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I Just Want to Be Loved

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    I am fairly certain I am going to die alone.

    Today marks my 5th time being dumped by a girlfriend. I am just plain annoyed with this, and I am becoming equal measures depressed and enraged. I wish the world was only composed of smart, tasteful atheist people who enjoyed fine art literature and other stuff in that such as...
    thewriter29901 thewriter29901 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    I'm so tired of getting hurt,

    and I'm tired of being alone. I spent two hours alone balling my eyes out today, and no one cared. All I want is someone to hold me and love me and make me feel beautiful and cared for. I hate the single life so damn much!
    Cottoncandykitty Cottoncandykitty 16-17, F Dec 10, 2013

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    Will Never Happen Now?

    I am too old for someone to love.When you are old nobody cares.As far as they are concerned you are a waste of time and just hanging around waiting to die.
    alwaysawanderer alwaysawanderer 66-70, M 1 Response Dec 1, 2013

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    When I was 16 my ex boyfriend broke my heart,

    when we were 6 months on a relationship he confessed me that he started dating with me because he wanted to forget his ex girlfriend and then he cheated on me later, he was the first person I had sex with. I had problems getting him but now I want to find someone to love and to...
    marie1005 marie1005 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    What Is It That You Are Looking For?

    Hey, I know trust is really hard, but, women talk about being finding someone that will respsect them and treat them like the lady they are. Thay should be, a woman is special, and her love is not the same as most men.It just seems they are attracted to guys that use them and...
    wodman1 wodman1 46-50, M 5 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    The Fact

    I am in love with the idea of being in love. Most girls dream is to get married and live happily ever after. The fairy tails we watch as we are young is the first influence. Then as you grow older you watch sappy love movies. Almost every ending has two people that fell in love...
    MeMe0326 MeMe0326 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Hopeless Wreck

    So, Its nothing like the movies. I'm starting to think stories like the notebook, etc. etc. don't exist. Or maybe they do, for the lucky ones. For me, no way. nothing. I can say that I've only experienced real true passionate love twice in my life, and both times ended crashing...
    hopelessromantic00 hopelessromantic00 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Moving Out Together?

    In 9th grade, i dated a guy. He was cute, funny and kind of a bad boy. He was fun to be around and easy to talk to. However, he has a quick temper. I was sometimes scared to say thing because i didnt want to start an argument. He never hit me. He just yelled. I turned to a...
    Smiles12311 Smiles12311 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2013

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    stanmagicman2 stanmagicman2 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Just Want To Be Loved...

    I just want to find love... I only find love by people calling me 'cute' ... But I want to be loved for me... Not what I look like... For me... I'm just want love to come to me one day... And I want that person to love me for who I am... Not what I look like... Love is the...
    Newguy3214 Newguy3214 13-15, M 9 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I don't try to spend too much time thinking

    about love but it's hard not to. I can't help but watch movies and wish I had someone to give love to and receive love from. I love HARD. I don't give up easily no matter what obstacles get in the way. I'm afraid but I know I'm ready for love. Even though I'm young, I don't...
    lolabaybee lolabaybee 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Hoping

    That someday it will come and I'll know what it feels like rather than just having this feeling of loneliness from time to time.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    I'm Desperate

    I do not believe in settling. Needless to say, once you have this attitiude towards anything in life you tend to have to wait a long time for the genuine article. Some lucky bastards don't have to wait as long. Like you I would like to be happy for them but truth be told I am...
    Scorpio1987 Scorpio1987 22-25, M 7 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Love

    The greatest thing you will ever learn, is just to love and be loved in return!
    SuperManny91 SuperManny91 22-25, M Dec 19, 2012

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    Im Just Too Damn Shy To Talk To Her

    Sorry for the wall of text, but if you can read it and give me advice i'll be extremely grateful. So the last few months I've noticed a girl that goes to my old high school (i'm in my freshman year of college, just a nearby community college though... Also it might be good to...
    TeddyRoosevelt1995 TeddyRoosevelt1995 18-21, M Nov 22, 2013

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    Please See This

    I have always loved you, and I do not think i will ever stop, no matter what they say my love for u is unconditional. I need something to distract me from missing you though because lately you've been the only thing on my mind.
    thegroundisup thegroundisup 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    I'm tired of being alone.

    I really wish a girl loved me for who i am and who's always there for me..i don't think i ask for too much.
    charliejr charliejr 18-21, M Mar 1

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    Why Does It Have to Be So Hard?

    I just want someone to love me, like i love them I want to be held and cherished, no questions asked. Why does it have to be so hard ?
    Goodgirlxxgonebad Goodgirlxxgonebad 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 12, 2008

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    I Need It , I Want It

    I want to feel that emotional connection with someone i feel like i have some much to give and no one to give it to, im in a relationship that im soon out of , 3 years of no connection no love just hard emotional and physical abuse, i crave to talk to someone to have someone hear...
    HurtnUsed HurtnUsed 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    A few days ago i suddenly hooked up with some

    one to be honest some good feeling's were developing through my heart for her i thought she also like's me as i do I was addicted to her. Eventually i decided to propose her when i did that i dont know why she unfriended me from facebook and this site. I really like her and i...
    jack0093 jack0093 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I Am Alone And I Want It To Stop!

    21 years.... that's how long it's been since I've been loved, coincidentally, that's also how old I am, meaning I've never been loved by a boy/man/woman/girl, NOTHING! I've come some what close, but ultimately it's always been to far away for me to just be loved/cared for/liked...
    Crevan13 Crevan13 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    One Person In This Big World

    Growing up I used to dream of getting married to the right guy, having a family and growing old together. If I knew how the outcome was then I would have skipped it all. I used to believe there was someone out there for everyone. A chosen person from God just you me. I have come...
    jai80 jai80 31-35 2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Always Wanted

    I've always wanted someone to love me, hold me and look at me and think "Damn, I love her."
    Ronnietwotwo Ronnietwotwo 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2012

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    I Feel Different

    I feel like the wind pushes me around but I have nowhere to go. nowhere I really belong. I have friends a life family and everything I need I just need to do something with my life. or I need to find my life. I hope the right person out there wants the same thing for me. :)
    yolo1023 yolo1023 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Love Me No Matter What!!

    Just love me even when im @ my worst, i can be my worst enemy, i always find something wrong about myself, i just want to feel beautiful and i wanna feel free to feel how i feel without being told how i should feel, just love me as a whole including my imperfections, pls. Learn...
    2luvu 2luvu 31-35, F Oct 23, 2013

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    20 Years Is Too Long

    All my life, I have never been loved by someone. Sure, my friends and family do, but not in the intamate romantic sense. All my friends and even my sisters are now in commited relationships, and I'm always the odd one out. There have been guys in my life, but nothing has come...
    Keziah90 Keziah90 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Can I Be Loved?

    I have been married for 24 years to a girl that doesn't know how to show love. Sex is very rare, and when it does happen, it just feels like she does it out of her Christian duty. I am always put on the back burner to her friends and other "duties". She is very closed and cold...
    Travel4work Travel4work 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    There Must Be Something Wrong With Me...

    My boyfriend just broke up with me. He got upset that I posted pictures of myself here that are... a bit scandalous (I deleted them). I'd like to add that he was the one who incouraged me to share my pictures in the first place. I had no idea it would bother him.   He...
    amsthegreat amsthegreat 22-25, F 25 Responses Apr 9, 2010

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    I Want It... I Need It!!!

    I just want to be LOVED... but I seem to want it from all the wrong GUYS... Maybe it its me, && I'm screamin for all the GOOD for nothin guys to come get me...They TELL me all the lies I want to hear... && then break my HEART... You know, cause thats what always...
    MysticBeauty MysticBeauty 26-30, F 18 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Gay And Single 16 Yr Old

    I'm looking for a cute blond or brown haired gay 11to15 year old boyfriend and i am lonely so yea friend me and if u wana txt give me ur cell number please but i can only txt people in the USA
    sage21 sage21 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    I want someone to love me,

    to be there for me, to want to be with me, to care about me, to stop me from being depressed and most importantly someone to know the real me.
    martianchild2 martianchild2 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    It's All I Really Want

    It's not that I lack people in my life that love me. My family and friends love me very much. I just hope to someday find a partner to be my equal in life. Someone who can deal with me in all my quirky strangeness and still love me. A companion to care for me and someone I can...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    Losing hope..Jus Want To Be Loved Too :(

    I'm very shy ..and very senstive..get hurt easily for the smallest of things at times..But I always try to be nice and helpfull to the people around me Being an introvert I never had many friends..trying to make some now.. I'm not a very good judge of people and trust some people...
    rohithchoudhary rohithchoudhary 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    I have no dreams or desires

    for castles in the clouds or great wealth or any earthly thing. I only need love. The world seems to be against me. Because of circumstances I only get to see other people/socialize once a week on sunday, my parents don't allow dating, I have acne and dandruff and my hair doesn...
    ModernJob ModernJob 16-17, M 7 Responses Mar 17

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    I Just Want To Be Loved.

    I just want to be loved, not some person on the internet (no offense), an actual flesh and blood person. I know family is supposed to be important but the love they offer is no longer enough. I need someone to be there for me, someone to love me, a real person I can count on...
    85continuum 85continuum 26-30, M 8 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    The more I saw you, the more I fell

    for you. I don't know why I make things so complex and overthink things, but you make me forget about everything when I talk to you. You make me sad when we depart and smile when you look at me. I don't know how to describe this, but don't leave though; you're intriguing me...
    SkylarLovely SkylarLovely 16-17, F Jan 20

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    Why

    every day i go to school seeing lovers and friends there soo happy i try to talk to them but they look at me like a freak cuz i were black alot i love vampire and monsters then i go home to a family that dosnt want me there so i leave and go to my friends house ilove so much...
    vice13 vice13 16-17 1 Response Feb 11, 2013

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    ... and not be taken advantage of

    or casted away or forgotten about. It's hard to deal with people who show you so much love and care and compassion and then for them to completely act differently to you the next day. I just want to be hugged and asked about my day and be given advice. I don't want to be shouted...
    bellebud bellebud 22-25, F Jan 29

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    Everyday I just wake up,

    go to school, come home, play games, eat than sleep. I just want to have someome who truly loves me and can always be there for me. I don't have many friends in life except for about 3 online friends. There was a time in my life when I wanted to die and didn't even know what to...
    Mekevin255 Mekevin255 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2013

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    Thats What It Would Say

    I was thinking thats what my suicide note would say. "I just wanted to be loved". Story of my life. chasing love over and over only to have it not work out. then I am stuck in a foreign state. This is the second time I have moved a very long distance to be with a guy and have it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I just moved school and have no friends.

    Beautiful people surround me, I lack confidence to talk to them, I find myself ugly and every chance I have has at a relationship has screwed me over. Many times I have contemplated killing myself. I am a hopeless romantic and all I want is to find a nice beautiful girl to be...
    guyzerp1 guyzerp1 22-25, M Jan 31

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    I Thought I Found My Soulmate.....

    I thought he was perfect....and then he left me after a year of dating. It's been a year since the break up..... I just want somebody to love me, when I can't even love myself..3
    NotTheAmericanAveragexx NotTheAmericanAveragexx 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    How do you love ? I can love somebody all day

    but I just can't receive it !
    arielbreedlove arielbreedlove 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    I am loved. There are

    so many people who surround me, and offer me their hands in support, caring, and appreciation. They love me. They brought me to God, fed me when I was hungry, picked me up off the street and put a roof over my head. I am not unloved by those who surround me. I am unloved by...
    TheSilentMusician TheSilentMusician 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Married for 10 years,

    together 14. I love you is said often, but is now feeling like routine. Love him to bits, want to know he feels the same
    tashparkinson tashparkinson 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    My girlfriend relapsed.

    She has become a completely different person. We were working on building a life together. I've always been a strong hearted person, not letting a lot of grief get to me. I've had relationships come and go. This one I can't bear to watch is crumble. I knew what I was...
    lefttomyself lefttomyself 26-30, M Mar 22

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    I want to be loved and touched by

    either a guy or a girl... Just someone.
    PrincessUniverse PrincessUniverse 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    I Wanna. . . . .

    I wanna be the last face you see at night and the first you see in the morning. I wanna be your happiest hello and your hardest goodbye. I wanna walk hand in hand with you barefoot on a beach. I wanna sit snuggled up on the sofa with you content in our silence. I wanna watch...
    gem1969 gem1969 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    No Love

    When I say I want to be loved, I don't been initimately, like between a couple in a relationship. I want to feel the same love my parents seem to have for my younger sister. I feel like an outcast from my family, the older rebellious child. No one seems proud of me. No one wants...
    Aeriexo11 Aeriexo11 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2012

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    jack0093 jack0093 22-25, M Mar 5

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    I Want Our Love To Be The Same

    I just want to be loved by someone who truly means it the exact same way I do. Not someone who has only known me a week and starts confessing their love to me. That isn't love. You can't tell me my favorite color, you know little about my life, you don't know what I want in the...
    feelingmisplaced feelingmisplaced 22-25, T 3 Responses Apr 8, 2011

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    I Really Do

    i miss being loved...though i suppose more in a relationship context. i miss snuggles and cuddles and knowing someone and making love and dirty sex and being playful...and soso much i miss it
    milksnatcher milksnatcher 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    I absolutely love being passionately loved by my husband. On the other hand, I passionately love my husband as well. We both believe in lots of foreplay in our lives so both of...
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