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I Just Want To Feel Wanted

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    Strange Feeling Of Love And Care. I Want To Feel Wanted.

    I am a married male aged about 39 working with a media group. It happened some 3 months back when a pretty girl (working in my office in other department aged 25) approached me to design her art work. She was with me in my department for around 4 hours and at the end, I was...
    Raaj71 Raaj71 36-40, M Dec 28, 2010

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    I Want To Feel Wanted

    I want someone to want me.  I want to find my soulmate.  I wonder who and where she be?
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Feb 5, 2012

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    Im Used And Abused

    Im Used And Abused By others who see me as confused They say im not your friend I just need you for a second to lend I feel very nasty inside that someone treats me as if im not even alive this feeling I cant stand noone seems to care about where I stand Who am I ? I start to...
    faithishere faithishere 13-15 Oct 6, 2012

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    Different From The Rest.

    I have friends, but none of them would do anything for me as I would for them. I just want a friend who I can share everything with and never feel different from them.
    TwoShadesDarker TwoShadesDarker 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    All I ever feel in my house

    or in my life is alone. I don't think anyone's ever made me feel wanted and I feel so alone and mentally tired. I feel like I don't deserve anything and I'm so close to relapsing I can't do this anymore.
    aurazx aurazx 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    Definitely A Need...

    I needed my family all my life, but they seem so uninterested in anything that I do.  Makes me feel  some kinda way.  Never looked for comfort in anywhere else though I thought about it.  I'm all grown up now, but it definitely still hurts, like a lonely...
    Soul656 Soul656 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 29, 2010

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    And I Cry

    If you want to say I should get on meds or something I already am. Mood stabilizer and antidepressant as well as anti anxiety and they do help. But right now I just need to write this. I want something meaningful. No one in my life wants to have any meaning in there lives. No...
    jfeltes jfeltes 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 24, 2010

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    Wanting

    my whole life ive wanted someone to want me. my first girlfriend i fooled myself into thinkin i loved her when we were both so wrong for each other because she wanted me. both sexually and just to be with me. she was the first person in real life that ever wanted me like that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 27, 2011

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    It Would Be Nice

    guess what? It's valentines day... yea my boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago. I guess he thinks breaking up will help us get closer. What that makes no sense to me! He said good relationships start with good friendships. I can't decide if he is serious or not. He...
    Peep22 Peep22 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 14, 2011

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    I'm so sick of being ignored

    and abandoned. I know that I push people away, but all I want is for someone to want me. People always cut me out, and it makes me feel so worthless. I just can't handle being alone anymore.
    autumnH autumnH 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I'm So Sick Of Love.

    I'm 16, going on 17, & never had a relationship. Ever. I've been in love with my BEST FRIEND for about 4 years now, & I'm recently getting over him, & all i seem to care about anymore is partying, & I don't know if that's good, or bad, considering I come from a family of...
    krk95 krk95 16-17, F Aug 26, 2012

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    I am in the group 'no sex in marriage'

    and I am sick of the feelings I carry at the moment, I want to feel wanted by my husband. He says he wants me but I guess he means being wanted to do the mundane duties a woman has, I need him to want me as a sexy woman that I am slowly feeling much less like. I have friends...
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 4 Responses May 24

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    Want To Be Wanted Again

    I haven't felt wanted in a long time and when i have its been few & far between. my mother was 15 when she got pregnant & has always said we were more like sisters than mother & daughter, bestowing her motherly love on my bro & sis. my father never missed an oppurtunity, always...
    PcNChaos PcNChaos 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2011

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    I Feel Like A Ghost Or The Backup Friend...

    So ever since I was little, all I can remember is that I felt like nothing...I never self-harmed myself...Thought about it but just couldn't do it...When I was going into 4th grade, I changed schools(Mom got new job at the other school but we stayed in same house). Then when I...
    JaneDoesShadow JaneDoesShadow 18-21, F Apr 22, 2013

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    Not Even In A Romantic Way

    Just in a friendship over the years I've had a lot of friends but I just never like they really wanted me around. Almost like they just felt bad for me so they hung out with me in pity. I don't know if that was the reality of just my own self hatred but it sucks.
    MissTori MissTori 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2012

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    I Want To Be Wanted And Good Enough.

    I feel like nobody wants me around. When I was in middle and high school, my friends that I've known for six years would always do things together, and leave me out. I used to be a girl, okay. My grandmother always wanted me to have long hair, stylish clothing, pierced ears...
    LongtailZ LongtailZ 18-21, M Oct 29, 2013

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    That's all!..........

    ...............
    JustAnotherOptimisticSoul JustAnotherOptimisticSoul 22-25, M Jul 14

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    Waiting And Waiting...

    I've always been single ive never had a bf and never done anything with a guy....its getting ridiculous sometimes i jst wanna hook up to get it over with but i know id regret it i know it sounds cheezy but i really want some1 romantic and sweet who will be perfect for me...so far...
    dancergirl101 dancergirl101 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    My mom just got a boyfriend about 2 months ago,

    and she never has Time for me!!!! I just want to have my mom back..😒
    lindseypadula lindseypadula 13-15, F Jun 19

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    Unwanted From Birth

    I guess it steams from child hood and feeling as if no one really wanted me but my mom, as the saying goes "that’s a face only a mother could love" at times I truly feel unlovable, as if I doomed to be a lonely old cat woman, whose only companion is her many cats. See I was...
    femalemadhatter femalemadhatter 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    I want a girlfriend who wants to always be

    around me and talk to me. I always feel neglected but I have needs too. I'm very social and mushy lol I like to flirt and hold my gf close to me but I guess I'll just have to be patient and wait for that girl to come to me :/. (I'm very impatient)
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M Jul 30

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    Hey everybody! I really want to make a long

    term friend that I can talk to about anything and in return listen to them. I feel like I need an important friend in my life and I am missing out by not having one.
    lolitacupcakes lolitacupcakes 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 19

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    I left my old EP username shed my skin

    because someone told me not to contact them anymore and it hurt so much I flushed out my EP made myself forget the password. And on my new one it made me really really sad while stumbling for someone to talk to I kept finding old accounts that were hers about three and that made...
    subpop subpop 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Me Too...

    ...But don't we all?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Being Wanted

    I feel pushed out and unwanted. My family doesn't much care, my friends just leave me as soon as something or someone more important comes along and I don't have a girlfriend. The furthest I've ever gotten with a girl is a kiss, but that was when I was 14. I feel like it's...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 6 Responses Oct 25, 2012

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    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Worthless And Unwanted...

    I know alot of teenagers say this probably ...but honestly i have never been truly ...Or felt like i was cared for...my dad would always call me worthless and hurt me in so many ways...i recently ..not unwanted by just guys and girls but from ...even my family...they see alot of...
    VampreEmoNeko VampreEmoNeko 16-17, F Mar 21, 2013

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    I want someone to tell me I'm beautiful,

    sexy and to make me feel attractive. I want someone to want me...want to be with me...do nice things for me... I hate feeling like I need someone to make me feel these things...
    brokenpetal brokenpetal 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    Wanted!

    People leave, Best friends and friends just come and go and obviously I have to let go. All I get is people treating me like **** and they just only pick me up when they need help or they're in trouble so basically using me whenever they like! I give up all my time for everybody...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Is That Too Much To Ask?

    I do. Honestly i'm soo tired of being alone. No one to send a cute text to, no one to lay in bed at night talking on the phone for hours, no one to just be there. I mean I don't know if it's because I don't really have a man in my life or if it's because everyone that is in my...
    RogueAngelWithoutWings RogueAngelWithoutWings 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    And right now, I don't

    It’s been six days since my boyfriend and I last talked over the phone. For those of you who haven’t read some of my stories about him, suffice it to say that we’re in a long distance relationship. When before we used to chat everyday, we are now reduced to phone calls a...
    papervoices papervoices 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2010

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    sometimes i cant help but feel wanted by a person that loves me. i always wanted a relationship like you would see on movies or read in books and i know it could happen. but i...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    One friend made me feel pretty and smart. Another made me feel wanted. Then another friend made me feel accepted. My mom also makes me feel all this. But I don't feel this with my...
    firework05 firework05 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I don't want a relationship based solely on sex. I want a relationship where we truly care for one another, where we share sorrows and joys, where we want to spend time together...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Jul 27

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    I know that having a companion in life is not needed, it's wanted. But at times where all you want is to be held by your significant other that want feels like a need. I'm...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F Jul 29

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    Once again Facebook asking me What's on my mind. Dearest, you know?... I haven't words to tell or explain that mess inside of my head. But... Today I want to try. Try to start talk...
    WhineWolfe WhineWolfe 16-17, F Aug 19

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    It's been almost eight years since i've fallen in love. My first and I'm afraid it would be the last. Four years since I had that relationship with her. We almost lasted a year but...
    xenna2 xenna2 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am 28 years old boy, I am handsome, smart, my height is 6 feet, slim body, currently i am general manager of a company. I want a true love, i want feel the happiness of love, i...
    yoggie1985 yoggie1985 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    You know who you are, you're the one I lay in bed every night thinking about, the one I met online, and fell in love with. Your name is Dylan, we met on an app called hot or not...
    KoolKandon KoolKandon 13-15, M 6 hrs ago

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    A long while back I was learning about lucid dreaming and it lead to my discovery of astral projection. I was also taking a journey of transformation class in college and I found...
    MysticallyForbidden MysticallyForbidden 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have been married for 10 years, together for 14. My husband and I have two children together. Almost our entire relationship he has worked two jobs, almost never home and even...
    dragonflydreams dragonflydreams 26-30, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I like to ask people what they think of when they hear the word "bullying". Most of the time the answer is the same. Teasing, a rather inconsistent, incomplete answer, if I do say...
    Aram8361 Aram8361 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    I was dating a co worker. I know bad!!! She told me the other day that she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore that it is not me I am a great guy. She just do not want to...
    tabane tabane 36-40, M 7 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I've always want a child of my own. I always told myself that I was going to wait until I get married or find a guy that I am very dedicated to. But it seems like the older I get...
    KJanaee KJanaee 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I want to have gurl. you wanted a partial sex change? I would be happy being able to do
    kamilatv kamilatv 46-50, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    The Crazy Merry Go Round My life is usually peaceful, by design. I live pretty much alone except for my brother's clothes. They live here, he does not...anyway.... For the past...
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    I've always wanted to be with a black girl or a BBW(:
    Thatchickyouknow Thatchickyouknow 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    i posted before about how my brother and i are being abused by our oldest brother... i wanted someone to talk to but everyone told me to go to the police... while he was out today...
    whatyourheartisfor whatyourheartisfor 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I've always wanted to be a mom every since I was little. I would love to have a husband that I can love and have many kids with. I would love to have at least 4 or 5 kids but...
    KacyB98 KacyB98 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I finished school last year and now I'm ready to get on with with next chapter of my life. In my book that's getting married and starting a family with my husband. I've wanted to...
    KacyB98 KacyB98 18-21, F 6 hrs ago