Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Keep Getting Hurt By Family

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 253 People

    New Years Resolusion

    This year I resolve to deal with this family issue. I have decided that I will have a sit down with my parents. They are the only ones that are important enough for me to deal with. I will let them know how I feel and how this has effected me. For a longer term fix? My husband...
    NKDing NKDing 51-55, F Jan 11, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And The Holiday Season Is Upon Us!

    I HATE this time of year. I have always believed in big family celibrations and children running around. Laughter and stories and catching up on what is going on in each others lives.Now it is just my husband and I.I am not allowed to celibrate the holidays with my parents or...
    NKDing NKDing 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 4, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Unsuccess

    My Dad died a long time ago. My Mom is cold and distant. My siblings are like strangers. I tried to hug my mom when I was 4. She pushed me away and said not to be stupid. I still remember it to this day. When I call, she doesn't even say hello...she answers the phone with 'What...
    HypoCriticaLie HypoCriticaLie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Things Are Looking Better...

    Recently, my biological father contacted me. Took him a while to find me again, but he's made me see that I'm not alone, or strange with my little quirks. I feel better, I have siblings now that welcome me with open arms, and it certainly is fantastic to know that they all have...
    lowheart lowheart 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just Not Good Enough

    I am the eldest sister of four siblings. I have always been protective and my personality is such that I would suffer or do practically anything to keep my sisters safe, if needed. I have always been that way. I also like to be close to my family members. Well, "like" isn't the...
    fulltimehobbyist fulltimehobbyist 41-45, F May 15, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Have A Toxic Family.

    When I was 5, my mom left my brother and I because she was headed down a long and dangerous road. I was left with my grandmother and cousin, and my brother was left with an aunt. My brothers dad took him in, raised him for the rest of his life. I stayed with my grandma and cousin...
    morbidkittie13 morbidkittie13 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Can Always Get Worst!

    So it it just a few days before Christmas. I haven't had any time off because I don't know how to say No. That's fine. That's me. As if it wasn't bad enough that I am not welcome or included in the Christmas celebration at my parents house. Thanks to XY and Z, now my father has...
    NKDing NKDing 51-55, F Dec 21, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No More- I've Put My Foot Down

    My family has been a constant source of pain and abuse in my life since I was born. They are all addicted, alcoholics, thieves, manipulators, etc. They have screwed me personally over many times, and they have screwed over the older members of my family for years longer. It used...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Need To Get This Out Of My Chest.

     I was born out of wedlock. What so many would consider a bastard child. My father was married when he met my mom. My mother knew he was married, but he promised her that he would get a divorce. They loved each other, but apparently he couldn't get a divorce from his wife...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 20, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    But We Are Family (as Long As We Get What We Want)

    That is My families pet term when they want to shovel some pain My way. My brother the pot head addict "borrowed" My flat hauler and when he finally returned it it was beat. Than He demanded to move in with Mom and me. My mom bought him a house but "it makes him sick" Well clean...
    slappedtomuch slappedtomuch 46-50, M Mar 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Story Of My Life

    Basically my family is that fit one who constantly goes to church and I'm the odd one out because i like to show people in different . My dad left when I was 4 then my mon took the party life basically I raised myself she would try to cover her absences with gifts and they worked...
    Sasy0102 Sasy0102 13-15, F Jul 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Disfunctional Family

    I actually started out with a very functional family. I have to say that every holiday was special and we were all very close and cared about one another back then. My mother died when I was fairly young and my family's entire value system seemed to have shifted forever. I am...
    CatastrophicDreamer CatastrophicDreamer 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 29, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not Very Nice At Times

    While my parents where very loving, funny, and respectful to me and my siblings...they did have some problems. My dad had a very bad **** addiction and he still struggles with it to this day. This made my parents fight non-stop all 18 years of their marriage. My father was also...
    Spedunk Spedunk 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Almost Through The Season

    Sometimes I think that if I can just get through Christmas I'll be OK. Then I forget about how emotional the "after Christmas" can be. Thats when XYandZ return to their respective homes and My parents decide that it is now safe to visit with me and my family. I am...
    NKDing NKDing 51-55, F Jan 3, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate Being Excluded And Want To Know If Being Mad Is Wrong

    I do not wish to name names because I am not that way. However I need my questions answered.They are however in my family. Person A orginally said I could go with them to Disney world with person B and the three of us would have fun. Well two days before person A said they did...
    ihateexlcusions ihateexlcusions 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Learning To Deal

    I come from a very large family. I've never been alone and yet I have been lonely my entire life. For some reason, unknown to me, most of my family has never accepted me. Some of them actually tell others, in the family, that if they associate with me to not bother associating...
    NKDing NKDing 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    confession of a Love Sick Fool #3 After my break up with my boyfriend I should be getting back out there right? but every guy who said they liked me I pushed away. In the back of...
    lilnekomeow lilnekomeow 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I will not let anyone in my life ever again. I promise myself not to believe in love again. I will not trust what people say to me. And I will never ever care for anyone. I get...
    AmberDD AmberDD 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i met this guy that ive gotten really close with . recently he came over , and we began dating . im just at a crossroads tho , because i really care for this guy , but i feel like...
    BVNG BVNG 13-15, F Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've finally started settling into a groove with gaining. I'm seeing my weight steadily increasing and it feels like a dream come true. My clothes are tightening, my belly...
    enplumpen enplumpen 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am so worried , and scared. I want to go see my dads parents , but I am scared they want let my mom come backs and get me. It wouldn't be so bad but my mom doesn't have custody...
    Jack0121 Jack0121 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am. Which is why I'm not looking. I went through the ringer not too long ago with a guy who I thought was just "IT". Right now, no.
    favestril favestril 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have had my heart broken before. And it is obviously not a fun feeling. Plus I don't know what to do with two friends of mine who have been hanging around me a lot lately.
    randomart4lives randomart4lives 13-15, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Online and off they go get lost seriously I'm done really. Thought yesterday chatting online in a site I go into that this guy decent he alright he said he married. Soon he get in...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a guy best friend, and he's married, (bad marriage) but he sometimes asks to see my eyes, asks how old I am (only since I turned 18) and occasionally gives me pats on the...
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 3 Responses Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been shoveling food recently. With all the fast food and candy I've been filling myself with I've gained 10 pounds this week. I can tell my belly is softer and bigger. 270 isn...
    growingguy growingguy 18-21, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My Whole Life, I was always the kind of person that refused to partake in any kind of violence. That is one of the main reasons that I was considered to be very strange in the eyes...
    AmaterasuNoOkami AmaterasuNoOkami 16-17, F Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    my best friend has been making me feel like I don't have a place in her life now that she has a bf & new friends so I decided to end the friendship. idt she did it on purpose but...
    AutumnCarielle AutumnCarielle 22-25, F Apr 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Most people either stab me in the back or stop talking to me so im done getting hurt
    Bubblegum763 Bubblegum763 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I only want opinions from parents who take their kids to daycare. Okay so I'm a full time student, but I don't have school every single day. I have 2 days without it that I can use...
    comley72 comley72 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Heyyy, just venting lbvs! I don't have any friends, nor family! is it by choice mmm yea in a way but not really! I tend to block people out and keep a tough guard! Why, because I...
    TewTewLove TewTewLove 26-30, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was stolen from my real family when I was barely even born yet and made to believe I was apart of a family I really wasn't. While there, I was physically abused by age 4. By 5 I...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Am nobody's favorite and its hurts a lot but I will be fine
    maleeny maleeny 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ever since maybe 4 weeks into the school year I've being continuously third-wheeled by my 2 best friends. One of the girls *Alison, I was really close with, like people would...
    prismaticsarah prismaticsarah 13-15, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I go by Fruitypunch15 on here.I thought I would share a personal experience.I have never had a good relationship with both of my parents.I do love both of them with all my heart...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I recently went shopping with my best friend and used my limited funds to buy a new pair of shorts. I was really excited, which is rare because I usually hate shopping, and I went...
    ForgottenStorms ForgottenStorms 22-25, T 1 Response Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I come from a family of idiots. I can't stand most of them. They are greedy, ignorant, obnoxious, or self-centered. When I see their stupid posts on social media, I just want to...
    BrokeBandit BrokeBandit 36-40, F Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    God will remove people from your life if you take too long to do it yourself. In 2010 I recieved a word from a woman in church that I had a few people around me who I needed to...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok so this isn't really about me but about my cousin and I never really believed him because I thought he was playing around since he likes to joke around a lot ... Or maybe I was...
    lourrysjeans lourrysjeans 18-21, F Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate my family. My brother calls me names and hits me for no reason. Today, he called me names again, so I blew off because he constantly says it so I said, "Have you ever looked...
    xxyxxyxx xxyxxyxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been hurt many times in my life but i can understand why. Im normally anxious and it doesnt make people attracted to a coward who fears people. I still figure out why im so...
    tokyo60s tokyo60s 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hello...I'm here seeking advice in my situation. There are several problems I am dealing with in this relationship I'm in. I'm 23 years old and a single mom to a 5 year old. I...
    Hmidk Hmidk 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 12