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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

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    AGG! I'm sitting at home

    while my boyfriend is out with two random girls he conveniently forgot to mention until the end of our phone call !!! Yes, I realize I am being jealous but tomorrow is our 5 months and he is upsetting me so much :( Am I being stupid ??
    Meagan21 Meagan21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    I Can't Think of Anything I Want More.

    It's a nice feeling, being held. When somebody is holding you, you feel warm, and safe, and together. You can just be still, and you don't have to think about anything. I think that holding someone is some of the best therapy you can give them. When you are holding someone, they...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 13, 2009

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    Or Not

    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2012

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    all what i want is someone understands me !

    do i ask a mircle ... what a suck life :(
    Manoooooooooo Manoooooooooo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    Someone

    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    Silence

    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F Jul 11, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Probably wetting and holding soon. Anyone want to hold with me :) message or reply
    Delta465 Delta465 16-17, M Jul 20

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    I just want to hold and be held by a woman. To be loved, cared for, you name it. And, sadly, I'm 47. My time is running out. Not due to life threatening illness ; just getting...
    BuckeyeNut1967 BuckeyeNut1967 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I need to pee and want to hold it and talk about
    Peedripping2 Peedripping2 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I want someone to tell me that I am beautiful (and mean it) when they see my keloids all over my chest. I want someone to tell me that everything is going to be okay. I want...
    shasharokuhs shasharokuhs 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    As the title says, i'm 14, gay in the UK and I want a relationship. I don't mind if it's long distance. I'm not out but when I find someone will definitely be! I'm not skinny nor...
    willwill1234 willwill1234 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I only have one close friend, but I can't talk to her about some things.. I really just want someone who will be there for me any time and comfort me when I wake up at nighg...
    kaiele kaiele 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I just want someone I can depend on and trust. I have a family and I have acquaintances, but no once I can trust, and no one who would want to listen. I talk to people about their...
    beautyfromthis beautyfromthis 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    When I was seven my dad met another woman and had a child. He cheated on my mom, most importantly he cheated on me. That was seven years ago. He just called me and told me that my...
    amanda1919 amanda1919 13-15, F 12 Responses 2 days ago

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    In this case, it's a dog. I want a puppy. A female Border Collie mix. I want to train and spend time with an adorable little bundle of fur and devoted love. I want to have dirty...
    LEMONkinks LEMONkinks 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    How is it that people on here say they want someone to chat with then when you try to send them a message it says they don't except messages from people not in their circle? Doesn...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I need a girl that I can actually trust , someone who won't judge me & someone who will actually just want to be there for me . Idk , I've had close friends before but in the end...
    Ericaaaaaa Ericaaaaaa 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm not really that friendly. I don't have friends in school when I was young and I don't speak much. I'm always shy for no reason. It's getting boring, and now I think I want...
    DreamerX01 DreamerX01 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I have friends, even very very close friends to be exact. But it's confusing because my mouth wont spit out the deep thoughts I want to share. I share a lot of stories, experiences...
    sukkiteiinayo sukkiteiinayo 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Some people treat me like i don't know what I'm saying. I want someone who will not contradict my opinions and suggestions and for someone to tell me i am right and am doing the...
    ImaSheila ImaSheila 31-35, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I thought that my significant other was the person i could tell anything to, but it seems like he's just like the rest. I just want someone who would listen to me and be there for...
    mskaylee24 mskaylee24 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want someone that I can talk to that isn't gonna sit there and be a perv or be an *** to me I want someone that I can talk to about everything and anything and just see where it...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Being loved for who you are is hard now days . People think it's all about having a big butt big boobs and a perfect belly , that's not true . A real person would love someone for...
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I am alone. I have my parents, my siblings, my friends, but I still feel empty. I don't know how to describe it. I felt love once- if one could believe a girl so young could...
    GemmaWeasley GemmaWeasley 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    i really want someone i can tell him or her anything i want :( i dont want be lonely being a lonely is sucks 💔
    darkenss darkenss 18-21, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    i want someone to come along and not give up on me because i push them away the first time i want someone to prove to me that im not along
    Eclipse953 Eclipse953 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    just want someone fresh to talk to
    TaylorsierraWilson TaylorsierraWilson 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    Anyone there? I'm going to sleep in half a hour (or less) and I want someone to talk to in the meantime. Please, message me! :)
    Ary33713 Ary33713 13-15, F Jul 3

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    I just want someone to chat with,or become friends with....please inbox if interested :)
    Lydiatjie Lydiatjie 13-15, F Jul 5

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    I just want someone to chat with,or become friends with....please inbox if interested :)
    Lydiatjie Lydiatjie 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I really reallllyyy want someone to come play with me...
    raelynnCD raelynnCD 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 6

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    I want someone to chat with about any darn ole thing!!!! iM BORED
    oldyella33 oldyella33 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I Want Someone To Kill Me.. After contemplating suicide for several years now and being unable