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I Just Realized I Have No Life

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    I Have No Life. At All.

    I've become a total shut-in. I live alone. I only go out when I have to buy groceries or go to doctor's appointments. I don't make friends. I avoid my old friends and extended family by telling them I moved to a different country. I'm depressed, I'm an insomniac, and I'm...
    MelodiousWayfarer MelodiousWayfarer 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    Kinda Sad If You Think About It

    i spend most of my existence either working or sitting at my computer following my ep friends around reading stories about their lives. i just realized that the reason i do this is because i don't have hardly any stories of my own to share that i haven't already shared. so...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 12 Responses Mar 3, 2008

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    Against The Grain

    I have actually just realised this. I want to go to parties and have fun like everyone else does and I am allowed to go to them, but I've realised I have no friends to go with. I don't have many friends, I don't know whether it's because of the person I am which is quite nasty...
    Keelie Keelie 66-70, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2009

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    I Feel My Life Has No Meaning

    my life feels like it has no meaning to it i have no job, no love life and no personal life either and i should be happy that i have people who love and care about me but that is not a enough why do i feel this way?
    sassy14567 sassy14567 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2012

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    Just Got Around to Admitting It...

    Have known it for awhile, but kept plugging along.  My commute to work is 2+ hours each way, I work 10-14 hour days, and come home exhausted, but I am proud to be able to support my family. 
    MaMegabyte MaMegabyte 51-55, F Feb 15, 2009

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    Keener

    Keener: (Canadian slang, noun) Individual eager to demonstrate knowledge or participate enthusiastically in school, church, seminars, etc. Like nerd, geek, brown-noser, smartypants, etc. but with more emphasis on willingness and enthusiasm, and less on social inadequacy...
    AngelOfEccentricity AngelOfEccentricity 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    Life Is Better

    my life is gettign better i thought it sucked and i wasnt living it to the full but things are getting better... ... im living it more to the full ive been out and made more friends ... i love being 18 =D
    daydreamer25 daydreamer25 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 11, 2010

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    My Life Suces

    I can't stop sucing....since i got back from suce land all my thoughts are devoted to the suce....I guess i should have not vow to suce but feels like its to late to suce back
    sucer sucer 18-21 Sep 3, 2012

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    What Do U Think

    im young ... i barely have friends .... i have cousins tease me and say how  many friends ....i dont get out much rather than school [my mom doesnt let me out ,i guess she would but i dont have the the balls to tell her ] ... im awkward and weird sometimes and i dont know wat...
    paran0id paran0id 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2011

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    Not Really "Just" Noticing It But..

    I know I have no life.  I like being home for the most part.  I like relaxing on the computer its is my stress relief.  I have other things I enjoy like photography but being single mom makes it difficult to make time for much out of home stuff without having to...
    shuttermagic shuttermagic 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 31, 2008

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    I JUST DON'T FEEL LIKE IT!!!!

    What started out as me taking some me time away from the dating scene to get in touch with the "inner me" has turned out to be 4 years of solitude.  I realize that I have pulled so far away from former friends and individuals that I am completely alone. ...
    1hermit4u 1hermit4u 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2008

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