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I Keep Ep a Secret From My Spouse

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    It Makes Me Feel Guilty

    I don't share EP with my man for obvious reasons. I first found this site while looking for somewhere to blog....somewhere private to vent about my relationship. A place to purge my heart and soul of the pain that has been accumulating for many years. You see, in reality, I tend...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I just found this site

    and am so thankful!! Finally a place where I am free to express myself and all those frustrations. If you know what I mean! Shhhh keep it a secret though!
    sexilexibexi sexilexibexi 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 29, 2014

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    TexasRocker TexasRocker 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    This is a great place I can go to escape.

    When he's ******* me off and completely frustrating me, that's when I log on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 13

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    Well I just joined this site pretty much

    because of things I did behind my husbands back. He works for a big engineering firm and they have him going all over the place. We just got married and moved in together but he is never home. I was lonely. Went out one night with a friend she met a guy and I ended up sleeping...
    stephdabelle stephdabelle 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 31

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    It Stays In Vegas?

    I guess I keep it a secret because its mine! I don't wanna explain, don't wanna be monitored or questioned or worse yet like he always does join too and spy or snoop etc...I love him and he knows most of my demons, but this place stays sacred without him or others who would kill...
    hurricanekeeper hurricanekeeper 46-50, F Feb 15, 2013

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    I do not want him to know,

    he would get angry, even though he never wants to talk to me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    Q. If you have it, you want to share it.

    If you share it, you don’t have it. What is it? A: A secret
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    nothing I have ever said

    or shared here would surprised my wife, she would just think it was inappropriate for me to be here sharing some things I feel. I would prefer not to keep it a secret but have to avoid the confrontation. she does not understand. I drive a truck over the road during the week and...
    volvoman60 volvoman60 56-60, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    At least to a fashion .

    .I had thought, I did. Only last night ..something strange happened , I came in to our bedroom. and could have swore he was on my profile ..yes. He seemed to have been typing ..only he changed pages so quickly ..I wasn't sure what to think ;-/ I'm 99% sure he was on my...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 12 Responses Apr 1

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    I Need This

    EP must stay a secret from him... I need a place to talk about all of the parts of my life I don't tell him so he won't get hurt.  I do love my husband, when it comes down to brass tacks.  He is a wonderful man and I wouldn't hurt him for the world.  So EP and all...
    dyin2live dyin2live 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1, 2008

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    My husband of 12 years is extremely jealous

    and I can't take it any longer!! I'm not allowed to have male friends and he's even angry when a male posts on my Facebook account. How can I deal with his insecurities? He thinks every guy just wants to have sex and can't be friends. I don't have any close friends because he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Almost But Act Nonchelaunt

    Ok you know what I mean no spell ck. I was blogging away on EP of course he the hub comes in I. Was slightly startled like I usually get when involved in something. I just acted real causual etc I could. See him trying to look but thankfully I wasn't in a place to draw suspicion...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    A Secret?? Please!!!

    My spouse tried to keep it a secret...but he failed. Now there's an open can of worms...wriggling in our life... A SECRET??? PLEASE :P ....I KNOW.
    ragesage ragesage 31-35, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Well I kinda do. He knows I get on

    but doesn't know what I do or post. In the past I have posted some stories that while they are true would hurt his feelings. A lot has changed for us in the past year and I have considered deleting the past stories but I don't want to. I can look back on those stories and read...
    MisterandMe MisterandMe 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15, 2014

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    My Love For Ep

    I keep more than EP a secret from my spouse, truth is if my spouse knew me, really knew me, he'd think I'm a freak, a *****, a two timing cheater, amongst other things. EP is my outlet for the things I can't share in my day to day life. Who would want me to be their Doctor if...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 17, 2007

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    Not Anymore..

    She knows and i assure her, that it's pure friendship and not an affair!
    ab2x2 ab2x2 41-45, M Nov 7, 2012

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    Every week I am asked,

    "are you on any of those websites again?". Liked I'd make the same mistake twice? "Nope. Not me honey!". Lol. Thanks for the outlet EP.
    luv2wetmyself2 luv2wetmyself2 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 10

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    What he doesn't know.

    I just need a place for myself. It really is my "experience project" as the name says.
    CafeAuLeah CafeAuLeah 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    I Dodged The Bullet Of A Bazooka Today!!!

    For some reason, last night was a night full of issues for the household network - but only where the laptop was concerned. I had to leave the laptop and go to the desktop to finish an EP chat, then decided to come back to finish the story I was typing on the laptop.  The...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 12 Responses May 7, 2013

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    I do keep EP a secret from my spouse,

    this is my outlet to share my feelings. I sure can't share anything with him, he never listens to me. Unfortunately our marriage is coming to an end soon. I feel to have a good marriage or relationship communication is key.
    Southerncharm67 Southerncharm67 46-50, F 12 Responses May 31

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    Better Not Knowing

    I am in EP and really enjoy the conversations from the members and exchanging points of view. My wife does not know nor should she ever. If she were to ask, the answers would be very honest but I know her and she would not be a happy camper. Part of the revelation that she would...
    curious62 curious62 61-65, M 1 Response Jun 19, 2012

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    Thanks Ep

    I came across this site by total accident and its the best thing that happened to me. I have made a few wonderful friends who have made such a difference to my thinking and way of life. I wish to say express my sincere thanks to 2  guys I've been chatting with recently it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    I've been gone a bit,

    would love to hook up with old friends and make new ones ;)
    lancedominari lancedominari 46-50, M Jan 27

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    My Escape

    If my husband knew about Experience Project, I would probably be in hot water with him. I could try to explain that after a long day of working both jobs and cleaning the house, taking care of our 2 year old and countless other things I must do, that this is my escape. I would...
    KayMer12 KayMer12 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    He'd Never Understand

    My husband knows of EP but he would never understand why I've become addicted to it. He'd throw a downright fit if he knew the experiences I've had and he'd be even more upset at the stories I've posted. He knows of everything I've posted, though, but he'd be upset that anyone...
    Dimples87 Dimples87 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    Absolutely do. It's my outlet most times.

    He has his things and this is one of mine.
    Hteag Hteag 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    EP Keep Me Sane

    I am very thankful i found this site. I found it by accident when i was trying to google how to overcome a break up. I was feeling very down at that time (few weeks ago) and the stories help me to get through it. Well, the breakup didn't end as break up but i have been constantly...
    Redbutterfly2012 Redbutterfly2012 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    I don't keep many things from her,

    but this is one thing I do. I've found more people on here that relate to my inner thoughts better than she does. Am I just scared to admit to her what my real fantasies are, yes. Do we fight a lot to the point I need out, definitely not. Who wrote the rule that we can't have a...
    ducias ducias 31-35, M 1 Response May 7

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    He Doesn't Know

    EP is my little secret that I keep from everyone in my real life, especially my husband. Nobody knows about this site. It's a little place for me to completely be myself and say what I feel when I feel it. I can confess things here that I can't tell anyone else. And there is...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    I haven't told my wife I am searching

    for answers here. but then again I intentionally picked a common username that she knows about so if she searches me she'll find it. part of me hopes she does because maybe my venting here will finally get through to her
    bolyami bolyami 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    yes i do because i am currently seeing a

    married black man for adult fun and meet secretly in public places. and other x rated things about me no one knows.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 4

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    It Used To Be Easy

    When I started here, this was just a place to jot my thoughts down.  Occasionally I would write an erotic story, share a fantasy, or talk about music.  I talked to a few people, but not that many.  I was more interested in getting things out of my head, things that had been...
    laynemeyer laynemeyer 36-40, M 16 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    Not True, She Knows All About It.

    Okay, so I'm telling Porky pies now.( Cockney slang) meaning, lies. I know you didn't believe me anyway, did you? To be honest, I do enjoy meeting interesting people from around the world on here. I've posted many many items on here, hopefully , I haven't repeated myself. If you...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    Why I Keep Ep A Secret...

    I came to EP in the spring of 2009 (using a different username) as a way to vent about things that my wife would do to just cause me all kinds of turmoil. Whether it was smothering me in various ways, or telling me not to come home, or locking me out of the bedroom, house, or...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Secret...shhh

    I know i do share a lot with my wifey..but yea there are somethings which would tamper with our relationship that i do respect a lot...so here i am as a secret.. sharing away in freedom :)
    Mark5on Mark5on 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    Making friends? OK, sure. Keeping friends? Um.... What are those again?
    js246 js246 22-25, F 36 mins ago

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    I do not know who they are and that is way I want to keep it.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616 18-21 4 hrs ago

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    wayyyyyy to many of them, the only person that knows pretty much knows most of them is my best friend (you could say it isn't a secret then but he hasn't old anyone and if he did...
    Ralbarda Ralbarda 13-15, M 9 hrs ago

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    I felt that something always been missing from my life and the list keeps growing. From people's, to careers, and experiences, it always something. And now a special someone.
    lisabar89 lisabar89 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    PLEASE HELP ME! he knows i like him, but he keeps leading me on. sometime i hate it when a guy does that. Everyday i catch him staring at me like he has nothing to do. (i don't...
    ilovelove23 ilovelove23 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Hey everyone!!! I believe there isn't a secret in the world that should be a complete secret!!! Especially if its personal, because most secrets r secrets bc we r scared of...
    Avreich Avreich 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Sigh.. Where to even begin this battle. I have been married for almost 17 yrs. I have fallen out of love long ago, but since we are military and I have no job I am trapped. We have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Secrets are just pockets of information. They are never bad, or good - as they need context to be moral or immoral. So I treat every secret I have in the same way. I keep them, I...
    Radomguy1000 Radomguy1000 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago