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I Just Told Someone My Biggest Secret

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 35 People

    I Really Need Advice About This Marriage

    I have been married to my husband for four years...it's coming up for our anniversary on the 24th of Dec.  I would love to say I was happy in my relationship but the truth is that I am miserable and that if we did not have kids together, I think I would have walked years ago...
    Jessiej Jessiej 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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    My Boyfriend

    As a measure to trust him more, I told him my biggest secret: I used to cut myself. I let down my wall for him and let him in. I'm glad I did because he didn't do what people usually do which is slap me in the face by invalidate my feelings and make me feel like a bad person. he...
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F May 4, 2008

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    My Wierd Ability

    Well he loves me and I believe him. I just felt he needed to know before he got anymore attached to me. He might find it scary or something but if he really loves me he has to know every side of me. After he found out he just snuggled me closer and tried to make me feel less...
    shootdownthestars shootdownthestars 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Finally Opening Up

    My uncle is like the father figure in my life. He is always there when I need someone to talk to and he has always supported me no matter what. Today I told him about my self-harm. At first he didn't say anything and I got worried. But then he asked me why I do it. I told him the...
    CaitiCait1570 CaitiCait1570 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2013

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    Well Actually

    i told them yesterday, but it still counts right? just wish that when i did that, i wouldn't receive that blank stare that told me that i could quite possibly be the dumbest person on the face of the planet. heh, maybe i am.
    lostcancerian lostcancerian 31-35, F 4 Responses May 12, 2007

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    I Really Need Advice About This Marriage

    I have been married to my husband for four years...it's coming up for our anniversary on the 24th of Dec.  I would love to say I was happy in my relationship but the truth is that I am miserable and that if we did not have kids together, I think I would have walked years ago...
    Jessiej Jessiej 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2007

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    Hdumpty Hdumpty 46-50, M Apr 5

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    But the truth is some secrets are better kept in the dark. You can't "unlearn" something you've uncovered, so it should be no surprise people like me will painstakingly take...
    Hereforlols Hereforlols 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 29

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    it's not a secret if u tell somone
    luckyzach luckyzach 18-21, M Mar 29

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    Message me with a secret that you have never told anyone!!
    Jessicaliners Jessicaliners 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 2

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    what if the secret is really bad.. I still can't believe what my boyfriend told me recently. mesage me, I need advice :(
    MorganSaysHai00 MorganSaysHai00 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    Hi, I'm a 21 year old medical student living abroad, I was diagnosed with bipolar nearly 3 years ago, and before that I struggled a lot. I let it get quite far before my family...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Biggest mistake one can make is losing yourself in the process of valuing someone too much and forgetting that YOU are special too.
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    MrZenigata MrZenigata 26-30, M Apr 14

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    How do you have a relationship with someone when you have a huge secret and you already messed up badly.. Sigh.... Feeling lost
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