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I Just Got Dumped

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    Does Being Ignored Mean "just Been Dumped"

    In august 2009 I found a guy I dated on and off for over a yr 14+ yrs ago. We picked it up where we left off hence started Long distance relationship. Everything was fine till about 2 weeks I noticed he started ignoring me and it  was fine as he is very busy. Ive...
    bilow72 bilow72 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    Girlfriend Says She Wants To Be Alone..

    My girlfriend dumped me yesterday. She texted me from work and said she wants to talk when she gets home. I thought it was about the fights we've been having every so often. I thought we could fix everything. I know that the fights were my fault, I was stressed by a lot of things...
    Kalamalja Kalamalja 18-21, M Aug 6, 2013

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    Healing? Or Too Numb From Pain?

    So, I'm not really sure if this is okay, or anywhere near the boundaries of normal, but, it's been three days since we called it off and I feel fine. I mean, I get those teeny-tiny moments when I get it into the why-how-why me?! thought patterns that quickly spirals downwards...
    quitedown92 quitedown92 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    My First Real Relationshxt !

    I Woke Up This Morning With 2 Texts .... Both From My Boyfriend .... First Text " I want you to know you ****** up " Second Text " Sleep now because when you wake up its over " Now this isnt the first time this has happened but other times i've been in his face and could...
    CallMeDizzy CallMeDizzy 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    The Man With Out Cause

    the man enclosed in the story will reveal the name at the end. this man though. he shares no cause. he doesn't like the fact he lives. almost suicidal. he hates himself for his past and what he may become. one day he found the best girl he could ever imagine. she had it all...
    Koda13 Koda13 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 25, 2013

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    Stupid And Clueless

    I was dating someone who dumped me 2 other times but I took him back for the 3rd after what seemed like such heart felt thoughtful words and sincere apologies. I thought about it for a month (this january) and decided to try. I am stunned and in shock but of course people...
    dmok dmok 36-40 3 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    I believe I have been dumped.

    ..via Facebook lol and I don't know why. I think he was drunk & emotional. I'll find out soon..
    MsAlize MsAlize 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    Unrequited Love

    I have been friends with D for a long time.  She and I belong to the same social group--we love the group dearly.  She has always had health problems, and I have been there to care for her needs.  I used to take days off using my own vacation time to care for her...
    danimal1960 danimal1960 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2007

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    I Am Happily Married, And, Wha...

    I am happily married, and, whatever happened before that, doesn't really matter. 
    sdanamarie sdanamarie 21-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2007

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    I Thought You Were Different

    I met this girl at a camp many years ago but we always stayed in contact over the years. Then one day she comes to visit me at my house to spend the holidays. At first things were going great my family loved her and i loved her(she was my first girlfriend). We went very far very...
    b1llab0ng b1llab0ng 16-17 Jul 11, 2013

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    Just Yesterday...

    I wake up at three in the morning and fail to fall asleep. I've been suspecting something being wrong with me and her. I look on her Facebook page to see that she changed her profile picture to a picture of her and some other guy. I have my doubts about our relationship, but I...
    SCUDFACE SCUDFACE 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Feel like poop. I really tried.

    7 months down the drain.. Sad life..
    untitled17 untitled17 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    abi87 abi87 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 20

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    I Don't Mean To Dump On You, But...

    To My Ex-Boyfriend, I felt it coming, you know. Us girls hae a sixth sense about this sort of thing. After being dumped myself eight times, you were no surprise. Did you really think I wasn't going to notice all of your signs? The refusal to talk, the obvious avoidance of...
    writewithwit writewithwit 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2011

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    Gone Without a Word After Four Years

    She couldn't even say that she was leaving, let alone why.  She just started crying and said she was miserable.  I don't know why, and, while I have my guesses, I don't think knowing would do me any good.  We'd been looking at rings two years ago, but I think the...
    thatintoyou thatintoyou 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    3 Years

    So i was with him for 3 years we lived together were engaged and we came to la habra for vacation and his aunt offers us to live here for free and he can go to school because his mom blows his money for college on who knows what. so i say yah i'll do it for him and i left my...
    loves2cook05 loves2cook05 22-25, F 2 Responses May 8, 2010

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    had been dating my girlfriend from high school

    for one year. I got to college upstate and she goes to school in Maine but we decided to stay together our freshman year. I am still very much in love with her and now a month before we are going to come home for the summer. she decided she needed space to see if she liked being...
    jimmy1233 jimmy1233 18-21, M Mar 28

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    I Just Don'T Understand.

    So, this was a rather unique relationship. My boyfriend and I met on the internet and had liked each other for some time now. We chatted almost constantly since December 2012 and had gotten along really well since then. It turned out that we were both going to go to a summer...
    lolcats4u lolcats4u 18-21 Jul 1, 2013

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    Is There Any Hope For Us To Be Lovers?

    I met this guy 2 months ago in a certain boot camp.i dint pay much attention to him as he seemed quiet and reserved unlike the outspoken me.I became friends with his friends as i love pooling and so do they. Three days after we had returned home from the camp and resumed our...
    rimelda rimelda 18-21, F Jul 2, 2013

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    One Fight Is All It Took

    Not that we were ever really together. Maybe I was just deluding myself. OK. I WAS deluding myself. We were best friends. He would call me to go grocery shopping at Wally World with him on a moments notice. I would buy him lunch on random days just because. We fished in the lake...
    TatterdHeart TatterdHeart 46-50, F May 29, 2013

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    Finally Called It Off After Seeing Him On-And-Off For 3 Months.

    It has been a very, very long messy deal. We were fine, before he started suspecting me of cheating on him. No matter how much I tried to convince him otherwise, once the suspicion started everything worked against me. Although I really loved him, I was scared of him. We got back...
    quitedown92 quitedown92 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    Yep he just dumped me over text first

    relationship lasted 4weeks bet u he didn't even care bout mee
    noolybabe14 noolybabe14 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Not Enough Money So Get Lost.

    I finally thought I had met someone who cared for Me. This Morning We met for breakfast and she told Me I am to poor for her. I shouldn't complain this is not the first time it has happened and most likely not the last. It seems I am destined to be alone forever.
    slappedtomuch slappedtomuch 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 19, 2011

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    Pregnant And Dumped

    So i was with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we where really happy for the longest time and then I got pregnant and he dumped me just as quick as I could get the words out and what hes saying is he wants me to hurt because he didnt want to have a baby and I refuse to have...
    LaLa1987 LaLa1987 22-25, F Dec 17, 2009

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    I Thought This One Would Be Different

    I'm only sixteen and I know I'm not in serious relationships but I liked this guy for over a year and he liked me back. We were best friends but the timing never seemed to work out. I had been in two relationships before one guy cheated on me with his sister's friend and...
    TaraM4 TaraM4 16-17, F Apr 29, 2013

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    He Said The Spark Was Gone

    We met two months ago while volunteering, from the moment he saw me, it was pretty obvious he was interested in me. I could see he was trying hard to impress me. At the end of the afternoon, he asked for my number. He took me out on a date a week later, and another a week after...
    nouse4one nouse4one 26-30, F Sep 18, 2013

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    Laughter Killed Our Budding Relationship

    Trying to get over a man who lied to me, I started seeing another man. And after a very intense personal experience with him, he dumped me via Instant Messanger. Yesterday. After telling me on Sunday  that he had never met someone like me, and although my laugh...
    bathsheba13 bathsheba13 41-45, F 23 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    Missing My Love....

    Three weeks ago my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me....stating we had nothing in common. I listed the things that we did have in common and it wasn't good enough. Well, then I found out within 3 days he had a new girlfriend. Supposedly, they hadn't really talked until he...
    ladydrac2000 ladydrac2000 31-35 1 Response Jun 15, 2013

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    God, I Loved Her Sooooo Much.

    Well 2 days ago my girlfriend dropped me. We only went out for 2 weeks, but i swear, ive never felt this way about a girl before. From the moment i first saw her i knew she was the most beautiful girl i had ever met, and from the first time i talked to her i knew she was...
    xDEVINx xDEVINx 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 14, 2008

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    3 month ago by someone 23 years older

    than me. What's the matter with men? A 55 year old man leaving a 32 yr old woman?... Details coming soon...
    ShantiLove ShantiLove 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Ouch!

    The other night, I come home after spending the weekend with my family and my bf has the look, then he says we need to talk, "its not you, its me." Thing. He's unhappy because his mind always assumes that I am cheating, he doesn't want to accuse me of something I am not doing, so...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    He Said He Was Unhappy With Himself And Not Me.

    Note: this is long. i know. please bare with me, and hear my story. I got dumped. A two year relationship took an abrupt end. I was busy, since my summer semester at university was ending. Although, I always made sure to make time for him. Yet, things kept coming up on...
    eternity81 eternity81 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2012

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    I got dumped , never thought "I" would actually

    . I was expecting it but preparing for it is nothing like being in it , the problem is that he was my bestfriend and he knew i had a crush on him and after 8 months of pure friendship he told me he had a crush on me too so it started . Somedays were great sometimes he was a...
    Hana611 Hana611 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    ...for being a virgin.

    He played it off as not "wanting to hurt me" and saying he didn't see us "as a couple at the end of the day". This was also over text message. I would be a lot hurt at the way he did this if we were actually exclusive, but we weren't, so no harm with the method. Still, if he...
    Hameha Hameha 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    She Dumped Me And Now She's Promiscuous

    I took it away and now she's giving it away. What do i do?
    xpjohnxp xpjohnxp 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    5 Months Of Lies

    My boyfriend of 4 years and the father of my daughter lied to me these past five months. A week ago I found out he was cheating on me with a co worker since January. Looking through his phone I was able to recover some deleted text and that's how I found out. I was heart broken...
    Penelope113 Penelope113 26-30 2 Responses May 13, 2013

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    Married For 16 Years......

    I was married for 16 years, moved to a new state with my family, started a new life until I got my then wife a job. She started seeing the boss's son and I found out about it. My now ex-wife then got pregnant. That was the icing on the cake. She moved out a before I could file...
    Cbinzo68 Cbinzo68 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    Fell In Love With A Married Man

    I had a wonderful affair with a married man we were in love we had made plans for us to be together but now he wants to work things out with the wife because he said I put doubt in his mind I always told him if he was having second thoughts to let me know I guess I said that one...
    Istillwanthim Istillwanthim 51-55, F 4 Responses May 18, 2013

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    The Mind Set

    It does not matter how many people tell me everything will be okay, how everyone tells me I deserved so much better, or that this was for the best. In the end, you are all alone, with only your crippled heart and aching soul. And only you can save yourself. We had been together...
    watercoloredninja watercoloredninja 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 15, 2009

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    Lost,confused,and Lonely...why Can't I Just Let Go ?

    Not completely sure where to start but I think that I will start off with My girlfriend also my 2 year old sons mother told me it was over April,4th of 2011. We have been together for 4 years and was going on 5 years. We were engaged to be married and all but about 8 months ago...
    Kthanxbye Kthanxbye 26-30, M 3 Responses May 15, 2011

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    I Am So Confused And Dont Understand. Someone Help Me

    I am so confused... I dont know how to process this break up and I am constantly questioning what really happened. I am only 21 and he is 22 so we are young but I just am so rattled by this. We met last year and instantly he fell for me. He consistently told me that from the...
    anniebean anniebean 18-21, F Jun 19, 2013

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    When Will I Ever Learn

    Over the last three months I have had an on again-off again relationship with this girl who dumped me in August. We ended up growing very close to each other and I thought there was a chance this could grow into a long term relationship. I had major issues with trust, especially...
    justmetalking justmetalking 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 11, 2007

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    The One That I Wanted Didn't Want Me

    I guess this could be worse. My arms could be blown off.  
    Justnotthatintome Justnotthatintome 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2008

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    Just Got Dumped By a Married Man

    Well you guessed it I`m feeling pretty bad about right now! Inever thought this could happen to me,why did I believe all the bull, love is over rated!I have not let anybody in my life for 7 yrs.BOOM! when I do I get used, by none the less a freakin married man!now what? I dont...
    onedge39 onedge39 36-40, F 55 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    Been with bf for a few months (known him

    for over a year) all going perfectly blissfully well. He said he was excited by us and I was the girl he was going to settle down with. He drove the pursuit of me and chased until I agreed to go out. Anyway, things progressed but we spent too much time together at his place over...
    MsKB MsKB 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I want someone to love me deeply.

    ..and stays forever...however I suppose I will take this time to rebuild myself ...again
    JustLaniece JustLaniece 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Here To Listen.

    Losing love is incredibly painful. I've been there, and I know how much a listening ear can help. If you ever feel the need to talk to someone but are unsure whom to reach out to at the moment, we can connect you to good listeners who are here to support and comfort you anytime...
    wholemilklattes wholemilklattes 22-25 Apr 23, 2013

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    How Do I Move On?

    My ex and i broke up five months ago and its been so hard. he's seeing someone else now over the internet. We moved in together last august and in in january he informed me he was never ready for a big committment. i don't know how to handle everything. I've beenso stressed. I...
    cisa cisa 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2010

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    My bf broke up with me almost 3 weeks ago.

    He's honestly the first person I think I loved. It was the lack of communication and sexual stuff that we did a lot that damaged the relationship but I feel like I should have done more for the relationship. I just have a lot of regret... I need to talk to him...
    penguinmuncher penguinmuncher 18-21, F Feb 9

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    Out of the blue said he hasn't loved me

    for a year and doesn't find me attractive any more! Now I'm falling apart ...
    abi87 abi87 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 18

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    JustLaniece JustLaniece 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    4 Years- A Letter To Emily

    This is the worst thing anyone's ever done to me. We met at a bus stop. I used to joke with her that that was where I pick up all my women, but really I was only 15 at the time. I'd only really kissed a girl before that. You hadn't even kissed a boy, but that just made it more...
    LukeMitchwest LukeMitchwest 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    so i first started dating this girl about two years back,it was a long distance relationship....things were going well and then in December she was going mad about marriage and i...
    hobbes86 hobbes86 26-30, M Apr 5

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    I was dating a guy for a month and half. After not having dated in 2 years since my ex. Well I stayed over at his we didnt do much- and thats it next day he went cold and didnt...
    Silvertwilight Silvertwilight 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    7 years and I don't understand why.
    developit developit 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    We was close friends for about 4 months and then we decided it's time to take our relationship to the next level, we started dating and everything was going so perfectly fine, then...
    georgiecrouch georgiecrouch 16-17, F Apr 12

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