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I Keep Ep a Secret From My Spouse

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    I'TS Mines!! - I keep EP a secret because its like my diary for my thoughts plus he would probably criticize me for being on any kind of site with other people he told that it was...
    Braveheart4real Braveheart4real 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2008

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    No Other Way For Me! - I realize that there are probably some married folks on here who share their EP account with their spouses and I have no problem with that whatsoever if that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    A Place To Be Me - I have found that I like journaling. I had a journal going and my went behind my back and read it. Some of my entries were prayers to God to help me be a better...
    seejayzee seejayzee 41-45, M Aug 25, 2012

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    Yes, But I Am Considering Possibly Revealing It -- Advice Please? - I have been with my wife almost 18 years now, and, sad to say, the relationship has been poor almost from the...
    accomplice accomplice 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    Thanks Ep - I came across this site by total accident and its the best thing that happened to me. I have made a few wonderful friends who have made such a difference to my...
    fraka fraka 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    Need to Have a Space to Vent.... - I keep EP a secret from my husband because I joined for the "I live in a sexless marriage" group.  And I'm willing to bet almost...
    caffeineaddict caffeineaddict 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2008

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    She would not be amused in the least.
    Kickingtires Kickingtires 51-55, M 9 Responses Mar 15

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    It's Just For Me - It's a place where I can vent without anyone judging me. I know they say spouses aren't supposed to judge, but you know they do. And what if the problem is with...
    lucifette lucifette 22-25, F Jun 24, 2012

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    You Bet I Do - It's my place to vent about him. My place to write all the things that bug me about him. My place to write down all the nasty things I would just love to say to...
    HurricaneLeia HurricaneLeia 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2010

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    This Is My World - EP has wonderful for me. It allows me to vent, to explore, to give advice, to hear other opinions and I've met some wonderful people.  Do I want to share this...
    PC2629 PC2629 56-60, M May 15, 2012

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    I Keep Ep a Secret From My Partner - I've never happen to mention to my girlfriend I have friends she has no idea about.  I think everyone needs to have their own friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 2, 2008

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    Secret...shhh - I know i do share a lot with my wifey..but yea there are somethings which would tamper with our relationship that i do respect a lot...so here i am as a secret...
    Mark5on Mark5on 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    Definately Not Ready - My husband is definately not ready for me.  I'm waking up, discovering my sensuality and finding a confidence I never knew I had.  I'm growing...
    gdgtgrl gdgtgrl 41-45, F 21 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    Here To Stay - I have been on EP since October. I have my little laptop in the kitchen, and so I am easily visable. To keep my being on EP some what private, I do end up logging on...
    neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 24 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Free to Be Me - Oh yes, this is definitely a secret.  This is the one place that I can be me.  If she had half an idea of half the experiences I listed here, she'd...
    think2much think2much 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Well.... - This one doesn't really matter anymore, but yea I used to. 
    yeaandso yeaandso 36-40, F Nov 9, 2010

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    EP Keep Me Sane - I am very thankful i found this site. I found it by accident when i was trying to google how to overcome a break up. I was feeling very down at that time (few...
    Redbutterfly2012 Redbutterfly2012 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    My Getaway - This is my place to vent about him. All the things I can't say to him or to anyone. If he knew half the things i have written he would be horrified and very angry, but...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    I Don’t Live Here Anymore - We aren’t married. However, we’ve lived together long enough that she feels like my wife. We’re roommates, bestfriends... girlfriends...
    TheButterflyMind TheButterflyMind 31-35, F Apr 19, 2012

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    My Husband Has No Idea That... - My husband has no idea that I frequent EP and I need it to stay that way.  I only log on after he has gone to work and never on the weekends...
    AlwaysHopeful AlwaysHopeful 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    He'd Never Understand - My husband knows of EP but he would never understand why I've become addicted to it. He'd throw a downright fit if he knew the experiences I've had and he'd...
    Dimples87 Dimples87 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2008

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    Almost But Act Nonchelaunt - Ok you know what I mean no spell ck. I was blogging away on EP of course he the hub comes in I. Was slightly startled like I usually get when involved...
    aradia11 aradia11 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Not True, She Knows All About It. - Okay, so I'm telling Porky pies now.( Cockney slang) meaning, lies. I know you didn't believe me anyway, did you? To be honest, I do enjoy...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 1 Response Nov 9, 2013

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    It Used To Be Easy - When I started here, this was just a place to jot my thoughts down.  Occasionally I would write an erotic story, share a fantasy, or talk about music.  I...
    laynemeyer laynemeyer 36-40, M 18 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    I Dodged The Bullet Of A Bazooka Today!!! - For some reason, last night was a night full of issues for the household network - but only where the laptop was concerned. I had to...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 19 Responses May 7, 2013

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    Why? - Why is it that bad things happen to people that try to live their life the right way? I do try. Then things happen with my friends and family to often. I always am the one...
    wanderingvine wanderingvine 51-55, T 1 Response May 26, 2011

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    Wife - If my wife knew even half of what I do on EP, she'd have a heart attack. So, I don't tell her about it. Let's have fun!
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 2, 2010

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    Not Anymore.. - She knows and i assure her, that it's pure friendship and not an affair!
    ab2x2 ab2x2 41-45, M Nov 7, 2012

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    My Love For Ep - I keep more than EP a secret from my spouse, truth is if my spouse knew me, really knew me, he'd think I'm a freak, a *****, a two timing cheater, amongst other...
    luvitruff73 luvitruff73 31-35, F 11 Responses Oct 17, 2007

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    I Am Having An Affair With Ep - I am married to a man who is pretty secretive.   I made my peace with his occasional affairs, occurring about every year or two, a couple years...
    EvesHarvest EvesHarvest 51-55, F 3 Responses May 13, 2009

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    My Escape - If my husband knew about Experience Project, I would probably be in hot water with him. I could try to explain that after a long day of working both jobs and cleaning...
    KayMer12 KayMer12 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Why I Keep Ep A Secret... - I came to EP in the spring of 2009 (using a different username) as a way to vent about things that my wife would do to just cause me all kinds of...
    ambroseguy80 ambroseguy80 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    No Clue - My husband does not have a clue about this site. I have decided with all the screw ups that he has done, that I have the right to keep my own things from him. This...
    clarity1 clarity1 26-30 3 Responses Apr 16, 2009

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    If I Could Talk To Him I Wouldnt Be Here - I joined EP to be able to talk about and maybe get some support for my eating disorder. I keep it a secret since i haven't told anyone...
    DecayedAngel DecayedAngel 31-35, F Aug 15, 2012

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    Oh Boy - I've been keeping it a secret, but I got caught tonight! In the confessions section no less! Oh well, He can screw! I love this place!
    wolflady5 wolflady5 46-50, F 8 Responses Jun 28, 2008

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    Not Completely..... - He knows I come here, and he knows that this is where I come to escape and write what I feel.  But it is more like an unsaid, agreed understanding that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    My Secret Place - ep is my secret place where i can escape from my unhappy marriage and can be myself express my feelings without recrimenation can laugh and cry be myself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    Is Your Secret Making You Live A Double Life? - MTV is NOW CASTING! Do you lead a double life? We’re looking for extreme here (i.e. accountant all week and racecar driver on...
    NandD NandD 18-21 Feb 7, 2011

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    It Stays In Vegas? - I guess I keep it a secret because its mine! I don't wanna explain, don't wanna be monitored or questioned or worse yet like he always does join too and spy or...
    hurricanekeeper hurricanekeeper 46-50, F Feb 15, 2013

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    It Makes Me Feel Guilty - I don't share EP with my man for obvious reasons. I first found this site while looking for somewhere to blog....somewhere private to vent about my...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I Need This - EP must stay a secret from him... I need a place to talk about all of the parts of my life I don't tell him so he won't get hurt.  I do love my husband, when it...
    dyin2live dyin2live 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1, 2008

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    Well I kinda do. He knows I get on but doesn't know what I do or post. In the past I have posted some stories that while they are true would hurt his feelings. A lot has changed...
    MisterandMe MisterandMe 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    I Do.......... - Because it is my form of therapy. Due to my husbands sexless tendences and narcissistic, obsessive- compulsive, manipulative personality, he has made my life a...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2011

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    It Ismy Secret - I have told my wife that I chat with other adults and get interesting opinions about stuff, but she hasn't asked and I haven't told where. If she knew some of the...
    extremedad extremedad 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 4, 2008

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    A Secret?? Please!!! - My spouse tried to keep it a secret...but he failed. Now there's an open can of worms...wriggling in our life... A SECRET??? PLEASE :P ....I KNOW.
    ragesage ragesage 31-35, F Nov 6, 2012

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    Not sure why I would. He knows more about me than any ep ever could.
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Well... I think a large portion of this community does. Because that's kinda the reason most people join- to, as the EP front page says, "find support from others who understand...
    AZChomp644 AZChomp644 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Does anybody feel like to talk about their secrets? If so just msg whenever you feel like to bring up the secrets from the closed corner of your..I m very good at keeping secrets...
    openheart92 openheart92 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I have never been a person to gossip, or repeat anything or even listen or believe any second hand information. As a child I never told stories about what my siblings did or said...
    aussieguy01 aussieguy01 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm able to keep secrets. I know many secrets from my people. No one can break me when it comes down to holding them. I'm very proud of this.
    BeefStromi BeefStromi 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 16