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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

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    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2013

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    I've cried to many times this week

    and no one is here to hold me and comfort me...
    bcamillexoxo bcamillexoxo 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2012

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    Or Not

    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Silence

    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20

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    I am in a loveless marriage .I feel lonely ,rejected and unwanted all the time .I know its wrong but I want someone to chat with .Someone who doesnt mind texting me all day long .I...
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    Okay. It sounds sort of child like when you say "I don't know what I want to be when I grow up" especially when I'm 17. I mean I have a few ideas in my head, but haven't settled on...
    jasminepage jasminepage 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    i want someone to talk to heart this ill message you
    lukew1503 lukew1503 18-21, M Mar 27

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    I'm really lonely and I want someone nice and understanding to talk to
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    I want someone to talk to! It's 2am and I was burnt out and napped at 10pm so now I'm wide awake. No pervs please :)
    ksnaps ksnaps 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want someone to force feeding me 'till i'm pass out cause I'm a pig and i want to expend my stomach 'till i can't stop eating and i'm fattening up just to seen me.
    piggybilly piggybilly 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I notice that a lot of people I talk to on here eventually just stop chatting after awhile some which I actually really enjoy talking too. I just want someone to talk to from time...
    TheFlamingPhoenix TheFlamingPhoenix 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    SaronaOsamaru SaronaOsamaru 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Someone message me!!!! I'm bored to death ;(
    d0ntl00katm3 d0ntl00katm3 13-15, F 1 Response 46 mins ago

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    I wish more people genuinely wanted to talk and or chat and not have it need to be all about sex.
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 6 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I feel like everyone who I ever trusted or people who love me just leave me... My parents, friends, my ex partner and dad to my children cheated. I just want to feel loved.. Who...
    jjw123 jjw123 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    It's just one of those nights when I want to just lay down and be held. It's comforting to have someone there, knowing they'll be there when you wake up.
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F Mar 23

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    That would be nice, eh? Then the few people who give a shitt about my existence wouldn't blame themselves. But sadly, it's not that easy. If I want out, I'm going to have to grow a...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I hate how much I think about him. I hate the passion we have to secretly steal. I know he will never be mine. I know, or I think I know, that it's a silly little game. I hate the...
    hope4myfuture hope4myfuture 22-25, F Mar 19

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    I have often thought of killing my self but like a lot of other people just can't do it. I don't deserve to live. I have done things that I will not even post on this site. I...
    Vjmade Vjmade 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I have to pee so unbelievably badly right now, it's ridiculous. I'm sitting in bed - naked! - and the bathroom is right there, but this is fun. It's only fun though if I can chat...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 5

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    We met when i was 16 and he was 17. Dated for 3 yrs and got married right after i graduated high school. During my last year in HS he joined the military. we stayed together and...
    PerdidaPorEl PerdidaPorEl 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Gonna try holding my pee who's joining
    idkifnormal idkifnormal 13-15, F 11 Responses Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
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    I want it so bad I just feel like idk what ill do if I dont find love. I look and I look yet its nowhere to be found. just when I think im at least near something that could become...
    hallowedwillow hallowedwillow 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 19

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    I've never really tried or paid any attention to guys until this past year when one of my relatives asked me why I was still single... I had no answer besides that I was busy with...
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