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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 363 People

    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I don't have too many people in my life.

    I have my boyfriend, my mom, and always God, Jesus and my angel/other mother who is in Heaven. When I get upset my boyfriend and mom who is on earth often make me feel like they don't care. They don't ask me what's wrong, they are not sympathetic and with my mom sometimes when I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    Someone

    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    Or Not

    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Silence

    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    Feel really sad right now

    and I can't pin point exactly why. I just keep crying and feeling like things are not as they should be or something. Sorry if this doesn't make perfect sense. Going to try some exercise to improve my mood. If that doesn't work, tasty food doesn't and the company of family...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 22-25, M Oct 1

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    all what i want is someone understands me !

    do i ask a mircle ... what a suck life :(
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F Apr 15, 2012

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    I Can't Think of Anything I Want More.

    It's a nice feeling, being held. When somebody is holding you, you feel warm, and safe, and together. You can just be still, and you don't have to think about anything. I think that holding someone is some of the best therapy you can give them. When you are holding someone, they...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 13, 2009

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F Jul 11, 2013

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    AGG! I'm sitting at home

    while my boyfriend is out with two random girls he conveniently forgot to mention until the end of our phone call !!! Yes, I realize I am being jealous but tomorrow is our 5 months and he is upsetting me so much :( Am I being stupid ??
    Meagan21 Meagan21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I'm a girl and younger than what my age says haha, someone please message me and be my bladder master? I want someone to help me hold for a looooong time. I love holding and I am...
    Diva1289 Diva1289 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 4

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    I have days, or moments where all I want to do is talk to someone. I haven't had a relationship in awhile, and I don't want to be in one because of where I'm at in my life. It'd be...
    LilBoyBluu LilBoyBluu 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want to hold your hand. I want to reach down without looking and feel your hand meet mine in our perfect embrace that we have had since the first time 9 years ago. I want to...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M Oct 3

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    I want someone to be there for me when I'm feeling sad, I want someone to pick me up when I fall down, I want someone to make me laugh when I cry.
    HazelEyes01 HazelEyes01 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Who wants to hold it for me? Message me :)
    Bursting101 Bursting101 18-21, M Oct 11

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    I want someone who I can tell anything. Preferably female. So far the people I've met just want to flirt or kiss me or something. I'd like someone who I can talk to about random...
    Maizie217 Maizie217 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 26

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    So lately I've been prescribed anti-depressants, I have to go to CBT, counselling and a specialist team every week because I'm 'of danger to myself'. I know I don't have it worse...
    TheGeeee TheGeeee 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 27

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    I really want someone I can tell everything and I can trust and who will actually care about me and stuff I am tired of being being fake and saying they care and don't and then...
    meredithcher meredithcher 16-17, F 8 Responses Oct 4

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    I have strabismus eye condition i want someone who.had a goodheart that sponsor my eye surgery many times i bullied before and until so sad to feel this feeling that some people...
    jayn12 jayn12 18-21, F Oct 5

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    I want someone to slowly get me addicted to eating more and more food. I'll slowly put on weight and not notice. Then when I do notice I'm too helplessly addicted to food to do...
    fatgenie fatgenie 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    I want to meet someone who understands what it feels like to be living a "good" life so to speak (middle class I guess) despite having lived through poverty, family drug abuse...
    brockblack brockblack 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 8

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    In this life, I haven't had many, and lost all of them anyway. I want someone especially right now, in the crossroads of my life, to support me and hear me out, when everyone else...
    laneyminnie laneyminnie 18-21 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just want someone I can talk to. someone I tell anything, without them judging me. I need someone to be my diary.
    kissmykicks kissmykicks 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    For some reason I can't seem to find a single person on earth that likes me. I mean yes I am a nerd, I get good grades, play pokemon, D&d, video games, and even watch anime, but...
    shadowdancer47 shadowdancer47 16-17, F 38 Responses Sep 24

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    I want someone that I can stay up all night talking about everything. I wanna be able to tell you everything and no longer have to hide. I want to be able to say what I want and...
    JustMe0923 JustMe0923 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Hi, I am new to ep and just want someone to talk to really. I am a teen girl with regular interests. Send me a message if you want. 👌
    Leeaaah Leeaaah 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 12

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    I just want someone to talk to. Someone who will talk throughout the day.. And about anything. Except no sexy talk. Preferably around the same age-I'm 23.
    jmas22 jmas22 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    A lot has happened to me in the past and I don't really have a lot of friends, I just want someone with a good sense of humour and a great personality to talk to openly without...
    Vienna488 Vienna488 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I feel so stressed right now and my friends and family don't seem to understand me or sometimes I feel they get tired of me talking about the same thing over and over again. I want...
    aleks6 aleks6 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I want someone to be 100 myself with so secrets no harsh judgement it would be nice. THEN only then would I have a true BEST friend. So, for now Ill tell all here. one. I LONG to...
    DarkgoddessLee DarkgoddessLee 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 6

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    I know there are people I COULD tell everything to, but I want someone I feel comfortable telling everything to. My friends and I are changing into different people, they don't...
    noavailablenames noavailablenames 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 9

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    I want someone to talk with. I will talk to anyone. Feel free to message :).
    apoorvgoyal apoorvgoyal 13-15, M Oct 11

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    I feel so out it of it and I want someone new for once, a stranger.
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Oct 12

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    I want someone to love me a bf
    yourbeautifulValerie yourbeautifulValerie 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15