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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    I am sometimes so insecure in my relationship

    with the woman I love with all my heart and soul that I end up saying stupid things she gives me such a nice promise about our future and I just throw the words back at her this isn't because I don't believe them it's because I'm scared of losing you and am thinking the worst...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    Christmas Day was hard

    for me as even though I spent it with my girls and family I wasn't with the one I love and I hardly had any contact with her and this has hurt me deeply inside as she made the effort to message which wasn't easy for her as she was busy with her family but my replies were hours...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 Sep 4, 2012

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    I have a history. Both my parents died when I was a kid so I go through bouts of depression and anxiety that I strongly work on myself through. My fiance told me today he thinks...
    childrenoftheearth childrenoftheearth 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    ever since i got in a relationship ive just been more insecure and i know its because ive got self esteem issues but what do i do im so tired of feeling like **** again
    gudeyolk gudeyolk 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    It's funny how giving advice can be so easy but correcting your own flaws can take years of making the same mistake over and over. Today it hit me like a truck. I can be very...
    cmk32 cmk32 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I know it's corny for a guy to say that, but guys never really let their emotions out, so this occasion is rare haha. I am insecure mostly about my face, height and personality, i...
    Flamee Flamee 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 17

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    I feel like things have became dull with my significant other. I don't think I'm getting the attention I would like, but then again I've always felt this way. This is an issue I...
    noonetalkstome noonetalkstome 18-21, F Jan 16

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    I am so glad that my boyfriend and I have the great relationship that we have. I never have to worry about him straying to other girls especially sneaking around or lying. I never...
    yanene yanene 36-40, F 12 hrs ago

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    Dear K, I feel selfish and insecure. I miss you and sometimes, I don't feel you miss me as much. A long distance relationship is hard enough and with you globe trotting and...
    poodahpop poodahpop 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I suppose it doesn't matter now that we broke up, but I still feel it gripping on to me. My girlfriend was bi-polar, depression and family trouble. She was my first love, and it...
    Inviticus Inviticus 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    There's a boy. We've been dating for 2 years. He's beautiful. His ex cheated on him. He hates her. He says he'd never do that to anybody. His ex is pretty, no, she's beautiful. His...
    tellmeimaprincess tellmeimaprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I'm starting to become so freakin insecure about my boobs. they're so large. I just I don't know... I rarely felt insecure about them, not in this way at least. until I got a bra...
    nadsxo2 nadsxo2 16-17, F Jan 1

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    It's rare that I'm insecure. However one thing that I am insecure about is when me and a female friend would link arms while walking in public or holding hands. Or put their arm...
    XxWolverinaxX XxWolverinaxX 18-21 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I hate feeling like this. I still feel so insecure sometimes - mostly about my appearance and about aspects of my personality. I know I really shouldn't feel insecure, but I can't...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    It seems everything I see in the mirror is ugly. Somedays it's all I can think about. I've always had self esteem issues. I've been battling an eating disorder for over half my...
    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M Jan 7

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    I still find it surreal as I write this, that one day 6 years ago,by sheer accident I stumbled upon a man on a social networking site. I had no experience whatsoever of online...
    andromeda andromeda 36-40, F 7 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    hi guys I'm new to this website so yea /. well I'm 16 and I've played softball all my life last year was the one year I couldn't play because of a shoulder injury lately I have...
    JenEspinosa17 JenEspinosa17 16-17, F Jan 7

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    I am insecure about my Penis. Being 15 and going through puberty, I guess that's kinda normal. It's not the size that is the issue, it's about 5.5 inches, but how it looks. I think...
    ThatGuyOverThere116 ThatGuyOverThere116 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    I'm extremely insecure about my appearance. People who aren't, just think people who are, are looking for attention.... AND WE'RE NOT! You will never freakin understand what it's...
    Euphoricbunnymaster Euphoricbunnymaster 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 4

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    I get intimidated easily. I am insecure. I dont like an environment where I feel inferior to others. Hate situations like that.
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I'm so insecure about myself I'm constantly accusing my husband of cheating on me.
    Letsq50 Letsq50 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I'm insecure about myself and I can't stand it, it comes out when I speak when I talk to other people and the worst is I don't realize the awkwardness until it's done, the well of...
    Agai Agai 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I'm really insecure about myself. Always thinking I'm not good enough. I genuinely don't understand when someone likes me. Im not pretty or funny or fun to be around. I think I'm...
    Feliciajake Feliciajake 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I'm so insecure I'm not even looking for a boyfriend anymore
    matttheinsomniac matttheinsomniac 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 18

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    I'm so insecure, and so afraid. I finally got physical with my boyfriend today, and when he got home to call me we didn't even talk all that much... to be honest we don't talk much...
    noonetalkstome noonetalkstome 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I'm a really insecure for the simplest stuff. I have Instagram. I posted a photo and got some likes(good) someone commented about something funny i commented on her prof. So, i...
    Ashleygolden Ashleygolden 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    my problem is, the same as others, weight. recently i saw a film called thinspiration, which made me even more aware of my weight. i have read about pro-ana on internet, and i try...
    ProAna18 ProAna18 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    We have an odd relationship. I can't really define it. It's like friendly acquaintances of long standing. I wouldn't go so far as to say we're friends as friends typically talk...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    i trust my boyfriend very much we barely talk though because he has two jobs so it be a few hours before We speak again but we never go a day without texting each other umm that's...
    clilishad clilishad 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    This may not mean anything to you...but I offer it in good faith to think about. " If you keep doing what you have been doing, you'll get the response you have been getting" I...
    hancockian hancockian 66-70, M Jan 7

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    I am not in a relationship. I broke up with my Ex-girlfriend.
    socialskillstraining socialskillstraining 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    After my very hard break up of my 11 yr relationship with the love of my life and my best friend, when I heard he was getting married and having a baby I decided to wipe the slate...
    Sharniab Sharniab 31-35, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've put myself in a complicated relationship. I am seeing two men. The first is my daughter's father. I spend the weekends with him. We have had an unhappy 3.5 years together, yet...
    norlights3 norlights3 36-40, F Jan 15

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    My relationship with my mom is... problematic, I'd say. We are in touch, however the best thing that ever happened to our relationship was distance. We love each other, but our...
    whatsername whatsername 22-25, F Jan 18

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    Love it's what we all crave without knowing, the body needs and the mind. My love story may make you laugh, but it's true honest and to me funny. We met online as usual as everyone...
    stelliester stelliester 13-15, F a week ago

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    I am in a LDR since almost 3 years ,we are over 1000 km apart ,im polish and he is filipino , the thing is that i met him like 3 times till now ,my parents are racist and forbade...
    edytka edytka 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Love is... being happy for the other person when they are happy being sad for the person when they are sad being together in good times and being together in bad times Love Is The...
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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