I Just Ended My Unhealthy Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    Only Married 5 1/2 Months

    I married a man who I loved and didnt realize what I was getting into until after we were married and I saw day to day who he was. My soon to be ex husband is a raging alcoholic drunk who was abusive physicaly and mentaly. He was a manipulator and a liar. He had sent me some...
    Findingpeace13 Findingpeace13
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Dec 2, 2012

    Well, Crap!!!!!

    Today has been a great, frickin' day! Flat tire, ornery teenager, dead sister day, a boring/confusing *** "training" at work and THEN I have a conversation with "him" that sent my self esteerm PLUNGING into an abyss. Caution: VENTING ahead... do not read if you're not intersted...
    TessieMae65 TessieMae65
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Aug 15, 2011

    I hate this so much I ended this last week

    but we just gave each others stuff back to one another and it brought back so many memories and I feel like I made a horrible mistake I can't stop crying
    openbookbri openbookbri
    18-21, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    Been Used

    It's hard to tell why, but I think its over...when forced to say what I felt, as I could not take the abuse. I put it as a greeting message on my phone...took me about one hour to record what I felt...should have written it out first.
    milkmoreorless milkmoreorless
    51-55, M
    Sep 28, 2009

    Yeah, I literally just broke up with my

    girlfriend who used to be my boyfriend this morning. Im literally on the verge of breaking down and going back to my bed and bawling my eyes out and not leave it for a month. Its just I dont trust her anymore, and Im always crying over something she did or has done, and it...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 8, 2015

    One half of me is that I'm

    so happy that it's over, and another half of me was so use to being abused that it didn't bother me, atleast I knew he was there, and now I'm alone so many mixed emotions running threw me
    openbookbri openbookbri
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2014

    And I Feel So Much Better About Myself

    I ended a mariage that was slowly driving me crazy. I still love her but she is no longer my responsibilty. I feel so great about breaking it off. I guess I still have to do all of the official paperwork, but we are now separated. Why I didn't do this sooner, I do not know. I...
    Strutnrooster Strutnrooster
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2012

    #21 Is It....

    Ok. Attempt #21 to cleave Dave from my life. I think that this one is going to be THE one...because it is different this time. This time, HE was the one who ended it. Gave me no choice in the matter. He said: "its time to let me go..." And, of course, he was correct. It was way...
    TessieMae65 TessieMae65
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Feb 13, 2012

    Attempt #18...

    Ok dokey... here we go on Attempt #18 to end my unhealthy relationship. It has been two hours since I talked to my "weakness". My goal this time is TWO WHOLE DAYS! Surely I can do two days with out speaking/texting/e-mailing him. If I stay busy and try not to think about the...
    TessieMae65 TessieMae65
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jun 1, 2011

    #20, And Counting...

    It's been two hours. I have not talked to Jerk Off, or texted him, or responded in any way. Two hours into my 29th attempt to break free of this unhealthy, and unsatisfying, relationship. We had a little tiff over the week end, and a discussion of my discontent on Monday. It was...
    TessieMae65 TessieMae65
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Sep 21, 2011

    I Tried So Hard But In The End It Doesn't Even Matter, So I Say Goodbye

    So, what is a friendship, to me it is a mutual exchange of not only pleasantries and each others current happenings, but also effort, mercy, caring, compassion, and trying to understand the other person. Well, I opened a door only to see nothing on the other side, or far less...
    UpyetDown UpyetDown
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Sep 27, 2011

    Contemplating #19

    I think that it might be time to try Attempt #19. I am not angry, or upset, or needy right now. I feel like I am moving further and further away from him-- needing him less, thinking about him (a little) less. I just don't know if it is too soon-- maybe I should wait a while...
    TessieMae65 TessieMae65
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Aug 3, 2011

    It Was Wonderful In the Beginning...

    But after 2 1/2 yrs of being the "other woman", my dignity is shot, my self-confidence is non-existent. He did move away from his wife, but still hasn't separated bank accounts, served divorce papers or even stop paying all her day to day expenses. I feel terrible...
    TrulyOnMyOwn TrulyOnMyOwn
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 25, 2009

    Here We Go.... 17th Attempt

    Ok, here we are on the 17th attempt to end my unhealthy relationship (it is the 16th or 17th). It has been two hours and 10 minutes. I have no illusions that I will be successful this time. No, that won't happen. I am weak and I will give in-- most likely in a matter of hours...
    TessieMae65 TessieMae65
    46-50, F
    8 Responses May 3, 2011

    It's Over..

    I wrote previously about John and his inability to communicate and be open emotionally.. Well, it's been a rough couple weeks. The truth is, we are both jaded from our time together. We'd become hypersensitive to each other to the point that it was a good day if we didn't bicker...
    MissBehaviour MissBehaviour
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2012

    I Need Support-- I'm Sooooo Weak-- 24 Hrs Since Ending Relationship

    Ok, it has been exactly 24 hours since I sent an e-mail saying "I am done". I just got a "good night" e-mail from HIM saying that he is clueless as to why I am doing this. Really??? Clueless? Gee, I wouldn't think that it would take Sherlock Holmes to figure it out. Anyway.... I...
    TessieMae65 TessieMae65
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Apr 10, 2011

    It Happens

    I did not end it, I urged it to happen. My ex and I were not in a healthy relationship. We barely talked, we did not show much affection to eachother and we have been growing very distant. So yesterday I decided to talk to her about it. I told her I do not think we will get...
    BMMitch BMMitch
    22-25, M
    Oct 30, 2012
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