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    I refused sex last night. It was late, I was exhausted, and didn't want to be just a piece. I feel so beat up and used. Now I'm being blamed for being a hypocrite and was called a...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 41-45, F 16 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Do you watch The Duggars? I do not know how she gets in a moments peace. How can the human body birth 19 kids and the uterus not fall out? I think she looks pretty in the face for...
    cottonbreeze cottonbreeze 41-45, F 12 hrs ago

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    I've always wanted to be a mom every since I was little. I would love to have a husband that I can love and have many kids with. I would love to have at least 4 or 5 kids but...
    KacyB98 KacyB98 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 15 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My hubby came home from a long stressful day at work. Had a couple of drinks, the usual come down after that kind of day. Kids were still awake. When it was time to go to bed, I...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 26 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm 42, he's 40. We've been married 7 years with 2 kids. I just thought we were too tired for a sex life. For the last couple of years I have had this low level of resentment...
    Blox99 Blox99 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    Love Me Tender. Love is a word, one mistaken by many. It means to me from a mans perspective. Enjoyment of every inch of her body, mind and soul. Her words, the understanding of...
    TryCopperbottomed TryCopperbottomed 56-60, M 9 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    On September 13, 2013, in Kids Parties Perth, by mjdrjshowtime Kids Parties Perth R11; allow it to be a brilliant stunning event to remember. You will discover many...
    Paul18nj Paul18nj 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    Well I'm currently on vacation someplace very tropical with my kids and extended family…awaiting the arrival of my hubby who always works who will be joining us for a few days...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    We unfortunately are probably not an atypical couple, but here's our experience anyway. We met online in 2001, back when it was still a rarity, she was still in school doing her...
    MelancholyDude MelancholyDude 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    We unfortunately are probably not an atypical couple, but here's our experience anyway. We met online in 2001, back when it was still a rarity, she was still in school doing her...
    MelancholyDude MelancholyDude 36-40, M 19 Responses Aug 14

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    I married a great guy! Seriously. He is just not into any form of sex. No hand holding, No kissing, no nothing. Last time we had sex. 13 years ago. Conceived our last daughter. I...
    mssanguine mssanguine 46-50, F 17 Responses 2 days ago

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    .This pretty much says it all about sex with someone who doesn't want you the way you want them, reset sex, etc, etc ad infinitum on the refused and refuser dynamic..I would prefer...
    SolitaireDiamond SolitaireDiamond 46-50, F 9 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    So, for those of us who have gone the counseling route and are seeing some progress: Is there passion and desire with your sex life? I just don't know if I even want him sexually...
    Candymaker Candymaker 41-45, F 12 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    recently i was in a serious car accident , and of course it has been very traumatic and this is a time more than ever that i need my wife to be there for me to provide some love...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 19 Responses Jul 29

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    Redefining a 'Broken Home' I've read quite a number of posts on how separation and divorce would break apart the family, would mean that the children would come from a broken home...
    LaoTzu LaoTzu 41-45, M 13 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm not looking for solutions, only to feel not so alone. I have tried everything...EVERYTHING...and still, day after day I receive rejection. I remember vividly the last time we...
    EagleManifesto EagleManifesto 31-35, F 16 Responses Aug 4

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    My dad in on trial right now and is being accused of sexually abusing his ex girlfriends grad children when they were 12 and 14. They are now 17 and 20. This has been a nightmare...
    jamiewins jamiewins 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Untouchable I have somehow become untouchable, and it’s like a slow death. In order to thrive, human beings need to be touched in a nurturing way. Studies have shown that...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 22 Responses Aug 10

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    Well here it goes,... I Live in a sexless Marriage! I have never admitted it to anyone. I HATE it!! I have been married for 28 years and I have four kids, 3 college and one in...
    mizazzy mizazzy 46-50, F 24 Responses Aug 16

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    So thanks to some of the great advice here on the SM forum of EP, I decided not to wait and talk to my wife about my ongoing concerns. We did this two nights ago, after she had...
    MelancholyDude MelancholyDude 36-40, M 13 Responses Aug 18

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    I think kids get a lot of hangups about sex from society as a whole. They're told it's dirty, something they should be afraid of. It's a parent's job to push past all of that and...
    tienteaser tienteaser 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I do a lot of writing but i hardly write about my kids, its not that i don't want to but more how i can put in to words how much they mean to me. I know how much i love them but...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Summoning Reinforcements - Those of you who have been following my story as I extract myself from the clutches of a sexless marriage know the shame my STBX has been inflicting on...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 27 Responses Jul 28

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    I do everything around the house to make life easier for her. We both work full time with kids but I feel there's time for sex and she does not. I feel like I have a room mate...
    fire3026 fire3026 41-45, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I came out to my wife the other day. We have always had great sex but something was missing. She said she knew and was very excited for me. She truly was. Now we have an open...
    brad84 brad84 41-45, M 7 hrs ago

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    Just as the title says, I'm aging gracefully and I am told that I still have that sexy look about me, therefore I am not worrying.
    1stEdition 1stEdition 36-40, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    How does Sex feel like? Is it good? Does it hurt?
    Rovechkin Rovechkin 13-15, F 17 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Literally. My husband will do it in his sleep and not remember the next day until I remind him. Which works great for me because I have a higher sex drive then him.
    thefeels21 thefeels21 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Id love a female friend on ep to discuss sexual stuff with!
    aille2323 aille2323 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I don't know where to start. I can only be where I am. My wife cheated on me in 2009 during a time when our children were very young (1 and 3). I din't dind out until 2012 and...
    Homewaters Homewaters 36-40, M 13 Responses Aug 13

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    DONE as opposed to done. It kind of went like this. On holiday I was putting my stuff into 'my' room, we have not shared beds in years due to the SM and her crazy crap, that's...
    Endthegame Endthegame 41-45, M 28 Responses Aug 15

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    Not necessarily a sexless marriage, but one lacking intimacy. I have sex often...not as much as I would like, but often. I think I'm an above average sexual guy, so I kind of...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    The good news is my husband seems to be more interested in having sex since our last talk (the one about being afraid of not satisfying me completely since ). He mentions it more...
    asterinight asterinight 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 28

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    Selectively Coming Out As some of you know, last weekend I went on a road trip with my best friend from college, to the town where we went to college. Up until now, the only...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 16 Responses Aug 6

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    I have been denied sex by my wife for the past 24 years. I acknowledge that in the beginning I was responsible for most of the problems in the relationship. I was an alcoholic and...
    davejgj davejgj 66-70, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Just "celebrated" our 20th anniversary. That would mean it's been about 15 years since we have had sex. It has been so long. That it's embarrassing . I'm thankful for this forum as...
    hoss350 hoss350 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Sexless Marriage may have been just the start. I have just about accepted that as long as I’m married there will be no sex. Given some special circumstances, I cannot leave...
    actionjake actionjake 56-60, M 5 Responses Aug 16

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    Hello again everyone, After initially telling my story here I thought; I'm going to tell him we need therapy... Again. And I keep finding excuses to not say anything. I thought...
    Anirak73 Anirak73 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 4

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    Pathetic update: Stbx seems to be avoiding me. I have not been able to break the divorce news to him yet because there are people ALWAYS around. Our adult children and...
    lovesthesun lovesthesun 41-45, F 14 Responses Aug 5

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    Hi I'm a Christian husband in a sexless marriage. the problem im running into is my wife has been giving me excuses for years now. She has the same excuses like, tired, headache...
    qonfused qonfused 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    My wife thought it would be a great idea to celebrate that my daughter finished summer school (getting some needed coursework out of the way, so she can double major) and my son...
    n44wwep n44wwep 51-55, M 21 Responses Aug 7

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    The other day I shaved my head, beating nature to the balding punch. My kids loved it and were feeling the top of my melon. My wife has yet to touch me or even rub my head. What...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I'm only 19 year old girl, but I would love to have a sexual relationship with a 40-55 year old women and do sexual things with her (or without her) with her teen-age kids (if she...
    Jamielr13 Jamielr13 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13

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    So, I am 36 (just about 37 and he is 39) and I am 12 years in to a long term relationship... I Don't believe that I need a piece of paper to say that I am committed to someone...
    pandora1357 pandora1357 36-40, F 13 Responses Aug 15

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    It's been sliding for years. It started out great, we had good sex often. Then as the years slid by the pace dropped. Not much, and it didn't bother either of us. Then my wife got...
    Leathlobhair Leathlobhair 36-40, M 12 Responses a week ago