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I Keep Ep a Secret From My Spouse

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    Secret...shhh

    I know i do share a lot with my wifey..but yea there are somethings which would tamper with our relationship that i do respect a lot...so here i am as a secret.. sharing away in freedom :)
    Mark5on Mark5on 31-35, M 4 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    Almost But Act Nonchelaunt

    Ok you know what I mean no spell ck. I was blogging away on EP of course he the hub comes in I. Was slightly startled like I usually get when involved in something. I just acted real causual etc I could. See him trying to look but thankfully I wasn't in a place to draw suspicion...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    My Husband Has No Idea That...

    My husband has no idea that I frequent EP and I need it to stay that way.  I only log on after he has gone to work and never on the weekends when he is home all day.  I know he would want to know what I was doing here.  It makes it so much easier to be able share...
    AlwaysHopeful AlwaysHopeful 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    A Secret?? Please!!!

    My spouse tried to keep it a secret...but he failed. Now there's an open can of worms...wriggling in our life... A SECRET??? PLEASE :P ....I KNOW.
    ragesage ragesage 31-35, F Nov 6, 2012

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    No Other Way For Me!

    I realize that there are probably some married folks on here who share their EP account with their spouses and I have no problem with that whatsoever if that works for them. For me, however, it would totally take away any reason for being here as I would have to limit my groups...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    My Love For Ep

    I keep more than EP a secret from my spouse, truth is if my spouse knew me, really knew me, he'd think I'm a freak, a *****, a two timing cheater, amongst other things. EP is my outlet for the things I can't share in my day to day life. Who would want me to be their Doctor if...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 11 Responses Oct 17, 2007

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    Can Talk Openly

    On EP I can talk about things my wife won't let me discuss with her.  I can talk openly about sex and how I feel - two things I cannot do with my wife.  It's wonderful to be open and "tell it like it is."  It feels good.  I don't know how many people are...
    macmac95 macmac95 51-55, M 2 Responses May 11, 2010

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    Not Completely.....

    He knows I come here, and he knows that this is where I come to escape and write what I feel.  But it is more like an unsaid, agreed understanding that this is for me, where only I come.  He does not know what I write about or who I talk to, though I have offered to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    My Getaway

    This is my place to vent about him. All the things I can't say to him or to anyone. If he knew half the things i have written he would be horrified and very angry, but I need Ep. It keeps me sane.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    If I Could Talk To Him I Wouldnt Be Here

    I joined EP to be able to talk about and maybe get some support for my eating disorder. I keep it a secret since i haven't told anyone about my little problem. Its so much easier to confide in people on a website like this instead of having to see the looks on your friends and...
    DecayedAngel DecayedAngel 31-35, F Aug 15, 2012

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    Why I Keep Ep A Secret...

    I came to EP in the spring of 2009 (using a different username) as a way to vent about things that my wife would do to just cause me all kinds of turmoil. Whether it was smothering me in various ways, or telling me not to come home, or locking me out of the bedroom, house, or...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    It Stays In Vegas?

    I guess I keep it a secret because its mine! I don't wanna explain, don't wanna be monitored or questioned or worse yet like he always does join too and spy or snoop etc...I love him and he knows most of my demons, but this place stays sacred without him or others who would kill...
    hurricanekeeper hurricanekeeper 46-50, F Feb 15, 2013

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    This Is My World

    EP has wonderful for me. It allows me to vent, to explore, to give advice, to hear other opinions and I've met some wonderful people.  Do I want to share this with my wife? Hell No!  because it wouldn't be my world any more.  Everything I write is true and I'd like to keep it...
    PC2629 PC2629 56-60, M May 15, 2012

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    It Makes Me Feel Guilty

    I don't share EP with my man for obvious reasons. I first found this site while looking for somewhere to blog....somewhere private to vent about my relationship. A place to purge my heart and soul of the pain that has been accumulating for many years. You see, in reality, I tend...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I Don’t Live Here Anymore

    We aren’t married. However, we’ve lived together long enough that she feels like my wife. We’re roommates, bestfriends... girlfriends. We’ve maintained the relationship eleven summers winters. When we’ve had complications over the years, sometimes we’ve...
    TheButterflyMind TheButterflyMind 31-35, F Apr 19, 2012

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    Well I kinda do. He knows I get on

    but doesn't know what I do or post. In the past I have posted some stories that while they are true would hurt his feelings. A lot has changed for us in the past year and I have considered deleting the past stories but I don't want to. I can look back on those stories and read...
    MisterandMe MisterandMe 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Not Anymore..

    She knows and i assure her, that it's pure friendship and not an affair!
    ab2x2 ab2x2 41-45, M Nov 7, 2012

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    Kickingtires Kickingtires 51-55, M 11 Responses Mar 15

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    Too Bad

    I find it a shame that I have to keep EP a secret from my wife. I would so love to be the person I am here.But the disdain she gives me when I try to be open and honest with her about my wants and needs has basically made me stop sharing with her. Such a shame always thought...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    What happens on EP, stays on EP!

    What he doesn't know won't hurt him. Everyone deserves a little "me" time right?
    UGonnaKissMeOrNot UGonnaKissMeOrNot 31-35, F 7 Responses May 10

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    I'm A Work In Progress

    I'm not on EP to meet someone to have sex with. I like to discuss sex and hear other's experiences and feelings in hopes that it will better improve my relationship at home. Being a very private, independent person with 'flight of ideas' tendencies, I have to come to grips with...
    cdsi cdsi 46-50, M Mar 3, 2012

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    It Used To Be Easy

    When I started here, this was just a place to jot my thoughts down.  Occasionally I would write an erotic story, share a fantasy, or talk about music.  I talked to a few people, but not that many.  I was more interested in getting things out of my head, things that had been...
    laynemeyer laynemeyer 36-40, M 18 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    This is where I can vent my frustrations

    and explore areas that she isn't in the slightest bit interested in exploring with me. Anyone who has read my stories knows about the frustrations and dissatisfaction with areas of my life... However I learned long ago that talking about issues such as sex is worse then just...
    Aussiemerk Aussiemerk 36-40, M Apr 2

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    Thanks Ep

    I came across this site by total accident and its the best thing that happened to me. I have made a few wonderful friends who have made such a difference to my thinking and way of life. I wish to say express my sincere thanks to 2  guys I've been chatting with recently it...
    fraka fraka 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    A Place To Be Me

    I have found that I like journaling. I had a journal going and my went behind my back and read it. Some of my entries were prayers to God to help me be a better husband for her. This seem to irritate her. I didn't mind at first when she told me she read it. But when she...
    seejayzee seejayzee 41-45, M Aug 25, 2012

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    I Dodged The Bullet Of A Bazooka Today!!!

    For some reason, last night was a night full of issues for the household network - but only where the laptop was concerned. I had to leave the laptop and go to the desktop to finish an EP chat, then decided to come back to finish the story I was typing on the laptop.  The...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 18 Responses May 7, 2013

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    EP Keep Me Sane

    I am very thankful i found this site. I found it by accident when i was trying to google how to overcome a break up. I was feeling very down at that time (few weeks ago) and the stories help me to get through it. Well, the breakup didn't end as break up but i have been constantly...
    Redbutterfly2012 Redbutterfly2012 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    Q. If you have it, you want to share it.

    If you share it, you don’t have it. What is it? A: A secret
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    I Do..........

    Because it is my form of therapy. Due to my husbands sexless tendences and narcissistic, obsessive- compulsive, manipulative personality, he has made my life a living hell! I am tormented everyday with the decision I have made to continue for my childrens sake. I cannot count the...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2011

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    He'd Never Understand

    My husband knows of EP but he would never understand why I've become addicted to it. He'd throw a downright fit if he knew the experiences I've had and he'd be even more upset at the stories I've posted. He knows of everything I've posted, though, but he'd be upset that anyone...
    Dimples87 Dimples87 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    Secret

    My wife doesn;t know i use EP or the fact I am Bi C. Honestly I don't know how she would react to either............
    hotwilly hotwilly 56-60, M 4 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    My Escape

    If my husband knew about Experience Project, I would probably be in hot water with him. I could try to explain that after a long day of working both jobs and cleaning the house, taking care of our 2 year old and countless other things I must do, that this is my escape. I would...
    KayMer12 KayMer12 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Not True, She Knows All About It.

    Okay, so I'm telling Porky pies now.( Cockney slang) meaning, lies. I know you didn't believe me anyway, did you? To be honest, I do enjoy meeting interesting people from around the world on here. I've posted many many items on here, hopefully , I haven't repeated myself. If you...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    My husband of 12 years is extremely jealous

    and I can't take it any longer!! I'm not allowed to have male friends and he's even angry when a male posts on my Facebook account. How can I deal with his insecurities? He thinks every guy just wants to have sex and can't be friends. I don't have any close friends because he's...
    Golds2014 Golds2014 36-40, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    He Doesn't Know

    EP is my little secret that I keep from everyone in my real life, especially my husband. Nobody knows about this site. It's a little place for me to completely be myself and say what I feel when I feel it. I can confess things here that I can't tell anyone else. And there is...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    It's Just For Me

    It's a place where I can vent without anyone judging me. I know they say spouses aren't supposed to judge, but you know they do. And what if the problem is with him? Exactly. Some things I can't tell ANYONE...except EP. I honestly don't remember how I found this site. It was...
    lucifette lucifette 22-25, F Jun 24, 2012

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    Better Not Knowing

    I am in EP and really enjoy the conversations from the members and exchanging points of view. My wife does not know nor should she ever. If she were to ask, the answers would be very honest but I know her and she would not be a happy camper. Part of the revelation that she would...
    curious62 curious62 61-65, M 2 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Here To Stay

    I have been on EP since October. I have my little laptop in the kitchen, and so I am easily visable. To keep my being on EP some what private, I do end up logging on and off frequently. It is kind of like a neon sign at times. My reason for being on EP is because I am in a...
    neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 24 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    I Am Having An Affair With Ep

    I am married to a man who is pretty secretive.   I made my peace with his occasional affairs, occurring about every year or two, a couple years ago.  His affairs usually occurred in the Spring and involved women that, frankly, weren't as attractive or interesting as me...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 3 Responses May 13, 2009

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    I just found this site

    and am so thankful!! Finally a place where I am free to express myself and all those frustrations. If you know what I mean! Shhhh keep it a secret though!
    sexilexibexi sexilexibexi 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 29

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    I Need This

    EP must stay a secret from him... I need a place to talk about all of the parts of my life I don't tell him so he won't get hurt.  I do love my husband, when it comes down to brass tacks.  He is a wonderful man and I wouldn't hurt him for the world.  So EP and all...
    dyin2live dyin2live 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2008

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    I Keep Ep a Secret From My Partner

    I've never happen to mention to my girlfriend I have friends she has no idea about.  I think everyone needs to have their own friends separate from their SO.  It wouldn't be fair to her if she was the only one I talk to about my stuff.  But everything I share...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 2, 2008

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    Mollydolly25 Mollydolly25 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    prince35xxx prince35xxx 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    I am here hoping to connect with a male soulmate. Since that is essentially virtual cheating my account is a secret from my spouse and my family and friends.
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    So to start...my secret crush isn't exactly secret cause I only told one of my closest friend who I knew I could trust to keep it a secret.From my last experience on my ex-crush...
    Athenian101 Athenian101 13-15, M Jul 15

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    Hello I am the wife of a drug addict. We have been married for 2 years July 21st. I began to notice major changes in his behavior and mood changes. Also the way he was w me. He...
    CE21 CE21 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I don't run my mouth. I hate gossip so if you tell me something I will keep it under lock and key. I have self control over my mouth. And I respect and appreciate you for choosing...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I suck at keeping secrets :)
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm good at keeping secrets.. you can message me if you want
    tantanerana tantanerana 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm really good at keeping secrets .. tell me anything
    tantanerana tantanerana 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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