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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F Jan 20

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 Sep 4, 2012

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    My First Relationship (Part1 - First Kiss) In 2008. I was fifteen years old. I jointed with one of my colleagues in a practical project in school. So during this year I was...
    Cute93Girl Cute93Girl 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    My First Relationship (Part2 - First Time My Boobs Sucked) In Dec. 2008. After about two months from My First Kiss. I visited my colleague To complete our common project of school...
    Cute93Girl Cute93Girl 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    I have had a previous relationship where we often brought another man into our bed ..often one of his/our friends--it was confusing for me though, I had insecure feelings that...
    lostdaisy69 lostdaisy69 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back? We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have...
    helpplease12 helpplease12 22-25, F 41 mins ago

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    I had a relation with a younger guy. For the first few weeks, everything was wonderful when we were meeting over weekends. We shared many thoughts and memories as well and we...
    Saramind Saramind 31-35, F Jul 10

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    I had a relation with a younger guy. For the first few weeks, everything was wonderful when we were meeting over weekends. We shared many thoughts and memories as well and we...
    Saramind Saramind 31-35, F Jul 10

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    I've had past boyfriends that have cheated and lied to my face so many times. I was just in a relationship with this boy who I loved with all my heart and my insecurity has...
    StephanyS StephanyS 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Yea, I'm young I get it. But it really sucks not having ever been in a relationship or anything close to one. Now a days anyone and everyone are in a relationship. I don't know if...
    AMB97 AMB97 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    And here I was thinking the guy was a sociopath. No, he's just a narcissist. Like that's supposed to be comforting or something.. Well, here's the story. When we first met, he fell...
    JourneeBlue JourneeBlue 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    For those who read my other posts here's an update to what's been happening. Since Friday when my boyfriend told me he didn't a relationship and wanted to be alone. That same night...
    MileyyV MileyyV 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Many times when I am almost awake, I have terrible insecure feeling. I feel I am abandoned in an island. I feel I am dying
    jackieLu jackieLu 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Codependant. Result of insecure. But a joy at times.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 17

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    If you have a relationship that is entirely based off sex then it is one useless relationship! Intimacy and sex are two entirely different things. Intimacy is very important...
    Keespanker Keespanker 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Hi! I'm in a long distant relationship right now he lives we both live in New York I live in upstate New York and he lives in New York City and it is the hardest thing I've ever...
    Lotusgirlred Lotusgirlred 31-35, F Jul 13

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    I don't know, I feel awkward about posting my insecurities, even here where no one knows me. But I feel too shy.. Here goes nothing I'm really insecure about my face. I think I...
    emidog emidog 13-15, F Jul 3

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    People tell me I am really great, but I don't feel that way. I am so freaking insecure I can hardly breath sometimes! And it's not even about my body, it's about me. I feel as if I...
    WAWM WAWM 18-21, F Jul 4

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    I am a lot less insecure with my body then I was last year, I use to hate everything about myself especially when I had zit outbreaks or dry skin and or when I just didn't like the...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M Jul 13

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    I've always been insecure. Even as a child all I ever wanted to be was this "perfect" kid my parents were pushing me to be. And I think that's why I'm still insecure now, mainly...
    joshbeaudoin joshbeaudoin 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    My boyfriend runs a bar for a living , which, i know, for most people is not a big deal, and I knew everything that came with that when we decided to give our relationship another...
    PepperF PepperF 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    So, I married one of my former teachers. He is twenty years older than I am. Of course this means he has had sex with more people than I have. I am his third former student, but...
    Hushgirl Hushgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I've never been in an official relationship. I tend to push people away if they're interested, because I don't trust them - and normally they prove that I can't trust them because...
    SummerSoldier SummerSoldier 22-25 18 hrs ago

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    Yea my first relationship was with this lovely girl called Helen. She ran if windows vista and was just an amazing computer. This just goes to show how pathetic i am :'(
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Basically. I met him once 3 years ago and he family friends with my best friend.. We started talking like a yr and a half ago and I've told him so much.. We FaceTime and text/call...
    KellsThr13 KellsThr13 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend of 6 years insists on taking me out to a nice dinner tonight even though on Monday I basically told him it was over because I have feelings for someone else. He is so...
    JJP36 JJP36 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I want a real honest relationship
    MegaGenius MegaGenius 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I've been confessing to my crushes now I asked myself this, why am I confessing to them when 'I am not ready for a relationship'... But I've matured since then and right now I've...
    KatieP767 KatieP767 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I want a online relationship
    MegaGenius MegaGenius 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    I am a social introvert, but that does not mean im anti-social, but i'd rather be with close friends than loads of acquaintances, that sort of thing. But I am increasingly anxious...
    Tonydsd Tonydsd 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    Sometimes I feel so good about myself, I feel great about my body and my face, but at most of the times I just feel so fat and ugly I wanna throw up and get thinner. It doesn't...
    brzdreamer brzdreamer 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    About my body at timess but who knows people have different opinions
    SwimmerGuy22 SwimmerGuy22 18-21, M Jul 16

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    I wicked insecure and food freaks me out (actually CALORIES freak me out) an on my period I binge.. I have resorted to chewing a sheet in attempt to like not eat fuckkkkk halppppp
    ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I dated my ex for three years and he cheated on me constantly and now I'm really insecure about everything my looks, my weight, my hair nothing seems right anymore and I feel like...
    jassssl jassssl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I am very insecure about the way I look. My facial features the whole shabang. I don't know why I think I'm beautiful somedays, and ugly others.
    LunarBeam LunarBeam 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I haven't even hit 1000 today I don't think I hit 900 idk I suck with numbers but I think I only hit about 890 And I wish I hit less bit w.e. Tomorrow is a new day :P anyways it's...
    ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm insecure about my body. I'm not fat per se, but I'm also not thin. My weight fluctuates so much even though I try to exercise and eat a proper diet. I hate the impossible...
    chadwiak01 chadwiak01 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I hate that society defines which person is hot and wich is not, I'm fat and that makes me feel so insecure, I cried almost every but deeply inside so nobody can see me, i want to...
    depteen depteen 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I am extremely insecure about myself and today i got over it by buying my first bikini in years now when I get back home I'll start working out more so it looks better I'm so happy...
    Excuseme1357 Excuseme1357 13-15, F Jul 12

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    I am so insecure all the time and I can't help it
    Erin1440 Erin1440 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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