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I Keep Ep a Secret From My Spouse

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    My husband of 12 years is extremely jealous

    and I can't take it any longer!! I'm not allowed to have male friends and he's even angry when a male posts on my Facebook account. How can I deal with his insecurities? He thinks every guy just wants to have sex and can't be friends. I don't have any close friends because he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Almost But Act Nonchelaunt

    Ok you know what I mean no spell ck. I was blogging away on EP of course he the hub comes in I. Was slightly startled like I usually get when involved in something. I just acted real causual etc I could. See him trying to look but thankfully I wasn't in a place to draw suspicion...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Not because my thoughts

    and discussions here are wrong, it's because she would.
    bobdunkin00 bobdunkin00 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    I do not want him to know,

    he would get angry, even though he never wants to talk to me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    Well I kinda do. He knows I get on

    but doesn't know what I do or post. In the past I have posted some stories that while they are true would hurt his feelings. A lot has changed for us in the past year and I have considered deleting the past stories but I don't want to. I can look back on those stories and read...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 15, 2014

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    Not Anymore..

    She knows and i assure her, that it's pure friendship and not an affair!
    ab2x2 ab2x2 41-45, M Nov 7, 2012

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    It Makes Me Feel Guilty

    I don't share EP with my man for obvious reasons. I first found this site while looking for somewhere to blog....somewhere private to vent about my relationship. A place to purge my heart and soul of the pain that has been accumulating for many years. You see, in reality, I tend...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I don't keep many things from her,

    but this is one thing I do. I've found more people on here that relate to my inner thoughts better than she does. Am I just scared to admit to her what my real fantasies are, yes. Do we fight a lot to the point I need out, definitely not. Who wrote the rule that we can't have a...
    ducias ducias 31-35, M 1 Response May 7, 2015

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    EP Keep Me Sane

    I am very thankful i found this site. I found it by accident when i was trying to google how to overcome a break up. I was feeling very down at that time (few weeks ago) and the stories help me to get through it. Well, the breakup didn't end as break up but i have been constantly...
    Redbutterfly2012 Redbutterfly2012 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    Q. If you have it, you want to share it.

    If you share it, you don’t have it. What is it? A: A secret
    SailorsAngel SailorsAngel 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I Need This

    EP must stay a secret from him... I need a place to talk about all of the parts of my life I don't tell him so he won't get hurt.  I do love my husband, when it comes down to brass tacks.  He is a wonderful man and I wouldn't hurt him for the world.  So EP and all...
    dyin2live dyin2live 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1, 2008

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    I like to have space

    and time for myself. I have a lovely wife and young child - but I really do miss my former bachelor life and exploits. If I can find some release on EP, with like minded folk - then no one gets hurt.
    humberboy humberboy 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2015

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    Absolutely do. It's my outlet most times.

    He has his things and this is one of mine.
    Hteag Hteag 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2015

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    yes i do because i am currently seeing a

    married black man for adult fun and meet secretly in public places. and other x rated things about me no one knows.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2015

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    My Escape

    If my husband knew about Experience Project, I would probably be in hot water with him. I could try to explain that after a long day of working both jobs and cleaning the house, taking care of our 2 year old and countless other things I must do, that this is my escape. I would...
    KayMer12 KayMer12 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    thus is the only place

    that I can say the things that I feel like screaming.
    Chuckess716 Chuckess716 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 11, 2015

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    Well I just joined this site pretty much

    because of things I did behind my husbands back. He works for a big engineering firm and they have him going all over the place. We just got married and moved in together but he is never home. I was lonely. Went out one night with a friend she met a guy and I ended up sleeping...
    stephdabelle stephdabelle 22-25, F 13 Responses Jul 31, 2015

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    I've been gone a bit,

    would love to hook up with old friends and make new ones ;)
    lancedominari lancedominari 46-50, M Jan 27, 2015

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    Why I Keep Ep A Secret...

    I came to EP in the spring of 2009 (using a different username) as a way to vent about things that my wife would do to just cause me all kinds of turmoil. Whether it was smothering me in various ways, or telling me not to come home, or locking me out of the bedroom, house, or...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    I just found this site

    and am so thankful!! Finally a place where I am free to express myself and all those frustrations. If you know what I mean! Shhhh keep it a secret though!
    sexilexibexi sexilexibexi 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    Thanks Ep

    I came across this site by total accident and its the best thing that happened to me. I have made a few wonderful friends who have made such a difference to my thinking and way of life. I wish to say express my sincere thanks to 2  guys I've been chatting with recently it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    He Doesn't Know

    EP is my little secret that I keep from everyone in my real life, especially my husband. Nobody knows about this site. It's a little place for me to completely be myself and say what I feel when I feel it. I can confess things here that I can't tell anyone else. And there is...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    It Used To Be Easy

    When I started here, this was just a place to jot my thoughts down.  Occasionally I would write an erotic story, share a fantasy, or talk about music.  I talked to a few people, but not that many.  I was more interested in getting things out of my head, things that had been...
    laynemeyer laynemeyer 36-40, M 15 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    I haven't told my wife I am searching

    for answers here. but then again I intentionally picked a common username that she knows about so if she searches me she'll find it. part of me hopes she does because maybe my venting here will finally get through to her
    bolyami bolyami 41-45, M 5 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I do keep EP a secret from my spouse,

    this is my outlet to share my feelings. I sure can't share anything with him, he never listens to me. Unfortunately our marriage is coming to an end soon. I feel to have a good marriage or relationship communication is key.
    Southerncharm67 Southerncharm67 46-50, F 10 Responses May 31, 2015

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    My Love For Ep

    I keep more than EP a secret from my spouse, truth is if my spouse knew me, really knew me, he'd think I'm a freak, a *****, a two timing cheater, amongst other things. EP is my outlet for the things I can't share in my day to day life. Who would want me to be their Doctor if...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 17, 2007

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    What he doesn't know.

    I just need a place for myself. It really is my "experience project" as the name says.
    CafeAuLeah CafeAuLeah 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    Not True, She Knows All About It.

    Okay, so I'm telling Porky pies now.( Cockney slang) meaning, lies. I know you didn't believe me anyway, did you? To be honest, I do enjoy meeting interesting people from around the world on here. I've posted many many items on here, hopefully , I haven't repeated myself. If you...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    I like that it's just my own little escape.

    He doesn't know about it and I plan to keep it that way. Just someone nice to talk to and new friends to make would be great.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 16, 2015

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    My spouse would not be amused about my secret

    life as mr **********, let alone the sites that I frequent, including this one. I am a solosexer, enjoying the company of my penis. I'm also an exhibitionist, another trait that she would not find acceptable, but I relish and enjoy every chance I can get!
    mrmasturbate mrmasturbate 61-65, M 2 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    TexasRocker TexasRocker 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 1, 2015

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    Every week I am asked,

    "are you on any of those websites again?". Liked I'd make the same mistake twice? "Nope. Not me honey!". Lol. Thanks for the outlet EP.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 10, 2015

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    Secret...shhh

    I know i do share a lot with my wifey..but yea there are somethings which would tamper with our relationship that i do respect a lot...so here i am as a secret.. sharing away in freedom :)
    Mark5on Mark5on 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    I Dodged The Bullet Of A Bazooka Today!!!

    For some reason, last night was a night full of issues for the household network - but only where the laptop was concerned. I had to leave the laptop and go to the desktop to finish an EP chat, then decided to come back to finish the story I was typing on the laptop.  The...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 11 Responses May 7, 2013

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    This is a great place I can go to escape.

    When he's ******* me off and completely frustrating me, that's when I log on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 13, 2015

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    ChelseaLDM ChelseaLDM 41-45, F 13 Responses Nov 10, 2015

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    i enjoy making connections knowing they are

    keeping a secret as well. i find it exciting.
    happycruiser22 happycruiser22 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 29, 2015

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    nothing I have ever said

    or shared here would surprised my wife, she would just think it was inappropriate for me to be here sharing some things I feel. I would prefer not to keep it a secret but have to avoid the confrontation. she does not understand. I drive a truck over the road during the week and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 28, 2015

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    I'll keep your secret if you want to tell me it :3 PM me, it's not much of a secret here lol.
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    I do because I know my folks would not approve of me chatting "to strangers" online, and I can understand their concern about these things. I am careful of course but I see it is...