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I Just Divorced

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    Casting: Divorcing Couples

    Are you ready to put your divorce behind you and start a fresh life? Do you and your soon to be ex, need help dividing up your significant assets amicably? Cornwell Casting and Engel Entertainment are looking for ‘wealthy’ couples with many assets in the NYC/NJ/CT area, Los...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews 22-25, F May 13, 2013

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    16 Ways I Blew My Marriage (By Dan Pearce)

    You know what blows big time? The other night I was sitting with my family, most of whom are very successfully married. We were going in a circle giving our best marriage advice to my little sister on the eve of her wedding. It’s somewhat of a family tradition. But that’s...
    londonnoah londonnoah 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    Yes, It Is Final

    I was married for 22 years, and my divorce became final 4 days before my anniversary. I had been planning to take this step in 2003 when my husband threatened me with a handle of a garden shovel. He was arrested, but after a month I dropped the charges. My best friend made me...
    me410 me410 56-60 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    I'm Feeling Strangely Relieved

    Hi Im Pablo, Im about to be 34, and I just got divorced, I just endured a 1 year marriage, and I just got extremely bored and filled with ennui. I sincerely have doubts about my ability to live with other people and to have a meaningful and lasting relationship, or is it just...
    pablo34 pablo34 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 19, 2013

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    He Got His Green Card And Is Divorcing Me

     He got his permanent resident card and left me. I am so hurt and angry. He was a great actor.
    reneedsimmons reneedsimmons 46-50 3 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    25 and Divorced

    After being married for 6 years and just getting the divorced finalized last year, my life seems to be falling apart. I have a job that is paying just above minimum wage great right, so finances are rough, exspecially seeing as I have taken about 20,000 in debt from my marriage...
    hmiller1983 hmiller1983 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    Just Divorced After 8 Yrs Marriage

    I was married for 8 years and have a 3 yrs old daughter. I got married when I was 20 yrs old and still studying in college, my ex wife is 9 yrs older that me, we grew economic and financially good over the past years, but when the economic...
    rodri rodri 26-30 1 Response Jun 29, 2009

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    3 Months Divorced

    Afther 13 years of marriage, 2 separated and 3 months divorced, i fell strange, its a new life, and i am a little sacerd but happy
    artisgreat artisgreat 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    They Are :( My parents are divorced, they got divorced when i was a year old.
    Belieber4Life Belieber4Life 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My parents are divorced and I live with my mom and my older brother. My mom obviously loves my brother more and he gets whatever he wants but if I ask for anything she screams at...
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I am thinking about divorcing my second husband but I am afraid of the stigma attached to being divorced twice. I worry about how it will affect me and my grown children to know...
    Christmas87 Christmas87 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    Recently divorced from a wife who cheated on me for years. Met a lady online who sadly lived a long ways away. We became very good friends...because she lived so far away I knew we...
    ParamedicJohn ParamedicJohn 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm 30 and recently divorced. My ex was verbally, emotionally and somewhat physically abusive. At the same time, he was my best friend. We were together for 10 years and married...
    sdp11983 sdp11983 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I had my first boyfriend when I was 16. We met each other at church and we also attended the same high school. He was a year older than me so he graduated from high school and...
    leimomo leimomo 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    Divorce in snohomish county in washington stateAny recommendations? Domestic violence and a no contact protection order are involved. Me (wife) is working at $13/hr and has less...
    cestlavie14 cestlavie14 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    My now ex wife and I dated for 5 years and eventually got married when we were 18.Everything seemed great she attended USC while I ended up having to move away for a bit just so I...
    P24TY P24TY 26-30, M Mar 28

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    It was a long time coming. 20 years of lies, mind games, cheating. I was the one always forgiving and forgiving. Until last September I felt I was going to go crazy, because in...
    bluelady23 bluelady23 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I swear everyday I wonder why does this have to hurt so bad, I mean we fell in love we weren't supposed to be like our parents and now here we are not even able to be in the same...
    rox345 rox345 31-35, F Apr 3

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    Background: wife of 22 years, in midst of mid life crisis, meets "special friend" on Internet, leaves and moves 6hrs away to another state leaving behind 5 kids (18-9 at the time...
    ChangingDad ChangingDad 41-45, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Going from being married and always having someone there to talk to, hold and be held, or just be silly with to being single is hard. I miss the affection and closeness of being...
    micmer micmer 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I cry when I think of myself and family. My family feels so hollow now. When I was little, it used to be so fun to get home from school to see my family. Now, I stay...
    KingLaic KingLaic 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    My dad and my stepmom are getting divorced... Only she doesn't want it. And as we speak they are arguing. She is crying he is raising his voice. And... I would do homework...
    TubaAtheist TubaAtheist 18-21, F Mar 24

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    My parents divorced when I was four, my father left when I was five. He had visitation rights and one day simply didn't show up. My mother called, he had emigrated. I didn't...
    MonaO78 MonaO78 36-40 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    My A (adoptive) parents knew about me through a lawyer before I was born. Then they drove from Miami to Boynton Beach FL. to pick me up when I was only 8 hours old. My brother was...
    BAM33156 BAM33156 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 12 Responses Apr 4

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 10 Responses Apr 4

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    I have lived a long struggle when it comes to relationships. Have been through heartache as many have. At 41 I'm feeling my heart sinking as I think my girlfriend is pulling away...
    PeterBGood PeterBGood 36-40, M Apr 10

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    I left my wife in August and immediatly went to speak to a lawyer to file for divorce. I'm still not divorced. She and I have signed papers twice all ready, and we will have to...
    VeloAficionado VeloAficionado 26-30, M Apr 10

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    Ah yes, nothing better to do on a saturday night than blog. I am quite liking it, though. I am me, I am nothing more than what I am, nor do I pretend to be. I work in a Nursing...
    StrayMouse StrayMouse 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Has anyone else experienced how the things you say as the 'getting-divorced' person are understood in a different way to the things you said before? Today I told some people I do...
    NeedingToVent NeedingToVent 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    We began as co-workers. He was married; I was 5-year's divorced and stable with my independence/schooling/future. Throughout my life, I've been more of a listener than a sharer...
    nowunderwatertime nowunderwatertime 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    All week long I've been saying it. "I'm fine thanks, how are you?" It rolls off the lips so smoothly and is so much easier than going into it. Well, I am fine today, thanks, but...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am curious, if a person is not Christian then where do the guidelines for what to do in marriage come from? This isn't meant to be antagonistic at all, it is a question I have...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 16 Responses Mar 20

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    A quote doesn't have to be deep for me to appreciate it. Here is something from a novel by Nevada Barr. I forget which one (she has written a whole series of mysteries). Her...
    eddiecarbone eddiecarbone 61-65, M Mar 20

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    My husband cheated on me with prostitutes. Two a month ago, and once in 2012, when we were separated. He had that one come to our house while our kids were sleeping upstairs. These...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    I know, everyone thinks this, right? So let me explain... I have fallen completely in love with this wonderful man. He is the sweetest, kindest, most giving man I have ever met...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Hello, I'm new here. I am a divorced disabled veteran with 3 children. I have had cancer surgery twice
    boadiccearose boadiccearose 51-55, F 14 Responses Mar 20

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    I have been divorced for 10 years with two kids my eldest daughter turned on me this week and blamed her psychological issues on me. Since the divorce my ex has denied access on...
    gnj10k gnj10k 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    3 times (so far) married once. Divorced once. I'm with a woman now who puts all others to shame.
    dacraww dacraww 22-25, M Mar 20

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    So I had thought I had found my one and only! In the end i am divorced and lonely. I have faith that I will find the one I will spend the rest of my days with.
    billyw420 billyw420 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    1) I am 5'2" tall 2) I have brown eyes 3) I married / divorced a powerful and manipulative man 4) I have Narcolepsy 5) I am a great cook 6) I am painfully honest...
    miles2gob4isleep miles2gob4isleep 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I've been texting this guy who lived 900 miles away for 2 years. At first we couldn't get enough if each other. We would text all day. We both could feel the passion and interest...
    Darlene68 Darlene68 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I have suffered with poor mental health for many years following my divorce. I always felt not good enough in my marriage. I could never understand why I felt I always had to be...
    StandingDown StandingDown 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    We were friends with benefits 20 years ago. Never had a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with each other. I never thought of him in that way. Never thought he did either. As is...
    playedlikeafool playedlikeafool 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 22

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    After being married for many years, I found out my wife ( my ex now as we are divorced for about ten years now) had been cheating on me with a guy who purported to be my best...
    ExperienceDan ExperienceDan 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 22

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    When life is going really good it will always suddenly turn around and go ****. i know there are other less fortunate people out there but i always wish i had a different life. My...
    vickaaay22 vickaaay22 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    We've been separated for a year now. We're still legally married. He's an alcoholic but has been sober now for about 4 months and is doing very well. I'm doing pretty well also. I...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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