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I Keep Losing Friends

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    What Is the Deal??? - In the last week I have lost 9 people from my circle. I only know where 1 of them went. What is up with this???? Am I the only one watching their circle go...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2008

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    Losing Friends - I'm bored pretty much. What's it like to lose a friend? Pretty much the worst feeling ever. Especially when you were young and you didn't actually know what was...
    xoxo505peace xoxo505peace 13-15 1 Response Nov 29, 2013

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    I Keep Losing Friends - I like to think of myself as a loyal person, but i cant keep friends for long lengths of time. Most of my friends end up being out of my life because of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 7, 2011

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    Always Getting Kicked To The Curb.... - I am crying as I am writing this. My heart is broken once again by people that I "thought" were my friends. I can still recall as a child...
    bcastellano bcastellano 41-45 2 Responses May 25, 2011

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    Why? - MY whole life, I've always had a decent amount of friends and only 1-2 close friends. But every time someone gets close to me, we just seem to drift apart and never bother...
    Cnbrrn Cnbrrn 16-18, M 2 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    Another One Gone - My friend count keeps dropping. Last time I felt someone didn't care about me and they got sick of me so I removed them from my list, Then I appoglize for them...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 7, 2013

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    Sad - I keep losing friends and when we say we will hang we don't someone is all ways busy but then when we try to do something, something comes up. When we do hang out, we don't...
    kmm12bball kmm12bball 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2011

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    Go If You Must! - Just don't expect me to roll out the welcome mat when you decide to come back. You made your choice and I made mine.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 1, 2011

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    Why? -  me and my best friend were very close to each other since 1 grade.... in 4 grade she has a new friend... and we do best friend the 3 of us.  but things were...
    camila07 camila07 16-17, F Dec 6, 2009

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    They Quit Calling Me - not long ago, a high-school mate's mother passed away. Despite the fact that most of the class and i are facebook friends, and they all know this, and all of...
    astounded1088 astounded1088 31-35, M May 24, 2012

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    Lost Another One Today - I ended this friendship.  He does not know it yet.  He will know it when he comes over wanting something and I don't answer the door.  he...
    Tumblindice Tumblindice 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    I Weed Them Out - as i grow i become increasingly almost irritatingly discerning about who i let into my life.. and i met this girl who i thought was my best friend since 7th grade...
    aloneandintimidating aloneandintimidating 16-18, F 2 Responses Aug 13, 2007

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    I don't know what to do anymore. I'm sick of being alone in a room while my friends are having the time of their life. But I don't know how to interact with them. They never listen...
    firebirdgx firebirdgx 18-21, M Feb 20

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    I Believe Its Me. - I have dealt with an abnormally large amount of drama with "friends" lately. I think I finally believe its my fault. There is something about me that is making...
    2tired2try 2tired2try 31-35 Sep 3, 2013

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    They Come And Go - It been about a month me using this site now. I have spoke to allot of people. It seems most people interested in me at the start and later on they get sick of...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Feb 28, 2013

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    Lost Along The Way - Having a friend who sticks with you through every thick and thins is a great thing. I have had couple of friends, who were my best friends, my soul sisters...
    citygirl9841 citygirl9841 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Friends Forever? - I've only ever had one best friend my entire life. She's influenced me and is the reason why I do most of the things I do today. She inspired me to write and...
    LisaTorres LisaTorres 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I was a freshmen in Highschool at the time. I had a really good friend, she always smiled when she saw me. She just was never upset when I was around. Keep in mind I was just...
    Shauntreece Shauntreece 16-17, F Apr 1

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    I remember my first best friend in 4th grade. He introduced me to one of my favorite animes and at the end of the school year he moved away. I've met people growing up and at some...
    RadicalEd4 RadicalEd4 22-25, M Mar 23

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    Don't think this would be easy for me nope, I've got too many flaws to even keep a friendship is challenging because I'm too self-absorbed, insecure, vindictive and also have some...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I feel so fed up, it feels like I am losing control of my life and everything. That's all I ever hear is people's problems all the time. I am fed up of uncaring, selfish, hateful...
    galaxy3 galaxy3 36-40, F 20 hrs ago

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    I love to have friends But I'd rather to keep few To have friends doesn't mean all of them are genuine I love to have friendship But I'd rather to have deep ones Because you can...
    Jamiewashburn Jamiewashburn 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I get ditched a lot or people don't remember I'm there. I've always had this problem. Other times it's my fault. I don't keep contact with people. Whenever I want to talk to...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    Hi friends, welcome to keep me updated on how your doing, whatever the topic. I am a social worker in the field of alcohol, drugs and mental health. So anything you wish to chat...
    lenjm lenjm 36-40, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as...
    xxxrina xxxrina 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The reason I forgive you is because you are not perfect. You are imperfect, and so am l. All humans are imperfect, even the man outside my apartment who litters. When I was young...
    bvb200 bvb200 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've had ear problems and hearing problems pretty much my whole life, but lately they seem to be escalating more and more. Before someone tells me to go see an ENT/doctor- I...
    NaturallyPeculiar NaturallyPeculiar 18-21, F Mar 18

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    Seriously, I NEED more awesome females in my world. I love my guy friends, fine, but it's really not the same as having female friends and it's been getting lonely. I don't even...
    EngulfingBreeze EngulfingBreeze 22-25, F 1 Response 37 mins ago

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    such a rare event for a friendship to truly endure throughout the years. My best friend is my husband and always will be but I'm grateful for the few girlfriends I've known since...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 23 hrs ago

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    Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Until Marriage and not to have outside marriage 1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most...
    Sarah4567 Sarah4567 22-25, F 17 Responses Apr 2

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    My best friend wants to move across the country to be with her boyfriend who moved there recently for graduate school. If they weren't profoundly in love with each other, I wouldn...
    RelianceOnScience RelianceOnScience 22-25, F Apr 2

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    I don't know where to start, in my 36 years of existence my life has been complicated ever since. I have an unusual family to start, I have an adopted older sister which had been...
    jopet jopet 31-35, M Apr 4

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    I made a promise to my dearest friend to keep on fighting and stay strong, to not give up on life. but I don't know how much longer I can keep that promise. there are far too many...
    RikkuDreamer RikkuDreamer 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Racing, racing, racing.. My mind keeps me up for three days straight sometimes. Most nights I dont sleep but I try to tell myself stories at night. Make up my own imaginary casts...
    DiosesOscuros DiosesOscuros 22-25, M 7 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I often ask myself what's the point of even sending message to people anymore when I know they won't reply. I know people might say their busy. But I'm having a hard to time...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I am a mom to 6 kids total. 3 are my flesh and blood and 3 are step kids we have custody of. I travel out of my living area for and have no time meet friends when I am home. I...
    mmcpherson mmcpherson 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My best friend is great. I love her, and I think she loves me. Till she stopped responding to my snapchats and texts (despite opening them), we would text for 3 hours daily. I want...
    kylalafferty kylalafferty 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Like , I feel like I cant even put up with myself. How do I be satisfied with myself . Almost Everyone I love ends up leaving. I keep getting broken up with and im so good to the...
    anthonymusto55 anthonymusto55 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Honestly, I feel lack in support from the friends I've surrounded myself in. They're not bad people, just I'm a mother and full - time student. I'm past going to bars, drinking...
    smilesofazombie smilesofazombie 22-25, F a week ago

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    I just keep my feelings to myself it's a bad habit, I'm the type of person who loves to make other's feel comfortable around me. I learned early that people don't really want to...
    PixieLeah PixieLeah 41-45 1 Response a week ago

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    If there is one thing I'm truly scared of inside, it's losing the people I truly love and care about. And losing the ones that truly love and care about me...
    ajl04 ajl04 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    So I don't want to go in depth but I have 2 other friends who are like my brothers, recently they have been hanging out with each other a lot, and they go everywhere together. I'm...
    vidish vidish 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    So everyday at School this girl is my best friends friend and every time me and my best friend hang out she would Come and push me way.
    Nyamal Nyamal 13-15, F Apr 7

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    I am just starting high school, and I am the only one who is going to this particular school. All my old friends are going to a different school, and I am not hanging out with them...
    HCL19 HCL19 16-17, M Apr 7

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    Over the last serval months I started losing a lot of my closet EP friends. So I figure why not make new ones. Well it doesn't matter how hard I try I can't seem to find anyone. I...
    darkwolf19 darkwolf19 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm afraid of losing my father , not least because he is family, but also because I did not want to lose it all , I love my dad , but I love my mom too, both are the best we have...
    ferrer95 ferrer95 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Losing all my friends made me think. I don't need friend to make it. I have more time to work on school and try to perfected my art 😁😊
    arielsharee arielsharee 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Here to make friends I have a few close friends but would like to make new ones in my age range
    mindboggles76 mindboggles76 36-40, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I have two friends I go to university with, we live in the same town which is a little far from the campus so we carpool together. I drive one week, my friend M drives another week...
    classic00 classic00 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Someone ended their friendship with me, she said it was awkward. What does that even mean? What are reasons you guys ended a friendship? Do I have any right to feel upset?
    GreenPanda2015 GreenPanda2015 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago