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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 375 People

    I Can't Think of Anything I Want More.

    It's a nice feeling, being held. When somebody is holding you, you feel warm, and safe, and together. You can just be still, and you don't have to think about anything. I think that holding someone is some of the best therapy you can give them. When you are holding someone, they...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 13, 2009

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3, 2014

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    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    AGG! I'm sitting at home

    while my boyfriend is out with two random girls he conveniently forgot to mention until the end of our phone call !!! Yes, I realize I am being jealous but tomorrow is our 5 months and he is upsetting me so much :( Am I being stupid ??
    Meagan21 Meagan21 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F Jul 11, 2013

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    Someone

    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    all what i want is someone understands me !

    do i ask a mircle ... what a suck life :(
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F Apr 15, 2012

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    Or Not

    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    I don't have too many people in my life.

    I have my boyfriend, my mom, and always God, Jesus and my angel/other mother who is in Heaven. When I get upset my boyfriend and mom who is on earth often make me feel like they don't care. They don't ask me what's wrong, they are not sympathetic and with my mom sometimes when I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2014

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20, 2014

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    Silence

    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    Feel really sad right now

    and I can't pin point exactly why. I just keep crying and feeling like things are not as they should be or something. Sorry if this doesn't make perfect sense. Going to try some exercise to improve my mood. If that doesn't work, tasty food doesn't and the company of family...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 22-25, M Oct 1, 2014

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    I just want someone to love me for who I am completely with no hesitation. Someone that makes me there whole world. Someone that cares about me and always knows how to make me feel...
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    Of course I want someone I could tell anything to. But the more I think about, the more difficult it is for me to believe that it is actually possible. I sometimes feel like there...
    booky1234 booky1234 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want someone to love me as a person. I'm very beautiful and attractive and it's hard to find someone who will love me. I want that special someone to love me as I am.
    winnie19 winnie19 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    I always want someone to tell me "I Love You." I always hear guys tell me I love you whom I've never met. I always hear the words " I Love You" from my parents. I really would like...
    winnie19 winnie19 41-45, F Jan 5

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    Sometimes I just want someone to talk to. Someone who I don't know that is open minded. I don't really care what is talked about. Anything will do. I love listening to what...
    4Rae 4Rae 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    I want someone who cares about what I have to say. I want someone I can tell everything without feeling judged.
    MagicEyes95 MagicEyes95 18-21, F 14 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want someone I can talk too whom I can trust cause I have been cheated on and hurt n I'm finding it hard trust someone again but hope there will be someone whose is there far me
    harpsingh harpsingh 26-30, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am desperate. I see no reason to live. I don't care what happens to me anymore. I just want someone to kill me. I don't care how it is done or who does it. I don't care if I am...
    BloomBabyBloom BloomBabyBloom 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    lol I want someone cool, chill, funny, understandable, honest, and sweet 💕
    Legendgirl112 Legendgirl112 16-17, F 11 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    bored... just want someone to chat or rp..
    domman469 domman469 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    please inbox me.I have nothing to do and I! want someone to talk to
    thegirlenemie thegirlenemie 13-15, F Jan 3

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    I just want someone I can talk to without being judged
    Yoloswag2211 Yoloswag2211 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 3

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    I want someone that belongs with me so bad < 3
    rosejonescr rosejonescr 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Im a little crazy, but I want someone to love me the way I am.
    rosejonescr rosejonescr 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I just moved a ways from my hometown and I feel like I'm alone. I don't know anyone here and I haven't made any friends yet. I just want someone I can trust.
    katcantdance katcantdance 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I want someone whom I can share those moments and those secrets which I want to tell world ....
    saurabh1993 saurabh1993 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    like a friend, gender doesn't matter. preferably 13+ ... though. I miss talking with my friends, who've turned into really horrible people now. some of my friends forgotten about...
    clol5sos clol5sos 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 8

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    I just want someone like a close friend but i have'nt found anyone from Pakistan here on this site.. Everyone's from US, UK, Canada, Australia etc..
    MrImperfect MrImperfect 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    I want someone I can talk about my boyfriend and cousin about. I have people to talk about certain things about but not real anything serious I can't tell my boyfriend about my...
    cutedimplesxx cutedimplesxx 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 11

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    Honestly, at this point I don't care. I just want someone 13-17..
    Hiiamawhovian Hiiamawhovian 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 15