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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 Sep 4, 2012

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    I am sometimes so insecure in my relationship

    with the woman I love with all my heart and soul that I end up saying stupid things she gives me such a nice promise about our future and I just throw the words back at her this isn't because I don't believe them it's because I'm scared of losing you and am thinking the worst...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 25

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I have been with my gf for almost a year. We met in college (while we were both with other people) but knew that we wanted to be together. We have since changed our lives to be...
    bw27237 bw27237 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    How do i know if he's still married? I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F a week ago

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    How do i know if he's still married? I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Everyone thinks I'm this confident strong woman but deep inside, but I'm so insecure because of my relationship. My husband has had a past of cheating and flirting with random...
    UnfortunateCookie UnfortunateCookie 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 20

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    My boyfriend is so insecure it's aggravating my soul. This is the same reason my last relationship ended and I don't want this one to go in the same direction.
    CR03 CR03 18-21, F Dec 3

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    Last year I met this guy, who I fell in love with two months into "talking." We worked together. He would talk to me during work hours but after I wouldn't receive a cal or text...
    TVel94 TVel94 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    Do you believe me? I want to be in a relationship, but I am not ready. It isn't that I can't wait, or that I even want to be in one. I am just eager. Eager, because I want to...
    sesi1116 sesi1116 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Ive been an insecure person basically all my life. It's horrible how insecure I've been. I've been working on it and I think I'm getting better but I still have a long way to go I...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    I feel insecure about so much pretty much a the time. I always have. I hate feeling so insecure. It's messing up my life
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    I really do. I'm not the prettiest girl in the world and I'm okay with that. I love who I am and how I look. I still have my days though. I look in the mirror and wonder "why am I...
    curiousitykills57 curiousitykills57 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 7

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    broke up with him today. Friendships with exs are out... infidelity & betrayal has been forgiven one to many times with "her" in particular.
    shemarose shemarose 22-25, F Dec 8

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    All me friends think that I'm pretty and sometimes when I catch a stray glimpse here or there I might agree. But other times I feel like I'm the troll under the bridge that nobody...
    HU4ever HU4ever 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I'm really insecure about some parts of my body, I get really jealous of other girls that at some points I have looked into surgery, the only reason I haven't is because of the...
    rainbowmuffins rainbowmuffins 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 20

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    very insecure . I've been called fat && ugly non stop .....
    depressiontookover depressiontookover 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Yeah she's pretty don't get me wrong and I pull in the guys. But deep down I am insecure about myself it got so bad that avoid looking in mirrors. It's hard to not want to cry when...
    PrincessMarina PrincessMarina 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    So this is new... Something that a lot of people probably don't hear a lot and to be fair, I don't know why it is either... But here it goes... I have been in 4 relationships so...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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    I bring myself down way too easily but i can't help it, i'm so insecure about everything
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 26

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    Like really really bad & I hate it when my family makes fun of something I'm the most insecure about....
    Queennnnnnn Queennnnnnn 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I am insecure about my penis.... *sad face* :(
    LongNeckJoe LongNeckJoe 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    It's happening. Me I thought it would never happened to me but it's hitting me harder and harder each day. I am insecure about my looks better yet I'm ugly. U see me and u will...
    PrincessMarina PrincessMarina 13-15, F Dec 12

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    My former boyfriend is a kind, intelligent, and caring man. He is funny, witty, and compassionate. We were together nearly five years, and had been there for each other in all...
    Bibiana554 Bibiana554 56-60, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    9 rules for online friendships/relationships on EP 1. Be honest but not too honest. There are things that you should be totally upfront about. Don't try to hide who you are...
    fullofmemories fullofmemories 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    It seems I am on the larger end of the age gap relationship. I am 38 and he is 72. Yes you read that right. That is a HUGE age gap I know. Does it matter to me? Not in the...
    vic43731 vic43731 36-40 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I am contemplating divorcing my husband. The problem is that this will be my third divorce and I am only 43. I made some bad decisions in my twenties based on growing up in an...
    strikes3 strikes3 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    Umm.. So it was beautiful, ofcourse at the start, as every relationship is.. but very soon at the initial stage she lost my trust. Not love, I just stopped trusting her but I didn...
    mak2512 mak2512 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 6

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    Our 29 Year Age Difference! We meet on AgeMeet.com , I am 21 and my boyfriend is 50. We were friends for a couple years before we got together, we have been together 3 amazing...
    amanda198812 amanda198812 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    We'll it all started in the summer inbetween June and July I met this girl who lives across the street from me . We became some what good friends I would usually talk to her when I...
    piaseh piaseh 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I don't even know what to say honestly. But imma try my hardest to tell you what's on my mind right now in the best way possible!! I literately just faced a blunt. Now there is all...
    Casspper Casspper 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 5

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    Without a doubt communication is the key to all relationships.When it comes to being with a woman,my preference to be in a relationship with.I like to be open minded and straight...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    I was never in a relationship since birth. Now that I'm 18. I feel alone and wanted. I want to experience how it feels like to be loved. To be taken care of. To have someone to...
    dakilangdreamer dakilangdreamer 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 21

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    Life Update. Long time no see. I took some time off here to focus on my life and figure out some things. Lot's happened since I last was on here. First off, as the title would...
    smirkie93 smirkie93 18-21, F Nov 24

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    It's been 5 yrs. As the years pass I began to love him more and more. I know not to blame him for the way things are. I have my fault too. My problem is the lack of support he has...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F Dec 10

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    ~20 Years Later~ . So, that guy I dated when I was 16-17 yrs old and again when I was about 20-23 yrs old (cause I thought he might had changed during that time but didn’t...
    OlivePhire OlivePhire 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    I need your help. So I told one of my best friends who my crush is- and I trusted her to keep that secret. She told on of my other best friends Which would be find (even though I...
    pinkhappysparkle pinkhappysparkle 13-15, F Nov 21

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    I feel lost sometimes. There was one girl, back in the spring...we really hit it off, would have been together would have, it seems like, been happy. Moved away, no fault of either...
    wimercc wimercc 18-21, M Nov 23

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    I love my boyfriend to death, we've been in a long distance relationship for 6 months. I've known him for about 2 years. I can't imagine life without him. It might sound stupid...
    brendyistrendy brendyistrendy 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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