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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    I am sometimes so insecure in my relationship

    with the woman I love with all my heart and soul that I end up saying stupid things she gives me such a nice promise about our future and I just throw the words back at her this isn't because I don't believe them it's because I'm scared of losing you and am thinking the worst...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    Christmas Day was hard

    for me as even though I spent it with my girls and family I wasn't with the one I love and I hardly had any contact with her and this has hurt me deeply inside as she made the effort to message which wasn't easy for her as she was busy with her family but my replies were hours...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 Sep 4, 2012

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    I can only say this here. I do not understand but people have always seen be as a confident and cool girl, when in fact I am a good-for-nothing person. I am really insecure, I...
    misselley misselley 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Relationships require a lot of your time, energy and commitment, with that being said its okay in the beginning of a relationship to let your standards and values be made known. If...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I am at the most insecure I have ever been in my life. I find myself at a point I don't even want to leave my house because I don't want people looking at. There are people fatter...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Im so insecure. Im insecure about everything. My social anxiety, my body, my style, even my face. It's so hard for me to feel comfortable and confident with anything. I can't stop...
    JustineMusey JustineMusey 13-15, F Apr 10

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    What one thing your insecure about ? I'm insecure about my teeth
    SleepIsLife321 SleepIsLife321 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I have recently taken a break from my boyfriend. The fight we had days ago, still makes me feel numb; we haven't talked since. And here I am, looking at my phone, wondering if we...
    Realitymeetsbliss Realitymeetsbliss 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am this way because of past experiences, one was I was in love with someone who was using, playing and cheating me the whole time. I guess its my fault I got hurt tho, I was in...
    Zachery874 Zachery874 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I like this guy, i met him on tinder and he also likes me... BUT am a little insecure about his feelings, am afraif that he is just playing or that he is that way with a lot of...
    rebeccava rebeccava 22-25 1 Response Apr 4

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    There were several "red flags". I was young and naive. He was selfish, insecure, controlling, with a little ******. He beat me black and blue. For 6 yrs I put up with it. I know u...
    yummytummy610 yummytummy610 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    it can works. It keeps alive the passion but it's not easy, it's not for everybody. If you are too insecure, so too jealous, it will be over quickly. If both are smart people, and...
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M Apr 16

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    So yeah. Idk, i think if i ever show all my feelings and share all my thoughts, that would make me so vulnerable... Indeed, I am a very vulnerable person inside... it's just I...
    UNDecodable UNDecodable 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I don't care what people think of me it's what I think of myself that makes me insecure.
    iRot iRot 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I am pretty insecure about them. But I don't dwell too much on how I look... Of course I don't think I'm the most stunning person ever... But I place more emphasis on my person. It...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 11

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    i used to not care too much about my appearance but now i avoid mirrors and pictures everyday. i feel ugly everyday at school and i just stay home all day and night because i dont...
    avalily avalily 18-21, F Apr 13

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    I used to candy coat my words, agree with the majority, and not express how I really feel or think... I was insecure. Now I am able to be ME, able to voice my opinion, agree to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 17

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    I have to at least have some mascara on, to not look like a completely dead person.. ;DThough my skin still makes me feel insecure and as if everyone is staring.. :/ So I have only...
    GRda GRda 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just thought that I would share my LDR story, to maybe inspire those on here in a LDR to keep pushing on, my name is Ashley, and I am 23 years old, and I live in Kentucky, and my...
    AshAshyAshley AshAshyAshley 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I just thought that I would share my LDR story, to maybe inspire those on here in a LDR to keep pushing on, my name is Ashley, I am 23 years old, and I live in Kentucky, and my...
    AshAshyAshley AshAshyAshley 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    Skeptical is putting it mildly. I'm not sure that I trust them at all anymore... Not just the dating aspect either but even the platonic ones. Every relationship I've ever had has...
    NihilSineNefas NihilSineNefas 22-25, M Apr 16

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    Men cheat for the same reason a dog lick's his balls, because they can. On the other hand, us girls are sexually manipulative you might say and I would agree. However, i'm only...
    MistressPasaya MistressPasaya 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    So, I'm currently in a relationship with the biggest age gap I've had so far. It's only about four years, though. I've just recently turned 16 and he'll soon be turning 20. We're a...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I just have no words, tears keep falling down my cheeks...I've been quite silent these days, keeping myself up with my hobby (makeups) just to make myself feel good but actually im...
    EmotionDisorder86 EmotionDisorder86 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I met my husband through the man who is now my brother-in-law. At our wedding he was the best man and in his speech he said "I may be losing a good house keeper but I am gaining a...
    ag00dwife ag00dwife 22-25, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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         We met as children at my uncles school when we were 11, I thought the way she did her hair was cute, she thought I was handsome, we texted back and forth for a...
    Evoblue Evoblue 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm a black woman and my fiance is white. We were invited to one of our friend's birthday party yesterday, who's also in an interracial relationship/marriage. He's black and his...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend lives 1000km away from me. He works in the city I live and he is here 70% of time but he just told me he wouldn't be able to come here for work anymore after September...
    fosterpaste fosterpaste 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    After 2 years of our relationship we had an amazing time being together when he visits me...but now him going back like 3 times now..its getting reallly hard..we constantly fight...
    annie0528 annie0528 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I am in a relationship, i have been for just over a year. I trusted him.. i checked his phone one night as he was going through mine, I have only ever been loyal so I had nothing...
    jjayashevoss jjayashevoss 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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