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    I've been married for nearly 7 years now and have enjoyed many intimate moments with my wife. A lot of that has changed in the last two years. Sex isn't something that happens...
    absalom123 absalom123 26-30 16 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Ultimatum time. Fix it or make it. Not sure which I hope he chooses. I would like him to fix it, but in the past that has only worked for a short time. If he leaves I'm not sure...
    lonelyinlove04 lonelyinlove04 26-30 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Telling my experience is like carefully unraveling delicate threads one by one from a blanket of chaos. My children are 4 and 6. They were born into a marriage of abuse loosely...
    Benandmcsmom Benandmcsmom 31-35, F 9 hrs ago

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    Went back to bed this morning after the kids went to school. We've been so up and down lately (or maybe it's just me) but it was great to reconnect.
    BBWand40 BBWand40 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    According to my three children, I'm antique! 😟 I was in the living room with my kids... they were sitting down to watch TV, and I was logging into the computer. Chatting about...
    Unjusted Unjusted 36-40, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Everything is ok but sex. Yes, I know; those are the most unpopular words here. Those who dare to utter them are frequently treated with …….. But I just wanted to give some...
    largehopes largehopes 36-40 8 Responses Sep 2

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    My ex and I would have sex all the time but did not want it to become ordinary home sex so we would incorporate outside the home and outdoor sex. We have been at the beach, park...
    Kelbos123 Kelbos123 31-35, M 5 hrs ago

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    The compromise promise. I ran into a former colleague yesterday. When I worked with him I got to know his wife and kids, and the couple seemed happily married, but got divorced a...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well I'm currently on vacation someplace very tropical with my kids and extended family…awaiting the arrival of my hubby who always works who will be joining us for a few days...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 18 Responses Aug 21

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    I live in a sexless marriage have been for the last 6 years... Just didn't realize I was until recently. In my situation i never married for love, didn't even find him attractive...
    Sobeit06 Sobeit06 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 28

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    I married a great guy! Seriously. He is just not into any form of sex. No hand holding, No kissing, no nothing. Last time we had sex. 13 years ago. Conceived our last daughter. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Aug 24

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    Hello friends, It has been a long while since I have come onto this site. Last October, nearly a year ago now, my ex and I started the divorce process. We had separated, which...
    DancingFire DancingFire 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 8

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    I a really curious about others outsourcing experiences. My own has taken twist and turns all with a positive arc. My self esteem has increase at the same time my willingness to...
    zooomzoom zooomzoom 36-40, M 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    This Aug. 21 advice column may be of interest to those staying in a miserable marriage "for the sake of the children." "DEAR AMY: I have been married for 15 years and have two...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    So thanks to some of the great advice here on the SM forum of EP, I decided not to wait and talk to my wife about my ongoing concerns. We did this two nights ago, after she had...
    HopefulDude HopefulDude 36-40, M 13 Responses Aug 18

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    I think kids get a lot of hangups about sex from society as a whole. They're told it's dirty, something they should be afraid of. It's a parent's job to push past all of that and...
    tienteaser tienteaser 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    So it's been a long time since I have had any talk about sex with my wife. So I want the perspective of a female refuser. How would u feel if u r husband brought up wanting to have...
    lauraCD805 lauraCD805 36-40, T 5 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I think smart is sexy, because stupid most definitely is not. Working with people means that I have to deal with the intellectually challenged on a daily basis. I have come to...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Days 6 and 7 – reclaiming my bed – in conjunction with my previous stories. So, day 6 was ok. #3 had his first real cough and found it difficult to settle in bed, so, and as...
    dadonthesofa dadonthesofa 46-50, M 17 Responses 3 days ago

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    Not necessarily a sexless marriage, but one lacking intimacy. I have sex often...not as much as I would like, but often. I think I'm an above average sexual guy, so I kind of...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30 8 Responses Aug 24

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    I do everything around the house to make life easier for her. We both work full time with kids but I feel there's time for sex and she does not. I feel like I have a room mate...
    fire3026 fire3026 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 25

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    I think it’s about time I make a final decision. My 20 year anniversary is coming up in 2 short weeks. Normally this would be a time for great celebration. I see it as an...
    beachlivin04 beachlivin04 41-45, M 17 Responses Sep 9

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    Married 23 years, no sex for the last 5. If you count years when sex occurred less than half a dozen times, then the number of sexless years climbs to 15. Some people say that a...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 41-45, F 24 Responses Aug 26

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    I have been denied sex by my wife for the past 24 years. I acknowledge that in the beginning I was responsible for most of the problems in the relationship. I was an alcoholic and...
    davejgj davejgj 66-70, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I am so exhausted from the roller coaster. Not enough sex, talk to my husband about it. Fights and tries to blame me so make whatever changes but ultimately promises it will get...
    newdaynewway newdaynewway 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 30

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    im in a sexless marriage And I need to talk with someone who can relate, and not judge me or my situation. because the random person would call a sex addict, but its not that.. I...
    ooomooo ooomooo 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 4

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    Our sex life was awesome until we got married. We had sex almost everyday for two years. Then it all just stopped. 4 years later we still don't have very much sex. How we had two...
    gingersnap23 gingersnap23 26-30, F 11 Responses Sep 5

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    I personally and firmly believe sex education starts in the home with the parents and not in the schools. In fact, I home schooled all my kids because I do not approve of public...
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 7

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    I am going to tell how trying to keep my husband in a sexless marriage turned into a terror. When my husband came back from the military his father and other wanted me to assist in...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi I am a 28year old woman married to a 50 year old man that I do not love or have sex with neither does he have any feelings for me. I was a good girl when we got married while he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi I am a 28year old woman married to a 50 year old man that I do not love or have sex with neither does he have any feelings for me. I was a good girl when we got married while he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Wow there are a lot of stories about this and yes I have written too. But in my own heart, I believe there is something under lying in the whole marriage and lack of. I think it...
    HikingGuy HikingGuy 46-50, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I have strong feelings for my friend. They're only getting stronger, and I might be falling in love with her. I have desires to kiss her, hold her hand and to cuddle with her, but...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    I want to have random sex no strings attached
    shadlab76 shadlab76 22-25, M 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I posted a story with the heading l live in a,sexless marriage....it changed to l am dating. I can categorically state that l am definitely NOT dating. I will repost my story and...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 9 hrs ago

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    So much for my theory that H can't have sex. Last night he offered and although I had a splitting headache I said yes. Maybe more desperately than I should have but it was great...
    Iamhellonwheels Iamhellonwheels 41-45, F 20 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Anniversary came and went with me sleeping alone. Why am I surprised? She stayed on a conference call half the night and barely said a word to me. I know it is sexless but is it...
    philosdaddy philosdaddy 41-45, M 13 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Not ashamed to say i want sex every single day hahah
    haileybabyy haileybabyy 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    It's been sliding for years. It started out great, we had good sex often. Then as the years slid by the pace dropped. Not much, and it didn't bother either of us. Then my wife got...
    Leathlobhair Leathlobhair 36-40, M 12 Responses Aug 19

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    Before, i was unable to tell this story. It was very hard. The only way i have managed to come through in speaking of it was to talk to a friend about it, then soon another friend...
    iris801 iris801 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    So after my wife's MRI yesterday, she was feeling a whole lot better as they injected her both with anesthetic and cortisone to help the inflammation. We chatted a little before...
    HopefulDude HopefulDude 36-40, M 12 Responses Aug 20

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    Hi all. I've been doing a lot of self reflection lately, and I know that my dysfunctional family and longing to be loved (and the bs from my life long refusers) has led me to...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 41-45, F 13 Responses Aug 21

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    One & Only Resorts are devoted to more youthful guests just as much as their mother and father. Teens club has its own club property with at least four entirely-Accredited...
    Lyndon407mj Lyndon407mj 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    It's curious how people who know you well respond when you tell them you're divorcing your spouse due to lack of intimacy. I've been busy informing my family and close friends...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 34 Responses Aug 23

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    "Why don't you just admit you don't want me to touch you ever?" These words cam out of my mouth this morning after a bunch of petty back & forth sniping. It started with me...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 19 Responses Aug 30