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I Just Don't Get Men

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    I Would Say Who Needs Them...but We Actually Do Need Them Lol

    I dont like the double standards that are either for us or against us, why must they be so incredibley sweet one day and the next treats you like a disease 1.All my life Ive heard that its considered Unlady like to pass gass...im sorry but Im not holding it in and...
    CaliGurl2007 CaliGurl2007 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    How They Think

    Mostly it's the thought process I have trouble with, very confusing indeed. Oh I understand the sitting in your underwear, that can be comfy. And I really understand the sports thing.  I love a good hockey game, even on TV.Some things I just find terribly annoying, like when...
    Psychodelic Psychodelic 46-50, F Nov 29, 2011

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    I Just Don't Get Men...sometimes

    I don't get men. This is why I am trying to raise my sons to RESPECT women. In my situation, besides the fact that he was abusive(and he still doesn't understand HOW...hello duh doesn't take a rocket scientist)however,I GAVE 1000% and all he did was TAKE TAKE TAKE. A relationship...
    Durandee1620 Durandee1620 36-40, F 1 Response May 30, 2007

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    Why Can You Dutch Oven But I Can't

    So, in another story I shared my getting older problem with flatulence.  For many years my husband for some unknow reason to me thought that it was funny to "fart" in bed and cover my head with the blankets. So, as my age problem began to not go away; I decided...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    Men Are a Mystery!

    I don't get them either. And I'm one of them! At least biologically speaking. Lately it's becoming increasingly obvious that there's more to it than just having an X chromosome and a Y chromosome. But really! The whole modern masculinity thing is just a big, messy source of...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 7 Responses Jun 7, 2007

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    I Just Don't Understand the Way They Think

       I have been in a relationship for almost seven years now. I do love my boyfriend like I have never loved anyone else before him though I still don't understand what he thinks half of the time.    Half of the time, he's mad at me for something that I...
    eastsidechick eastsidechick 26-30, F Jan 21, 2008

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    I'm Missing Part of the Picture

    I guess, I just don't understand. I don't understand how one minute they can be smiles and laughter and the next a total b*stard. One of the ladies where I worked was seeing a fellow from the same company. They seem to hit it off rather well and seem to be destined for bigger...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    We can live in this world harmoniously and I wouldn’t care less if you don’t like me. We have different views, opinions, upbringing and beliefs, but we can be civil and respect...
    CallmeCamille CallmeCamille 66-70 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Do I even need to explain this? REALLY? So you think its fine to sit on a toilet that gods know how many men have used. Maybe they were sweaty, maybe they didn't shower, maybe...
    Schizotistic Schizotistic 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My father used to be my hero years ago.Even though I grew up with my grandma, he would come to visit in a monthly basis, which meant the world to me. He would take us out to play...
    Y1984a Y1984a 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I have dayshavoo all the time. I witness death and the end of the world. I see people I love die in front of me . I feel so far away from the world but living in it. I go to church...
    Bustedox219 Bustedox219 26-30 2 days ago

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    I notice myself gradually isolating myself from my family. I love them all, but I feel like a guest in my own home. The lack of everything from my wife has put a considerable dent...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nobody understands what I go through on a daily bases and nobody really cares. Everybody wants to be heard. I see people online who seem to have the same problems I do. They want...
    bfsd150 bfsd150 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    So I don't like dogs as much as people now days, who believe a dog should be treated like a king or something.. I can't stand it I don't know how to nicely tell this to my husband...
    sanity113 sanity113 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Not Anymore.... I am not going to wear myself thin, and go out of my way to be there for my friends in their time of need, when, it comes that I need them for one reason or...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    When I'm lyin' in my bed at night I don't wanna grow up Nothin' ever seems to turn out right I don't wanna grow up How do you move in a world of fog That's always changing things...
    ThatMetalDude ThatMetalDude 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I've been going through a lot and things are looking up. nut it's like the littlest thing can take you back to square one. I've been out of work for about two months now and feel...
    mzhoneylove mzhoneylove 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    On Saturday, a good friend of mine asked me to go to church with her. I didn't want to go, but I still went with her to make her happy. I don't normally go to church, so I thought...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    Many years ago now I went to an event and met someone there who I felt was pretty interesting. He was a poet and artist so we exchanged info and have kept in touch sort of through...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 31-35, F a week ago

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    I've spent the last 17 yrs with him and the last 7 have been sexless. I quit bringing it up about 4 yrs ago but I have so many resentments and built up anger that now I don't even...
    WantToEndTheCycle WantToEndTheCycle 46-50, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I'm pretty young and most teenagers say they don't like their mom because they didn't buy them a new phone or any little reason like that. I don't like my mom because she is the...
    Oxidant Oxidant 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I don't worry about my incontinence any more in fact I like being incontinent. Somehow it defines me. I like having to wear nappies. If someone has a problem with it then it is for...
    Stillwetshisbed Stillwetshisbed 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 29

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    How can these little girls mostly 13-15 on this site wanna chat dirty and most of the men who reply are over 30! I don't know who is the sickest the young ignorant girls or the...
    CJ0181 CJ0181 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    Ok so I've been with this guy for 8 months now and I recently brought up that there's no depth to our relationship, It happened to be that time of the month and he asked "are u...
    AnnieLouisez AnnieLouisez 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 28

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    I am almost 30... I don't have a steady income. I don't have a working vehicle or a place to live within the next year. I suffer from manic depressive bipolar disorder and it's now...
    heyimokay heyimokay 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I don't know why.When we talk about a man woman friendship,people assume more than there is to it.Some men also insist on doing things the woman may not want like insisting on...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I really don't. I'd go out with a men if he was bi and liked me but I knew many people who wouldn't. I'd be friends with any orientation as long as their personality is amazing...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 26

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    We live in a world where you're told to let your emotions out in a controlled setting. At least, I do. As I child, I was taught it's good to cry, healthy even. Those who say it is...
    TheBlasphemousOptimist TheBlasphemousOptimist 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Kids are annoying, loud, messy, expensive, and time-consuming. Those are all things I don't like to deal with. Therefore, I don't want kids. Not to mention I'm bad at understanding...
    thehobbits thehobbits 22-25 3 Responses Jun 25

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    Emphasis of the 'feel'. I'm not saying they actually don't. I had to move back home after finishing an art degree so I could build up my career to go freelance. It's been hard...
    EleanorPainting EleanorPainting 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I know that I'm cute but that's not what men seem to want they want sexy you know And I know that I'm just a cute girl. I'm fit with a good body and I'm not only cute but pretty...
    bemmie bemmie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    Soooooo,Hmm(clearing throat) I met a woman in college in 2009 after a breakup with another woman that just up and left me with these words ''Later on in life you'll see that it...
    SchizoEffective6 SchizoEffective6 36-40, M Jun 23

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    My first real best friend who turned out to be a *****, I don't know how to get her damned voice out of my head. The more I think about it, the more I'm realizing how I didn't...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Jun 23

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    Can I please just let this out? (it's pretty long O__O) It's summer break and my dad keeps on ordering everyone in the family around. He calls at least 3~4 times a day everyday...
    sweetcolors123 sweetcolors123 16-17 Jun 23

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    Everyone brings out a different side of me. Whenever I try to tell someone about the real me, I tend to not mention somethings because they can only see that side. I don't know why...
    jellolia jellolia 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I've never had a social group. I don't have a place. I don't have a pack. I have my brother. And I have a few or so friends at a time who eventually ditch me. Probably my fault. I...
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I used to be friends with this female. We had our fun as we were still in our teens but I was young, naive, and innocent. I let her walk all over me. So when I grew up and grew a...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jun 21

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    June 21, 2009 I never knew that day could end up being one that was burned in the back of my brain for ever. Well buddy it's been six years since mommy lost you. To top that off...
    forgottenheart forgottenheart 18-21, F Jun 21

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    I can never see myself in a relationship, or married, or domestic-partnered. I enjoy myself very much and covet my privacy (physical, emotional, mental). While I enjoy connecting...
    lolitabrat lolitabrat 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    It will happen anyway. Let me just remind you, you don't know me, you don't know my background nor my situation. You don't know my person nor my values. You don't know my thoughts...
    IBelongToAlison IBelongToAlison 41-45, F 11 Responses Jun 20

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    I just don't understand why people have to be the way they are with drama and everything. It's so hard living having to worry about race and it's effect on my life. Seeing people...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    This is a very long post, so I apologize. I would be grateful for your advice… I recently found out that my dad is not my biological father. The news was a big surprise to me as...
    aemegece aemegece 26-30, F Jun 18

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