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I Just Don't Get Men

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    How They Think

    Mostly it's the thought process I have trouble with, very confusing indeed. Oh I understand the sitting in your underwear, that can be comfy. And I really understand the sports thing.  I love a good hockey game, even on TV.Some things I just find terribly annoying, like when...
    Psychodelic Psychodelic 46-50, F Nov 29, 2011

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    Men Are a Mystery!

    I don't get them either. And I'm one of them! At least biologically speaking. Lately it's becoming increasingly obvious that there's more to it than just having an X chromosome and a Y chromosome. But really! The whole modern masculinity thing is just a big, messy source of...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 7 Responses Jun 7, 2007

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    I Just Don't Get Men...sometimes

    I don't get men. This is why I am trying to raise my sons to RESPECT women. In my situation, besides the fact that he was abusive(and he still doesn't understand HOW...hello duh doesn't take a rocket scientist)however,I GAVE 1000% and all he did was TAKE TAKE TAKE. A relationship...
    Durandee1620 Durandee1620 36-40, F 2 Responses May 30, 2007

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    I Just Don't Understand the Way They Think

       I have been in a relationship for almost seven years now. I do love my boyfriend like I have never loved anyone else before him though I still don't understand what he thinks half of the time.    Half of the time, he's mad at me for something that I...
    eastsidechick eastsidechick 26-30, F Jan 21, 2008

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    I'm Missing Part of the Picture

    I guess, I just don't understand. I don't understand how one minute they can be smiles and laughter and the next a total b*stard. One of the ladies where I worked was seeing a fellow from the same company. They seem to hit it off rather well and seem to be destined for bigger...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    I Would Say Who Needs Them...but We Actually Do Need Them Lol

    I dont like the double standards that are either for us or against us, why must they be so incredibley sweet one day and the next treats you like a disease 1.All my life Ive heard that its considered Unlady like to pass gass...im sorry but Im not holding it in and...
    CaliGurl2007 CaliGurl2007 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    Why Can You Dutch Oven But I Can't

    So, in another story I shared my getting older problem with flatulence.  For many years my husband for some unknow reason to me thought that it was funny to "fart" in bed and cover my head with the blankets. So, as my age problem began to not go away; I decided...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    I don't know why, I just start crying... crying so hard. I had a great day with my friend today and I was happy. Now I'm in bed and I'm crying. It so weird. Idk why. I become very...
    Acrylic19 Acrylic19 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    That's what I'm doing now. I'm gone. I'm somewhere where none of my stupid friends can find me ever again. It's a little thing I like to call freedom. It's at least from the...
    JK7448 JK7448 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    low maintenance and high cost, demanding of expensive things like cuddles, I don't think, I know
    Azureal Azureal 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    He's like a man who was so perfect, and after he shown me his real behaviour. Always his friends on first place , flirts around, complains about everything, he's never satisfied...
    Annabel1712 Annabel1712 18-21 5 hrs ago

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    If you feel something the first time you see someone, then I'm sorry honey, but that is not love. That is just a crush. Obviously a crush can later develop into love after getting...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    At least when I'm at home, I don't. But then again, I'm normally naked at home. The only time that I do wear them is at work, but I'm considering going commando 24/7 so I don't...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I don't understand why I cant let go...
    txbtrfly txbtrfly 41-45, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Why does she have to do this? This is not the first time. I feel like these few years are going to be just a period of amnesia. Nothing has changed at all. Nothing worth...
    Aquifylix Aquifylix 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    But I don't think I'm attractive either. I think I'm plain and average. I'm like a wall, a chair or a lamp. Unattractive but not ugly :)
    freesoul95 freesoul95 18-21, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I don't wanna sound selfish, but honestly I don't wanna be held responsible for another life when I can barely take care of myself. My mom tells me that she wants me to have her...
    NettyHope NettyHope 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    It bothers me. I have been through a lot... I mean a lot. I am young. So, when I meet new people they would never assume any of the things I've been through and I don't just...
    let1the2wall3down4 let1the2wall3down4 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mother is a borderline mother and I just figured this is a psychological thing. I was trying to "discuss" an option with her but it was no option! With my mother, you have to...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Is it okay to cut off all connections to my mom? She left us when we are kids because she got involved in loan issues. Then we moved out to our house and follow her just to be with...
    kcryptic kcryptic 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I AM NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND, FIANCEE' OR WIFE SO FOR THOSE OF YOU MEN WHO DOES THIS TO US LADIES KNOCK IT OFF. It's irritating and we don't put up with **** like that. So dont!
    BigGirlWithLove BigGirlWithLove 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well, for me there´s no such thing as a friendzone when it comes to women. If a women is not having sex with me, or i can see that it ain´t gonna happen in the future, she isn´t...
    PenetrationGuru PenetrationGuru 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    I don't believe in God. When I say it out loud, it's hard for me to understand why. I've always believed in God as a kid. I was raised that God heals all and we must pray everyday...
    Shygal3029876 Shygal3029876 18-21, F a week ago

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    I'm almost 30 years old and I'm trying to put my life back together and am attempting to get better physically and mentally cause lord knows I have tons of those problems all while...
    GlitchInTheMatrix GlitchInTheMatrix 26-30, M Jul 26

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    You know how you can just tell if you're the least favorite child? I have always known that's me... My mom and I have always butted heads. I can't remember a point in my life...
    duckyluck duckyluck 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    to have a boyfriend or girl friend it is only ever about looks figure how good you are in bed 3 main thing's men or women go for I don't have eny of them advantages I just don't...
    susangoga susangoga 31-35, F Jul 26

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    When you don't feel happy, I'll love you LOL! When you feel lonely and sad, you can think about the new place you want to go, the country you want to travel to and the good things...
    HappyOrUnhappy HappyOrUnhappy 13-15, M Jul 26

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    Frankly, my relationship with my mother sucks. I do not want it to suck. I do not want to be angry with her, but I am so tired. I moved back home over a year ago to get my life...
    DV527 DV527 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    I don't wear makeup for a few reasons. The first is I have sensitive skin and most makeup makes me breakout. I have found a brand that doesn't so far though. The second is I just...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I just lose myself sometimes. I know that I am strong and that I can make it through a lot of things, but when it seems like, with the exception of some friends, that I am the only...
    AverageJane123 AverageJane123 18-21, F Jul 21

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    Lately I've been changing a lot. I do things I never would have done just two years ago. I don't feel the same way I used to, either. I'm having fun, and I think I'm happier. I...
    aj00000 aj00000 18-21 1 Response Jul 19

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    I am gloriously 40 next month, genuinely looking forward to it. I also have a 23 year old daughter from a previous (read, teenage fling) relationship. I love my daughter...
    milotank milotank 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I want to start with a disclaimer: I am not being hateful and am trying my best not to be judgmental, so please don't attack me for my lack of understanding. I don't understand...
    anhonestgirl anhonestgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I know that suicide isn’t allowed in Christianity. But I have already failed God. I am already a walking sin. I’m nothing worth saving. I’m nothing worth pitying. I am...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm not even fully aware of what happened. I mean, I'm not really close to much of anyone in my family, or even out of it. But I don't understand why I have such a hard time with...
    dwyli33 dwyli33 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I mean I'm not boring, I definitely love to have fun and have crazy things I want to do. It just "hit" me in may that the group of guys I like to be around might find me boring. I...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F Jul 15

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    Don't judge me for my Imperfections Don't judge me for my Flaws Don't judge me for my mistakes Don't judge me for my Appearance Don't judge me for my way of living Don't judge...
    AnnaSamanthaJohnson AnnaSamanthaJohnson 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I am 23 years old. I have made $350,000 dollars in the last five years. I have a two and a half year old son. His mother and i have been involved in a very bitter lawsuit for the...
    ihavenoimaginationatall ihavenoimaginationatall 22-25, M Jul 15

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    Or is it because I haven't been in-love? Ppl come into your life, you lust, you love, you break up, you hurt, you then move on. Weeks, months or years later they may pop back in...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Why I want to keep trying so hard at something that is long gone. Why I keep lying to everyone including myself. I don't know why I can't be honest and say I am not okay, that i...
    TiredOfBeingHurt TiredOfBeingHurt 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Let's be frank. I'm middle aged. I come from a dysfunctional family: mother is an ignorant racist with borderline personality disorder and father is addicted to *********** and...
    loresmom loresmom 41-45, F Jul 14

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    Vents: My mom... Where do I start with my mom. She is the most caring lovable person you will ever meet. The one that will get out of way to make you happy. The one that will cook...
    TonyThach TonyThach 18-21, M Jul 14

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