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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 Sep 4, 2012

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    So, I just realized a week ago, that I was in an abusive relationship. I feel so stupid for not owning up to this before. I've been married for 24 years this October. I married...
    dpwm9dpw dpwm9dpw 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I hate this feeling of being insecure. I think my boyfriend infected me with his insecurities. When I first met my boyfriend, he was the one who's clingy, overly jealous (even...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F Aug 22

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    I was in one, well at least I think I was. I feel embarrassed thinking back about it but at the same time it was what I wanted and still wish for. I was 12 years old, being the...
    flowerchildx flowerchildx 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    [Story from A Lesbi Couple] My partner has been experiencing relationship ocd ever since we have been together 2 and a half months back. it has been a pretty rough journey for the...
    eileenlingyl eileenlingyl 22-25, F Aug 22

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    I hate my husband. Sometimes I feel sorry for him. I stay because I am lazy. He is quick tempered, paranoid and always mad at the world. If something isn't right I am the first to...
    Babes2014 Babes2014 41-45, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    My friend's husband asked her to send me this story. It summarizes my life... "She Could Hear Every Word He Said Through The Open Window, So She Started Typing: A few years ago...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 1 hr ago

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    Seriously, the guys I'm meeting are just dogs. It's depressing to be honest. Idk maybe it's just not the right time to be giving myself away like that, I should just focus on...
    Inthepr0cess Inthepr0cess 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm a Filipino immigrant who just moved here in Canada. I have been residing here for a year now and I would like to express my distaste on what I am going through right now...
    johnibasco johnibasco 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    There is no denying that loving someone without being able to touch is intense and can be deeply frustrating. The body seems to be always aroused without being able to make full...
    MrSquishy MrSquishy 41-45, M 7 hrs ago

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    I find myself to be insecure when in a relationship.
    deepthinking12 deepthinking12 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    They can work.... But I realized if you are at all insecure in a relationship this might not be for you. We always said we loved each other, made plans for the future and then...
    Macy24 Macy24 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    I am insecure about a lot of things. First, my arms I don't like showing my arms and I don't like looking at myself in the mirror. I keep looking down every mirror see to avoid...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Most days im insecure, but it would be rarely a day that I am a little confident but then someone knocks down the confidence and I am back to insecure
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I have never been in a relationship. My little sister has had a lot of boyfriends. It is lonely yes but it is hard to find a good guy.
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm 18 and never been in a relationship, never been kissed. It's easy for me to talk to guys because I'm a tomboy, but now I'm in college I really would like alittle more male...
    CayaMonet CayaMonet 18-21, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Me and my babe love to spice it up once and a while which I believe leads to a more healthy an lively relationship
    LSCouple LSCouple 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    Currently in the best relationship I've had in my short life, but yet I'm still anxious.
    mikewmc2011 mikewmc2011 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I have been wanting a girlfriend for some time. But whenever I like someone I don't have the courage to tell them, partly because of my social anxiety and partly because those...
    gomega98 gomega98 16-17, M 2 hrs ago

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    I can tell you a lot about long distance relationships. They ARE hard. They CAN work, but MOST of the time, they don't. There is a big difference between being in a long distance...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I am short, skinny, and I have no butt. Most guys go for females that have curves and are average height. I am none of these. I am 4'10 in height and most guys look at me as a...
    raisetheroof raisetheroof 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I def belong to this group. I have really become insecure about myself. And to be honest the older I get the worse it is. I have this problem that I don't see what others see in...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Almost three years ago, I remember my faith in long distance relationships was fading away. Experience showed me that behind those people I thought I knew and cared about were...
    SquareOne1 SquareOne1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Wanna talk about insecure? If I lose your trust once.... That's enough to make me paranoid. I won't believe you if you say you're being faithful when I find things I shouldn't find...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I Don't know Why But Lately I Have Been Feeling Really Insecure About Myself I Hate Feeling This Way Because I Have People Calling Me Beautiful & Pretty & I Don't Feel Beautiful...
    Mariee15 Mariee15 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Everyone is insecure! The difference is how well u hide ur insecurity...
    danielstephon danielstephon 26-30, M Aug 10

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    My boyfriend told me last night that he thinks Cheryl Cold is hotter than me. I wish I wasn't so insecure for this to bother me. I don't really care about celebrity crushes, I...
    Ceallsach Ceallsach 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I hear people compliment me most of the time saying I should be a model, actress, news reporter or something along the lines of that. I usually just blush and smile, but the voices...
    ThePumpkinQueen ThePumpkinQueen 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    All my life I have been insecure. I was born with spina bifida. I was the only disabled kid in my town growing up and always felt like a bit of an outsider. I've always been a bit...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Aug 11

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    So insecure, i see a good looking girl or a couple, i get a severe anxiety attack ;(
    ipulkit ipulkit 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    I don't know if I should be confident about my body or not. I'm really insecure and rarely wear flattering clothes in public. I just don't like my body, I feel fat... And just...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    I don't wear makeup or anything,although I am very insecure about my appearance:(I'm always worrying what ppl might say about the way I look..
    JaylaG57 JaylaG57 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I've been insecure for a really long time. The comments started in Middle School from people who I thought were my friends, but they would tell others that I looked like a man, too...
    strangeviolet strangeviolet 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    All my life i have been insecure about the way i look. I'm in a wheelchair, i have a hump on my back and i honestly just feel like a freak most of the time. I hate that i seem to...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Aug 17

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    Insecure about a lot of things, i don't really know why haha
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I am insecure and get told that a lot by my man. Wonder why lol
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Well I was at the pool today and I have REALLY big boobs so it looks really awkward in a swimsuit because no matter what kind of swimsuit I wear, they still look big and like they...
    BrightInspiriation BrightInspiriation 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm defiantly insecure! I'm not fat- I'm average for my age. But I have always felt different, I'm quite tall and my friends are all petit and small, that sounds silly (I know most...
    lulumonta lulumonta 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I hate it! :( im so insecure. Been praying not to be but can't control my feelings. I dont wanna feel this. I've been really bad to others due to my insecurity/jealousy. No wonder...
    pangitako pangitako 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    As if I am not already insecure about my appearance my husband just recently told me that the spark is gone and isn't as attracted to me as he used to be when we first met, that...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20