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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

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    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    Someone

    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    Silence

    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F Apr 15, 2012

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    AGG! I'm sitting at home

    while my boyfriend is out with two random girls he conveniently forgot to mention until the end of our phone call !!! Yes, I realize I am being jealous but tomorrow is our 5 months and he is upsetting me so much :( Am I being stupid ??
    Meagan21 Meagan21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    I Can't Think of Anything I Want More.

    It's a nice feeling, being held. When somebody is holding you, you feel warm, and safe, and together. You can just be still, and you don't have to think about anything. I think that holding someone is some of the best therapy you can give them. When you are holding someone, they...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 13, 2009

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F Jul 11, 2013

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    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    all what i want is someone understands me !

    do i ask a mircle ... what a suck life :(
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I want be loved by someone... I want someone to hold my hand, play with my hair and cuddle me whenever they feel like it. I try and act as though it doesn't bother me but the truth...
    InMybubble InMybubble 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 26

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    ok its 10am for me right now and i want someone to make a holding plan for me today and chat throughout it but it has to end by 4pm let me know if your interested in making me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Sep 14

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    i want someone that i can tell everything to; and have them tell everything to me and just have a relationship of trust and knowledge of each other and each other's lives. i used...
    sarahellie9088 sarahellie9088 16-17, F 9 Responses Aug 27

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    I was talking to someone on here about living in a sexless marraige, as I have many times since I joined, but wow I have never felt like this about anyone. I have been in this...
    forensicfox forensicfox 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm just dying inside I have started a new job and i fell in love with my boss he is so cute and his smile is contagious since the first day I met him I can't stop thinking about...
    lostinthisword lostinthisword 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 13

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    I want a real friend that is true to me all the time. I get along with just about anyone but I don't have any close friends anymore. I don't have anyone that I can just be open...
    fishin4eyes fishin4eyes 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 26

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    i admit a have some trust issues but that doesn't mean i dont want everyone getting the hell away from me. i need someone to talk to even though i usually am the one who listens...
    Ryel004F Ryel004F 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 28

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    I want someone to take care of me. I have a bad back and mental illness and I'm tired of being alone. I would give anything for a kind man to take me in and care for me. I feel...
    SorrowofHeart SorrowofHeart 51-55, F 2 days ago

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    I like the idea/concept of having someone you can tell anything too without having to lie, embellish, be ashamed or embarrassed. I've met some great people on here but still feel...
    ItalianEnzo ItalianEnzo 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I only have two friends in school, and that's pretty much all they are- high school friends. I just really want someone to talk to that doesn't want anything else than to just have...
    SunshineButterfly SunshineButterfly 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I want to have kids and i have been trying for years. Its not failing due to problems with me it due to the lack of a man. Im now 27 and i have nothing but baby on the brain . Im...
    ravenrose13 ravenrose13 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 2

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    Someone new hmu :) I'm bored and want someone to talk with once again preferably ages 15-19 thanks!
    purple567 purple567 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I don't want to sound whiny, but I probably will. In fact, if you hate listening to people whine (I don't blame you if you do) than you shouldn't read this post. I'm in high...
    Angrybread Angrybread 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 3

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    I want someone to tell anything to without getting judged. Boy or girl, it doesn't matter. Please message me someone..? ):
    NeedForBones NeedForBones 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    I'm soo bored and my bf is off doing something and I want someone to talk to. . . Will someone talk to me
    Aroura666 Aroura666 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 14

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    Don't we all want someone to love and be loved in return? ;-----; but I'm only 15 so I can't really complain. Haha
    creepypastafan creepypastafan 13-15, F Aug 25

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    i want someone to chat with....i am 17 years old guy.....i never had a girl friend....because...i am little diffferent i think so.......but now...it doesnt matters much....but yeah...
    aryan1997 aryan1997 16-17, M Aug 27

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    i posted before about how my brother and i are being abused by our oldest brother... i wanted someone to talk to but everyone told me to go to the police... while he was out today...
    ana097 ana097 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    I Jstt Wantt Someoneee To Understandd Howw I Feel 😭
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I just want someone to pretend sincerely enough that they give a damn about me
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I want someone to care and understand and like me for me
    beth321123 beth321123 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 27

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    I am alone and have no one to talk to. Is there anyone out there who wants someone to talk to? I'm here.
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I want someone to cuddle with me and call me shnookums and talk to be about whatever comes to their mind
    maurylight maurylight 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 29

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    Im laying in bed and wanting someone to send me a dirty message.
    Shh84 Shh84 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    I'm vegetarian but I want someone to tell me how much to eat and what to eat each day...
    need2Bcontrolled83 need2Bcontrolled83 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    in this earth xcept my meaningless family i have no one who loves me i want someone who will care for me :(
    immax immax 22-25 Sep 1

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    I want someone who actually listens.
    itsmenhiceee itsmenhiceee 18-21, F 12 Responses