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I Just Want Someone to Hold Me When I Am Upset

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    If im very upset and crying my eyes out all I want is someone to hold me tight and let me know that they are here for me. I dont want advice or someone saying the same lines over and over again. I just want to feel loved and protected. I want arms around me and my head buried...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    "How Many Times?"

     I don't know how many times I have locked myself in my room, with my own arms wrapped across the front of me, crying, and rocking and wishing with all my heart that I had someone to hold me close, to feel like somebody in this world loved me.   If you...
    nightowlinak nightowlinak 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    my love of my life just left me 3 years

    for nothing it all started when one of my friends well i thought she was one and i let her meet him then they talk and talked and i just grin and inside im like omg when will i get to talk but then when we got to school my love says hey to me and just kept walking then she went...
    treiceleigh treiceleigh 70+, F Mar 20, 2014

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    I Hide My Emotions......sometimes

    I tend to hide my emotions sometimes. I show signs of stress and being overwhelmed, but I don't like to show that I am sad or confused or lost. I feel the reason for this is because no one really cares about my feelings, so i just don't bother to express so I just suppress them...
    Sparkle1992 Sparkle1992 18-21, F Apr 15, 2012

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    Cant Stop Crying

    Ok..so I just want to get this out so I can move on. I just turned 13. My dad is an alcholic and physically abused me when I was younger. My parents are divorced. My older brother is suicidal and a stoner. I have gotten amazing grades all my life, now a days though im happy if I...
    IsEveryUsernameTaken IsEveryUsernameTaken 13-15 2 Responses May 12, 2012

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    But they never do...

    and I'm upset now... My daughter was supposed to come see me today and her father threw a HUGE fit about her coming to see me and pretty much tricked me into changing it to where now she isn't coming. I got upset but was going to leave it alone until he said, "You should have...
    idontknow1921 idontknow1921 16-17, F Mar 11

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    all what i want is someone understands me !

    do i ask a mircle ... what a suck life :(
    Noonejustasoul Noonejustasoul 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2014

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    Or Not

    It depends on what kind of upset we're talking about, recently I was really depressed about an abundance of bad happening in a short amount of time, I wanted someone then. On the other hand if I'm upset in an angry sort of way, then it is probably better for me to just be left...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 1 Response Nov 19, 2008

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    I Believe........

    This has got to be the worse thing about being single. Not having someone to hold you when you're afraid or feel like the whole world is against you. :( That's what I miss most anyway.......
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    Mr Perfect That Is

    I have never had a man to run to be rescued.... but for Werner... yeh it would be nice to be important to a handsome man... for once in my life!
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 11, 2011

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    Please....

    just hold me, and if I try to push you away, don't let me, just hold me in your arms, and wipe the tears away, and tell me that you Love me, and that you are not going to let me go. I need to be held so bad sometimes when I am upset, and today really is one of those days, that I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 24, 2010

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    Never Let Go !

     When I am upset I would like for someone to hold me. I want to feel safe secure and loved.   Especially when I am upset...
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 26 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    What Is Trust?

    I'm tired physically and mentally. I drag myself to go on with life. Though, what do I have to live for? As I continue to ask myself that question the answer becomes more blurry each time. I have not had one person in my life that has not betrayed me. I know I'm not the only one...
    youllneverknow06 youllneverknow06 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    So I Don't Feel So Alone

    We broke up four weeks ago. He is the only person in this city that really knows me; everyone else is a plane ride away. When things get to me, all I want is someone who knows the real me, who's actually here in the same state, to be here and hold me so that I don't feel so alone...
    Lostat31 Lostat31 31-35 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Bitter...

    I am so angry @ you... You the only one who could effect me so... You who are meant to be my pillar of strength... YOU! I wish I could say I hate you, but instead I love you way more then I allow myself to believe... You apologise now and you try now but 2 yrs.. 2yrs of...
    LadySoulist LadySoulist 22-25, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Someone

    When I'm upset I want my boyfriend to hold me and tell me everything's gonna be alright. Sometimes he thinks I'm being a baby but I'm not I just want him to take me in his arms and hold me when I'm having a bad day.
    summerc1234 summerc1234 31-35 Nov 23, 2012

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    What's the Issue?

    How come, with every man I have dated, when I am upset and start to cry that it becomes a battle?  Can't you see that I(read "we") need to be calmed down BEFORE you start the argument?  I am SAD.  SAD! I may seem angry, but that is because I am...
    annetastic annetastic 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    Love Until Death

    sometime i fall in love with a girl but suddenly she married and disappear but i can't take her out of my head !!!!
    am22 am22 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    Need Someone To Vent Too

    Im just having a bad day and i just want someone to talk to my gf doesnt want to talk to me right now shes addicted to her phone. I just want to be goofy and joke around with someone
    amberblossom amberblossom 18-21, F Jul 11, 2013

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    A Special Someone

    Sometimes I feel like breaking down and crying my heart out. It can be for no special reason or I just remembered something painful like losing my parents. Or I just feel alone. During this times I feel upset, I imagine someone holding me, telling me that everything will be okay...
    PrInCeSsLiLo PrInCeSsLiLo 31-35, F Dec 27, 2011

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    I Can't Think of Anything I Want More.

    It's a nice feeling, being held. When somebody is holding you, you feel warm, and safe, and together. You can just be still, and you don't have to think about anything. I think that holding someone is some of the best therapy you can give them. When you are holding someone, they...
    garbanzobean garbanzobean 22-25, F Feb 13, 2009

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    Feel really sad right now

    and I can't pin point exactly why. I just keep crying and feeling like things are not as they should be or something. Sorry if this doesn't make perfect sense. Going to try some exercise to improve my mood. If that doesn't work, tasty food doesn't and the company of family...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 22-25, M Oct 1, 2014

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    I grew up supporting others

    when they are upset, but not many times I had to deal with my problems on my own
    mraph12 mraph12 22-25, M Feb 7

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    Hello. I am Guinefurrie,

    but you may call me G. I have a boyfriend, named S, and he can be sweet sometimes but also very cold and harsh at other times. One of the things we disagree upon is comforting someone when they are upset/angry/overreacting. To ME... comfort is -crucial- during periods of...
    Guinefurrie Guinefurrie 22-25, F Apr 3, 2014

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    10 months of ups and downs 3 months of hell

    and 2 years of hitting rock bottom over and over...feeling unhappy and I'm not sure why but I guess it mainly has to do with putting up with everyones problems but not having someone I can lean back on
    xBlossomx xBlossomx 16-17, F 4 Responses May 30

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    When I'm Upset

    When I'm upset,I like to be held,It comforts me, When you hold me,When I'm upset.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Nov 11, 2011

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    jlr1993 jlr1993 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Any women that like to chat with a guy as he holds and gets desperate, and eventually wets message me. I should be doing a few hold on Tuesday the 30th. ;)
    wetpants013 wetpants013 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    i miss having a gf and being with her and most of all cuddling. i love to cuddle and to hold her tight. i miss that :(
    christophzzzs christophzzzs 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    Someone Just message me if you want to talk.
    Ontera Ontera 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    im just wanting someone to talk to I need advice.
    stacyandzay stacyandzay 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Today was a great day for me. For the first time ever, I literally stuffed myself to immobility. I ordered Chinese take out for lunch... 6 portions because I need to plump myself...
    ThickLegged ThickLegged 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I pretty much just want someone I can trust with my stories and experiences
    HalsteadRoundabout HalsteadRoundabout 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    hi guys. There are a thousand of thing in my head. I want to tell all that to a person whom I can trust who would keep my secrets safe. but sadly there's no one whom I can tell . I...
    Midnight364 Midnight364 13-15, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm supposed to talk to someone when I feel like ****. But to be honest I don't wanna talk to someone about what I'm thinking. Sometimes it feels like the darkness is going to...
    BrokenBabygirlx BrokenBabygirlx 18-21, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want someone I can talk to with no judgement and who can actually help me. if you think you can be that person... please shoot me a message whenever. thank you! 💕💕
    allie72465 allie72465 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Sometimes I'm so close to just blurting out my feelings to some one random just because I can't possibly hold them in any longer... I need someone to understand
    Embella Embella 18-21, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    Anyone fancy messaging me as it would be nice to have someone to talk to, I'd greatly appreciate if someone would be kind enough to message me:)
    Brucey85 Brucey85 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Anyone willing to message me? I just want someone I can talk to..
    anagapesis anagapesis 16-17, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    It would be nice to have someone new to talk to, so feel free to message me! If you want to dirty chat, send pics, etc. then don't even bother wasting my time and get lost haha...
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'd like to meet someone to talk or chat with regularly. Someone that has the same interests as me. I have a desk job so I don't interact with people on most days..it would be nice...
    bgood79 bgood79 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    I want to eat or vore somone alive and of your willing to just to agree to your fate ill try to vore you IRL and if you want to be digested I will I want to feel someone inside my...
    DemonLugia DemonLugia 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    Shall we be friends? I don't want help, I want people. I want someone who's in the same place as me, who understands. Someone I can trust to tell everything to. Not someone who...
    BeautifulGauze BeautifulGauze 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 22

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    No matter how strong you are, no matter how smart you are or tough you can be, the world will find a way to break you. And when it does, the only thing you can do is hold on.
    leziah07 leziah07 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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