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I Just Want to Be Held

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 312 People

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    I want to be held and to be told that everything will be ok. I know everything will be ok because I have God on my side, but just want to have someone to hold or to be held would be nice once in a while. :) Of course I have my child but you guys know what I mean. ;)
    lorena1 lorena1 26-30, F Oct 31, 2011

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    I Hurt Inside, Hold Me.

    I hurt inside, but all i have is you. You won't hold me. Do i repel you? Am i disgusting?Why won't you hold me? You won't hold me, just because you can't. You are me. We stand together, hold each other up in the face of the world. We are one person. Me.
    akacal1991 akacal1991 16-17 Nov 17, 2008

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    Feel Abnormal For This?

    I am 25 and constantly have what I can only describe as a craving to be held. Not in a sexual way necessarily but just in a comforting and nurturing way. There are many people I wish would hold me and sometimes I worry that it's abnormal to want this only because I haven't heard...
    Jenni85 Jenni85 22-25 Apr 16, 2011

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    Ditto...just Tell Me Its Okay...hold Me...

    I know I'm okay, I know I'm heading in the right direction, but I still feel lonely...so alone. My head is straight, but my heart is heavy because I wait for it...I wait for affection, for companion, for a hug. I know what I'm doing, I just don't have anyone to do it with...no...
    hkynut28 hkynut28 41-45 1 Response Oct 31, 2012

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    Hold Me...

     It's not fair that I have no one. That I could have everyone. When I'm losing it all I want is a hug someone to hold me and let me cry. Tell me it will be okay. Because no one is going to tell me that. I am sick of telling myself it's going to be okay. For once I want...
    PorcelainDoll PorcelainDoll 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2008

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    Breaking Point

    It's like my heart is going to fall from my chest. All I want is for you to wrap your arms around me and keep me whole. Don't let me go, I'll fall apart. Whisper that you love me. Look at me with adoration in your eyes. Brush your fingers over my skin and kiss me tenderly. Make...
    MassyThePanda MassyThePanda 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Please

    Thats all i want. To know, theres no where else you'd rather be and no one else you'd rather be with. Touch me. Hold my hand. Hold me close in front of everyone, it makes that moment just for me and you.   I lie in bed everynight, wanting to be held. Sleeping alone is...
    dotta415 dotta415 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2009

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    A Sick Story But Very True!

    I am sorry if this is a sick story. To some they might understand and relate to it, to some it might be disgusting. But I have found out the real me, as the girl I should have been. Just about every story in my profile is about my need to be a girl and everything I think about my...
    confessionstotell confessionstotell 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    Crave Touch

    ive always craved touch, not in a sexual way though. probably thats because i dont really remember my biological mother and she put me up for adoption at a very young age. i was younger, i can remember holding onto my adoptive parents for dear life as if they were going to...
    depend779 depend779 18-21, M Mar 21, 2011

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    And I am. Often enough.

    Except not this week because my love is gone from me for the week :( I miss her soft caress and the way she wraps her legs around me and doesn't let me go. I miss the way she holds me so tight I have to squirm to break free of her grasps (although most of the time I don't want...
    Hereyesliketheoceanshine Hereyesliketheoceanshine 16-17, F Jan 8, 2014

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    Need To Be Held

    The pain i feel burning up insideMy hands are tiedMy heart wishes i had diedI will never be by your sideThe tears wet my skinThis was nothing but a sinI was chucked into the binI can't handle the pain withinI held you in my armsI kissed your lipsI touched your soft skinI held...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Sep 29, 2013

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    It's Been One Of Those Taupe-colored Days

    My period ended two days ago, and I'm feeling it as my oxytocin levels drop into the toilet. I had a bad dream last night about my terminally ill ex-boyfriend dying in the hospital. I was there visiting him with another person who wasn't a real individual but just a dream...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    I just want to be held.

    Gently cuddled. Baby its only us, noone else. Just to feel warn Youve seized me in your arms Just to forget the world And melt in your arms Will we ever wake up To face this horrible world I guess well never know So just hold me to the end
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 16-17, F Jul 30, 2014

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    Rejected And Confused

    Hi everybody. I am a 40 something lady and consider myself to be pretty together inside and out. I take care of my figure ,dress nice looking good for my age. All that aside people think I am pretty nice and easy going maybe to nice. I came out of 27 year marriage about 4 years...
    wantedumore wantedumore 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

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    When It All Gets to Be Too Much........

     ~ When it feels like the world is out to get me. Nothing is going right & all I want to do is curl up & cry............ That's when I would really like to be held, without be expected to give anything else. I need a man who can just hold me & not expect sex...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    Right now, at this moment,

    more than being kissed or anything, I just want to be held. I want someone to hold me tight right now--to just feel his warmth and love. To feel the rise and fall of his chest as he breaths, to feel the air as he inhales and exhales. I want to feel secure in his arms and know...
    CallMeSadie CallMeSadie 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    All I Want...

    All I want is just to have you lay here with me, your arms wrapped around me, my head on your should, and perhaps to fall asleep just there, just like that with someone who loves me for who I am.
    InLoveWithAFeeling InLoveWithAFeeling 22-25, F Jan 30, 2010

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    In My Own Globe Of Pain.....

    When I see a man holding a woman it makes me angry, not at the couple, just frustrated. I don't care what people say, not having enough affection does something to you. I have a boyfriend (of 4 years) but alot of good that does me when he is 850 miles away. We are working on...
    Kaorin Kaorin 22-25 1 Response Feb 7, 2011

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    Ghost

    I am quiet individual who supessess his feelings which causes me great pain and anguish, I suppose on some level I feel I do not deserve to be happy. It's not as though I'm not attractive, people tell me I am a lot but I don't feel like I can connect with anyone on a personal...
    bbdins bbdins 22-25 1 Response Jun 25, 2010

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    I Just Want to Be Held

     It feels like I don't know anyone here anymore.  And it just figures that the first new person I meet doesn't want the same things that I do.  I just want someone to hold me and make me feel safe, not another predator who is just trying to go as far as he can get...
    Antlers Antlers 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Tightly

    I want someonje to hold me. At this point I'm not very picky anymore. I just want someone to love me, and hold me so hard, all my pain flows out. I want my heart to feel squeezed just as much as my body, and warmed with the body heat of the poor soul who decides to give me their...
    Veronica4 Veronica4 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    Man, Yes

    A man, yes protect loved ones, yes work hard, yes able to solve problems, yes self confident, yes independent, yes need to be loved, yes need support, yes need acceptance, yes need acknowledgement, yes need to be held, yes
    ironmouse ironmouse 46-50, M Jan 18, 2013

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    Shut Me Up.

    I can talk about my problems until I'm blue in the face. all that will happen is I’ll get mired in it. no I swear to god whenever I go off about it all I really want is someone to hold me, that would get me to shut the hell up really quickly. Nothing else seems to relieve...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M Jul 4, 2011

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