hurt me deeply inside as she made the effort to message which wasn't easy for her as she was busy with her family but my replies were hours...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    I am super insecure in my relationship

    for no real reason. My boyfriend of 3 years is incredible towards me. He is very kind, generous and understanding. My fear of abandonment/rejection makes me imagine every kind of scenario of him leaving me. It got so bad that last summer he had to take a break from me because I...
    Monique58 Monique58 26-30, F 1 Response May 19

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    I would like to give a huge shout out to my ex for making me like this. I can't even enjoy myself or my current relationship the way I should be able to because of what you did to...
    00dom00 00dom00 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    I haven't told anyone about this relationship and you'll see why as you read. I am currently in love with a man I met on the internet at the beginning of the year. We have spoken...
    PrivateEyes1980 PrivateEyes1980 31-35, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    i met the love of my life almost 6 years ago. he was the sweetest gentle sensitive man. he proposed 6 months in and i honestly thought my dreams were coming true. i was the...
    akyesnomaybe akyesnomaybe 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    am short and fat but the most things am ashamed of myself and insecure about are my breasts and my big but my face a little to
    susan1983 susan1983 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am in a long distance relationship. I met my boyfriend in a social website. He asked me to be his girlfriend. He has lied to me a lot of times, all of which I have witnessed and...
    chillinNumbness chillinNumbness 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm extremely insecure at how short I am, and how young it makes me look. I look like I'm a teenager and im almost 22. I'm also 5'0. I've heard many times short girls are cute, but...
    CandyandPanties CandyandPanties 18-21, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    I started dating someone several months ago, when we met I was in an abusive relationship that he helped me get out of. In the start he was perfect, very attentive, a gentleman...
    xxbeautifulbrunettexx xxbeautifulbrunettexx 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I am and it is starting to damage my relationship but I can't seem to get myself out of the spiral. She shows me she's loves me and wants to be with me but I am still a secret I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am very insecure about my body
    Thedarkprincessooo Thedarkprincessooo 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    You ever have one of those times where the future of your relationship is about to be put on the table? Where you are going to have to face a reality you may or may not want or...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am insecure because everyone expects me to me "perfect, nice, and other stuff" but I can't be myself everyone is so judgemental..
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've got an honest question, I've had a couple of relationships that all ended badly and I know each one lasted at the most 2 months (I'm not kidding literally ended on the two...
    century99 century99 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I hate my body, period. I feel like I suck in relationships, period.
    flexb flexb 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I ****** up, I ruined the best chance I had at relationship. Today started so well, I woke up at 4 in the morning to be with her, as with her as I could be since she lives in...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I feel so insecure when I am on the phones when in customer service field, I feel like I'm not sure how I can improve my life and skills
    marissa521 marissa521 31-35, T 6 days ago

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    I'm very insecure of myself so if you call me ugly I'll believe it in a second.
    VasquezM VasquezM 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I struggle with low confidence and low self esteem, but I'm definitely trying to put in the effort to build it all up again. I tend to compare myself with others, which I think...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    That you can learn alot of things from being with others, being more relaxed. Less insecure, and alot of other things. Many say that dogs or other pets are good for peoples health...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    hey people im bedro and im here to try and help. I know how it feels to be struggling, i was once in a situation where things where not going my way and I had problems mounting on...
    bedrohelps bedrohelps 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I am very insecure I don't think I make others feel bad I say lot's of my thoughts on here but I don't go on about it in person
    susangoga susangoga 31-35, F a week ago

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    I am very insecure I don't think I make others feel bad I say lot's of my thoughts on here but I don't go on about it in person
    susangoga susangoga 31-35, F a week ago

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    It seems as I get older I get way more insecure. I look like an ugly 12 year old and then there's actual 12 year olds that are got and look 17 and it's not fair. I have no idea...
    laurenzerbe laurenzerbe 16-17, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    theres alot of times where I think im one of the worst looking guys on the planet
    aaronpayne aaronpayne 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I feel so alone at times. I feel numb most times and feel like my life is at a standstill. No matter how much l put myself out there to meet a guy it never last. I'm not perfect...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I think I need to be less dependant of my bf 🙈 I've never been in a relationship like this before and I feel like I'm loosing myself a little bit at times...
    warez94 warez94 18-21, F a week ago

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    Yes I have really let myself go. I have given my body an absolute beating by past substance abuse, I am skinny as a rake, I used to be fat, I have been all shapes and sizes, and...
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I've done the face-to-face in person relationship enough times now to know the person for me isn't here. I've gone through some rough patches in the past year and a lot of people...
    Chris1510VA Chris1510VA 22-25, M Jul 22

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    I've been in a relationship for 13 years. lately it's been really bad. since about November of last year things have gone really down hill. i mean really bad really fast. there's...
    RdjOne RdjOne 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    My boyfriend went mini golfing with a friend that is a girl and I am having crippling anxiety that he is cheating on me. I know that it's absolutely crazy and that he loves me but...
    basicallybroken basicallybroken 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years. This past February he became completely cold hearted and broke my heart when he unexpectedly broke up with me. I was...
    schaunie schaunie 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 20

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