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I Just Broke Up With My Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 221 People

    When a thing has served its purpose,

    it will go away. If you try to hold on to something that has already fulfilled its purpose in your life, you are going to hurt yourself. If holding on is disturbing your peace of mind, it makes sense to let go. Surrender all attachments to people and things that you have been...
    Beyonder33 Beyonder33 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2014

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    so um yeah... two days

    after we had our first kiss we " break up" even though we were officially dating... yeah it sucks. He wont tell me anything he says its because of stress and when I try to help him her gets mad. K bye ***** ugh
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 16-17, F May 3, 2014

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend.

    I finally couldn't take it anymore and told him that I've reached my limits. I loved him so much but to him it wasn't normal and he said I was crazy and loving him too much. I've been with him for almost four years and we dont even have an intimate relationship. He said because...
    iwyndi iwyndi 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    He wasn't mean about it

    or anything, he actually said that he just wanted to stop hurting me. I know this break up is for the better but it happened a week before prom and I don't know why but it makes it feel twice as bad. During the last week, whenever we argued, he would never call, even when I...
    Someoneatschoolfoundme Someoneatschoolfoundme 16-17, F Nov 25, 2014

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    So it's valentines day

    and my boyfriend kissed me today (my first kiss) I didn't like it and don't really like him and had t freind break up with him for me over text... On valentines day and e just made me his wall paper on his phone and cove on fb and I feel bad... Am I a horrible person?
    suicidalblonde suicidalblonde 13-15, F 19 Responses Feb 15

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    Well, this is it I guess.

    After 4 months of fighting and yelling and crying and stressing out, my boyfriend and I split up today. And now I see on SnapChat he just started talking to some other girl today. I already regret letting him into my personal life and letting him know my sad life story. I'm...
    comp0sur3 comp0sur3 18-21, F Oct 16, 2014

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    Not going to lie, I am starting to miss his

    good morning texts. I told myself I was too good for his bullshit and I am, but something in the back corner of my mind still misses him.
    PunkRockUnicorn PunkRockUnicorn 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    littledreambig littledreambig 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2014

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    So, my bf of 4 months told me

    that he had feelings for another girl. So I broke up with him, cuz I'm not going to stay in a relationship where he likes another girl. But he was really sad and broken up about it and I felt bad cuz I still like him, but what did he think was going to happen when he told me...
    nikki1554 nikki1554 16-17, F Mar 15, 2014

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    Break Up Help?

    well, i just broke up with my boyfriend. we were together for 3 years and 9 months. i got with him when i was a freshman in high school. now im a freshman in college. I was just aching for that feeling of being single again. to go out and have fun with whoever i want. I love him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 11, 2011

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    Me and my boyfriend just broke up,

    because he wants to be with someone else I'm really mad and sad that after us being together for 4 months He just wants to throw it all away and end it just to be with another girl.....😡 I guess I'm just not pretty, beautiful, or skinny enough for him or anyone to ever want...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 13, 2014

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    A week ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of

    over 4 years. I still love him, but unfortunately the spark is lost and it seems our priorities are completely different. He lives with me and we also work together, so I've been hanging on by a thread trying not to cry in front of people. Every single day I'm reminded of him...
    n0nexisting n0nexisting 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2014

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend.

    I have lost interest and found someone better. I don't want to cheat, so I had to break up with him. I did love seeing him everyday, but it's time to move on. My friend knew I was talking to someone else on the low and she kept telling me I need to break up with him. Finally I...
    BrieezyMusselwhite BrieezyMusselwhite 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2014

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    Yep and I feel free he treated me bad

    and even though it was barley a month I couldn't deal with it anymore why do I have such bad luck with guys?
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    He didn't know how to "communicate.

    " He would be so harsh and rude when talking to me and didn't understand me. I got tired of having to always compromise. He is a wonderful person, but I don't think I can stay with someone who doesn't understand me. I am moving out as soon as I can. I just don't see any other way...
    sparklestarlet sparklestarlet 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    I just broke up with my bf like 2 minutes ago

    and i feel so energized,motivated and happy!While we were dating i slipped into a comfort zone.It was like he was a safety blanket.But now I am determined to be healthier,lose weight and be the fabolous and flawless person I really am! PS follow me on twitter!
    PYazmin PYazmin 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    PLEASE REPLY. My boyfriend

    and I broke up due to religion. We met 3 years ago and dated for 2 years, broke up 3 months ago. It was all perfect. Simply perfect. He was so genuine and honest. For us Arabs, if a guy introduces you to his whole family thats a sign of respect and that he's serious about you...
    beautiifulsoul22 beautiifulsoul22 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    Our Two Worlds Just Didn't Work Together.

    My boyfriend of 8 months, and I just broke up. I keep asking myself if it's my fault, and if I should have handled things differently. I'm very open and sexual, but only with the man I'm involved with. I'm a lady in public, and expect to be and am, treated that way by others...
    waitingtofly waitingtofly 41-45, F 7 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Questions

    Okay. So I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. And there's been so much that has happened between us. And I just broke up with him. I just really love him. And I know that it's not a good relationship right now but I miss him. And we're still talking. I told him if he...
    lilyrose33 lilyrose33 18-21 5 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    ElenaMegan ElenaMegan 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    I gave up pretty much everything to be with him

    and accepted his baggage but at every turn he would make me feel like crap about mine... messed up part is I really miss him
    JustmeMsV JustmeMsV 22-25, F 1 Response May 23, 2014

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    I just broke up with t boyfriend of 4.

    5 yrs. I love him, not sure if i am in love as i feel numb. I lost my Mother 3 years ago and my flame went out then. I have no zest for life, nothing excites me, makes me angry, happy etc. I just feel like a numb empty shell and the life was sucked out of our relationship. I feel...
    Broken87 Broken87 22-25 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    Way too sensitive. Way too overdramatic.

    Sorry. But when you say you love me after two weeks of dating and we haven't even gone on a date yet? Not gonna happen. :p relationships just suck.
    Babygirl109 Babygirl109 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2014

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    Me and my boyfriend were together

    for 2 years. We were a long distance couple and this year he planed to come visit me and stay with me for 1 month. We also have a plan to go to Paris this week and the trip has already been paid and the photographer too. But after 3 days of staying he said he wanted to go back...
    TwingleLittleStar TwingleLittleStar 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2014

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    We dated for two weeks only through text

    and he lives across the country from me. I broke up with him because I was uncomfortable with the situation and he seemed too into himself and I am scared of the unknowns in relationships, he thinks I'll never be ready for them and I wonder if that's true ...he's really hurt and...
    kh3210 kh3210 36-40, F Mar 6

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    I'd Had Enough Of His Games

    I live in the UK and i was doing my usual thing, meeting new friends over the internet through IMVU. I met this one guy and we seemed like a perfect match. We got talking and became good friends. We talked nearly ever day for about two weeks but sometimes it was difficult...
    comet1993 comet1993 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 25, 2010

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    Started dating this guy.

    Thought I really liked him but there always some things I wasn't sure. My 16 son with learning disabilities hated him the had three fights. I couldn't take the stress. My youngest son 9 cried as he liked him. Feeling so broken and causing my kids pain they don't need. I...
    flydragonfly flydragonfly 36-40, F Mar 19

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    Just Broke Up With My Boyfriend of 2.5 Years

    I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years.  He was everything to me, my friend, my companion, my lover - the love of my life.  After almost a year of living together every day, I moved in "officially" on June 1.  Since the day I met him, he was...
    uptownadk uptownadk 26-30 6 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Ughhhh I'm mad and lonely

    and horny...... I need a new cuddle buddy.
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    Broke Up After Seven Years Together - No Chemistry

    Last week I broke up with my amazing boyfriend of 7 years. It was the most painful experience I've ever gone through. I'm still in pain, and watching him hurt this badly makes everything that much worse... I had a work-crush on him way back when, before I really knew him. When I...
    wash1900 wash1900 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    He's Taking His Time Moving Out?

    This past week I broke it off with boyfriend. After seven months of being back together. I just had enough of his lying and being a alcoholic. We had a verbal exchange that was ugly. So I told him to get out of my house. He was never on my lease. So he needs to leave. He come...
    butterflylady21 butterflylady21 46-50, F Apr 29, 2012

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    Yeah, This Afternoon...

    We  finally decided to break up because we know and feel that the relationship is not working anymore. We may live in the same apartment but we have become emotionally distant to each other. At first, I asked him if he is okay if we just be friends and he said "Yes" immediately...
    mangrobang mangrobang 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    Letting Go Of The Guilt

    I was in a relationship with my ex for 2 years and 10 months. I decided that he was the one before we even started dating. Throughout the relationship, I gave him everything I could, emotionally and financially. I was always supportive; I put him first. Throughout most of our...
    VfangzV VfangzV 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    i didnt know what was up anymore we havnt

    talked in a day or two /. im sad but its just a break up </3
    ornahhhh ornahhhh 18-21, F Dec 4, 2014

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    I just wanted to say,

    that today during school was really difficult because I had to break up with my boyfriend that I've been dating for 10 months. It was going to be our 11 months. I had no choice but to break up with him. Because yesterday, there was this random girl out of no where just emailed...
    Chaejoorhi Chaejoorhi 18-21, F Nov 20, 2014

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    Last night. I'm so tired now

    because i barely slept. I'm sad, but it had to happen. He knew it too.
    dmeanr dmeanr 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    I've been with him since we were 16,

    and just told me he wants to experience other girls. When I met him, he was a virgin and he told me he wanted to marry me and all that. He said he felt okay that he wouldn't experience other girls and I believed him. Now, we are 18. He says he's not comfortable with me having...
    xoxtina xoxtina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I was shocked and felt down.

    He said that I was cold to him and made him feel like I didn't love him enough. He was sentimental, quiet in a while and we just broke up a month ago. I've cried a lot these days. I missed him like crazy because we came from the same country but we both took a study trip to...
    whatsover whatsover 16-17 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    He wasn't mean about it

    or anything, he actually said that he just wanted to stop hurting me. I know this break up is for the better but it happened a week before prom and I don't know why but it makes it feel twice as bad. During the last week, whenever we argued, he would never call, even when I...
    Someoneatschoolfoundme Someoneatschoolfoundme 16-17, F Nov 25, 2014

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    So yesterday was Valentines Day

    and my boyfriend didn't call, text or tell me that he loves me... I mentioned it to him and all he could say was 'GET OVER IT" and I have been crying my heart out ever since
    LaNhlabathi LaNhlabathi 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    i miss our constant communication,

    actually we are still online communicating. But he's not the right one. I think i'm just lonely. That's why I was with him. Now it's hard to stay occupied and think of what to do with myself.
    needtofindhim needtofindhim 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    Few days ago I decided to end my relationship

    of 5 years with my boyfriend. It wasn't the first time but it was always because of cheating on his part. Before that we split up because I found out about his affair so I decided to call it quit. He contacted me after a month crying he wanted me back. He is not the type to...
    Dandelionlove Dandelionlove 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    I Miss Him But Breaking It Off Was The Right Thing To Do

    I just broke up with my boyriend a few days ago via text! He left me no other choice. He was always gone and I was alway last on his list of things to do. I am a independent girl and really didn't ask for a whole lot. He would call me and saying he was going home (in another town...
    Meowderkatze Meowderkatze 36-40, F 11 Responses Nov 16, 2010

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    Apparently he "didn't feel the same anymore".

    For four weeks he kept this from me, he told everyone but me. He made me live a lie for an entire month. He said "when I started dating you, it was because I wanted to feel the same way I did with my ex". Everything was about his ex. He brought me to his mom's house for the...
    Sharebare519 Sharebare519 13-15, F Feb 28

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    Sigh :(

    It's been 2 days. He broke up with me because my parents didn't allow us to see each other. He also has depression issues and issues with being overly antisocial. He broke up with me because he wanted to be completely alone. He won't go find another because he wants to be...
    dinosaursockpuppet dinosaursockpuppet 18-21, F Jan 29, 2013

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    I seem to have the worst habit of picking super

    clingy guys, exactly like my recent ex. All I want is an easy guy I can hang out with and be happy with, without him texting me every minute of the day :P and I hate saying it because I feel like a b*tch but I'm just not like that, I don't like 'together all the time...
    annamarie9898 annamarie9898 16-17, F Apr 22, 2014

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