I Just Divorced

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 31 People

    I wasn't married so i can't get divorced

    but i wanted to share my story here because we were so close as married and we broke up. and i feel like we got divorced. it is really difficult to get used. I met a girl when i was in Poland. we kept the relation going, visiting each other each 2-3 months. we were loving each...
    aunur aunur
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    I got divorced a few months ago - a good move

    for us both. We'd been married for 9 years. Now I'm getting used to single life again.
    oxfordwoman oxfordwoman
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2015

    I'm Feeling Strangely Relieved

    Hi Im Pablo, Im about to be 34, and I just got divorced, I just endured a 1 year marriage, and I just got extremely bored and filled with ennui. I sincerely have doubts about my ability to live with other people and to have a meaningful and lasting relationship, or is it just...
    pablo34 pablo34
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 19, 2013

    Yes, It Is Final

    I was married for 22 years, and my divorce became final 4 days before my anniversary. I had been planning to take this step in 2003 when my husband threatened me with a handle of a garden shovel. He was arrested, but after a month I dropped the charges. My best friend made me...
    me410 me410
    1 Response Aug 8, 2009

    He Got His Green Card And Is Divorcing Me

     He got his permanent resident card and left me. I am so hurt and angry. He was a great actor.
    reneedsimmons reneedsimmons
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2010

    25 and Divorced

    After being married for 6 years and just getting the divorced finalized last year, my life seems to be falling apart. I have a job that is paying just above minimum wage great right, so finances are rough, exspecially seeing as I have taken about 20,000 in debt from my marriage...
    hmiller1983 hmiller1983
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2009

    Casting: Divorcing Couples

    Are you ready to put your divorce behind you and start a fresh life? Do you and your soon to be ex, need help dividing up your significant assets amicably? Cornwell Casting and Engel Entertainment are looking for ‘wealthy’ couples with many assets in the NYC/NJ/CT area, Los...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews
    22-25, F
    May 13, 2013

    3 Months Divorced

    Afther 13 years of marriage, 2 separated and 3 months divorced, i fell strange, its a new life, and i am a little sacerd but happy
    artisgreat artisgreat
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2009

    Just Divorced After 8 Yrs Marriage

    I was married for 8 years and have a 3 yrs old daughter. I got married when I was 20 yrs old and still studying in college, my ex wife is 9 yrs older that me, we grew economic and financially good over the past years, but when the economic...
    rodri rodri
    1 Response Jun 29, 2009

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