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I Just Broke Up

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 92 People

    A Heart In Port

    Now the ex is finally leaving me alone I can feel the big expanse of loneliness underneath everything. It reminds me of the beautiful poem by Emily Dickinson 'Wild Nights - Wild Nights!' Wild nights - wild nights! Were I with thee Wild nights should be Our luxury! Futile - the...
    PreRaphaeliteEyes PreRaphaeliteEyes 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2013

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    After one and a half year of full devotion to

    him...i had to break up and he didnt once stop me or try to contact me again.It hurts. I want to forget him but i cant
    Zunairanasim Zunairanasim 13-15, F May 11

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    The Ending Of M&m (first Letters Of Our Names)

    My boyfriend and I broke up on the same day that we met each other a year ago. Ironic, I know. I am a mess. We both love each other very much but he didn't see a future with us and I felt like I was not being appreciated/not treated as a priority during our relationship. What...
    malav21 malav21 22-25 Aug 8, 2012

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    Here To Listen.

    Going through a breakup is an incredibly painful process...I've been there, and I know how much a listening ear can help. If you ever feel the need to talk to someone but are unsure whom to reach out to at the moment, we can connect you to good listeners who are here to support...
    wholemilklattes wholemilklattes 22-25 Apr 18, 2013

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    It Was Very Hard At First.....

    I don't think there is anything easy about a breakup for anyone. No one wins.Two hearts torn apart and for what? At ONE time there was something very special there.Only time will heal all the hurt, the mistrust.Just know as much as you are aching in your heart feeling it's being...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2011

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    Break Up To Be

    Ok so I'm not very good with words so my blog may not be a literary beauty but I'm going through a real rough spot in life right now and the idea of anonymous blogging came to my mind. And so I'm here. My boyfriend, lets call him A, told me about a month ago that he doesnt feel...
    thoughtmachine thoughtmachine 18-21, F 2 Responses May 21, 2013

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    I Deserved Better

    I was terribly in love with my now ex-boyfriend. At some point, he was in love with me also. Somewhere along the line he just stopped caring. We had been dating about two and half years. I have one semester left in college and he had plans to get a certification to work in IT...
    Snickerdoodling Snickerdoodling 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2012

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    My Nexopia Girl

    When we were young and we first met I was 16 and she was 15 and I remember meeting her on nexopia.com some social site. I remember asking her about weather she was the girl I went to summer camp with and she replied. Ever since then we have been talking to each other almost day...
    FoXOnE FoXOnE 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    Our Events: December 27th 2012( the first time

    that we know each other) 👭February 09th we started our relationship 💞October 16th (we have our rings) somehow u never wore it, since I told u about postpone the flight) We met like 6times in this long Distance relationship! That's amazing December 02 2013 ( the very...
    jujubbg1227 jujubbg1227 18-21, F Dec 2, 2013

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    This week I realized many things.

    The guy I loved is to much of a coward to say he loves me. So I am ending it, cutting my ties with him. I won't smile in his face just to make him feel ok. I won't ask how he is doing. I will walk by him with my head held high. I won't forget him the joy he once brought to my...
    Nikki8888 Nikki8888 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Well to start I've known him

    for quiet a while, he's not a total good person he has bad manners but he was so faithful and loved me truly but the problem is lately my feelings stopped for him I couldn't feel anything for him anymore I tried so hard to open my herart for him again and not break up but I...
    Maeel Maeel 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    Its Over...hopefully For Good This Time....

    He is 14 years younger than me. He once worked for my husband when my husband and I ran a business together. I was in a really unhappy, emotionally abusive relationship. I caught my husband on a live web cam ************ to my 16 year old cousin taking her clothes off for him. I...
    rockcee rockcee 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2010

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    Recently Broke Up

    i just recently had got dumped by my girlfriend, at the time. we had dated for several months throughout summer to mid september. Not specifically a long relationship but she is the first girl i had sex with. She being the first girl i had sex with is making it even harder for me...
    ianbrasil2010 ianbrasil2010 22-25 2 Responses Nov 1, 2011

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    I Just Broke Up

    I had been dating my girlfriend for the first year of college. It was a good relationship, and I thought everything would turn out okay. I hung out with her at local restaurants, and offered her support when she was upset. I was a good boyfriend, but last night, she broke up...
    dave0903 dave0903 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 23, 2010

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    How It All Ended

    well let's say it was amazing I was loving the feeling and u know when u get in a relationship as deep as I was when u brake up u feel empty and it's the worst part right after that i see her every day and i can't speak to her i can't touch her not only that but it was her fault...
    james1996 james1996 16-17, M Feb 2, 2012

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    Which sucks. It was my decision.

    I need to focus in getting better. He's not mad. He's so sweet. Honestly, it almost makes me feel worse. Single life.
    thoughtfulstars thoughtfulstars 13-15, F 1 Response May 7

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    Scattered Thoughts

    My thoughts don't come regular. Always lyrical and scattered. It's not Art because it's never in one piece and I'm sorry because I know were always putting the pieces back together. Sometimes they don't fit, but there's no one that fits better. I tried to communicate and it's no...
    kingcobrah kingcobrah 22-25, M Sep 20, 2013

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    Free

     So my girlfriend of over a year and I just broke up. It was my first real relationship and I feel like the way im feeling right now is wrong. I'm not terribly upset. i havent cried, abd I don't think I'm going to. It was a secret relationship because we couldnt let our...
    bandito1024 bandito1024 18-21 1 Response Nov 19, 2009

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    Just How Do You Do It?

    When I approach writing an EP story, I typically want to place thought into it. I want to at least write enough to thoroughly explore the topic and what I think/feel about it. This time I can't. Maybe thoughts are simple: How in God's name do you move on? Especially when they...
    dontwanttomorrow dontwanttomorrow 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Break Up

    i just broke up on friendly terms with my girlfriend of a year online last night. One of those things she wants to be best friends with benefits. All the perks and none of the ties.
    Librastar Librastar 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Lost One

    Broke up with her. It was the most serious relationship i've ever had.. she was a partner more than a girlfriend. We had plans, a future, the lot. She had a kid who i loved a lot, we were a happy family. Some things happened, it wasnt her fault it wasnt my fault.. but those...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 21, 2013

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    Free

     So my girlfriend of over a year and I just broke up. It was my first real relationship and I feel like the way im feeling right now is wrong. I'm not terribly upset. i havent cried, abd I don't think I'm going to. It was a secret relationship because we couldnt let our...
    bandito1024 bandito1024 18-21 1 Response Nov 19, 2009

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    I wanted to marry my man

    so badly but I finally came to the realization that he doesn't want to commit so I had to leave him. It's been 2 years and 3 months and I don't even have a key to his place. It's so tough because I'm in my 30s and all of my friends have been married for years now and most have...
    Angeree Angeree 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Timing Is Everything

    I just broke up with someone that I waited 18 years to be with.  Eighteen years ago I met him and discovered he was living with a girl and expecting a baby.  I walked away thinking he was happy.  Eighteen years later I find out he married her to legaize the baby...
    SweetLily SweetLily 56-60, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2007

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    Did I Do The Right Thing?

    It's a long story... to warn you... My now ex-girlfriend and I were together for almost two years. We spent so many good times together, and I love her so much. She has everything I have ever wanted, looks, personality, smarts... ambitious, determined, aspiring to be an actor...
    souldiscovery souldiscovery 16-17, M 5 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    To many girls in the world

    for me to trip off you
    BrianCrew BrianCrew 22-25, M Dec 11, 2013

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    Well, it started like this.

    At the start of the school year, I said to myself that I'll try not to fall for guys because the last relationship I had changed me. Three months later this guy keeps on chatting and texting me. He was doing every single thing to get close to me. As I said earlier, I'll try not...
    shaniag shaniag 13-15, F 1 Response May 8

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    Took Years To Build And Minutes To Fall

    me and my girl were together for like 5 years and all of a sudden she cheats on me with my best friend and she lies about it to my face. she was my best friend and now she is gone, i feel like everything has been taken away and that i have nothing left. I miss her so much, and...
    lenks lenks 18-21, M Apr 26, 2010

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    I will be breaking up with him soon.

    Ugh I hate life sometimes 😡😥😩
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    My heart is in so much pain. I cannot even sleep at night or eat properly. This is what I am reading today to help me recover: http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F Jun 29

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    I happened upon this piece of writing today, and I liked it so much I thought I'd share. It really speaks to me! I agree with what she says, and almost feel like I could have...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    everyone is broken. Some are just worse and others can't even be fixed. But we learn to be like that and live like that because maybe, being broken is actually what life is and if...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Hi. I could really use conversation from people who are going through possibly a similar situation as me. I broke up with my amazing, beautiful person of a boyfriend 2 days ago and...
    ChelseyBrownfield ChelseyBrownfield 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    How can I bet a 15 years old teen , and my heart is so broken... How could I put my happiness into one stupid boy... Who I thought loved me... But once we broke up one week later...
    haaaywee08 haaaywee08 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    After 1 failed marriage and 7 broken relationships I am done with telling my tail of a broken heart. It took me 20 years to figure out that we are only as happy as we purpose to be...
    SunsetDaily SunsetDaily 36-40, F Jul 3

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    So there I was over 30 with there beautiful children. I had been being abused by the man I married for apx ten years. I had gotten a job not a great job but I made some money and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 8

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    Three weeks ago I had the unfortunate experience of breaking my foot by falling out of a window. At first I was in denial and told everyone that I was ok, but the pain wasn't...
    katchafire katchafire 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I have been doing well until today. Things just got out of my control...I feel completely broken. I wanted to self harm and luckily I couldn't find what I used to use. I don't know...
    blondechick0130 blondechick0130 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I cut. I starve myself. I have trust issues. I can't function sometimes. I want to die sometimes. I was sexually abused but all of my brokenness can't be just from that. I have...
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    I guess I have done it again, I am broken. I don t ever feel like I want to pick the pieces up again. I am at a time and place when I should be happy, yet I am not. I ve made...
    ithappenedtome2 ithappenedtome2 36-40 Jun 26

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    I really don't understand what happened, today my boyfriend and I broke up. When I first met him I was not interested in having a relationship it just happened. We were together...
    lovefash67 lovefash67 18-21, F Jun 28

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    I dated this guy my junior/senior year of high school. He was always super sweet and of course very cute. I was an idiot and broke it off because of something's people were saying...
    rie76 rie76 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    So there was this guy.who was my bestfriend i loved him but didnt told about my feelings cause i was afraid that it would have ruined our friendship.and he was friend of my brother...
    Dumle Dumle 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I feel so broken I feel like I am not good enough for anyone I feel like people just pity me idk I feel so broken So sad
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F Jul 3

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    I have never broken a bone. Most of my friends have, I'm not saying I want a broken bone but that's just life.
    samdavis3 samdavis3 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I think my heart is broken & I don't even know why! I mean maybe I do, maybe a few people have broken it but I push it aside so I don't feel anything, but eventually when I'm all...
    kelaaax3 kelaaax3 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I fell in love with a 25 year old man Scott he was amazing! Sweet, funny, drop dead gorgeous and always knew how to make me smile! We had a fling on and off for abit because he was...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    My mum is really into talking on the phone recently and I think she s talking to a guy. She s 50 this year, separated with my father 6-7 years ago. I didn't expect I would feel...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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