I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    I am super insecure in my relationship

    for no real reason. My boyfriend of 3 years is incredible towards me. He is very kind, generous and understanding. My fear of abandonment/rejection makes me imagine every kind of scenario of him leaving me. It got so bad that last summer he had to take a break from me because I...
    Monique58 Monique58
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 19, 2015

    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba
    18-21, F
    Aug 8, 2013

    ...

    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco
    36-40
    1 Response Sep 4, 2012

    I am sometimes so insecure in my relationship

    with the woman I love with all my heart and soul that I end up saying stupid things she gives me such a nice promise about our future and I just throw the words back at her this isn't because I don't believe them it's because I'm scared of losing you and am thinking the worst...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 25, 2014

    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps
    36-40
    1 Response Nov 12, 2008

    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    Christmas Day was hard

    for me as even though I spent it with my girls and family I wasn't with the one I love and I hardly had any contact with her and this has hurt me deeply inside as she made the effort to message which wasn't easy for her as she was busy with her family but my replies were hours...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford
    36-40
    1 Response Jun 11, 2010

    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco
    36-40
    1 Response May 2, 2012

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