I Just Want to Be Held

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 326 People


    I am quiet individual who supessess his feelings which causes me great pain and anguish, I suppose on some level I feel I do not deserve to be happy. It's not as though I'm not attractive, people tell me I am a lot but I don't feel like I can connect with anyone on a personal...
    bbdins bbdins
    1 Response Jun 25, 2010

    In My Own Globe Of Pain.....

    When I see a man holding a woman it makes me angry, not at the couple, just frustrated. I don't care what people say, not having enough affection does something to you. I have a boyfriend (of 4 years) but alot of good that does me when he is 850 miles away. We are working on...
    Kaorin Kaorin
    1 Response Feb 7, 2011

    Rejected And Confused

    Hi everybody. I am a 40 something lady and consider myself to be pretty together inside and out. I take care of my figure ,dress nice looking good for my age. All that aside people think I am pretty nice and easy going maybe to nice. I came out of 27 year marriage about 4 years...
    wantedumore wantedumore
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

    It's seems to be all I want lately.

    Just to be embraced. No words need to be spoken... just knowing that someone is there... Someone who is there to comfort me, to hold me...
    techitisJ techitisJ
    18-21, F
    Nov 14, 2015

    Breaking Point

    It's like my heart is going to fall from my chest. All I want is for you to wrap your arms around me and keep me whole. Don't let me go, I'll fall apart. Whisper that you love me. Look at me with adoration in your eyes. Brush your fingers over my skin and kiss me tenderly. Make...
    MassyThePanda MassyThePanda
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 18, 2009

    Shut Me Up.

    I can talk about my problems until I'm blue in the face. all that will happen is I’ll get mired in it. no I swear to god whenever I go off about it all I really want is someone to hold me, that would get me to shut the hell up really quickly. Nothing else seems to relieve...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    Jul 4, 2011

    I Just Want to Be Held

     It feels like I don't know anyone here anymore.  And it just figures that the first new person I meet doesn't want the same things that I do.  I just want someone to hold me and make me feel safe, not another predator who is just trying to go as far as he can get...
    Antlers Antlers
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2009

    I Hurt Inside, Hold Me.

    I hurt inside, but all i have is you. You won't hold me. Do i repel you? Am i disgusting?Why won't you hold me? You won't hold me, just because you can't. You are me. We stand together, hold each other up in the face of the world. We are one person. Me.
    akacal1991 akacal1991
    Nov 17, 2008

    Ditto...just Tell Me Its Okay...hold Me...

    I know I'm okay, I know I'm heading in the right direction, but I still feel lonely...so alone. My head is straight, but my heart is heavy because I wait for it...I wait for affection, for companion, for a hug. I know what I'm doing, I just don't have anyone to do it with...no...
    hkynut28 hkynut28
    1 Response Oct 31, 2012

    Man, Yes

    A man, yes protect loved ones, yes work hard, yes able to solve problems, yes self confident, yes independent, yes need to be loved, yes need support, yes need acceptance, yes need acknowledgement, yes need to be held, yes
    ironmouse ironmouse
    46-50, M
    Jan 18, 2013


    Thats all i want. To know, theres no where else you'd rather be and no one else you'd rather be with. Touch me. Hold my hand. Hold me close in front of everyone, it makes that moment just for me and you.   I lie in bed everynight, wanting to be held. Sleeping alone is...
    dotta415 dotta415
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2009

    Need To Be Held

    The pain i feel burning up insideMy hands are tiedMy heart wishes i had diedI will never be by your sideThe tears wet my skinThis was nothing but a sinI was chucked into the binI can't handle the pain withinI held you in my armsI kissed your lipsI touched your soft skinI held...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout
    26-30, F
    Sep 29, 2013

    Who Doesnt?

    I want to be held and to be told that everything will be ok. I know everything will be ok because I have God on my side, but just want to have someone to hold or to be held would be nice once in a while. :) Of course I have my child but you guys know what I mean. ;)
    lorena1 lorena1
    31-35, F
    Oct 31, 2011

    Right now, at this moment,

    more than being kissed or anything, I just want to be held. I want someone to hold me tight right now--to just feel his warmth and love. To feel the rise and fall of his chest as he breaths, to feel the air as he inhales and exhales. I want to feel secure in his arms and know...
    CallMeSadie CallMeSadie
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 15, 2014

    When It All Gets to Be Too Much........

     ~ When it feels like the world is out to get me. Nothing is going right & all I want to do is curl up & cry............ That's when I would really like to be held, without be expected to give anything else. I need a man who can just hold me & not expect sex...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 26, 2009

    It's Been One Of Those Taupe-colored Days

    My period ended two days ago, and I'm feeling it as my oxytocin levels drop into the toilet. I had a bad dream last night about my terminally ill ex-boyfriend dying in the hospital. I was there visiting him with another person who wasn't a real individual but just a dream...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2012
    7lee7 7lee7
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2015


    I want someonje to hold me. At this point I'm not very picky anymore. I just want someone to love me, and hold me so hard, all my pain flows out. I want my heart to feel squeezed just as much as my body, and warmed with the body heat of the poor soul who decides to give me their...
    Veronica4 Veronica4
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2011

    Feel Abnormal For This?

    I am 25 and constantly have what I can only describe as a craving to be held. Not in a sexual way necessarily but just in a comforting and nurturing way. There are many people I wish would hold me and sometimes I worry that it's abnormal to want this only because I haven't heard...
    Jenni85 Jenni85
    1 Response Apr 16, 2011

    And I am. Often enough.

    Except not this week because my love is gone from me for the week :( I miss her soft caress and the way she wraps her legs around me and doesn't let me go. I miss the way she holds me so tight I have to squirm to break free of her grasps (although most of the time I don't want...
    Hereyesliketheoceanshine Hereyesliketheoceanshine
    18-21, F
    Jan 8, 2014

    Hold Me...

     It's not fair that I have no one. That I could have everyone. When I'm losing it all I want is a hug someone to hold me and let me cry. Tell me it will be okay. Because no one is going to tell me that. I am sick of telling myself it's going to be okay. For once I want...
    PorcelainDoll PorcelainDoll
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2008

    I just want to be held.

    Gently cuddled. Baby its only us, noone else. Just to feel warn Youve seized me in your arms Just to forget the world And melt in your arms Will we ever wake up To face this horrible world I guess well never know So just hold me to the end
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden
    18-21, F
    Jul 30, 2014

    A Sick Story But Very True!

    I am sorry if this is a sick story. To some they might understand and relate to it, to some it might be disgusting. But I have found out the real me, as the girl I should have been. Just about every story in my profile is about my need to be a girl and everything I think about my...
    confessionstotell confessionstotell
    13-15, M
    1 Response Aug 3, 2011

    All I Want...

    All I want is just to have you lay here with me, your arms wrapped around me, my head on your should, and perhaps to fall asleep just there, just like that with someone who loves me for who I am.
    InLoveWithAFeeling InLoveWithAFeeling
    22-25, F
    Jan 30, 2010
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