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I Just Need To Be Alone Sometimes, It's Always Been That Way

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    Always Will Be

    I don't even understand people that don't need to just get away from everyone and every thing. people are so willing to let other people soak up their misery that they never let it change them and learn from it. give me some good tunes or hell even quiet time and just me.
    letmeusethisname letmeusethisname 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2010

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    I love to spend time by myself sometimes. It allows me time to center myself and to spend time getting to know the real me. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses May 8, 2010

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    The Passing Moment

    This happens when I wanted to let the negative feelings ebb away, I close my door and no one else is allowed to enter into my silent world. I let myself grope in the dark until I get accustomed to it. My "passing moment" happens when I am badly hurt and in so much pain that I...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    I Love Being By Myself Too

    Well, I already work all by myself, but I still enjoy a moment on my own in the evening, to listen to some music, relax, meditate, pray, writing my thoughts down, knitting, being creative, whatever.  It doesn't mean though I would want to live alone while I work all by...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F Jun 1, 2010

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    Since I Was Little

    Whoever I'm with needs to be understanding of this because it is nothing to do with them. Sometimes I need to be alone to think and reflect on things. I find it recharges me. It can bring about positive change. It's good for me and ultimately good for whoever is in my life.
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 3 Responses May 8, 2010

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    Time To Decompress

    I enjoy very much my social life, but sometimes I just need to decompress. However, if it lasts too long, I start feeling lonely and depressed. I start seeing my life as empty and meaningless.
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel 36-40, F Oct 3, 2010

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