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I Judge People By Their Actions, Not By Their Intentions

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    I Dare You To Be A Man Of Your Word

    I know of many people who talk a lot and have very little follow-thru. It’s very disheartening. A man is only as good as his word? There seems to be a lot of empty words out there…what does that say about people these days? No one believes in obligation, they are all simple...
    valkor5 valkor5 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    Some People Talk The Talk, But Don't Walk The Walk

    I'm sure you've met them too.  They talk a great story.  They are totally sympathetic to you and your concerns... they seem to be 100% (or nearly) compatible with you.  And I don't just mean in love... I mean in a lot of things... in your political or social beliefs... their...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    Phase 24

    My life goes in phases. It seems that in this point in time, every other person I come across is either mad at me, or is done with me. It’s like this every year, always right around the same time. Sometimes people dream up things and decide that they are going to be upset with...
    valkor5 valkor5 22-25, F Feb 3, 2012

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    Words

    <-------(Not sure why it says "Words" there but it does not say that until I save my story.) Only God can judge the intentions of a person's heart. To be clear, when you say something to someone, that is an action. And that is what I judge people by, their chosen action(s).
    OnewithJC OnewithJC 36-40, F Aug 2, 2012

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    I am a pretty intensely introverted person. Attentive to too many details and aspects of life, i understand things on that deeper level. Over processing social interactions from...
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    You know , i am really bothered by dishonesty and deception. Where tf are the TRULY REAL individuals? The ones that keep it BLUNT and to the point ? I need individuals like that in...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    I found myself always prefer being alone or just with my boyfriend these days. I am very cautious and aware people's intentions. As long as I found out they have a purpose being...
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    First off, this is a long experience post as I want to get this off of my chest and not go to bed mad or upset, or to at lease relieve the emotions. I also mention a serious issue...
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    Sometimes life just crushes us directly in our path. It makes us ask ourselves who we truly are as a lone person. To those who are alone, relish the beauty in silence...
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    Trying to capture a moment in a person's life, exactly congruent to how they perceived it, is so impossible to me. Emotion Clatter of young infatuation Calmness right before you...
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    CHINA INVADING AUSTRALIA....... The new Tasmania senator, Jackie Lambie who is a member of Clive Palmer's alliance group has, in her support of Clive Palmer, claimed that China...
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    For humans to be happy and generous, they must feel trusted. No-one is happy if they feel their good intentions are constantly denied, questioned. Of course good intentions are not...
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    If I'm being honest every post here in EP or any other social network comes with a certain amount of judgement. That comes attached. But nevertheless, we reach out to find a...
    milesfromyou milesfromyou 31-35 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is sad that the internet has turned into such a mess when it comes to people that lie, cheat, steal, and have no concept of what it means to be a REAL person! Even a RESPECTFUL...
    Panth69 Panth69 46-50, M Aug 16

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    Liars And Thieves Of The Night I see you players (especially women...wow!) out there on EP trying to hide your true intentions. Let me just say this from the bottom of my heart...
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    I am a cadet on a ship. He is the third engineer, devastatingly good looking - and married with two kids.. Now when I met him I had no intentions of anything sexual, and I had no...
    Abplo Abplo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    EP users and their character attacks.... I'm not a pompous *******, although that would be the reaction that I would expect from someone with BPD, as that is how most of us assess...
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    I don't feel like getting my feelings hurt or being judged for being different. I don't want to be taken advantage of because I don't want others to be see me as weak and...
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    Ok so I'm new to this but here goes a bit about me I've always kept my head in the clouds a dreamer seeing the best not the worst in people full of life always happy and through...
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    I wish that every day now I didn't have to question whether or not the actions i'm taking are from good intentions, or from the urge in my head to set myself up for another...
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    I Support Israel and this article is a big EXACTLY... All israel wants is to live in peace with its neighbors By YAIR MILLER Eighteen months ago, I was in Sderot, a working-class...
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    I Support Israel and this article is a big exactly All Israel wants is to live in peace with its neighbors By YAIR MILLER Eighteen months ago, I was in Sderot, a working-class...
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    Well , this post is kinda different than what people usually share here as I won't stress on " love " as much as I'll do with other important things too. I met my bf online and of...
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Me: I'm skeptical of nearly everyone and their intentions. I find it hard to whole heartedly trust, but I give it all I got. I don't think people aim to let me down, but it seems...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M Aug 10

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    Me: I'm skeptical of nearly everyone and their intentions. I find it hard to whole heartedly trust, but I give it all I got. I don't think people aim to let me down, but it seems...
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    I think it's time I called out for help or advice.... I am a very very jealous person and I don't mean to be and I do not do it on purpose. I don't really know where it all came...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F Aug 6

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