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I Just Got Dumped

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    I am in such great pain at the moment.

    My bf dumped me and left me hanging. I thought we were meant to be together forever but he has changed.
    Confusedchic44 Confusedchic44 41-45, F 26 Responses Jul 14

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    Silly little girls man.

    She says its hard to have a relationship in the 10th grade. Personally i think thats a load of bullshit. Can someone help me and give me advice?
    Guido1198 Guido1198 16-17, M 1 Response May 4

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    My First Real Relationshxt !

    I Woke Up This Morning With 2 Texts .... Both From My Boyfriend .... First Text " I want you to know you ****** up " Second Text " Sleep now because when you wake up its over " Now this isnt the first time this has happened but other times i've been in his face and could...
    CallMeDizzy CallMeDizzy 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    Been with bf for a few months (known him

    for over a year) all going perfectly blissfully well. He said he was excited by us and I was the girl he was going to settle down with. He drove the pursuit of me and chased until I agreed to go out. Anyway, things progressed but we spent too much time together at his place over...
    MsKB MsKB 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Does Being Ignored Mean "just Been Dumped"

    In august 2009 I found a guy I dated on and off for over a yr 14+ yrs ago. We picked it up where we left off hence started Long distance relationship. Everything was fine till about 2 weeks I noticed he started ignoring me and it  was fine as he is very busy. Ive...
    bilow72 bilow72 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    Me and my girlfriend have been going out

    for 3 months and now she ends it, when everything was good. What could I have done wrong? I still love her and I don't know what to do
    iloveevery1 iloveevery1 18-21, M 2 Responses May 24

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    4 Years- A Letter To Emily

    This is the worst thing anyone's ever done to me. We met at a bus stop. I used to joke with her that that was where I pick up all my women, but really I was only 15 at the time. I'd only really kissed a girl before that. You hadn't even kissed a boy, but that just made it more...
    LukeMitchwest LukeMitchwest 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 10, 2011

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    Well this sucks๐Ÿ˜ญ two years later

    after everything we've been through and then it's over just like that๐Ÿ˜ณ don't even know how to feel๐Ÿ˜ก someone talk to me I feel so alone๐Ÿ˜ž
    LeeeBabs LeeeBabs 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    My bf broke up with me almost 3 weeks ago.

    He's honestly the first person I think I loved. It was the lack of communication and sexual stuff that we did a lot that damaged the relationship but I feel like I should have done more for the relationship. I just have a lot of regret... I need to talk to him...
    penguinmuncher penguinmuncher 18-21, F Feb 9

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    Girlfriend Says She Wants To Be Alone..

    My girlfriend dumped me yesterday. She texted me from work and said she wants to talk when she gets home. I thought it was about the fights we've been having every so often. I thought we could fix everything. I know that the fights were my fault, I was stressed by a lot of things...
    Kalamalja Kalamalja 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    5 Months Of Lies

    My boyfriend of 4 years and the father of my daughter lied to me these past five months. A week ago I found out he was cheating on me with a co worker since January. Looking through his phone I was able to recover some deleted text and that's how I found out. I was heart broken...
    Penelope113 Penelope113 26-30 2 Responses May 13, 2013

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    Pregnant And Dumped

    So i was with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we where really happy for the longest time and then I got pregnant and he dumped me just as quick as I could get the words out and what hes saying is he wants me to hurt because he didnt want to have a baby and I refuse to have...
    LaLa1987 LaLa1987 22-25, F Dec 17, 2009

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    How would you feel if you got dumped via text

    after over a year together?!?! Not fair!
    Confusedchic44 Confusedchic44 41-45, F 19 Responses Jul 15

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    I mean I know this happens.

    This isn't the first time and it won't be the last, but it hurts. I'm glad to say this break up wasn't my fault. My boyfriend just didn't want to be a boyfriend anymore. He couldn't handle saying good morning and good night every day or the fact I'd worry over or relationship...
    obviouslyariel obviouslyariel 16-17, F Jul 22

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    3 month ago by someone 23 years older

    than me. What's the matter with men? A 55 year old man leaving a 32 yr old woman?... Details coming soon...
    ShantiLove ShantiLove 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I was with my boyfriend 3 years,

    started off amazing.... Got very rocky very soon when i strayed away for an ex.... I regreted it so much and endedup in the hospital over loosing my man due to a stupid mistake. We got back together n it was never the same. Fights everyday . But i loved him. Were toxic together...
    amandajtown1 amandajtown1 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 9

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    Well i had been with her

    for 7 months, and lately we've been fighting over everything. I feel down and my summer is officially ruined. I mean i love her and she still perfect in my eyes, but we couldnt work it out. I think about her everyday and its painful to see her remains in my bedroom. Her notes...
    iHusam iHusam 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    God why does this hurt

    so bad. I've been crying for hours.
    Madi1000 Madi1000 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Lost,confused,and Lonely...why Can't I Just Let Go ?

    Not completely sure where to start but I think that I will start off with My girlfriend also my 2 year old sons mother told me it was over April,4th of 2011. We have been together for 4 years and was going on 5 years. We were engaged to be married and all but about 8 months ago...
    Kthanxbye Kthanxbye 26-30, M 3 Responses May 15, 2011

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    How Do I Move On?

    My ex and i broke up five months ago and its been so hard. he's seeing someone else now over the internet. We moved in together last august and in in january he informed me he was never ready for a big committment. i don't know how to handle everything. I've beenso stressed. I...
    cisa cisa 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2010

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    I just lost my girl friend:( an I'm hurrying

    really bad right now, looking for some comfort๐Ÿ˜”
    hannaB13621 hannaB13621 13-15, F 4 Responses May 3

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    ...for being a virgin.

    He played it off as not "wanting to hurt me" and saying he didn't see us "as a couple at the end of the day". This was also over text message. I would be a lot hurt at the way he did this if we were actually exclusive, but we weren't, so no harm with the method. Still, if he...
    Hameha Hameha 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I was hiding my feeling bout a girl I really

    like one of my friends found out and told her I wanted to ask her out and she said yes when he found me he said guess what I just talked to the girl you like and asked her out for you and I was ready to kill but he said you finally have a girlfriend so we dated for a couple...
    westballer westballer 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    Gone Without a Word After Four Years

    She couldn't even say that she was leaving, let alone why.  She just started crying and said she was miserable.  I don't know why, and, while I have my guesses, I don't think knowing would do me any good.  We'd been looking at rings two years ago, but I think the...
    thatintoyou thatintoyou 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    Stupid And Clueless

    I was dating someone who dumped me 2 other times but I took him back for the 3rd after what seemed like such heart felt thoughtful words and sincere apologies. I thought about it for a month (this january) and decided to try. I am stunned and in shock but of course people...
    dmok dmok 36-40 3 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    Out of the blue said he hasn't loved me

    for a year and doesn't find me attractive any more! Now I'm falling apart ...
    abi87 abi87 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 18

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    had been dating my girlfriend from high school

    for one year. I got to college upstate and she goes to school in Maine but we decided to stay together our freshman year. I am still very much in love with her and now a month before we are going to come home for the summer. she decided she needed space to see if she liked being...
    jimmy1233 jimmy1233 18-21, M Mar 28

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    Ouch!

    The other night, I come home after spending the weekend with my family and my bf has the look, then he says we need to talk, "its not you, its me." Thing. He's unhappy because his mind always assumes that I am cheating, he doesn't want to accuse me of something I am not doing, so...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    dont you love it when someone dumps you

    and your actually fine with it :) women...never rely your whole life on a man!
    georgie29 georgie29 18-21, F a week ago

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    Just Got Dumped By a Married Man

    Well you guessed it I`m feeling pretty bad about right now! Inever thought this could happen to me,why did I believe all the bull, love is over rated!I have not let anybody in my life for 7 yrs.BOOM! when I do I get used, by none the less a freakin married man!now what? I dont...
    onedge39 onedge39 36-40, F 55 Responses Mar 28, 2007

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    I never thought it would happen.

    I thought this one was different than the rest... Now I'm going to be a single mother... I'm utterly heartbroken... And scared.....
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 4 Responses May 27

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    Married For 16 Years......

    I was married for 16 years, moved to a new state with my family, started a new life until I got my then wife a job. She started seeing the boss's son and I found out about it. My now ex-wife then got pregnant. That was the icing on the cake. She moved out a before I could file...
    Cbinzo68 Cbinzo68 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 3, 2013

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    I could write a BIG, BIG rant about this boy,

    but he's not worth the time :D
    chrisisyourfriend chrisisyourfriend 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    Laughter Killed Our Budding Relationship

    Trying to get over a man who lied to me, I started seeing another man. And after a very intense personal experience with him, he dumped me via Instant Messanger. Yesterday. After telling me on Sunday  that he had never met someone like me, and although my laugh...
    bathsheba13 bathsheba13 41-45, F 23 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    I just got dumped by a guy I really loved,

    he didn't understand what I said and he thought I dumped him and then we said bad stuff to each other. I'm still crying
    daniD118 daniD118 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 29

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    I believe I have been dumped.

    ..via Facebook lol and I don't know why. I think he was drunk & emotional. I'll find out soon..
    MsAlize MsAlize 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    The One That I Wanted Didn't Want Me

    I guess this could be worse. My arms could be blown off.  
    Justnotthatintome Justnotthatintome 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2008

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    I Am Happily Married, And, Wha...

    I am happily married, and, whatever happened before that, doesn't really matter. 
    sdanamarie sdanamarie 21-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2007

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    JustLaniece JustLaniece 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    The Mind Set

    It does not matter how many people tell me everything will be okay, how everyone tells me I deserved so much better, or that this was for the best. In the end, you are all alone, with only your crippled heart and aching soul. And only you can save yourself. We had been together...
    watercoloredninja watercoloredninja 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 15, 2009

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    Where have the times gone?

    Baby, it's all wrong Where are the plans we made for two? If happy ever afters did exist I would still be holding you like this All those fairytales are full of SH*T! One more *****ng love song And I'll be sick I really hope I don't post more of these... No promises ;)
    chrisisyourfriend chrisisyourfriend 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I got dumped , never thought "I" would actually

    . I was expecting it but preparing for it is nothing like being in it , the problem is that he was my bestfriend and he knew i had a crush on him and after 8 months of pure friendship he told me he had a crush on me too so it started . Somedays were great sometimes he was a...
    Hana611 Hana611 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I want someone to love me deeply.

    ..and stays forever...however I suppose I will take this time to rebuild myself ...again
    JustLaniece JustLaniece 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Unrequited Love

    I have been friends with D for a long time.  She and I belong to the same social group--we love the group dearly.  She has always had health problems, and I have been there to care for her needs.  I used to take days off using my own vacation time to care for her...
    danimal1960 danimal1960 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2007

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    He Said He Was Unhappy With Himself And Not Me.

    Note: this is long. i know. please bare with me, and hear my story. I got dumped. A two year relationship took an abrupt end. I was busy, since my summer semester at university was ending. Although, I always made sure to make time for him. Yet, things kept coming up on...
    eternity81 eternity81 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2012

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    abi87 abi87 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    Im so mad!!! I really wasn't allowed to date his

    because my mom said I was too young but we did anyway. We are so alike. We listen to the same kind of music, we like the same animes, everything ! Okay ,so he is Christian and went to some summer church camp thing. Apparently another girl asked him out. When he came back...
    Ginnylove Ginnylove 13-15, F Jul 12

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    Fell In Love With A Married Man

    I had a wonderful affair with a married man we were in love we had made plans for us to be together but now he wants to work things out with the wife because he said I put doubt in his mind I always told him if he was having second thoughts to let me know I guess I said that one...
    Istillwanthim Istillwanthim 51-55, F 4 Responses May 18, 2013

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    Feel like poop. I really tried.

    7 months down the drain.. Sad life..
    untitled17 untitled17 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    Over petty ****. Most couples break up cause of

    cheating or lies. He left me because I applied for employment insurance lol wtf. Ohhhhh wellll. His loss
    ADeepPerspective ADeepPerspective 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    ๐Ÿ˜” my boyfriend of 8 months said he wanted a break until school goes back in which is Monday. It's a high chance I could be pregnant by him and he told me he would be there for...
    alymo1 alymo1 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Why do we always go for the jerks?
    chrisisyourfriend chrisisyourfriend 16-17, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think it's quite pathetic how my ex commented on my last post. What are you doing on my profile?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ
    chrisisyourfriend chrisisyourfriend 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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