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I Just Want to Get Married and Have Kids

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    My boyfriend keeps going back

    and forth on wanting kids. I love him and I want him to want a family with me, because not wanting kids is a deal breaker. But he keeps changing his mind and I don't know what to do about it.
    mt201409 mt201409 18-21, F Jun 13

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    I'm only 17 years old,

    and yes I just can't wait to have a baby and get married. No I'm not going to do it until I get older because I know I'm not ready or in the right position now, but that still doesn't change how I feel . :) I just recently graduated and I have a job and I'm starting college...
    nikkiohgee1473 nikkiohgee1473 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I have a feeling I won`t get married

    but I`m still hoping. I would love to get married to the One and feel those intense feelings of love. I think our marriage would work out cuz I`ve learned a lot from my parents` marriage and their mistakes in it. Most importantly I can`t wait to have my own kids from me. Being...
    azngirl123 azngirl123 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    My Dream

    I know that deep in my heart, my life goal is to meet my soul-mate, marry her, and have a kid or two. Of course, if we can't have kids for whatever reason, then I'll be happy with just her by my side.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 21, 2011

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    I Just Want To Get Married

    I hate dating. I was trying to find some sites about marriage after I heard about a site that was due looking for some moderators for a site that isn't open yet and it was called ijustwanttogetmarried.com and I can't wait for that to open. Because I don't want to date and I want...
    ImJustSayin ImJustSayin 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2010

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    I Want To Get Married And Have A Family.

    I am looking for a great woman to get married and have a family. MUST be faithful and kind.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 19, 2013

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    I Am Left Behind

    as a person, there are so many things i wanted to get,  i wanted to have, and things/people i always dreamed of. but getting married and having kids' tops on my list. i always dreamed of having my own family, a happy and healthy family. who doesn't? i always imagine myself...
    iammighty iammighty 22-25, M Nov 30, 2012

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    So Excited For It!!!!

    I am going to get marriied and have kids. and it is going to be awesome. i am going to be a good mom and the dad will be amazing<333 then we will be a big happy family<3333
    gentlyyours gentlyyours 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Yeah, someday I would.

    I would want at least a boy and a girl. I would name my boy Billy Joe (lead singer of Green Day) and my girl Hayley (lead singer of Paramore)
    PanicAtTheBlink PanicAtTheBlink 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    He Doesn't Want To Get Married

    Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years now and a couple of weeks ago we were having a few drinks at the bar and there was a wedding happening on the esplanade across from us. As I was watching, smiling and saying all the "aww how nice" and "how...
    boofnz boofnz 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Expected Too?

    I have always wanted to just get married & have children, but i feel as though im required to want to go to uni and college! it's a shame you can't just meet your soulmate and be happy, because i know that my dream job is raising my own children,Obviously not everybody wants kids...
    NeonFart NeonFart 13-15, F 2 Responses May 8, 2012

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    I'm 17 A Freshman In College Yet All I Want Is To Get Married And Have Children.

    These last couple of years have changed my life dramatically and I have came to realize that being a career oriented person isn't my mojo instead I want a family, to be married and have children
    Wageschick Wageschick 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Spinster Auntie

    I grew up the youngest of three with two older brothers. It's all I ever wanted since I was young, I never understood my friends' ambivalence...I ALWAYS wanted a husband and kids. My brothers seemed to be confirmed bachelors, but now I am at the dreaded 30, living with my...
    opheliac13 opheliac13 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    I'm 20, and for some reason I occasionally feel

    this really strong desire to get married and have kids. I know my boyfriend wants those things, but I also know that it won't be for a while. Sometimes I wonder if one of the reasons is that my parents are both on the older side (Mom is almost 62, dad just turned 65) and I know...
    Mollyisawalrus Mollyisawalrus 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I know I'm only young,

    but I don't want to be one of those 30 something's who still isn't married, and is worried about not having kids before she's 40. I know from family experiences that having an infant child in your forties and fifties is no fun, especially when you're mistaken as a grandparent at...
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 13

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    Honestly

    Isn't that our purpose?Just mine and His opinion.:)       jus sayin~
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F May 3, 2011

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    Sadly, I Can't See It Happening

    I have a really complicated story. I'm 28 now. I can't feel for guys except, well, you'll read about it. I wanted and tried to be a nun, but that didn't work out. Later, I met this guy, and totally to my surprise, fell for him. More surprising, I developed a deep unconditional...
    Ste11aeres Ste11aeres 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    All I Ever Wanted!!

    All I ever wanted is to fall in love and to stay in love, to be loyal to my other better half, be happy and to be married and have kids!! I wanted to raise that loving family of my own. I love being a loving wife and a caring and loving mother to any kids I might have....
    Kpayton1231 Kpayton1231 31-35 3 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    All I Want Be A Wife And Some Kids

    money, big houses, nice cars would be nice but they dont really matter compared to me desire to get a nice wife and start a family, i feel so lonely, 19 and never had a girlfriend, i want a nice lass to cuddle and love and become a dad, some teenage dads dont appreciate what they...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Wanting Marriage And Kids

    Hey there for the past 3 years ever since my last relationship its all i can think about. I want to be a dad and have a family most people my age don't want this and are into partying etc. To me its boring i want to just be married have kids take care of my family but i guess in...
    NickLD NickLD 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 9, 2012

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    I Just Want To Be A Mom

    My whole life that's all I've ever ultimately wanted, to be a mom. But of course, society always pressured me into going to school and getting a job. I think that because I never really wanted any of those things I ended up making very bad choices and now I'm 27 and still have...
    MissXavi MissXavi 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    I have had my share of failed relationships.

    The most recent one was literally less than a month ago and that was a huge disappointment because he seemed so promising. Unfortunately, things didn't work out how we had hoped and now I'm back to the drawing board. This really sucks and I'm so tired of starting over. I'm ready...
    brianajay brianajay 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Such A Simple Dream

    When I was younger I had such a simple dream, to get married and have kids... not many, maybe one or two, but I'm 35, still single and have to admit time is running out...for me to have kids at least, but I still hold on to the dream that I will one day get married.... afterall...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    I Hope So

    I'm 21, I've never had a boyfriend and I'm still a virgin, but hopefully there is some hope...I want to have fun first before I commit to someone but i don't want to leave it too late and I don't want it to happen too soon, don't think I have to Worry about that lol. Ideally I...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    My Dream Is Gone And I Don't Know How To Move On...

    I imagined and prayed that I would get married by 19 and have kids and spend my life loving my husband and raising our kids and just being that happy person at home, helping everyone else. Being that shoulder to cry on and just creating a safe and loving space for my family...
    GaveUpOnMyDream GaveUpOnMyDream 22-25, F 5 Responses May 13, 2011

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    21 and looking for a wife to have bairns

    with preferably one me own age, who don't mind a bit of pudding (im going to diet), ill be loyal, loving etc, I also wouldn't mind marrying a maiden, since I'm a virgin meself and because I think they're cute and innocent, I want our first time, maybe on our "first night", to...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M 1 Response May 12

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    I'M 18, And All I Want Is To Get Married And Kids

    I'm 18, and all I want is to find someone that wants the same things as me, and get married and try to get pregnant. That's all I want...
    animallover1995 animallover1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Nightmares Lately

    Lately, my nightmares have consisted of problems with my future wedding, my alleged marriage, and not being able to bear children. I'm 21. I'm recently single. I want kids. I want a husband to take care of, to come home to, to spend the night in the same bed with, to kiss while I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    No, You Put A Story Title Here :-)

    I want to get married and have kids. To me marriage is also acceptance. Yeah, this is going to be a f'ed up thing to say, but I am not sure if I care what anyone else think...Marriage is someone saying to another, you are good enough for me. I have tried to fit in for most of...
    CaptSweatPants CaptSweatPants 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2013

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    Thinking

    I think I wanna have 2 more kids, married or not.
    manomine manomine 46-50, M Dec 29, 2012

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    16 Years Old, Want To Get Married And Start A Family Asap

    Hi, my name's Hannah, I'm sixteen and live in a small town in England. I truly believe that I have found the person that I am meant to be with for the rest of my life - I love him more than anything else, would do literally anything for him and he makes me happier than I have...
    hannahlouise23 hannahlouise23 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 2, 2013

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    I Want To Get Married :)

    I am 35 years old guy i am looking for a girl who would love me and share her life with me :) i work hard and make good money
    Tony2die4 Tony2die4 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    The Perfect Family

    It may not happen right now, but I dream of some day making a great family and having the greatest wife in the world. I want to create a home that my kids can healthily grow up and know that the love of their mother and father is real and will always be there. Ultimately I want...
    AllStarcrushNate AllStarcrushNate 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    The past year of my life has been the craziest

    experience of my life. I finished college, met the love of my life, moved three times, and lost everything. I thought I was doing a nice thing by helping my fiance's mom and giving her a place to live. But it just got me living back with my parents. I've lost my job and now im...
    thidnayy18 thidnayy18 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When I was young, I wanted to have kids without really thinking about it. I thought it was a part of growing up. You get a job, a girl, a house and kids. The road to happiness...
    HermitKatWan HermitKatWan 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I love kids very much and I have always wanted to have a large family. I now have a big family and we all are very happy. I have 7 boys and 5 girls.
    nudistwifeandmother nudistwifeandmother 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Okay so this might be long, apologies in advanced ... I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now, officially. We've been in each other's lives for longer. My problem is, I...
    jlflyers jlflyers 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 28

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    I'm 31! I have a live in boyfriend of 5 years. Neither of us have kids. I have the ' baby itch'! At the beginning of our relationship, he said " you are the only one I would have a...
    hereigoagain2 hereigoagain2 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want to have sex with a female teacher in my school teaches maths,she's not attached and is only a mere 22 years old she has an a body like an hourglass,all the curves in the...
    TheGamechanger TheGamechanger 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    OK if ur gonna say something that hurts my feelings don't say it.I want to have a baby. I know u may say I'm to young or I have to focus on school..... I just want someone I can...
    bitchybrandi bitchybrandi 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I want to have 4 kids before im 25
    FindingTheRealMe FindingTheRealMe 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was babysitting son of my friend tonight... I hate it... Not the babysitting itself, it's great actually! But I hate the feeling it gives me. I know I'm not supposed to have kids...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I use to be against abortions, BUT after seeing and hearing what some children go through, I'm all for it! I rather for a woman to have an abortion, then to let her child get...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I'm 25 single and want to have a baby Sounds simple enough... Except every one in my life (especially my mom) doesn't want me to...they keep trying to talk me out of it like I'm a...
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 26 Responses Sep 4

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    I want to have like 12 kids! Have such a close family and stuff. But I want to be a social workers so it doesn't look like it will happen ..
    supergirl01 supergirl01 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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    I know that I'm young (going to be 19 in 3 months) but I am really good with kids and I understand how hard it is to raise one but I do have love and support I just need to find...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I believe about purety of love. I want to have virgin partner. I am personally still virgin even i never kissed anyone. People said i am attractive,nice,polite. Its so hard know i...
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I want to have a baby right away .asap . Soon as possible . Like yesterday. I want a baby girl . I already have her name picked and everything. I even have a mini diaper bag.
    Allmostcomplete Allmostcomplete 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 25

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    I want to have sex in my bedroom floor. Opps, now my new dream :D
    bandnerdbandkid bandnerdbandkid 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Who doesn't want to have fun, life would be very boring if there was no fun......
    MyTongueYourPussy MyTongueYourPussy 41-45, M Sep 2

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    hi i am from new delhi india i want to have sex with a sexy girl i will pay her gd bt i dnt hv ma prsnal place to **** plz help me out wht to do
    sexyboy034 sexyboy034 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 2

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