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    Last nights update: We both worked, but there was communication through text while apart. (Not my favorite medium for conversation so I kept it light) Gave her a link to...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Every day I reach a new level of I-don't-give-a-**** when it comes to my leaving him. Do I care what he thinks? No Do I care what our friends think? No Do I care what our...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 41-45, F 7 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I woke up this morning from s nightmare! In it my Husband was the hated, & feared "monster"!! We're a month past our 10 year anniversary(which we don't celebrate) & I've just kinda...
    Katherinespost Katherinespost 46-50, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Maybe I shouldn't complain but I would probably b in a sexless marriage if I never initiated the sex or intimacy with my wife. I always initiate, my wife never will and when I do...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 4

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    heard this line from a Ryan Adams song and felt like it really summed up my life right now " pictures hanging on the wall of when we used to smile " wow ... that pretty much...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 10 Responses a week ago

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    I have read a lot of the stories here and they all seem to blame the 'refuser'. (a term I have just learnt) Well I guess that means I am the refuser but I don't believe that means...
    alyssiax alyssiax 41-45, F 23 Responses Oct 11

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    When I had a conversation with my wife about our sex life, which turned into an argument, she said"you knew what you were getting yourself into when we married". WTF!!? I married...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 9 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    for those of you who left, curious to know of any who had grade school kids ( 9 - 13 or so ) I have 2 young kids. Also, were any of you stay at home moms? I do have certifications...
    catalinatowner catalinatowner 36-40, F Oct 7

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    Slaying Dragons: A Sleepless Journey Into Oppositeland… Having spent over a year wandering in Oppositeland, the refuge for escapees from a sexless marriage, I am experiencing...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 11

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    To my fellow suffers I have a question. Let me first say that I know I'm an idiot. I married my first wife when I was 26 y.o.a. and I had some red flags but I thought I could fix...
    Nick5211 Nick5211 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    I’ve been reading sexless marriage posts for a while now (being in one myself). In a way the experience of reading these posts is like beginning to recognize it as a hydra - the...
    ace4444 ace4444 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    She's done it again. The lack of respect or thought toward me seems to be endless. My wife and kids came home from school. The kids were all excited about a road trip we were...
    music4thesoul music4thesoul 46-50, M 17 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have home schooled all of my seven kids. I personally believe in sex education needs to be in the home with parents and not in schools or the church with so called teachers and...
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 41-45, F 7 Responses Sep 26

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    Overcoming the emotional abuse.. It's been a rough few days over here. A couple I met through my ex and have been close friends with for ten years are splitting up. When I left ex...
    liltree liltree 31-35, F 16 Responses Oct 8

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    So the wife has started a new part time job, I picked the kids from school, did all the dishes etc with lunch boxes, made them dinner got our dinner ready, put a lode of washing on...
    snogylop snogylop 41-45, M 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi I am new to this forum but I have had the opportunity to read posts and study them. I feel less lonely now and realize that my experience is shared by many. I decided to post as...
    FantasticNJGuy FantasticNJGuy 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 7

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    Another note from the other side.... I write this not to rub things in, but really out of pure amazement and happiness, as a way to maybe offer hope. My boyfriend and I had some...
    awakeforthedancechecksin awakeforthedancechecksin 36-40, F 25 Responses Oct 9

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    I look forward to the day when I no longer am a member of this group.. my kids are getting older.. I know many will say kids are not a reason to stay.. but the fact is they are for...
    Firedog201 Firedog201 41-45, M 9 Responses a week ago

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    So after my episode the other day, where H got upset because I had left him alone drinking his tea while I went upstairs, I decided to write him a letter. I gave it to him the...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 13 Responses Sep 21

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    It's bed time and the kids are all bathed and tucked in. I can hear the tv from the family room blaring, h is apparently watching something that is apparently extremely amusing, as...
    Insearchofmenow Insearchofmenow 31-35 37 Responses Sep 21

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    I feel like this experience us turning me into an emotional Jekyll and Hide... In the morning, when domestic life goes on as it must, I feel inclined to be patient, more forgiving...
    ace4444 ace4444 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    A friend of mine told me a story at work today. My friends eight year old ask her if she has sex with her husband (remarried couple). Her response was to be honest, "Yes". Then...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 7 Responses Oct 6

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    My h and my children are out of town this weekend attending funeral services for one of his family members. Yesterday my cell phone rings, I see his number and simply assume it was...
    Insearchofmenow Insearchofmenow 31-35 48 Responses Oct 12

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    Had my first best experience with a 48 year old man and I am 23. I let him finish inside of me. Best sex ever
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 14 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I went to a marriage where there was the good times but in the last it was a sexless marriage it was them I was abandoned. Left alone. Battled depression. Got counseling was hoping...
    sunney55 sunney55 46-50, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Hi I'm looking meeting sex hmm;)
    Bart23 Bart23 22-25, M 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Hi I'm looking de meeting sex :) from London :)
    Bart23 Bart23 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I keep having raunchy sex fantasies about my straight roommate even though I really am not attracted to him. If I were to have the opportunity I would be grossed out.
    tk1207 tk1207 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    The Perils of Outsourcing? In a sexless marriage, it's safe to say that the thought of outsourcing may have crossed your mind once or twice or a thousand times. It is typically...
    Artvg Artvg 41-45, F 25 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been married for 24 years and probably about 20 have been relatively sexless. My W and I had a fight on Sunday, I slept on the coach on Monday (my choice), and had yet...
    RestonLonely RestonLonely 46-50, M 12 Responses Oct 1

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    I don't know how much longer i can make it. I want to leave but can't bear the thought of not putting my kids to bed at night. I love my wife dearly. In fact, i adore her. She is...
    98fxstc1 98fxstc1 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 3

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    Its easy to justify ourselves for not leaving an unhappy marriage. "I dont want to leave the kids", "We are going to therapy", "I cant afford it", and "He said he would change" are...
    RobertCarlos RobertCarlos 46-50, M 12 Responses Oct 9

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    So we've been married for 24 years. Sex was really good for a long time both in quality and quantity... She had multiple "O's" frequently and I was happy. Gradually it's declined...
    mikedelgado mikedelgado 46-50, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been in a relationship with the same man for 3years now. I love him with all of my heart and soul, but he is tearing me apart. In the very beginning our sex life was great...
    tiffany7michelle tiffany7michelle 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    I'm a 32 year old guy and I am straight, married with kids. However. I have these indescribable feelings for my same-sex friend I met about a year ago. It's like he's my other half...
    CrazeN CrazeN 31-35, M Sep 25

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    I was three or four when it happened and then again when I was nine or ten. Some kids in my class were making rape jokes today and I got so upset because sexual abuse, especially...
    LittleBlackSubmarine LittleBlackSubmarine 16-17, M Sep 25

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    I am so sexually unfulfilled. I just want to slap my husband. It's like he's forgotten how to make love to me. And I don't care about baloney like, "Well you have to re-teach him...
    StrangeFruit1000 StrangeFruit1000 31-35 1 Response Sep 26

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    Hi, not been active on here for a while but been reading again recently. Not a lot new to add to my situation but just feel like I need to write a bit more about it. During the...
    copperdoodle copperdoodle 41-45, F 11 Responses Sep 30

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    Well my drought is going on 13 months now, the last time we had sex and I wont call it making love was fathers day September 1st 2013, even then she was hurry up i'm not feeling...
    snogylop snogylop 41-45, M 10 Responses Oct 7

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    Here's something else to ponder as you consider what to do about your sexless marriage. According to the chaplain that wrote this essay, what dying people tell him they'll miss...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    You know my name, but not my story. I am strong, yet also weak. I am independent, yet also dependent. I am optimist, yet pessimist. I am many different things, which make me who I...
    SimplySecure SimplySecure 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    You know my name, but not my story. I am strong, yet also weak. I am independent, yet also dependent. I am optimist, yet pessimist. I am many different things, which make me who I...
    SimplySecure SimplySecure 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This article may be of interest to those considering divorce, but wondering about its affect on their kids. "The new research, which came out of Georgetown University and the...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    Revised for offensive content: Last night I set the stage for an argument this weekend. Yesterday I came home from work in a good mood and hugged my wife when she came through...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 3

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    I am a very happy-go-lucky, hyper, talkative girl and I love to be happy whenever I can. I love spending time with my friends or siblings, but I hate being with my mum. She was a...
    Sickofthis92 Sickofthis92 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I'm making strides in the divorce process since I first posted here. Once I realized I needed to get out, there has been an urgency to get things moving on my end. I have talked...
    Sobeit06 Sobeit06 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 7