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I Knew I Had To Choose Between My Relationship And My Child

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    My last relationship was an online one. We only talked for the first two weeks and then he stopped so I don't know what happen. One of the quotes I have is "we meet for a reason...
    dimplesgirl17 dimplesgirl17 13-15, F Jan 8

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    So a few years ago I started talking to this girl I met on Facebook who lived Chile and I live in Australia. I'm kind of shy and haven't had the best of luck with women and so when...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Memoir of a New Life To say that I had a good relationship with my mother prior to my marriage would be an understatement. She could be overbearing and meddlesome with a very...
    pseudonympublic pseudonympublic 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    if you had to choose between your life and your unborn child who's would you give? this question came from hearing about a woman who had to choose between her life and her child's...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    My parents divorced not long after I had turned one. My father moved out and I got used to seeing him every second day each week. I was mostly raised by my father and my...
    zanthemum zanthemum 18-21, F Dec 31, 2014

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    my father came from a long line of child molesters. he how ever over came it he never harmed me nor my sister. how ever I was molested by a therapist. my father was to afraid to to...
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 13

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    I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months, and I really do like him. He is about 7 years older than I, and whilst I have had long term relationships before he never has...
    roza96 roza96 18-21, F Jan 16

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    I had a great relationship with a 22 year old girl who liked older guys and it was one of the best experiences ever. Not only did we notice any age differences we had so much more...
    Mritis2u Mritis2u 36-40, M Jan 18

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    It was at least 9 years since I would consider I had any kind of childhood. Time is supposed to separate feelings from the present but time makes it worse for me. It feels like I'm...
    WonderingOfTheSoul WonderingOfTheSoul 18-21 3 days ago

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    I lived with my mom and her mom from birth till I was about 6. she was 16 raising me. I didn't know any different, it was the way I was raised, how I was influenced, the life I...
    summerwinterfallspring summerwinterfallspring 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 18

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    Death of My Father May, 2001 It’s a very quiet morning. My husband left to go visit his mother and father who live right down the road from us. I feel as if I have been cheated...
    secretme1970 secretme1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I never dreamed I would be placed in the heart wrenching position to decide what to do. While always supporting the legality of a woman's right to choose, I found myself thinking...
    MariPosa1981 MariPosa1981 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I never dreamed I would be placed in the heart wrenching position to decide what to do. While always supporting the legality of a woman's right to choose, I found myself thinking...
    MariPosa1981 MariPosa1981 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Been married for 8 years. Got married at 20 to the first and only serious relationship I ever had. Didn't get married for love as much as legal and economic reasons, but we've been...
    roserama87 roserama87 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    not now, but eventually! one day, when i'm in a secure relationship and i have enough stability and independence in my life, i would love to have children. to be honest, the...
    littlylulu littlylulu 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I have been living with the regret and denial ever since it happened, 19/12/14 10.30am I have never told the truth to anyone... here goes I am 21 in February, had been on the...
    AmyNZ1994 AmyNZ1994 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I don't know how to feel right now. I wasn't trying to get pregnant. I'm 26, but still not at a point in my life where I can have a child. I'm a professional athlete. I don't...
    skifree1080 skifree1080 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Is my boyfriend allowed to ask me to stop talking to a friend. Well I used to consider him a friend. He was till I realized he made me feel so inadequate around him and I'm sick of...
    CatLory CatLory 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I recently decided it was time to do something, anything about the toxic relationship between my mother and I. As others have written on this site, it is both empowering and...
    BradyG15 BradyG15 26-30, F Jan 16

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    I have a younger sister who is younger than me by 2 1/2 yrs; I didnt enjoy being an older sister because she would scream whenever she didnt get what she wanted and would be very...
    june199225 june199225 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I have no idea where to even start. My mom has Borderline Personality Disorder (she has been diagnosed) and her mental health has reeked havoc on my entire life. I suffered years...
    urbancowgrl7152 urbancowgrl7152 26-30 Jan 21

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    I've wished, a thousand times that I can remember of him. The type of man, that would only be alive in one's dreams. One that has the soul, of a stallion in which runs through the...
    Miranda1008 Miranda1008 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    I am happy in my relationship but i know we both wish we'd had more experiences before we met he wanted to sleep with more women and i wanted an experience with a woman, has this...
    percy33 percy33 31-35, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Hi, this is my very first post. I just would like to share what i have been going through for the last month or so. First, backstory: I met this girl 4 years ago. She was 15, i...
    roobs108 roobs108 22-25, M Jan 3

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    I will try to keep this as short as possible. There's probably no way to really start this so I'll just jump into it. I've been with this guy for 4 years. We bought a house...
    lilsunshine1129 lilsunshine1129 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    sometimes I wonder what life would be like if my brushes with death had happened. would my family be in a better place? would my children have better lives? would the everyday...
    tsnuggles tsnuggles 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I am sick of unreliable parents who reject my dreams and hopes for the future every chance they get. Everytime. Everytime I bring up my YouTube channels and saving a dare...
    lostmelody lostmelody 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    3 months ago i had an abortion. I was 7 weeks pregnant with my boyfriend of 1 and a half years. I was 19 years old & living at home. I couldn't tell my mum or any of my friends in...
    rkate55 rkate55 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    When I broke the news to my ex-husband that I am finished for good (I left, never to look back), I decided to see a really good therapist to help me move forward with my AP (when...
    happyasever happyasever 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    I had an abortion on January 21st, 2015. I chose the surgical procedure with general anesthesia because I didn't want to see, hear or witness what I was about to do because I'm...
    BlackBuddafly88 BlackBuddafly88 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am terrified of getting into a relationship as i am sure all of us are.. Its just in my personal experiences. I grow close to someone.. fall in love with them. They tell me how...
    sorasuott sorasuott 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    when I was 19 i met a foreign man working in my country he was a 36 year old African American man,he is my definition of mr right,we were together "physically" for 3 months though...
    flava11 flava11 22-25 Jan 13

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, and we've been talking about marriage but now I'm ambivalent. When we first started dating I was over the moon happy, as he...
    ccapron ccapron 22-25, F Jan 20

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    I found this on the Internet and wanted to share it because it is helpful. 1. Affairs are an escape from the realities of the world. 2. Affairs are not a rejection of the spouse...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I'm warning you now that my experience is a book... I'm sharing because I want those who may be going through this right now to know that only one thing will make the relationship...
    DaylightDancer DaylightDancer 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Dear '_'. I did not mean for you to enter into my life and your intrusion was by no means subtle. From that point I was forever yours though you were never mine. If I could tell...
    Person123x Person123x 18-21 16 hrs ago

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    My heart is aching and I feel absolutely nothing... I feel deeply afraid, if people can see what I'm thinking... The last time I screamed was when I cried, my first heart break...
    Gummi4 Gummi4 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Don't know what to do...any advice? stay in marriage without kids and cope with the emptiness and somehow not resent my husband or try to start over. I'm 35 so clock is ticking. I...
    shymh shymh 31-35, F Jan 2

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    I have a MA in Psychology and many years of work in large corporations with greats jobs. When I had a baby, my ex husband and I agreed that working from home would be the best...
    lostinthessauce lostinthessauce 41-45, F Jan 3

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    Part 2 I have since added this part to the first to make it easier to read Mr. G, as I will call him, and yes his real name started with a G. I don't know why I don't just put...
    Camille7 Camille7 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    I'm probably the most selfish person to have ever lived on this planet. I know that very well. I take advantage of peoples kindness but I don't do it to intentionally hurt them...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F Jan 18

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    I suppose it doesn't matter now that we broke up, but I still feel it gripping on to me. My girlfriend was bi-polar, depression and family trouble. She was my first love, and it...
    Inviticus Inviticus 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    I am so glad that my boyfriend and I have the great relationship that we have. I never have to worry about him straying to other girls especially sneaking around or lying. I never...
    yanene yanene 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    I found out on the 26th that I am pregnant again. I have a 2.5 year old daughter who is my absolute life and am not ready for another. All I can do is cry about it. I feel so awful...
    lifeisbeautiful89 lifeisbeautiful89 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 4

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