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I Keep to Myself Am Too Quiet

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    Need Dress Advice Guys

    hello friends, am anu and i am pure south Indian Tamil girl who was married recently to a Tamil guy who lives in London. It was a love marriage, At first my hubby dont like me to wear costumes which is modern while i was at chennai. He even scolded me not to wear low neck blouses...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2012

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    So Quiet, So Shy

    I have always been shy and quiet, and I hate it, I wish I wasn't. I didn't learn to talk until I was 2 and a half years old. People mistake my shyness and quietness to be seriousness, and it sometimes turns them away. People do not understand my shyness and quietness and often...
    MadameBellatrix31 MadameBellatrix31 16-18, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2008

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    Not Apart Of The Situation

    I belong to a very helpfull program. The only thing is I hide under the table alot. I just don't like being apart of the situation. I was asked to tell a person about it so they could help me. I just dont know if i should tell him. I think as long as I don't get too quiet I will...
    cute4me cute4me 13-15, F Feb 5, 2012

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    Other Peoples Energy

    i dont like being in a group i prefer to be alone.i just cant handle the over aggressive or negative energies that eminate from people.
    dodie dodie 26-30, F Sep 11, 2007

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    Just Shy I Guess

    Recently, i was approached by a friend in my computer lab in school. i've known him for more than a year, so i didnt feel uncomfortable when he starting making chit-chat. after a couple of hours, i decided to leave. as i waved bye to him. he stopped, got up from the chair...
    Allyouneedislove91 Allyouneedislove91 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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