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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 457 People

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    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    I Can't Think of Anything I Want More.

    It's a nice feeling, being held. When somebody is holding you, you feel warm, and safe, and together. You can just be still, and you don't have to think about anything. I think that holding someone is some of the best therapy you can give them. When you are holding someone, they...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 13, 2009

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    Or Not

    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    10 months of ups and downs 3 months of hell

    and 2 years of hitting rock bottom over and over...feeling unhappy and I'm not sure why but I guess it mainly has to do with putting up with everyones problems but not having someone I can lean back on
    xBlossomx xBlossomx 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20, 2014

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    I don't have too many people in my life.

    I have my boyfriend, my mom, and always God, Jesus and my angel/other mother who is in Heaven. When I get upset my boyfriend and mom who is on earth often make me feel like they don't care. They don't ask me what's wrong, they are not sympathetic and with my mom sometimes when I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2014

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    But they never do...

    and I'm upset now... My daughter was supposed to come see me today and her father threw a HUGE fit about her coming to see me and pretty much tricked me into changing it to where now she isn't coming. I got upset but was going to leave it alone until he said, "You should have...
    idontknow1921 idontknow1921 16-17, F Mar 11

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F Jul 11, 2013

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    I grew up supporting others

    when they are upset, but not many times I had to deal with my problems on my own
    mraph12 mraph12 22-25, M Feb 7

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Feel really sad right now

    and I can't pin point exactly why. I just keep crying and feeling like things are not as they should be or something. Sorry if this doesn't make perfect sense. Going to try some exercise to improve my mood. If that doesn't work, tasty food doesn't and the company of family...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 22-25, M Oct 1, 2014

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F Apr 15, 2012

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    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Someone

    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    all what i want is someone understands me !

    do i ask a mircle ... what a suck life :(
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3, 2014

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    I basically just wish I had someone I could talk to all of the time and tell anything to. I guess I just want someone that'll be there for me and someone that I could talk to for...
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    Doesn't everyone want someone they can tell anything too? My husbands ex-wife still tells everything to my husband. I'm ok with that but she was the reason they broke up. Now she...
    UltraRunnerMom UltraRunnerMom 31-35, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want someone who can treat me like a lady not a *** toy I need a guy/girl who can take charge in our relationship but be kind and gental hatred I don't care about age I think age...
    Omglolhaha15 Omglolhaha15 13-15, T 2 Responses May 3

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    I just don't know what to do anymore. Just returned from the psychiatric hospital for depression and anxiety and yet I still feel the same and feel unwanted by everyone. I'm not...
    TheMaskedPoet TheMaskedPoet 16-17, M 1 Response May 8

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    I just want someone to talk to. Anyone? :D
    KoalaWallaWaffles KoalaWallaWaffles 13-15, F 4 Responses May 9

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    Usually a man will feel pity & date a fat chick. Once he realizes her issues are even bigger than her weight he will walk. What self respecting male wants someone to destroy his...
    Thelaughingman34983 Thelaughingman34983 31-35, M 4 Responses May 14

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    I want someone to chat with... I'm here at school and I'm bored to my mind. No work since finals are next week...
    SpaceQueen09 SpaceQueen09 13-15, F 2 Responses May 19

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    I want someone I can trust but the problem is I dint know what I'll share. I'm used to keeping my secrets to myself and only sharing what I want others to know. I'm afraid of being...
    tomh11 tomh11 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I find that lately, a lot of things are expected from me. One of the main things being work. My main problem is a lack of motivation to do anything constructive and the tendency to...
    tesseract49 tesseract49 18-21, T 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I may come off as a cold, bitchy blonde but all I want is someone to take the risk and to give me a giant bear hug. Yes my personality doesn't match this trait, but I DONT CARE. I...
    WishIWasForever WishIWasForever 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want to reach out to someone in person, I want advice and guidance but I'm too scared to reach out incase they reject me. What shall I do? I'm hurting so much and I just need...
    Yasmin567 Yasmin567 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I need some one to hold me and say everything will be alright.I am here with you and for you.
    jannielys14 jannielys14 36-40, F 2 Responses May 24

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    I nedd someone who i can talk and express myself and give me advice! Because i cant hold this anymore!! Please someone!! I will apreciate!! :)
    sneaky95 sneaky95 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    We started out talking, getting to know each other, right off I realized you were not like the others. I have friends I talk to, but again you're different I have let you inside...
    angeleyes4urpleasure angeleyes4urpleasure 41-45, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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