I Kick People Out of My Life When They Won't Treat Me Well

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    I'm so sick of one sided friendships

    and relationships in general. When I care about somebody, I truly do. So I guess it was a couple years ago that I decided to eliminate people from my life who obviously do not care about me. And yeah it hurts but it hurts less in the long run than having a "friend" who takes...
    Env06 Env06
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2014


    Most of my family. They have been absolutely toxic in my life, so I cut them out of it. My life drastically improved. I don't understand why people think it's ok to keep other people in their lives when they don't bring anything positive into it.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2010

    Even If It's My Blood Family Member

    I finally kicked out the one person in my life that has cause me the most grief. My family and myself have decided to fully kick him out of our lives all together. He created to much pain amongst all of us. We did everything we could to try to make it work, we did what every...
    Rougejigga Rougejigga
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2011

    Picky About People

    I've had it done to me and I'm not shy about removing people from my life either. I can be perfectly happy with very few people and with just myself. There are billions of people in this world, why keep the jerks around? When I sever ties I'm pretty blunt about it...I like to go...
    pepper85 pepper85
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2010

    Okay so I live with my dad

    and step mom. I left my moms house when I was 15 now I'm close to turning 18. My family has not ever really been the nicest to me. I've tended to lean towards people who aren't blood related to me. Sometimes they just understand me better. My father specifically right now is...
    lovedownunder lovedownunder
    18-21, F
    Dec 19, 2014

    Have Had to Do So In Past

    people treated me badly yet still wanted to be part of my life i showed them the road, now i dont see them anymore im much happier, get rid of people who are holding you back in life, you can still be nice to people though
    Donalh Donalh
    22-25, M
    Jun 9, 2008

    Sometimes I Want To Be Childish.....

    This is going to be kind of long, and possibly hard to follow. If you stay with me to the end, I would love to know if you think I've been in the wrong or not. I have this Aunt. My mom's sister to be exact. She's always been a pain in the ***. Sticking her nose where it doesn't...
    Punky1981 Punky1981
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 6, 2011

    I Used To Give People Chances But Now I Know Better...

    In the past, I always gave people the benefit of the doubt that the messed up way they were treating me was somehow something they didn't really mean and that they were so very sorry. What a joke! When people are mean, it is just that, and they don't deserve to be in my life. For...
    ldolszewski ldolszewski
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2012

    Not Worth My Time

    I like surrounding myself with positive people. People who genuinely care and appreciate me for being me. I've come too far to let people walk all over me and treat me like I'm second best.
    deleted deleted
    May 30, 2013

    I Am Done

    My in-laws have been the torn in my life for several years. It started when my husband decided that I was the woman whom he wanted to spend his life loving. His mother has held a grudge so deep and vile ever since we first started cohabiting. She has treated me with such...
    DILunderfire DILunderfire
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 20, 2011

    if someone doesn't give me importance

    why on GOD'S EARTH would i give him or her importance except family
    waris1 waris1
    18-21, M
    Dec 20, 2014

    If you want to treat me wrong

    and hurt me or leave, okay, that's fine i'll even hold the door open for you✌️
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 19, 2014

    I Can Only Take So Much.

    Eventually I will kick someone out of my life if they keep messing with my emotions.  I have done it before.  When I do it, I don't mess around either, I make myself completely untracable.  I have made all of my social networking profiles 100% private,  ...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2010

    Take That!

    you!  ya you!  the one that made me feel insignicficant!  here's my boot up your a$$ - get outta my life!
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2010

    2011 - The Year I Grew Balls

    I've always had trouble "kicking people out of my life". Well, I don't know if it's been pregnancy hormones or what but this year I cleaned house. I booted 2 people that I really loved out of my life. Both walked all over me and would wish the best for me to my face then talk...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 24, 2011

    Believe It Or Not, You Deserve Better.

    I have a certain family member who has two separate personalities. On one hand she has a huge heart. But on the other, she seems to think about nothing but her OWN feelings. The huge heart comes into play with her friends. The selfishness goes to her family. I have been wronged...
    bambergbaby bambergbaby
    22-25, F
    Jul 15, 2011

    Jo Dee Messina "My Give A Damn's Busted"This

    is pretty self explanatory.  I suggest everyone take Jo Dee's advice.  If people treat you badly there is no reason to keep them around.  Besides....I love this Damn song!  ;-)
    dollysworld dollysworld
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2013
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