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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    I am sometimes so insecure in my relationship

    with the woman I love with all my heart and soul that I end up saying stupid things she gives me such a nice promise about our future and I just throw the words back at her this isn't because I don't believe them it's because I'm scared of losing you and am thinking the worst...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Christmas Day was hard

    for me as even though I spent it with my girls and family I wasn't with the one I love and I hardly had any contact with her and this has hurt me deeply inside as she made the effort to message which wasn't easy for her as she was busy with her family but my replies were hours...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    I am super insecure in my relationship

    for no real reason. My boyfriend of 3 years is incredible towards me. He is very kind, generous and understanding. My fear of abandonment/rejection makes me imagine every kind of scenario of him leaving me. It got so bad that last summer he had to take a break from me because I...
    Monique58 Monique58 26-30, F 1 Response May 19

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    I'm on my second marriage and they've both been hell. Every person I've tried to have any kind of relationship with has hurt me. I have no family and no friends. I am alone in this...
    drag0nf1y1 drag0nf1y1 26-30, F 22 mins ago

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    I'm not though. We have our moments when things are great, but we are so terrible for one another. Some times I wish things would never change and other times I wish he would leave...
    stillspinning stillspinning 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hi everyone. I met this great guy about a month ago. Everything was going well. He was very caring, texts me and called me daily and was even willing to come see me even though he...
    kadmoore1102 kadmoore1102 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Sooo I'll try not to make this boring but it's hurting my brain !! I was with an older man for 3 years and never felt so in love and he left me just out of the blue and I was...
    Smilingalways08 Smilingalways08 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    You'd have thought that getting clean and sober would mean eternal happiness, no worries, no issues, and no insecurities, but that's not the case, with me anyway. Having gone from...
    aerosnz aerosnz 56-60, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have been insecure since I was a child. I would worry about my looks and my weight. Now - as a 20 year old - my insecurities has caused me to have trust issues along with...
    spunkypumpkin spunkypumpkin 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    it comes and it goes, depends on my mood. I'm really ocd, I don't feel right if my roots are showing, my nail polish is chopped, my eye brows arent waxed, my legs arent shaved, I...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I like men, period. But I have to say I've always liked white guys and for 4 going on 5 months I've been dating my boyfriend. He's the most amazing , interesting and kind hearted...
    soulpool20 soulpool20 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I've been with my love for 4 going on 5 months and the only way I could be happier is if he was here with me. He's the most amazing , interesting and kind hearted person. Which...
    soulpool20 soulpool20 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hi there. Ive never been to this type of website before so this is a new experience for me. I have a complicated issue so I'll try to be as short as I can and get the point across...
    mab2037 mab2037 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    So I'm in this long distance relationship and it sucks. I've been with this beautiful women of mine for eight months now and she had to move on the other side of the US to further...
    Sean49 Sean49 22-25, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've just spent time catching up with an ep gf on skype and we were discussing the in's and out's of a ducks arsehole on life and the like as per usual.. so it comes up about...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    If you'd asked me even a year ago whether I'd seriously consider the idea of just about anything other than the standard relationship path, I probably wouldn't have laughed at you...
    DragonwolfDreamwalker DragonwolfDreamwalker 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I feel like I don't care anymore. This hit me one morning when I was overthinking things in my life. It has been a very busy week with all the things need to be done at work...
    themoonstone themoonstone 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Many years ago I was in the military, and I met this girl, and fell in love with her. She could catch an attitude in a split second! I wouldn't even know where it came from! One...
    mrey429 mrey429 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    I've been feeling quite insecure about my body. I also don't like that I'm so insecure about my body because it makes me feel superficial since I direct so much of my attention on...
    heyimbored224 heyimbored224 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    That awkward moment when you think of somebody you used to date back when you had some really good times, partying and hanging out... And they're still your friend on Facebook 3...
    Anonymouscoast Anonymouscoast 22-25 6 days ago

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    My friend told me last night he can tell I'm still very insecure and I want from being confident & having fun to just sitting there and not really answering him. It made me feel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    I've been dating a guy for 6 years. we live together. About a year ago I became insecure when my boyfriend befriended a co worker. After a fight, he told me he deleted her number...
    Missliz02 Missliz02 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I've been in a relationship for about 4 months now. It's my first ever relationship and it makes me feel so insecure sometimes. If I don't hear anything from him for a day, I am...
    UselessNobody UselessNobody 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I wish I wasn't so insecure with my teeth
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 25

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    Note before starting: I am very insecure about showing off the upper part of my chest (pec). I asked my mom to help me pick out outfits for the week. She kept showing me tops that...
    ZiggyZebra ZiggyZebra 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    My name is Jade I'm 21 year old I am really insecure about my face and my weight I feel fat but people say I'm not I don't believe them I want to but I can't and my face keeps...
    bearberryx3 bearberryx3 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 23

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    I have my confidence but I still have those few insecurities that can eat Mr alive. For example, I never walk barefoot because I'm horribly insecure about my feet
    0KatieKat0 0KatieKat0 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    It bothers me that my boyfriend took his ex gf's virginity. He didn't lose his to her and I'm not bothered by the girl that he lost his virginity to. But his last ex, the one he...
    lilanow lilanow 22-25, F Aug 18

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    I am in college and I'm the girl that hooks up with guys but is never truly satisfied. I am scared of putting myself out there again after I was rejected multiple times by people I...
    KellOnEarth722 KellOnEarth722 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I am pretty much insecure about how I look. I mean I am transgender from MtoF. People are always staring at me, like I am a freak. Which makes me insecure about how I look. I...
    GirlyGirl1993 GirlyGirl1993 18-21, T 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Here are some things that I have learned about relationships. (In no particular order) *Most of this is not meant for those living in sexless marriage. Those usually involve...
    Ravenwind43 Ravenwind43 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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