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I Just Broke Up

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    Break Up

    i just broke up on friendly terms with my girlfriend of a year online last night. One of those things she wants to be best friends with benefits. All the perks and none of the ties.
    Librastar Librastar 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Our Events: December 27th 2012( the first time

    that we know each other) 👭February 09th we started our relationship 💞October 16th (we have our rings) somehow u never wore it, since I told u about postpone the flight) We met like 6times in this long Distance relationship! That's amazing December 02 2013 ( the very...
    jujubbg1227 jujubbg1227 18-21, F Dec 2, 2013

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    Free

     So my girlfriend of over a year and I just broke up. It was my first real relationship and I feel like the way im feeling right now is wrong. I'm not terribly upset. i havent cried, abd I don't think I'm going to. It was a secret relationship because we couldnt let our...
    bandito1024 bandito1024 18-21 1 Response Nov 19, 2009

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    The Ending Of M&m (first Letters Of Our Names)

    My boyfriend and I broke up on the same day that we met each other a year ago. Ironic, I know. I am a mess. We both love each other very much but he didn't see a future with us and I felt like I was not being appreciated/not treated as a priority during our relationship. What...
    malav21 malav21 22-25 Aug 8, 2012

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    How It All Ended

    well let's say it was amazing I was loving the feeling and u know when u get in a relationship as deep as I was when u brake up u feel empty and it's the worst part right after that i see her every day and i can't speak to her i can't touch her not only that but it was her fault...
    james1996 james1996 16-17, M Feb 2, 2012

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    I Deserved Better

    I was terribly in love with my now ex-boyfriend. At some point, he was in love with me also. Somewhere along the line he just stopped caring. We had been dating about two and half years. I have one semester left in college and he had plans to get a certification to work in IT...
    Snickerdoodling Snickerdoodling 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2012

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    Well to start I've known him

    for quiet a while, he's not a total good person he has bad manners but he was so faithful and loved me truly but the problem is lately my feelings stopped for him I couldn't feel anything for him anymore I tried so hard to open my herart for him again and not break up but I...
    Maeel Maeel 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    Break Up To Be

    Ok so I'm not very good with words so my blog may not be a literary beauty but I'm going through a real rough spot in life right now and the idea of anonymous blogging came to my mind. And so I'm here. My boyfriend, lets call him A, told me about a month ago that he doesnt feel...
    thoughtmachine thoughtmachine 18-21, F 2 Responses May 21, 2013

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    My Nexopia Girl

    When we were young and we first met I was 16 and she was 15 and I remember meeting her on nexopia.com some social site. I remember asking her about weather she was the girl I went to summer camp with and she replied. Ever since then we have been talking to each other almost day...
    FoXOnE FoXOnE 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    After one and a half year of full devotion to

    him...i had to break up and he didnt once stop me or try to contact me again.It hurts. I want to forget him but i cant
    Zunairanasim Zunairanasim 13-15, F May 11

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    Im so down... Me and my girl decided it would

    be best to be just friends. And now Im so ******* down i don't know what to do!
    RealTalkFriend RealTalkFriend 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    Its Over...hopefully For Good This Time....

    He is 14 years younger than me. He once worked for my husband when my husband and I ran a business together. I was in a really unhappy, emotionally abusive relationship. I caught my husband on a live web cam ************ to my 16 year old cousin taking her clothes off for him. I...
    rockcee rockcee 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2010

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    This week I realized many things.

    The guy I loved is to much of a coward to say he loves me. So I am ending it, cutting my ties with him. I won't smile in his face just to make him feel ok. I won't ask how he is doing. I will walk by him with my head held high. I won't forget him the joy he once brought to my...
    Nikki8888 Nikki8888 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Free

     So my girlfriend of over a year and I just broke up. It was my first real relationship and I feel like the way im feeling right now is wrong. I'm not terribly upset. i havent cried, abd I don't think I'm going to. It was a secret relationship because we couldnt let our...
    bandito1024 bandito1024 18-21 1 Response Nov 19, 2009

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    Lost One

    Broke up with her. It was the most serious relationship i've ever had.. she was a partner more than a girlfriend. We had plans, a future, the lot. She had a kid who i loved a lot, we were a happy family. Some things happened, it wasnt her fault it wasnt my fault.. but those...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2013

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    Scattered Thoughts

    My thoughts don't come regular. Always lyrical and scattered. It's not Art because it's never in one piece and I'm sorry because I know were always putting the pieces back together. Sometimes they don't fit, but there's no one that fits better. I tried to communicate and it's no...
    kingcobrah kingcobrah 22-25, M Sep 20, 2013

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    Here To Listen.

    Going through a breakup is an incredibly painful process...I've been there, and I know how much a listening ear can help. If you ever feel the need to talk to someone but are unsure whom to reach out to at the moment, we can connect you to good listeners who are here to support...
    wholemilklattes wholemilklattes 22-25 Apr 18, 2013

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    I wanted to marry my man

    so badly but I finally came to the realization that he doesn't want to commit so I had to leave him. It's been 2 years and 3 months and I don't even have a key to his place. It's so tough because I'm in my 30s and all of my friends have been married for years now and most have...
    Angeree Angeree 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    So in the end we broke up.

    ..... I'm just torn apart..... ;-; I..... I just have nothing to say....... It sucks so bad.....
    pewpew6488 pewpew6488 22-25, M Jul 28

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    To many girls in the world

    for me to trip off you
    BrianCrew BrianCrew 22-25, M Dec 11, 2013

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    Well, it started like this.

    At the start of the school year, I said to myself that I'll try not to fall for guys because the last relationship I had changed me. Three months later this guy keeps on chatting and texting me. He was doing every single thing to get close to me. As I said earlier, I'll try not...
    shaniag shaniag 13-15, F 1 Response May 8

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    Which sucks. It was my decision.

    I need to focus in getting better. He's not mad. He's so sweet. Honestly, it almost makes me feel worse. Single life.
    thoughtfulstars thoughtfulstars 13-15, F 1 Response May 7

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    Just How Do You Do It?

    When I approach writing an EP story, I typically want to place thought into it. I want to at least write enough to thoroughly explore the topic and what I think/feel about it. This time I can't. Maybe thoughts are simple: How in God's name do you move on? Especially when they...
    dontwanttomorrow dontwanttomorrow 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    It Was Very Hard At First.....

    I don't think there is anything easy about a breakup for anyone. No one wins.Two hearts torn apart and for what? At ONE time there was something very special there.Only time will heal all the hurt, the mistrust.Just know as much as you are aching in your heart feeling it's being...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2011

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    Did I Do The Right Thing?

    It's a long story... to warn you... My now ex-girlfriend and I were together for almost two years. We spent so many good times together, and I love her so much. She has everything I have ever wanted, looks, personality, smarts... ambitious, determined, aspiring to be an actor...
    souldiscovery souldiscovery 16-17, M 5 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    My girlfriend and I just broke up about two

    and a half weeks ago. I hate to admit it but ever since she entered my life, my life became messier but I also had never experienced this kind of love before. It was remarkable. I know she might be bad for me at this time of my life but I really can't help but feel that I...
    Junchew Junchew 18-21, M Aug 2

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    Took Years To Build And Minutes To Fall

    me and my girl were together for like 5 years and all of a sudden she cheats on me with my best friend and she lies about it to my face. she was my best friend and now she is gone, i feel like everything has been taken away and that i have nothing left. I miss her so much, and...
    lenks lenks 18-21, M Apr 26, 2010

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    A Heart In Port

    Now the ex is finally leaving me alone I can feel the big expanse of loneliness underneath everything. It reminds me of the beautiful poem by Emily Dickinson 'Wild Nights - Wild Nights!' Wild nights - wild nights! Were I with thee Wild nights should be Our luxury! Futile - the...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2013

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    I will be breaking up with him soon.

    Ugh I hate life sometimes 😡😥😩
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I Just Broke Up

    I had been dating my girlfriend for the first year of college. It was a good relationship, and I thought everything would turn out okay. I hung out with her at local restaurants, and offered her support when she was upset. I was a good boyfriend, but last night, she broke up...
    dave0903 dave0903 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 23, 2010

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    Timing Is Everything

    I just broke up with someone that I waited 18 years to be with.  Eighteen years ago I met him and discovered he was living with a girl and expecting a baby.  I walked away thinking he was happy.  Eighteen years later I find out he married her to legaize the baby...
    SweetLily SweetLily 56-60, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2007

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    Recently Broke Up

    i just recently had got dumped by my girlfriend, at the time. we had dated for several months throughout summer to mid september. Not specifically a long relationship but she is the first girl i had sex with. She being the first girl i had sex with is making it even harder for me...
    ianbrasil2010 ianbrasil2010 22-25 2 Responses Nov 1, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I happened upon this piece of writing today, and I liked it so much I thought I'd share. It really speaks to me! I agree with what she says, and almost feel like I could have...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    a lot of people I meet say they have a broken heart because of love.. that's not my case, well part of my case is love, is that I love people too much.. but in return I do not feel...
    Starz93 Starz93 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    broken home doesn't mean broken dreams. It's only broken home not broken me or broken attitude.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 31

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    When I was in 6th grade, I used to have an ultimate crush... Let's just say his name is Daniel... Daniel here is my classmate since 3rd grade... He is actually one of my boy best...
    DarkAngel483 DarkAngel483 13-15, F Jul 26

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    (Sorry for grammar mistakes. English is not my native language) It's a long and complicated story. So i will start with the background. I spent most of my life closed in my home...
    Valiosc2 Valiosc2 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    From a separated man who is being cheated onTo The Light Giver,I am wretchedI am fallenI am brokenI lie in liesI cover my wounds with my own broken glassI am ashamed and covered...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I am broken and scared beyond that you can imagine, I'm tired of my family of this life of my dreams of my heart of being me! I do wanna be myself but that what broke me my family...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I broke a bone in my foot about 3 or 4 years ago. It was rather embarrassing. I had been sitting in my living room, and when I stood from my chair and went to walk, my ankle rolled...
    GloriousGrey GloriousGrey 18-21, F Jul 27

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    Of course. I am finally happy with Adam. Sure he lives 12 hours away, but still. Then, two days ago Tyler texted me. I don't understand him. He broke it off with his girlfriend...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Hello my name is carla, i was dating a guy for 1 year and a month... he has cheated on me when we were dating for a month, because we were getting to know each other i decided to...
    Maralicious Maralicious 26-30, F Jul 31

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    I'm always broken I hide a fake smile behind it all because I know that I'm always alone I have no one in this forsaken world I've been lied cheated and betrayed all my life my...
    LGKolor LGKolor 18-21, M Aug 1

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    One time I broke an arm, i was 11, my mum usually tells me if she cleaned the stairs but hat time she didn't, so i slipped done and fell on my right arm and broke it. my big...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M Aug 3

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    I feel truly broken on the inside. So broken that it's becoming hallow and I don't know how to feel anymore. The only thing that keeps me from falling apart is because I am a role...
    Vickypearl Vickypearl 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    70 percent of successful are yuky. 40 percent of broken copy yuky. Have scars to prove research. So i seek the humane. Who are mostly with the broken.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 5

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    I should start by saying that I am emotionless person. For years I had been running around, playing with men feelings, breaking hearts and not blinking an eye. Of course...
    FloChild FloChild 22-25, F Aug 7

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    Hey i'm Yovanna Ventura i'm 18 fitness model , i dated a guy who was well known all around the world he is now 20 . But he forgot about me like i was just a toy . He went out with...
    sunny2114 sunny2114 18-21, F Aug 8

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    I broke up with my girlfriend in March and it was just awful. I mean I broke up with her because I don't want a long distance relationship and we didn't exactly want the same...
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I am so tired of pretending I'm fine. I've done it from my earliest memories. No way would I let someone know they could hurt me. I mastered the art of pretending to the point I...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 9