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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 Sep 4, 2012

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    A Very Important Life Lesson : Learned The Hard Way. What Other Way Is There To Learn? Part 1

    `Depression, pain and fear are gifts that say "sweetheart, take a look at your thinking right now. You are living a story that isn't true for you". Living an untruth is always stressful.' This is a copy of a quote but I forget where it came from. The Point of Power is in the...
    Aussiechic Aussiechic 61-65, F Jul 18, 2010

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F Jan 20

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Insecure For Sure

    When I am in any form of relationship with a man I get insecure and feel let down if they don't call when they say they would and so on. A few years ago I decided to tell the man that I get insecure and anxious and can he please not tell me when he will ring me. He honoured what...
    Aussiechic Aussiechic 61-65, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I just want passion and love. A woman to hold. Someone to accept me as I am. And love me for what I am. Maybe I dream to much or somewhere in the past 10 years I've stepped back to...
    leaving6622 leaving6622 36-40, M 4 hrs ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 6

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    What the Hec!!! in a relationship what is the difference? if two people around the same age in a relationship fight and hate each other what good about that. if two people in a...
    tacomasr5 tacomasr5 51-55, M 1 hr ago

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    we live together we've been together for a few years i think we are happy he says it is permanent, that our relationship is for the rest of our lives - so why not? i feel insecure...
    suesue1978 suesue1978 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Some days I'm on top of the world but most days I'm insecure. I'm not saying this to get attention but that's just how I always been. When people make mean comments I don't even...
    ThisAsianLovesYou ThisAsianLovesYou 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    At times I am really really insecure about myself and totally down about everything that I do. Sometimes I'm so insecure that I don't feel good enough to talk or belong with...
    Sd6752 Sd6752 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    yepperz. one thing i'm most insecure about? My Body. i am a natural slim lady, who eats healthy and junk food at times. sounds fun? not really. for the past 3 years i've been...
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 31

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    When did we as people start to not take relationship serious anymore? I mean serious. Everyone wants to cheat or tell everyone their business and you wonder why I don't want a...
    lachee lachee 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I don't know how to get over it - I'm extremely insecure about myself being good enough for anyone when it comes to relationships. When I was with my ex she cheated on me behind my...
    mwp483 mwp483 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    I feel like I could have an amazing fun time while I'm hanging out with people but I'm always scared? I guess of how I look. It's so stupid but I'm getting way to insecure. I've...
    MorbidRainbow MorbidRainbow 13-15, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    The peace I have now that I was taken away from before truly shows that these relationships hold you back from loving yourself and loving others. Self-awareness is completely gone...
    blowyamind blowyamind 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I'm in a relationship. Been together for 4 years and counting. Please respect the boundary, or GTFO.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I hope to find a serious relationship here .. Someone who dont play around and likes to travel sometimes to explore different countries ..
    Crecre Crecre 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I have a brown dot on my chin. I have always been so insecure about this. I see people just stare at it and say nothing. I feel like they feel bad for me. I have always loved...
    lauracejaa lauracejaa 13-15, F Mar 26

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    I feel like every time I go out with my boyfriend, he's always staring at other women. I asked him, and he sincerely told me that the only women he looks at is me. I just can't...
    sarakmyers23 sarakmyers23 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm scared of being in a relationship because they won't last and in the end they'll hurt. Also I am very insecure, I don't think anyone would actually like me romantically.
    OooohJaime OooohJaime 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    This is probably the main reason that I quit trying to find my true love. I always feel like I don't have anything to offer a woman that she couldn't find elsewhere. As soon as...
    solojo solojo 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    People think im confident. When im really deeply insecure. I just dont talk about. I dont usually go around telling people that i am because then that gives someone something to...
    IllecebrousIvy IllecebrousIvy 16-17, F Mar 21

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    I am insecure about ny appearance. I can dress, dance, sing, have a nice personality. Never thought i was ugly. but last year i had a rude awakening. on a Anonymous websitei kept...
    taslee taslee 16-17, F Mar 22

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    Apparently, people want more pictures of me... I'm extremely insecure with how I look, talk, think, and move. I understand I'm not pretty but please don't call me ugly.
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    I can't even walk down the hallways at school without thinking that everyone is looking at me and seeing all the flaws I see in myself. I'm so insecure about every single part of...
    dizzydreamerrr dizzydreamerrr 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Ever since I was little I've been super insecure about my body. No matter what anyone says, I still wish I could change how I look everyday. Sometimes I wish I could change my...
    nordicgirl nordicgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Everyone has their insecurities, so do I, but i spend time trying to hide them. I dont like being perceived as weak, an insecure little girl with issues. I don't want to be seen...
    AlluringRose AlluringRose 16-17 Mar 30

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    Haha. Weird mix right? We'll yes I am both of those. Confident in what I do. And my body but also insecure of what others think about me.
    Leilani19 Leilani19 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    You know most of us have been there one time in our lives, perhaps in high school, a failed relationship for whatever reasons and sometimes after the breakup there's a remorse...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Is there a pill I can take for this? Heh. I've been so busy. That time of the year. John wanted to go out for dinner and drinks last night, and I hadn't seen him since Sunday. God...
    CaptainHowdy21 CaptainHowdy21 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    and it ******* ruins everything. i want to dress the way i want without feeling lile a bloated wale. i want to look in the mirror and see a beautiful lively girl with glowing skin...
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F Apr 12

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    I know my boyfriend isn't hiding anything but I will always have this fear of him hurting me. I have been hurt before and i never want to feel that pain again. I know I am crazy. I...
    Mangocupcakes Mangocupcakes 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This has been going on for way too long that I don't even remember when it began anymore. It just seems that no matter who I'm speaking to, they all have one thing in common...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I love my boyfriend more than anyone I've ever known. He never fails to amaze me. Most of the time. But when he gets aggressive and angry there's no one I'm more afraid of or...
    Nessybabi Nessybabi 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I've always found this strange. On this site, whenever anyone mentions relationship problems, it's often that people will tell that person to just breakup with their significant...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Am I Settling Or Is It Love? My bf & I have been together for 1.5 years now. We live together. We have a cat together. We've talked future marriage & children. For practically...
    OldSoul246 OldSoul246 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    Sigh... I'm feeling so tired already. I'm glad EP is here, at least I can express what is bothering me. This is going to be long so pardon me. I dated this person but things...
    huskiesandmalamutes huskiesandmalamutes 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    THEMADHATTERXXXX THEMADHATTERXXXX 46-50, M Mar 22

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    So here goes... I love my partner very much and we have been together for a couple of years. We've gotten to know each other quite well and we share many interests, not to mention...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    we are freshman in highschool, age 15, he's 16. at the beginning of our relationship he acted as if he didn't know me, he'd never sit with me at lunch, or ever try and spend time...
    katiebrooks005 katiebrooks005 13-15, F Apr 5

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    we are freshman in highschool, age 15, he's 16. at the beginning of our relationship he acted as if he didn't know me, he'd never sit with me at lunch, or ever try and spend time...
    katiebrooks005 katiebrooks005 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Every time I feel as though things are going right in my life, I go & mess them up. Whether it be in work, school or my personal life, I have problems with making relationships...
    midnight925 midnight925 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    they are great,but what i have found out recently that when you get in to other cultures and races ,ive just went through that recently and it can be very lonely at times and...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 5