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I Just Don't Get Men

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    Why Can You Dutch Oven But I Can't

    So, in another story I shared my getting older problem with flatulence.  For many years my husband for some unknow reason to me thought that it was funny to "fart" in bed and cover my head with the blankets. So, as my age problem began to not go away; I decided...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    Men Are a Mystery!

    I don't get them either. And I'm one of them! At least biologically speaking. Lately it's becoming increasingly obvious that there's more to it than just having an X chromosome and a Y chromosome. But really! The whole modern masculinity thing is just a big, messy source of...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 7 Responses Jun 7, 2007

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    I Would Say Who Needs Them...but We Actually Do Need Them Lol

    I dont like the double standards that are either for us or against us, why must they be so incredibley sweet one day and the next treats you like a disease 1.All my life Ive heard that its considered Unlady like to pass gass...im sorry but Im not holding it in and...
    CaliGurl2007 CaliGurl2007 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    I'm Missing Part of the Picture

    I guess, I just don't understand. I don't understand how one minute they can be smiles and laughter and the next a total b*stard. One of the ladies where I worked was seeing a fellow from the same company. They seem to hit it off rather well and seem to be destined for bigger...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    How They Think

    Mostly it's the thought process I have trouble with, very confusing indeed. Oh I understand the sitting in your underwear, that can be comfy. And I really understand the sports thing.  I love a good hockey game, even on TV.Some things I just find terribly annoying, like when...
    Psychodelic Psychodelic 46-50, F Nov 29, 2011

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    I Just Don't Understand the Way They Think

       I have been in a relationship for almost seven years now. I do love my boyfriend like I have never loved anyone else before him though I still don't understand what he thinks half of the time.    Half of the time, he's mad at me for something that I...
    eastsidechick eastsidechick 26-30, F Jan 21, 2008

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    I Just Don't Get Men...sometimes

    I don't get men. This is why I am trying to raise my sons to RESPECT women. In my situation, besides the fact that he was abusive(and he still doesn't understand HOW...hello duh doesn't take a rocket scientist)however,I GAVE 1000% and all he did was TAKE TAKE TAKE. A relationship...
    Durandee1620 Durandee1620 36-40, F 1 Response May 30, 2007

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    Does anyone have any advice for me? My kids are 13, 10, and 6. I was a Catholic until about 3 years ago. After years of internal conflict, I decided to leave the church and...
    thepeanutgallery thepeanutgallery 36-40, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    When grown man who look about 40-50 years old and they tell me I look beautiful I don't know how to take they're compliment. If I say thank you, they're going to think I'm trying...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    So I asked my mum about birth control and she said no. Because of all the hormones and stuff, she don't want me to use the pill or any kind of contraception. 'If you don't have a...
    ABACDEE ABACDEE 18-21, F 9 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    It's okay to block me. You don't have to like me. I'll block you back and leave it at that. But don't create another account just so that you can constantly harass me. Don't use...
    1alwaysdreaming 1alwaysdreaming 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I don't have any real friends (besides my boyfriend). I feel bad because people are always trying to hang out with me, but I just don't want to put forth the effort of maintaining...
    lilymegami lilymegami 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    A couple weeks ago I approached her on the topic of sexuality and she told me it was okay to think girls are beautiful but not engage with them sexually. Basically: any kind of...
    MyNameMeansLight MyNameMeansLight 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

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    I can't believe I said it out loud. The truth doesn't set you free, you know. It makes you feel awkward and embarrassed and defenseless and red in the face and horrified and...
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 9 hrs ago

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    Problem with us will always be our ego. We are very sensitive about our manhood and in today's society, the "hunter" is just not needed. Sure, you might ask for something on the...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    None of them are ganna be fun for you anyways. No, I will not send you ones that are. & don't dare ask me for any extra pics when you have none at all. If you have to hide on a...
    BrokenLady420 BrokenLady420 36-40, F 9 hrs ago

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    I've always hated it when my friends say 'I love you' and expect to be told the same. In my personal beliefs, I reserve those three words for my parents and my lover. It's not...
    KiNDERPiSTOL KiNDERPiSTOL 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Winners don't use drugs, you know.
    Blue707 Blue707 16-17, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I don't like any feelings they hurt too much...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    It's almost like the ones of us that don't have any are more the oddity than people who do. I like them on others. My husband has them. He loves that my skin is natural.
    tornadowinds tornadowinds 46-50, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Don't Need Drugs and Alcohol to Have Fun
    goodnites1091 goodnites1091 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Hate When People Have Children But Don't Want To Be Parents
    goodnites1091 goodnites1091 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    What I hate most are men on this site who inbox me and put words in my mouth or play the victim. I always do my best to be honest. I know that there are great guys on here; but...
    smooches smooches 22-25, F 14 Responses Feb 10

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    Yes.plus i don't like creepy young men woman and all the creepy people. Stay away from me if you are creepy. Oh..definition of creepy? If i don't like what you do to me,and you...
    JerryJerryA JerryJerryA 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    You put so much into someone, call them your best friend and accept them as family... You invest so much time with some person for all of it to finish all of a sudden you don't...
    Arizv11 Arizv11 22-25, M Feb 12

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    You notice I never gave up on you even though all you care about is yourself. I know it’s all about you, other people's thoughts and emotions don’t matter to you, right? Why...
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I can't stand being with my boyfriend any longer, but I don't know if I can leave him...I'm too afraid to let go. So this is our story: We're at a long distance relationship...
    Bitterlove Bitterlove 16-17, F Feb 10

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    I quit drinking soda Five years ago. not 'cause of calories or anything. One morning my father decided to go on a diet and I was like "Well ima give something up too for...
    Mewl Mewl 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I feel like I just need to let this out... I have a lot of pent up issues and frustrations with my parents that I've never really expressed to anyone. The other day, some simple...
    astro00 astro00 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 20

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    It's so cliche... but I really don't know what to do with my life. I'm in the first year of law school. I find it interesting but it's too much for me. Ikeep failing in EVERY...
    notcoolmarvin notcoolmarvin 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Dear World, Dear God, Dear Buddha, Dear whoever or whatever you are out there, I am listening as of now. I applied for a fast food job and got an interview - and hired. That was...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M Feb 11

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    Valentine's Day has just passed. Everywhere I go, I see all these happy people, holding hands, engaging in public displays of affection. If only they knew how much it tortured some...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    No, this group shouldn't be about minors being too stupid to be here, I beg to differ. I don't want minors in here because I don't want dirty people influencing them. Sure, I've...
    trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE trAnSyLvanIanconcuBinE 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    It's weird how I never include you in my plans that I make up in my head. Maybe I don't love you anymore, but honestly who knows, there might still be some spark somewhere. Sad...
    BrokenCats BrokenCats 26-30, F Feb 11

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    Yeah, like the group says I don't like being tall. It's just it makes me feel insecure. I've had people say that they wished they were as tall as me, or that my height was pretty...
    Lilwolf12 Lilwolf12 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    I don't believe in God and it isn't because I lost hope, because a tragic experience. I just believe that God is nothing more than a way to explain the unknown and hope for...
    Alexa3608 Alexa3608 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 13

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    i don't know about another country. There's no good news when we turn on the TV here. Whichever there's only 12 channels,tho. We're even get depressed more and more.. That's why i...
    JerryJerryA JerryJerryA 31-35, F Feb 18

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    I noticed it's a cycle that I can't seem to break. I always ask someone who likes me: "Why do you like me?", "What made you like me?", "What's your reason?". And whatever reason...
    grrrey grrrey 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I don't fear death. I could finally be happy in the afterlife. For I know I won't go to hell cause I'm already there. My father beats me physically and mentally. I have no friends...
    outcast343 outcast343 16-17, M 5 Responses Feb 19

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    This group is utterly ridiculous. If you don't have the common sense to use protection to keep yourself STI free and to keep pregnancy from happening, should you really be having...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 2

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    Okay let me just start by saying I'm 15 nearly 16 years old. I'm working making my own money, paying my own bills -- and soon will have my licence. Believe me when I say ALL...
    mstv1112 mstv1112 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    my boyfriend checked himself into a mental institution last weekend. He got on meds for depression and since then things have gotten a little better. but today he left, busted a...
    julia1155 julia1155 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    I may put some dirty stories up but that's because I'm a sexual person. Can't help myself. I like sharing details. But that doesn't mean I want people to tell me how much they...
    Sxculent Sxculent 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I wish I could say I am on EP because I want to be. But I'm here because I need to be. It is sometimes difficult for a man to admit weakness but this is the only place I can be...
    KevinAdams123 KevinAdams123 31-35, M 6 Responses Feb 10

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    love women who prefer to be touched by women. I worship them and don't want to be allowed to touch them. Hope to be taunted and humiliated by them.
    Hermeister Hermeister 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    Ummm... About 3 weeks ago I found my moms pregnancy test and it was positive - she's hasn't even mentioned it to me or told me about a boyfriend or anything. We usually fight about...
    QueenRianH QueenRianH 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 14

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