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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Christmas Day was hard

    for me as even though I spent it with my girls and family I wasn't with the one I love and I hardly had any contact with her and this has hurt me deeply inside as she made the effort to message which wasn't easy for her as she was busy with her family but my replies were hours...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I am super insecure in my relationship

    for no real reason. My boyfriend of 3 years is incredible towards me. He is very kind, generous and understanding. My fear of abandonment/rejection makes me imagine every kind of scenario of him leaving me. It got so bad that last summer he had to take a break from me because I...
    Monique58 Monique58 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2015

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    I am sometimes so insecure in my relationship

    with the woman I love with all my heart and soul that I end up saying stupid things she gives me such a nice promise about our future and I just throw the words back at her this isn't because I don't believe them it's because I'm scared of losing you and am thinking the worst...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    This all started off as soon as I hit the teens before that I didn't care what I looked like. At 15 I started to want a relationship so I got onto a social network texting app to...
    whotookdem whotookdem 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    i've been getting more and more irritated and upset lately, i'm sorry to everyone about that. my anxiety has just kept getting worse and i always feel like crying now.... i want to...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 6 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Chains and Change Our relationship is a chain. It's a series of links, each one separate and unique, but joined together for a common cause. Every link of that chain is formed in...
    Ourjourneyoftrust Ourjourneyoftrust 70+ 2 days ago

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    I mean I would love to be in a relationship. I want to know what it's like to be in a relationship. But for as long as I can remember, I was one to never be able to keep a long...
    MrIppikodoku MrIppikodoku 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I guess I am not ready for one. I don't know how to get to a place where I will be ready for one. This really sweet and attractive and lovely guy clearly wants to get to know me...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes even though I prefer white men I often wonder what it would be like to date my own. My white partners have made it so obnoxious at times to be with them. They make black...
    cvlt cvlt 22-25, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    So, I've been in a long distance realtionship for almost a year now. Its bad as it is not to see the person you love all the time, but know I'm not sure if I can't wait for that...
    kokica kokica 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Today marks the first year of our relationship. For others, its suppose to be the best day of being a couple. But why all of a sudden, he seem to act so strange? Our sex life has...
    marshymallow marshymallow 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    so...this is what I thought back before I met my boyfriend, it was strange I never thought he would want to do that, he told me he loved me and called me beautiful but after we...
    PoetryApocolypse PoetryApocolypse 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    now I know this is nothing compared to some of the stories I just seen on here, but here it goes....I started dating my boyfriend almost 6 years ago...during the 6 years we have...
    teeq22 teeq22 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My bf and I started dating a year ago. He was just coming out of a relationship with the mother of their then 2 year old child. He hid the relationship for a long time, but then...
    franklymydear42 franklymydear42 41-45, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well, I'm not really insecure, but I didn't really know what other group to put it, or perhaps it is insecurity. I wanted to share a story about something about my personality...
    Junkard Junkard 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I met him on here actually. 2 years ago. We were best friends for the longest time and then I started growing feelings for him. As of June 24, 2015 we've been together and I've...
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    SO, Ive met this amazing girl, we used to work with each other and at first i didn't even know she was into girls until she finally told me how she felt about me. I no longer work...
    Pals2424 Pals2424 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    continuation… She was unhappy with the relationship that they have with her boyfriend, I told her that I will not let her love me more than him, what I just want is let me love...
    stunnedprincess stunnedprincess 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    There was one person that I met on my first job. A person whom become my friend, best friend, partner in all the crazy stuffs that I do. Every day we had exchanges of messages...
    stunnedprincess stunnedprincess 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Rebirth, and Rediscovery. It's been a year since we met, an amazing year of two people coming together and becoming a couple. And as with all relationships there have been ups and...
    Ourjourneyoftrust Ourjourneyoftrust 70+ 1 Response 6 days ago

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    True love doesn’t mean being inseparable; it means being separated and nothing changes. Even though we are miles apart from each other, nothing will ever change the feeling that...
    PosterGirl PosterGirl 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Do you ever wonder how much you exist in other people's lives? I'm always curious if people think of me when a certain song comes on, or when they pass through a certain town. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I definitely have no problem with interracial relationships. I have dated, married and even been get pregnant several times by different black men. I am a white woman and just...
    vabeachfemale vabeachfemale 51-55, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I fell in love. the guy still lives with me but he had broke my heart countless times...
    cindrellanikki cindrellanikki 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Here's how to spot it!1. You feel on-edge around this person, but you still want them to like you. You find yourself writing off most of their questionable behavior as accidental...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    My guy and I have been together now for almost 3 months we are 5 hours apart. We both have grown very strong feelings for one another. In the beginning we talked everyday quite a...
    missteen2 missteen2 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    My mom and I have never been close. I am closer to my dad because he and I are more alike. My mom and I constantly fight and we can never agree about anything. My mom thinks that...
    Winters15 Winters15 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Okay so im new wth my ldr bf and i mean weve been dating for a month now, and its really making us sad that we live far away but yeah we do have sweet times but today i feel like...
    treasure1212 treasure1212 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    I've never really talked about it except to people I'm closest to, so here goes nothin. When we started dating he treated me like I was precious and gave me attention i had never...
    SnowWhite87 SnowWhite87 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    It's wonderful. Really. It still amazes me how well we fit together, how close our bond already is. Never known such love, affection, loyalty, honesty, trust, respect and...
    OwnedByDaddy OwnedByDaddy 41-45, F Jan 27

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    I just had a dream where I met someone beautiful, intelligent and awesome. We got on so well, probably because they were a reflection of me. I love these kind of dreams because it...
    sancarn sancarn 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    My girlfriend and I have a very mature relationship and we have a very happy relationship for the most part however my girlfriend at times has been scolding me and raising her...
    esoterc777 esoterc777 36-40, M Jan 26

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