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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 370 People

    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I don't have too many people in my life.

    I have my boyfriend, my mom, and always God, Jesus and my angel/other mother who is in Heaven. When I get upset my boyfriend and mom who is on earth often make me feel like they don't care. They don't ask me what's wrong, they are not sympathetic and with my mom sometimes when I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I Can't Think of Anything I Want More.

    It's a nice feeling, being held. When somebody is holding you, you feel warm, and safe, and together. You can just be still, and you don't have to think about anything. I think that holding someone is some of the best therapy you can give them. When you are holding someone, they...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 13, 2009

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F Apr 15, 2012

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    Silence

    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Or Not

    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    all what i want is someone understands me !

    do i ask a mircle ... what a suck life :(
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20

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    Someone

    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    Feel really sad right now

    and I can't pin point exactly why. I just keep crying and feeling like things are not as they should be or something. Sorry if this doesn't make perfect sense. Going to try some exercise to improve my mood. If that doesn't work, tasty food doesn't and the company of family...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 22-25, M Oct 1

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    AGG! I'm sitting at home

    while my boyfriend is out with two random girls he conveniently forgot to mention until the end of our phone call !!! Yes, I realize I am being jealous but tomorrow is our 5 months and he is upsetting me so much :( Am I being stupid ??
    Meagan21 Meagan21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F Jul 11, 2013

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I often think that life would be so much better if i had that "go to person" if i had someone to smile at, wake up next too each morning, hold hands with while crossing the street...
    MichellexxLevine314 MichellexxLevine314 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    I enjoy loving . I enjoy caring about someone else . I enjoy worrying about them . I enjoy pleasuring them . I want someone who I can fall hopelessly in love with . Someone I will...
    prettypink72 prettypink72 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    I want someone to care and listen to me, whole heartedly. I want someone thatll check in on me every once in a while and make me feel like im at least cared for. My friends...
    PCOSstrength PCOSstrength 16-17, F Nov 28

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    I want someone who likes me through my quirks and weirdness.. I want someone who doesn't so much as add stress to my life.. But takes it away.. Someone I can call here and there...
    codyvilla99 codyvilla99 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 18

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    She looks at her self in the mirror...looking at the person looking back, once a friend now a stranger. "What happened to you, where did you go?" she asks the person in the mirror...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    i want someone to talk to me im alone,can please someone talk to me i want to share lot's and lot's of things.So please msg me and feel free to talk,i dont mind if you share your...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 28

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    I always wanted someone to care about me , I give them all the attention and loving I have but they just throw it away like garbage , for once I want someone to care about me the...
    romero1719 romero1719 13-15, M Dec 1

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    I want someone to talk to 24/7 just as if he/she was my bestfriend. Someone who would actually understand me without having to criticize me for the **** ive done. Someone who would...
    rayooda rayooda 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I just want someone that can relate to me and not waste time with small talk. I don't want sad faces and pity, I just want someone who understand and listens
    bexk bexk 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 10

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    I just want someone I can tell everything to, someone who will really care about me and what I have to say. I hate keeping everything inside!
    courtalicious courtalicious 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    I feel like it's not a hard thing to ask for. I want someone to want me and not want to let me go.
    moshinocherryxx moshinocherryxx 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 2

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    God I want to discover the world so bad. I just want someone to be there with me :/
    thisISalessa thisISalessa 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    oh god please talk to me, im tired if wanting to talk to her, yeah i knoe pathetic, but ive practically been avoiding, and lately ive wanted nothing more than to just talk to her...
    Idioticnerd Idioticnerd 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I'm very up and down. Just everywhere really I try to trick my self in to being up. It doesn't happen as i would like it. Nothing goes along the lines i would like them to be set...
    firebird3142 firebird3142 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 30

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    I want someone to take a hose and fill me up with water I wanna be full and ready to pop
    Rmey1801 Rmey1801 13-15, M Dec 8

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    I am so bored and I want someone to talk to and be friends with ☺️
    relapsing14 relapsing14 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 11

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    i want someone i can tell anything too a mum would be good
    14Chelsea 14Chelsea 16-17, M 9 Responses Dec 14

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    Yes, and get to know each other, have phone calls. Just wanting someone I can rely on! Never really had anyone like that.
    Dagymislife Dagymislife 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 15

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    I can't sleep... I want someone to talk with, specially if it's some I can relate to. Feel free to message me :) Nothing sexual please.
    Anmi93 Anmi93 18-21, F a week ago

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    I love talking with people. I want someone to talk to everyday.
    Seth1904 Seth1904 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    Love is not easy. Real people have real problems. Without fairy godmothers or elves or dwarves to help. Challenges appear and they do not magically disappear. It is hard to have...
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 4 Responses 59 mins ago

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    I hope I can make a real friend who will never quit. The friend I had completely shut me out when she got a boyfriend yet we were friends for all I could remember and we used to...
    optimisticgal optimisticgal 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Hey guys, just wanting to talk to someone else, mssg me.
    jimbarrybendoy jimbarrybendoy 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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