Post

I Just Want to Get Married and Have Kids

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 370 People

    I have a feeling I won`t get married

    but I`m still hoping. I would love to get married to the One and feel those intense feelings of love. I think our marriage would work out cuz I`ve learned a lot from my parents` marriage and their mistakes in it. Most importantly I can`t wait to have my own kids from me. Being...
    azngirl123 azngirl123 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    21 and looking for a wife to have bairns

    with preferably one me own age, who don't mind a bit of pudding (im going to diet), ill be loyal, loving etc, I also wouldn't mind marrying a maiden, since I'm a virgin meself and because I think they're cute and innocent, I want our first time, maybe on our "first night", to...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M 1 Response May 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Never Wanted That Actually

    until a few years ago. Maybe I was young and independent. Now I want everything.   This is just a part of what I think would be good for me, and there are many other parts that are equally or more important, still this can be a normal wish for any woman, am...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 6 Responses Jun 21, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    All I Ever Wanted!!

    All I ever wanted is to fall in love and to stay in love, to be loyal to my other better half, be happy and to be married and have kids!! I wanted to raise that loving family of my own. I love being a loving wife and a caring and loving mother to any kids I might have....
    Kpayton1231 Kpayton1231 31-35 3 Responses Jan 22, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So Excited For It!!!!

    I am going to get marriied and have kids. and it is going to be awesome. i am going to be a good mom and the dad will be amazing<333 then we will be a big happy family<3333
    gentlyyours gentlyyours 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Perfect Family

    It may not happen right now, but I dream of some day making a great family and having the greatest wife in the world. I want to create a home that my kids can healthily grow up and know that the love of their mother and father is real and will always be there. Ultimately I want...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 18, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Such A Simple Dream

    When I was younger I had such a simple dream, to get married and have kids... not many, maybe one or two, but I'm 35, still single and have to admit time is running out...for me to have kids at least, but I still hold on to the dream that I will one day get married.... afterall...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F Jun 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Dream Is Gone And I Don't Know How To Move On...

    I imagined and prayed that I would get married by 19 and have kids and spend my life loving my husband and raising our kids and just being that happy person at home, helping everyone else. Being that shoulder to cry on and just creating a safe and loving space for my family...
    GaveUpOnMyDream GaveUpOnMyDream 22-25, F 4 Responses May 13, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 17 A Freshman In College Yet All I Want Is To Get Married And Have Children.

    These last couple of years have changed my life dramatically and I have came to realize that being a career oriented person isn't my mojo instead I want a family, to be married and have children
    Wageschick Wageschick 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 20, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Want To Get Married And Have A Family.

    I am looking for a great woman to get married and have a family. MUST be faithful and kind.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My boyfriend keeps going back

    and forth on wanting kids. I love him and I want him to want a family with me, because not wanting kids is a deal breaker. But he keeps changing his mind and I don't know what to do about it.
    mt201409 mt201409 18-21, F Jun 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Spinster Auntie

    I grew up the youngest of three with two older brothers. It's all I ever wanted since I was young, I never understood my friends' ambivalence...I ALWAYS wanted a husband and kids. My brothers seemed to be confirmed bachelors, but now I am at the dreaded 30, living with my...
    opheliac13 opheliac13 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Le Sighhhh....

    When I was younger I pictured myself married at 21 and having children right away. I'm 29 now, and I've never been married or had children. Just today I was told that my "clock is ticking." I never thought that phrase would make me feel so lonely... or lacking in...
    upsighdown upsighdown 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 2, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    16 Years Old, Want To Get Married And Start A Family Asap

    Hi, my name's Hannah, I'm sixteen and live in a small town in England. I truly believe that I have found the person that I am meant to be with for the rest of my life - I love him more than anything else, would do literally anything for him and he makes me happier than I have...
    hannahlouise23 hannahlouise23 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 2, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Expected Too?

    I have always wanted to just get married & have children, but i feel as though im required to want to go to uni and college! it's a shame you can't just meet your soulmate and be happy, because i know that my dream job is raising my own children,Obviously not everybody wants kids...
    NeonFart NeonFart 13-15, F 1 Response May 8, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Oh The Joys Of College

    I go to a bible school for college, and all of my friends are getting married. Which really only compounds the fact that I have wanted to (and have actually been ready to) be married  for the last 2 years. Getting married is really important to me for a few...
    09healed08 09healed08 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What I Want Most Out Of Life Is To Be A Husband And A Father...

    i grew up in a ****** house with a horrible family. but i decided long ago that my number 1 goal in life is to become the best husband and father i can be. i can't wait to find the woman i can spend my life with and to start a real family with.
    mosinman mosinman 22-25, M Jul 5, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    All I Want(ed) Was A Simple Life

    Oh where oh where to begin.... So I am 24 yrs old & as you can guess all I've ever truly wanted is a happy marriage & a family. I have been engaged 4 times to 4 different men & married 2x. My first fiance died in a car crash, I married the 2nd & we were married for 3 yrs during...
    pr3ttywoman pr3ttywoman 22-25 1 Response Jun 1, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Want To Get Married :)

    I am 35 years old guy i am looking for a girl who would love me and share her life with me :) i work hard and make good money
    Tony2die4 Tony2die4 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 20, and for some reason I occasionally feel

    this really strong desire to get married and have kids. I know my boyfriend wants those things, but I also know that it won't be for a while. Sometimes I wonder if one of the reasons is that my parents are both on the older side (Mom is almost 62, dad just turned 65) and I know...
    Mollyisawalrus Mollyisawalrus 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Just Want To Be A Mom

    My whole life that's all I've ever ultimately wanted, to be a mom. But of course, society always pressured me into going to school and getting a job. I think that because I never really wanted any of those things I ended up making very bad choices and now I'm 27 and still have...
    MissXavi MissXavi 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sadly, I Can't See It Happening

    I have a really complicated story. I'm 28 now. I can't feel for guys except, well, you'll read about it. I wanted and tried to be a nun, but that didn't work out. Later, I met this guy, and totally to my surprise, fell for him. More surprising, I developed a deep unconditional...
    Ste11aeres Ste11aeres 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Thinking

    I think I wanna have 2 more kids, married or not.
    manomine manomine 46-50, M Dec 29, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Dream

    I know that deep in my heart, my life goal is to meet my soul-mate, marry her, and have a kid or two. Of course, if we can't have kids for whatever reason, then I'll be happy with just her by my side.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 21, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No, You Put A Story Title Here :-)

    I want to get married and have kids. To me marriage is also acceptance. Yeah, this is going to be a f'ed up thing to say, but I am not sure if I care what anyone else think...Marriage is someone saying to another, you are good enough for me. I have tried to fit in for most of...
    CaptSweatPants CaptSweatPants 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'M 18, And All I Want Is To Get Married And Kids

    I'm 18, and all I want is to find someone that wants the same things as me, and get married and try to get pregnant. That's all I want...
    animallover1995 animallover1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have had my share of failed relationships.

    The most recent one was literally less than a month ago and that was a huge disappointment because he seemed so promising. Unfortunately, things didn't work out how we had hoped and now I'm back to the drawing board. This really sucks and I'm so tired of starting over. I'm ready...
    brianajay brianajay 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He Doesn't Want To Get Married

    Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years now and a couple of weeks ago we were having a few drinks at the bar and there was a wedding happening on the esplanade across from us. As I was watching, smiling and saying all the "aww how nice" and "how...
    boofnz boofnz 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Wanting Marriage And Kids

    Hey there for the past 3 years ever since my last relationship its all i can think about. I want to be a dad and have a family most people my age don't want this and are into partying etc. To me its boring i want to just be married have kids take care of my family but i guess in...
    NickLD NickLD 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Just Want To Get Married

    I hate dating. I was trying to find some sites about marriage after I heard about a site that was due looking for some moderators for a site that isn't open yet and it was called ijustwanttogetmarried.com and I can't wait for that to open. Because I don't want to date and I want...
    ImJustSayin ImJustSayin 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    All I Want Be A Wife And Some Kids

    money, big houses, nice cars would be nice but they dont really matter compared to me desire to get a nice wife and start a family, i feel so lonely, 19 and never had a girlfriend, i want a nice lass to cuddle and love and become a dad, some teenage dads dont appreciate what they...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 17, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Left Behind

    as a person, there are so many things i wanted to get,  i wanted to have, and things/people i always dreamed of. but getting married and having kids' tops on my list. i always dreamed of having my own family, a happy and healthy family. who doesn't? i always imagine myself...
    iammighty iammighty 22-25, M Nov 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Nightmares Lately

    Lately, my nightmares have consisted of problems with my future wedding, my alleged marriage, and not being able to bear children. I'm 21. I'm recently single. I want kids. I want a husband to take care of, to come home to, to spend the night in the same bed with, to kiss while I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 14, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hope So

    I'm 21, I've never had a boyfriend and I'm still a virgin, but hopefully there is some hope...I want to have fun first before I commit to someone but i don't want to leave it too late and I don't want it to happen too soon, don't think I have to Worry about that lol. Ideally I...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 6, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm only 17 years old,

    and yes I just can't wait to have a baby and get married. No I'm not going to do it until I get older because I know I'm not ready or in the right position now, but that still doesn't change how I feel . :) I just recently graduated and I have a job and I'm starting college...
    nikkiohgee1473 nikkiohgee1473 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Honestly

    Isn't that our purpose?Just mine and His opinion.:)       jus sayin~
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F May 3, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I know I'm only young,

    but I don't want to be one of those 30 something's who still isn't married, and is worried about not having kids before she's 40. I know from family experiences that having an infant child in your forties and fifties is no fun, especially when you're mistaken as a grandparent at...
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I was married once, my marriage was annulled. I have a daughter who lives with me. She is always a part of me, and will always be with me. I need a man who will understand and...
    MissKassandra MissKassandra 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm in my mid-30s. I know that isn't old in the grand scheme of things, but I'm getting somewhat nervous that I haven't had any children yet. I'm not married, but dating. The...
    Sdg9791 Sdg9791 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Seems like more and more people are having kids at such a young age now a days. No one wants to wait until they are financially stable, married. I personally want to enjoy my life...
    iamnikki iamnikki 22-25, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is probably a more common problem than I think.. I want to have an affair, I'm newly married but we have had problems for awhile, my husband is an alcoholic .. I feel...
    danitykane13 danitykane13 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know no one is perfect but not everyone should have kids. Doctors and laws should get into parents' IQ, whether they have common sense or not, habits, and salary. Gosh! If one...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe that some people should have kids too. I know this lady that beats her autistic child because she can't handle how different he is. She also makes her kids lie about her...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Before I begin, let me first say there's no confusion here about whether or not to cheat. Can't handle the truth.... Having an affair is on my bucket list. Yeah, I said it! I...
    thatdresstho thatdresstho 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There should be an iq test amongst other intelligence tests before you can have kids
    smadathehut smadathehut 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well im 16 and i know i'm too young to start a family and it also seems like its going to be hard because i've never had a girlfriend and i'm not too social so i have that super...
    THEMADECK THEMADECK 16-17, M Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Not right now! I just mean that I hope I don't have any daughters when I have kids someday.
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My cousin announced him and his girlfriend of a few months are having a baby I feel so bad because I wish it was a joke that it is not true I am heart broken I love my cousin. And...
    leaf90McC leaf90McC 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    God I just love babies.... My maternal instinct is so... ugh! My body wants me to have a baby, put it that way :) I want to have at least 3. I want all the experiences. The good...
    WildFlowerChild19 WildFlowerChild19 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am in high school and this year i really fell in love with my gym teacher and just wanted to have a relationship with him. I just felt i needed someone there to talk to and he...
    soccer2117 soccer2117 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi :) I'm Fame. I'm a 16 year old gay who's acting like a straight guy, I don't know why but that's who I am. I live in Australia. I really want to have a boyfriend who is caring...
    famile famile 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel