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I Insecure In My Relationship At Times

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    Stupid Girl

    You're with a guy you work with, red flag from the start.  You knew you shouldn't have, but cupid had that arrow pointed at you, and you were an easy target.  You risk your great paying job to be with this man; times get hard and his beer can is his therapy.  "...
    everywoman everywoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Why Even Think These Things?

    I'm not the jealous kind, but just lately I've been having thoughts pop into my head of my boyfriend - not cheating on me (I sincerely don't think he would going on his past record) but in a theoretical "life after me", i.e. if we ever split up. I see images of him with a girl...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 1 Response May 2, 2012

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    Everyone wants to be with someone

    that others find attractive, but I hate the competition. Girls are so forward these days! I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and a girl bring flirty...I can work that game like no other, but it's the worst when I see a girl I KNOW he considers attractive...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Fighting Tooth And Nail

    I dreamt last night that my partner of almost two years cheated on me with a couple of women (at the same time, I might add), with all the graphic detail you can doubtless imagine. And then I seriously beat him up - he had bruises all over his face. Then in real reality, he woke...
    artdeco artdeco 36-40 Sep 4, 2012

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    I think I am like every other woman on earth in that I get insecure sometimes about my man.  I wonder why he isn't calling or how come he doesn't do this or that.  Plus when your guy is a hottie in uniform he has all these little chickies wanting to take your place. I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 15 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Lost In My Own Head.

    I am currently finding myself to be very insecure in my relationship,  I am engaged to be marry early next year,  a few weeks ago an old boyfriend of my future wife contacted her, he told her that he was still in love with her and wanted her back,  She...
    evolps evolps 36-40 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    I Shouldn't...

    I shoudn't feel this way. I've always been insecure and I get paranoid about things I really shouldn't. It could possibly stem from the mental illness present on my dad's side of the family and the emotional troubles on both sides. I don't like my body although he loves it, most...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Not That Uncommon

    I'm sure most everyone feels insecure at one time or another...especially in the beginning of one.  i'm 8 months in, and yeah, i still get insecure.  i'm old enough now to start thinking about spending the rest of my life with someone and wonder 'could he be it?' ...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Unhappily Married Woman At Times

    i have been married almost 3 years. i have 3 children 1of them is my husbands,my husband has 3 kids from previous relationships also, however the problem is i don't like my in laws no of them , so here is the story.(1) my sons birthday he turned 7 last month we can home from hang...
    eshadrakeford eshadrakeford 36-40 1 Response Jun 11, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I have already established how I feel about "the other woman" and the "cheater." But I see so many posts about bad, toxic marriages...Honestly...It scares me. People run when...
    rollingdoro rollingdoro 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I hate this feeling of being insecure. I think my boyfriend infected me with his insecurities. When I first met my boyfriend, he was the one who's clingy, overly jealous (even...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F Aug 22

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    I was in one, well at least I think I was. I feel embarrassed thinking back about it but at the same time it was what I wanted and still wish for. I was 12 years old, being the...
    flowerchildx flowerchildx 13-15, F Aug 26

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    [Story from A Lesbi Couple] My partner has been experiencing relationship ocd ever since we have been together 2 and a half months back. it has been a pretty rough journey for the...
    eileenlingyl eileenlingyl 22-25, F Aug 22

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    The thing is...Im not insecure about my weight or anything...I am kinda insecure about that stuff but my biggest insecurity comes from the things I say.....What if I say something...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I hate my body, the way I look, my personality seems to suck(since I can't make good friends with anyone). Everything's all wrong, and I don't know what to do. I noticed a cycle...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    A few times when I went past a group of girls they went "eww" or something similar. That's just for minding my own business, not looking or talking to anyone. Other than that, no...
    Nixed Nixed 31-35, M Sep 8

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    I have this boyfriend that I've been smothering for three years now; he's taken it all though. But in doing the smothering, head over heals, psychotic, insecure ****, I lost myself...
    lunaern lunaern 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    They can work.... But I realized if you are at all insecure in a relationship this might not be for you. We always said we loved each other, made plans for the future and then...
    Macy24 Macy24 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    I currently have an on line boyfriend. We have been together for five months. We are both married with children and live in other countries. There is no hope of ever meeting. He...
    Karrie625 Karrie625 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am insecure about a lot of things. First, my arms I don't like showing my arms and I don't like looking at myself in the mirror. I keep looking down every mirror see to avoid...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Most days im insecure, but it would be rarely a day that I am a little confident but then someone knocks down the confidence and I am back to insecure
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    This morning I woke up to yelling..again. My sisters boyfriend and my mother went at it. He is impatient and has a temper. (My mother too..) He is constantly snapping at my two...
    krissybyul krissybyul 18-21 1 Response Sep 8

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    Why make me feel insecure about myself for gaining 7 pounds? I never thought 129 pounds pounds was fat until now because of the comments I'm getting. Yes I know they are just...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Sep 8

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    I've felt insecure for as long as I can remember. I grew up as the only kid in a wheelchair in my little town which was tough cos I always felt like an outsider. I always felt...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I am short, skinny, and I have no butt. Most guys go for females that have curves and are average height. I am none of these. I am 4'10 in height and most guys look at me as a...
    raisetheroof raisetheroof 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    ...but my father is a coward. He made mistakes as we all do, but instead of trying his best to protect his own from these mistakes, he blamed the very ones that loved him. He has...
    PricelessLegacy PricelessLegacy 31-35, F Sep 7

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    Most everybody will say when they're entering a new relationship that they don't have any baggage. My question/comment would be, how can you say that? All of us come with some...
    justsuzy justsuzy 56-60, F 11 hrs ago

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    I'm in a long distance relationship and today he tells me it's too much temptation with him being away at school because the girls are all over him. He told me he was joking but I...
    kwestdavis kwestdavis 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Having been though several months of no sex from my spouse, (who has been thru menopause), I can now understand, why men and women both go searching for a variety of new people...
    michaelcoh michaelcoh 61-65, M 6 hrs ago

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    Yes I am in a long distance relationship it is so hard for me because he is in school and plus he work and we barely talk and every time I call his cell it always goes to voicemail...
    Bre142 Bre142 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I left him and i cried my heart out. He messaged me past midnight for 3 days to ask if we could go have dinner as "friends" just before i left Europe because he would feel bad...
    Cookielover5752 Cookielover5752 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    All my life i have been insecure about the way i look. I'm in a wheelchair, i have a hump on my back and i honestly just feel like a freak most of the time. I hate that i seem to...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Insecure about a lot of things, i don't really know why haha
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I am insecure and get told that a lot by my man. Wonder why lol
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Well I was at the pool today and I have REALLY big boobs so it looks really awkward in a swimsuit because no matter what kind of swimsuit I wear, they still look big and like they...
    BrightInspiriation BrightInspiriation 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm defiantly insecure! I'm not fat- I'm average for my age. But I have always felt different, I'm quite tall and my friends are all petit and small, that sounds silly (I know most...
    lulumonta lulumonta 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I hate it! :( im so insecure. Been praying not to be but can't control my feelings. I dont wanna feel this. I've been really bad to others due to my insecurity/jealousy. No wonder...
    Manhater013 Manhater013 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    As if I am not already insecure about my appearance my husband just recently told me that the spark is gone and isn't as attracted to me as he used to be when we first met, that...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I am the most insecure person yet semi confident some days if that makes sense
    Cherishmiracles Cherishmiracles 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I'm super insecure when it comes to guys.. I have a super close group of friends and they're all girls. So in effect of that I don't really talk to a lot of guys and I'm really shy...
    Sd6752 Sd6752 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    My fiance: -says he is boring multiple times -says he is a homebody multiple times -says he doesn't want to go out [unless it is for juice] -he complains about disappointing me and...
    twiztedrune twiztedrune 18-21, F Aug 27

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    I was unpopular as a child. I was always told to 'be myself' and was isolated and bullied because of it. I've had to put on the 'mask' of someone who shoots back and forth between...
    Almostanonymous Almostanonymous 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I'm a very insecure and jealous person. I wish I could change it but I don't know how. It's that bad it really affects me and the people around me I let it rule my whole life :( I...
    Abbierose93 Abbierose93 18-21, F Sep 2

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    Today I feel so sick and depressed. I went to school with my back hurting because of my back pack. I woke up before that without no inspiration. No joy or liveliness in me. It...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Sep 5

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    I'm so insecure about my boyfriends ex's.. The more i slate them to him to try and make me feel better the more i push him away! He's not a pro at reassurance!
    lollypop61 lollypop61 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I am so insecure about everything. My body is a small worry but mainly it's while I talk to friends online. I start questioning whether I've said something wrong or why I can't...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I feel insecure. I feel like whenever I do something, someone will see me and use it against me. I don't want to feel like that. I get scared when in sitting in the car, I feel...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M 6 days ago