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I Just Don't Get Men

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    Mostly it's the thought process I have trouble with, very confusing indeed. Oh I understand the sitting in your underwear, that can be comfy. And I really understand the sports thing.  I love a good hockey game, even on TV.Some things I just find terribly annoying, like when...
    Psychodelic Psychodelic 46-50, F Nov 29, 2011

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    I Just Don't Understand the Way They Think

       I have been in a relationship for almost seven years now. I do love my boyfriend like I have never loved anyone else before him though I still don't understand what he thinks half of the time.    Half of the time, he's mad at me for something that I...
    eastsidechick eastsidechick 26-30, F Jan 21, 2008

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    I'm Missing Part of the Picture

    I guess, I just don't understand. I don't understand how one minute they can be smiles and laughter and the next a total b*stard. One of the ladies where I worked was seeing a fellow from the same company. They seem to hit it off rather well and seem to be destined for bigger...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2008

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    Why Can You Dutch Oven But I Can't

    So, in another story I shared my getting older problem with flatulence.  For many years my husband for some unknow reason to me thought that it was funny to "fart" in bed and cover my head with the blankets. So, as my age problem began to not go away; I decided...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    Men Are a Mystery!

    I don't get them either. And I'm one of them! At least biologically speaking. Lately it's becoming increasingly obvious that there's more to it than just having an X chromosome and a Y chromosome. But really! The whole modern masculinity thing is just a big, messy source of...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 7 Responses Jun 7, 2007

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    I Just Don't Get Men...sometimes

    I don't get men. This is why I am trying to raise my sons to RESPECT women. In my situation, besides the fact that he was abusive(and he still doesn't understand HOW...hello duh doesn't take a rocket scientist)however,I GAVE 1000% and all he did was TAKE TAKE TAKE. A relationship...
    Durandee1620 Durandee1620 36-40, F 1 Response May 30, 2007

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    I Would Say Who Needs Them...but We Actually Do Need Them Lol

    I dont like the double standards that are either for us or against us, why must they be so incredibley sweet one day and the next treats you like a disease 1.All my life Ive heard that its considered Unlady like to pass gass...im sorry but Im not holding it in and...
    CaliGurl2007 CaliGurl2007 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    Once again I am friended by someone who approached me first and once again for reasons unknown to me I have the plug pulled on me....fine...I don't need you in my life, I didn't...
    RestlessWarrior1 RestlessWarrior1 46-50, M 41 mins ago

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    I'm not quite sure how this works, and I don't know how to say this without sounding stupid or melodramatic, but here it is, I guess. Throughout my life, I've been incredibly self...
    Monte805Cristo Monte805Cristo 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    So here goes! I hope no one judges me by my first experience. I have anxiety so this is quite big for me haha. I think it started when I just became 13, I made a new friend who...
    SecretBlanket SecretBlanket 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    Right now my friends are worried about me. hell I'm worried about me too, but i can't seem to find out what exactly is wrong with me. I don't understand why I feel so...
    Isaragi Isaragi 16-17, M 12 hrs ago

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    Boyfriend & I got into an argument about money. He asked me if I could loan him $300 to fix his van & I told him that I wasn't sure as I was heading to my home state due to family...
    Lisst Lisst 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Yes I have removed anyone that I don't talk to or that are mean or dirty towards me don't get bad it's my circle I only left people who are nice and kind and don't ask dirty...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have a mother who is emotionally abusive, lacks reason and I suspect she has bipolar disorder. She injects nothing but negativity in my life and I have told her numerous times...
    organizedmadness organizedmadness 41-45, F 9 hrs ago

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    I speak my mind all the time, whether it hurts people's feelings or not. My sister Roxanne is more sensitive than me or my other sister. I have to remember to choose my words...
    JupiterCity JupiterCity 36-40, M Apr 1

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    I'm 21 years old and i don't own a cell phone i owned one once when i was 16 due to anxiety attacks at school and other problems in my life. But after i hit 17 i on my own...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    It's not that I don't sleep well, but I wake up about 5.30 every day, even on a weekend, and can't go back to sleep.
    HoldenC13 HoldenC13 51-55, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I searched for "hate arguments", but I couldn't find it.. I think I had the most arguments with my current ex..lol..she was both my heaven n hell.. it was like dying everytime we...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    But i want one so much! my parents won't get me one because they say I'm too young. When I say all my friends have them they say a. you don't have that many friends and b. If they...
    BethCole BethCole 13-15, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Small talk includes saying: Hi or hello please if you wish to speak with me don't start with small talk or i won't reply. Find something interesting not sports weather or music...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I remember being good at writing. Decent at drawing as well. I grew up being told I was "wise beyond your years..." and could hold a conversation with any group of adults. Scores...
    Demise Demise 22-25, F a week ago

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    8 of 10 wanting me to add them is men.... What part of "Don´t add men" is difficult to understand? I will soon block men who ask thanks to those who can´t understand and ruin it...
    redlesbian redlesbian 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't know what is wrong with me. I'm tired of being hurt. I'm tired of crying. I'm tried of having all these feelings... I wish my heart was numb. I'm tired of it all..
    SweetRose22 SweetRose22 22-25, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    this world is literally cruel...no matter who will leave you ...no matter where and when....this is not under our control...just the God knows...we just need to handle all this on...
    christinelim819 christinelim819 13-15, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Don't give up when things are hard, but work hard, when you think of giving up...
    McCannT12 McCannT12 41-45, F 14 hrs ago

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    I don't fear death because I have already did
    Zellaplayzcreepypasta Zellaplayzcreepypasta 18-21, T 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I want to text my two friends but I text and we talk constantly but I feel like I'm become-ing obsessed to talking to them and I don't want to bother them but it's so hard not to...
    rosedimond99 rosedimond99 13-15, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    i don't have people invite me to do things for awhile now.
    super2012 super2012 22-25 8 hrs ago

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    It's a weird thing that I have... I used to be very social, and still am to a certain extent. I associate with people at school and such, but these days I never feel like talking...
    naeramarth1 naeramarth1 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    This is how it should be and how I will go ! Live your life to the fullest Don't wait for tomorrow live for today:)
    HammerD08 HammerD08 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    After spending the last 6 years getting ready for college, I may stand a chance at improving my life. I have made it into UW, Whitman, and Washington and Lee University, and had...
    Tucker66 Tucker66 16-17 2 hrs ago

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    I hate people who say that depression its just for attention. If I say i'm depressed, I think nobody would believe me. I eat pills 2 times in a day, because of depression...
    lostandalone98 lostandalone98 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    He says he loves me but he's being distant. He's not the same since we said I love you for the first time. I don't know what to do about it or if there's anything to do about it. I...
    christy0909 christy0909 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    my father in law informed us that he's expecting grandkids, jokingly of course. but I'm content with no kids at all. I can sleep in, I don't get judged for my parenting choices...
    ambernoel ambernoel 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I honestly I don't know if I'm gay or bisexual. I have a girlfriend and she's a really good and caring person but I have dreams at night about men and boys in like a sexual way...
    fraeddyr fraeddyr 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    I honestly don't know how much I can take. Yea, no. I'm not gonna kill myself. I've been dealing with so much pressure, stress, and anxiety that I don't know how much longer I can...
    cuterthxnyou cuterthxnyou 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    I was sitting in the living room with my mom last night and we ended up on the subject of children. I mentioned that I don't really like kids and she rebutted with you only like...
    TheKristaJo TheKristaJo 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    The FightOne Sunday my husband and I spent the day cleaning up an empty house. So full of dust and paint, we were looking forward to a hot shower. Parking the van at a petrol...
    SwanSongRebeL SwanSongRebeL 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    10 Daily Habits That Will Give You Incredible Willpower: “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act, but a habit.” – Aristotle. Success is a lot of...
    IamnotCharlieSheen IamnotCharlieSheen 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    All nite I think about you Dreaming of our future together Boy was I wrong Your true colors showed And I didn't like what I saw Tried to overlook it Didn't work so You had to go U...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    I've been dating my first ever BF for almost 6 months, and at first it was great. But lately I've just been feeling really torn by all the little things that have slowly started...
    SimpleShares SimpleShares 22-25, F 1 day ago