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I Just Lost My Mom

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    I didn't just lose my mom, it's been 5 years and 4 months, she died on December 3rd, 2004. She'd first gotten cancer in 2001, but it went into recession. Then she got it again, and then again. She had gotten better from cancer in her lymphnodes across her chest and then a few...
    ForgetMeNot24 ForgetMeNot24 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2010

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    It Happened So Fast.

    One day she was fine. then she had the first heart attack. she pulled through and was getting better and stronger. Then came the next smaller attack. They said she needed bypass surgery and scheduled her for it. another bigger attack and back to the hospital 4 days before her...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I Love You Mom. I'Ll Miss You Always.

    I lost my mom on May 5, 2013 around 9 or 10 pm. It was so sudden. She was doing laundry, my fiance and I were in the next room watching TV. Nothing was wrong with her that we thought was serious. She said her leg hurt, but we thought it was a muscle cramp or something to worry...
    caitiebug1119 caitiebug1119 18-21, F 3 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Losing Mom

    Mom is the most amazing person I know. She has lived with me forever. Literally. I'm about to turn 45, and with the exception of 1 year when I moved into my own place, Mom has always lived with me. She came to live with me in '97. Mom has MS and became bedridden. I promised I...
    ItsKimiT ItsKimiT 41-45 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    I Lost My Mum Yesterday.

    Life is so ****** oh my god I'm still in tears. I can't even attend her funeral as I'll be away in 4 months. The funeral is held in 5, but I think this is really hurting my inner workings. It just feels like I don't wanna live but I do. Agh this ******* world.
    Jackedlol Jackedlol 18-21, M Oct 5, 2013

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    Dear Mommy, (poem)

    Dear Mommy, I want to wish you farewell Because as you go to heaven, I’m leaving to hell A life to live, without you by my side Is leaving me feeling cold inside I want to tell you how much you are missed I miss your good morning hugs, your good night kiss Mommy I love...
    anex1496 anex1496 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 11, 2012

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    Love You Mom..

    Hello everyone my name is Maryam I recently lost my mother on dec 14th 2012 ..:( she was my best friend my mother was like no other she was understanding, beautiful ,and the light of my life .... She had been sick for a few months but I was working hard to get her well.. And...
    Maryam1 Maryam1 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    My Friend

    I lost my number 1lady last month to cancer she was and still is by my side getting me through the day. I am speaking about my mother she was my best friend do not me wrong me and father was close also but i could tell my mother anything and do mean anything without being judged...
    kasmitty kasmitty 31-35, M Dec 10, 2012

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    I Lost My Mom

    She was the only family I had.  She died today at 82 years old.  She was born on September 23, 1926 and died today, Monday, September 14th.  I'm reaching out here because I don't really have anyone else.  It happened so suddenly.  She has CoPD and...
    Linda268 Linda268 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    She Is Gone But She Is Still Here.

    Her favorite mug with blue butterflies still sits on the shelf. he favorite sweater with the hole in the elbow is still hanging on the coat rack in the corner. the paint by number picture she pained and framed is still in the hall beside the string art boat she made and framed...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

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    Lost My Mom 1 Month Ago

    Its been almost one month, i lost my dear mom on 26th sep 2013.. She is only 53 and i am 29 yrs now..every morning i wake up and realise the fact that she is no more the feeling is killing me all the time.. I get haunted by the hospital scenes and severe treatment that she has...
    Suji1121 Suji1121 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Still Don't Quite Believe She's Gone

    My mom and I had a complicated relationship. Like many mothers and daughters, things were sometimes strained between us. But there were so many things to admire about her and we both knew we loved each other. One of my best moments ever with my mom was in August, when she was...
    takingabreak takingabreak 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2010

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    1st Mother's Day

    I lost my mom on April 1st, 2011.  It was very sudden, my wife, my father, and i had just visited her in the residential care home the weekend before.  Her mind was slipping but physically she seemed to be improving.   The staff said that the night before she passed she had...
    scrimshaw scrimshaw 41-45, M 1 Response May 8, 2011

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    My mom got sick (or well,

    we found out she was sick) in November 2013. It was completely out of the blue but now I am starting to wonder whether I should have seen the signs. Before she was always saying how she wouldn't want treatment, but when she found out, she said she will fight herself and get all...
    thecorny thecorny 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    Letter To You, Mom

    Put one foot in front of the other, take one step at a time. Take one day at a time & pretty soon a week, a month, & a year will have passed. You'll wonder how you got through it, how you were able to be so strong. Just know you survived. As they say, "what doesn't...
    ChelleBO5 ChelleBO5 24 1 Response Oct 12, 2009

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    I Dont Know How To Deal

    I lost my mom on August 2008:( Its been a little over a year and still hurts like crazy. I keep wondering when I'm going to feel better. This pain that comes with the lose of her is sometimes unbearable. I start having trouble breathing and get flashbacks of this same feeling...
    mekonen mekonen 22-25 1 Response Oct 19, 2009

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    It Doesn'T Feel Real

    I lost my Mom June 15, 2013. She was 66 and it was her 35th wedding anniversary with my Dad. My sister called me around 10:30 PM and said, "Mom isn't doing well, you have to come right now." I drove as fast as I could and realized as soon as I saw her that she wouldn't be...
    icaughtfire31 icaughtfire31 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Still Miss Mom

    I lost my Mom over two years ago to Colon Cancer. I miss her terribly. I wish I had more time with her and that my kids could have had her in their lives longer. I miss the daily phone calls and all of the advice.
    itsBeppy itsBeppy 41-45, F Jan 6, 2013

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    Lost Her 7 Days Ago, Still Cannot Believe It

    I am 17 years old, my mom was 56. We were best friends. In a family of only men, her and I were extremely tight. I had no warning. She went to sleep one night and never woke up. I am in my senior year of high school and do not know how I will manage to send applications and start...
    gmgm7 gmgm7 18-21, F 11 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    If anyone reads my profile,

    they will know how much my Mother meant to me...she saved mine and my brother's lives many times over.. I miss her so much </3 and life will never be the same!!! My Mother was my rock, my best friend, and I have so much guilt in my heart..I'm in pain and I know she wouldn't...
    66me 66me 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    I lost my mom Oct 2013

    and miss her terribly, my heart aches to hear her voice one more time. She was diagnosed with gall bladder cancer and five weeks later passed. There are very few moments in the day that I do not think about her. Most of the time I am okay but out of the blue a song, tv show...
    raindrops99 raindrops99 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    A Brain Aneurysm Took My Mother

    I'm 16 years old and just lost my mother to a brain aneurysm on December 1st. No one knew she had bleeding in her brain. Not even herself. I miss my mom dearly and I didn't even get a chance to say goodbye. She was driving when she had died, I guess the bleeding in her brain had...
    Plasg2012 Plasg2012 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    When I was 5 my mom passed away due to cancer.

    She was the one person in my life who actually meant something to me and someone who treated me like a real human being, who taught me to respect and understand what's right and wrong. She told me that I was destined for greatness, but now all i feel is pain. I want to see her...
    Pain1374 Pain1374 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 12

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    It Doesn'T Go Away

    The pain.....I love u mom. I'm alone in this world and in such pain.
    Extinguish Extinguish 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    My Mom Is Gone

    It's not getting easier, how long will this crying and unhappiness go on for?
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    Precious

    For the last 12 years of her life I lived with My Mum(I'm English). For the 4 years we also lived with my step-dad. I moved in with them when my mum advised she had cancer. She had not sought out medical help at the time, so my job began with me finding her a Physician, which I...
    ACE2010 ACE2010 46-50, M Aug 8, 2013

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    just lost my mom on november 24th.

    it was very sudden, and i just feel like i am so lost without her. i cant seem to face to grieving part. and i need help from other people that know what i am going through.
    marebare91 marebare91 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I Will Always Wonder.....

    Dear Mom, It´s been almost 6 months since you left but you haven´t been out of our minds one single day. We recently visited your favorite town and we felt as if you were with us the whole time. Coming back home was  sad. I really thought I had gotten used to...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    RUBY

    Hello,  My mom was born April 22, 1948 and passed away Sunday, April 19, 2009. She was just a few day shy of her 61 birthday. The night before she passed was my sister Abby, 23 birthday, April 18.  Thursday, April 16, She was fine. In fact she had...
    solizbeserra solizbeserra 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    Still Missing My Mom

    I lost my Mom 9 months ago and I'm still missing her. She was 103 yrs old and died of complications from pneumonia and hospital indifference. She fell three years ago and had bleeding of the brain but they couldn't do the draining because of her age. She became bedridden...
    RosaTropical RosaTropical 66-70, F Feb 12, 2013

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    I just lost my mom to a very short battle to

    stage four breast cancer I love you mommy and miss you🙏💕😞😘.! 1-24-14
    AikoMoe AikoMoe 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    My Mom

    she was the only person i ever trusted now she is gone. my mom died on 12.12.12 at 12:12 am i miss her so much. i hope she loved me. i only new her for half my life. she meant everything to me. she was my best friend. she had the most beautiful smile. she passed out at her house...
    love134 love134 13-15 1 Response Jan 5, 2013

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    My Mom passed jan,26 2014

    so its still pretty fresh... Its hard today especially. My mom raised me for half my life. Then my mom's illness required I took care of her. So we were really close. Today I just couldn't stop thinking of her and how much I miss her. My eyes are tearing as I write this. I feel...
    smokeykiller51 smokeykiller51 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Heartbroken

    My mom Passed away just nine days ago. I feel like my life is over. She lost her battle to colon cancer after 21 months. my mom was just the most loved woman i have ever known. I miss her so so much. My heart aches!!! how do i get threw the day?
    beautymom beautymom 26-30 4 Responses May 25, 2009

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    The First Month Without Her

    My mother passed away on March 17, 2010, exactly a month ago today. And no matter how much I had read about our own mortality and the fact of life that elderly parents usually die before their children do, I haven´t been able to cope and assimilate her loss at the...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 10 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    I Miss My Mom So Much

    I recently lost my mom, she passed away July 3, 2013 at the age of 49. My mom and I was very different we don't always agree to a lot of things, but she loves me very much. My mom was diagnosed with Kidney Failure for 12 years, and on July third she's had enough and it was her...
    Anita07 Anita07 22-25, F Aug 13, 2013

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    My Precious Mama's

    I lost my mama's September 24th, 2013. The dr's said she died of Congestive Heart Failure. I was her care-taker for the last two years when things got really bad. She was 76. I never thought I would ever be without her. And now, here I am. Cold. Alone. No friends. It's funny. For...
    MyPreciousSweets MyPreciousSweets 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    My mom was my best friend.

    She was always there to make me laugh and let me cry about stupid things on her shoulder. By the end of it she would have a solution to my problem and have me laughing. She was and will always be the most amazing role model in my life. I have a good support system of friends...
    EternalAutumn EternalAutumn 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    MOST MOVING VIDEO ON YouTube

    I found this beautiful, moving and inspiring video on YouTube today and I wanted to share it with you. I admire the courage and the strength of this lovely young girl and I want to wish her all the best. She is truly an inspiration to us all. May her mother Rest in Peace.  
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 11 Responses Nov 11, 2011

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    Still A Traumatical Day: The Fourth Of August, 2009 My Mother Died.

    I still do things that she did: especially crossing my arms upon my breast. Without the trauma of loosing my mother because of leukemia I would propably be not a member of fetish-like groups. I would not believe that  the e-mail of a foreigner was her "post-mortal work". I'm...
    weel1909 weel1909 61-65, M 3 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    I Miss Mom

    She passed away on April 13th, after a four-month battle with pancreatic cancer. We had our differences but still  loved each other very much, and I miss her. I'm an only child, which makes it harder, I think. She was 76.
    Frosting Frosting 51-55, F 8 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    IN MEMORIAM

      To my Mother, who passed away on March 17th , 2010.   Uno se cree que las mató el tiempo y la ausencia pero su tren vendió boleto de ida y vuelta, son aquellas pequeñas cosas que nos dejó un tiempo de rosas, en un rincó...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 19 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    May 1st 2014. My mom

    and I were one in the same, the only difference is she was positive and every one wanted to be around her. I will forever miss her smile.
    Beatenrodent Beatenrodent 18-21, F 3 Responses May 5

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    It´s Been Five Months.............

      IT´S BEEN SO LONELY WITHOUT YOU HERE, LIKE A BIRD WITHOUT A SONG. NOTHING CAN STOP THESE LONELY TEARS FROM FALLING. TELL ME, MAMA, WHERE DID I GO WRONG?
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    Never Expected It

    Yesterday, October 16,2013, I was woken up at 4 in the morning buy my dad yelling to call the paramedics. After I called I ran to my parents room to see my mom collapsed on the floor. The paramedics came and tried everything and they took my mom to the hospital and my dad went...
    A071994 A071994 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Lost My Mum To Leukemia

    My Mummy was diagnosed with acute leukemia in July 2010 and died jsut 46 days after diagnosis. She has peacefully gone to be with Jesus. She lived faithfully placing her full trust in Him, and bravely suffered in her last few days. When I last spoke to her a week before she died...
    freemp23 freemp23 51-55, F 9 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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    Lost My Mother, Now My Father Has Moved On And I Can't Deal With It.

    My mother was admitted to the hospital on Father day 2008 on July 3rd she passed away..Yes, 3 weeks..it was all so sudden and I didn't even have time to deal with her being sick let a lone coming to terms with her passing. Since then I have moved states and moved on with my life...
    GemGirl03 GemGirl03 26-30 May 28, 2011

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