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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 363 People

    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    Feel really sad right now

    and I can't pin point exactly why. I just keep crying and feeling like things are not as they should be or something. Sorry if this doesn't make perfect sense. Going to try some exercise to improve my mood. If that doesn't work, tasty food doesn't and the company of family...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 22-25, M Oct 1

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F Apr 15, 2012

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    all what i want is someone understands me !

    do i ask a mircle ... what a suck life :(
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    AGG! I'm sitting at home

    while my boyfriend is out with two random girls he conveniently forgot to mention until the end of our phone call !!! Yes, I realize I am being jealous but tomorrow is our 5 months and he is upsetting me so much :( Am I being stupid ??
    Meagan21 Meagan21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Or Not

    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    I Can't Think of Anything I Want More.

    It's a nice feeling, being held. When somebody is holding you, you feel warm, and safe, and together. You can just be still, and you don't have to think about anything. I think that holding someone is some of the best therapy you can give them. When you are holding someone, they...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 13, 2009

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    I don't have too many people in my life.

    I have my boyfriend, my mom, and always God, Jesus and my angel/other mother who is in Heaven. When I get upset my boyfriend and mom who is on earth often make me feel like they don't care. They don't ask me what's wrong, they are not sympathetic and with my mom sometimes when I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F Jul 11, 2013

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Someone

    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Silence

    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I tired of feeling alone. I want someone I can trust and tell everything to. Someone that will hold me when I'm upset. Never thought it was so hard. Especially at my age.
    NightChanges1D NightChanges1D 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    I want someone to be afraid of losing me. I want someone to actually put in all of their effort. Make me feel special. I want someone I can trust. I want someone who knows exactly...
    PosterGirl PosterGirl 31-35, F 9 Responses Nov 5

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    I have never came across a guy who loved me. I just don't understand why guys can't hold a decent appropriate conversation. I just want someone to kiss me and tell me I'm not half...
    Siciliansdoitbetter Siciliansdoitbetter 16-17, F 8 Responses Oct 28

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    I just want someone to cry to, I want someone to love me, give me a childhood and a life that I never got. I feel ripped apart and broken inside that nothing good is ever going to...
    ExPButterfly ExPButterfly 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I want someone to talk to who wants to both hear and be heard. I want to create a conversational friend that bubbles forth topics that get my mind to racing. I want to be theri...
    NewReasoning NewReasoning 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 12

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    I want someone so bad who can listen to me and give advice. I want someone who won't criticize me
    danyjiad danyjiad 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 26

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    Today again watched movie 'The cast away'. I have watched it many times, but still it makes me feel cry and also happy for this great actor. His emotions and gestures are truly...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 31

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    I want someone to listen to me and understand where I'm coming from. I don't like being judged considering I'm always being let down or made fun of. I want someone to listen to...
    mysteriousluna mysteriousluna 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I lost my best friends this year and I really haven't recovered yet. But I want to be there for other people and I want someone to be here for me. I'm always here to talk and I...
    emptyskyfalling emptyskyfalling 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    I want someone I can tell anything to and they will be there for me but I also want them to be able to tell me anything so I can be there for them
    mattvoza mattvoza 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 29

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    I want someone who wants to hear my thoughts and idea. Can and wants to spend days talking about stories of our life that made us happy,sad, and mad.
    mzlonelyworld mzlonelyworld 22-25 1 Response Nov 6

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    I really want someone like that... It would be amazing to have someone like that... ?? ?? ??
    thelittlemermaid16 thelittlemermaid16 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    Want someone I can chat about pretty much anything about. I like Anime, Manga, reading, playjng video games and more. I am NOT single and I am not interested in a fling, booty...
    Amami Amami 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I want someone who I can text and get to know and tell anything to.. Seems kind of hard to find.
    imacoolguy14 imacoolguy14 16-17, M 4 Responses Oct 28

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    I want someone to take care of me
    sadiegirl347 sadiegirl347 18-21, F Oct 29

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    I want someone I can tell anything to
    Chloe158 Chloe158 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 30

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    I want someone to love...preferably female
    whatsname whatsname 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 30

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    I want someone with will understand me, be my friend and be honest with me forever.. Is it so much to ask for?
    alexusk21 alexusk21 13-15, F 9 Responses Nov 11

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    I guess I want someone to hear me and understand me. And even if they do not understand, they still accept. They accept every devastating flaw, every heartbreaking secret and they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I want someone that I can talk to and text every day females only!
    outgoing11 outgoing11 46-50, M a week ago

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    I want someone I can tell anything to whether it be a good or bad day or like if I just heard the most random-est joke ever and just had to call you to be like "hey I had to share...
    sayuriii sayuriii 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    here lies the paradox. i want someone to really know me but i will never trust enough to allow myself to be vulnerable enough for this to happen.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ii Reallii Want Someone Who Can Understand Me.. A Bestie ? Anyone ?
    PrincessTiia PrincessTiia 13-15, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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