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I Knew I Had To Choose Between My Relationship And My Child

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    I Finally got the courage to walk away from a bad relationship. The guy was so mean to me and he was never there when I needed him I finally walked away from him. It's hard to...
    Nursekat87 Nursekat87 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I am 19 and yesterday I had an abortion. Unlike most people my age I did not terminate this pregnancy because of finances or issues with the father and most certainly not because I...
    Kimba112 Kimba112 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    Maybe he's a beard... Maybe he's not. That's not what I'm confused about though. I love spending time with him, being close, sharing the closeness between us, kissing him, touching...
    cantlovealone cantlovealone 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Sort of in a long distance relationship. Met this guy online almost 3 months ago. Hit it off as friends cause we knew the distance between each other. Well, it started growing to...
    Jbsc21 Jbsc21 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    My earliest memories are of terrible physical and emotional abuse. Discovering many years later that my father had undiagnosed severe psychological issues has done nothing to...
    recyclic recyclic 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    when i first found ep it was amazing, met a lot of people. i had an online relationship with a person i found here and it was amazing. Felt weird because the relationships i had...
    kragoth135 kragoth135 18-21, M Aug 5

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    Falling in love with your best friend probably is one of the most wonderful (kilig) or inspiring things that can happen your love life.:) I've experienced it, I realized that I...
    BakerQueen14 BakerQueen14 22-25, F Jul 28

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    Next week I'll be 27. On my 23rd birthday I went out with some friends, one of them was the new girl at work who I was so certain was gay. That night I realized that I had feelings...
    louef louef 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Has anyone ever had a sucessful relationship that led into more. We started out great we have lots in common about 95 percent of things. Then i ruined her trus by jealousy. Has...
    Luvinlifenude Luvinlifenude 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    There's this one man that I cannot take off my mind for like two years. And it's frustrating and hurting me. I wanted to forget him. I want to forget him but I don't know, I can't...
    Samwan Samwan 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Today was probably one of the hardest days of my life. I had to give my 10 month old weenie away & it broke my heart into pieces. I loved him like a mother would love their child...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    A few friends and I went out for a meal 3 years ago. One of the guys Steve is a very hard drinker - he drinks practically every day to the point of being drunk. His whole life...
    andyp3136 andyp3136 51-55 2 hrs ago

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    I am 33. I met a woman online and we talked as friends for 3 or 4 years without ever meeting. Even though she lived only 30 miles from me. She had been diagnosed with "bipolar" and...
    bentsurvivor bentsurvivor 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    I'm right now in a very complicated relationship... I have to go back to my home place for two months to work and do online schooling ... So I can come back out here. But in order...
    YoungLovee15 YoungLovee15 13-15, F 46 mins ago

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    I can tell you a lot about long distance relationships. They ARE hard. They CAN work, but MOST of the time, they don't. There is a big difference between being in a long distance...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I am currently recovering from a medical abortion. Meaning, that I took the "abortion pill" to terminate an early pregnancy. I just turned 21 years old and just came back from a...
    Guevara20 Guevara20 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 6

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    One of my best friends growing up was the son of my preschool teacher, and she spanked. He would be with us and sometimes if he misbehaved she took him to another room and spanked...
    deservedmorespanks deservedmorespanks 22-25 1 hr ago

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    We've first met when I was a Grade IV student and since he's one year younger than me, he was Grade III at that time. I'll just call him V. Our families had been close since then...
    undeniablyMe28 undeniablyMe28 18-21, F Aug 9

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    I am in a playful mood this week! But before my friend Gwyneth takes this as a signal to chase me up and down the street (wishful thinking on my part), let me explain. Article 31...
    bethturner bethturner 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 5

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    It shouldn't hurt to be a child. No child should feel like they are alone in the world, and nothing that they can do is right, but so many do, and the ones who do, feel like they...
    LostAriel LostAriel 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    When has it ever been wrong to love? There is no rule to who you are allowed to love, if you love, then you love. I met him when I was 16 and he was 28. He had come here from...
    Evelyn2184 Evelyn2184 18-21 1 Response Aug 5

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    I was a sophomore in high school, (Yea, I know pretty young), and I was in a relationship with two senior guys. I met a guy named "V" in my new school. I was pretty shy & he always...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I have been thinking a lot about the girl friends code of ethics, the unspoken/unwritten rules. A few thoughts I had: 1. Thou shalt not date your friends ex. It is a matter of...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 30

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    Less than three months ago I was very bitter, afraid and stressed out. I cried all the time. When I found out I was pregnant, I was so upset. I can't afford another child. I was...
    Evesdaughter Evesdaughter 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Search for On a daily basis Minimal Costs on As Viewed On Tv set goods and slow cookers by coloration/end, brand, selling price, purchaser score or Exclusive presents, for instance...
    Vestaavv1604 Vestaavv1604 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Almost three years ago, I remember my faith in long distance relationships was fading away. Experience showed me that behind those people I thought I knew and cared about were...
    SquareOne1 SquareOne1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Keep in mind that I was always one of those girls that never understood why women stay in abusive relationships. I was a broken child. Acted out, drugs, sex basically whatever I...
    mmememe mmememe 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Due to my wife's failing health I found myself living in a sexless marriage. I answered an ad on Craigslist from a young woman( almost 30 yrs younger than myself) who was looking...
    Danpatty Danpatty 51-55, M Aug 16

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    CRACK!!! My father's hand landed across my face. I was about 14 years old arguing and whining with my mother over something. Probably trying to have my way. For some reason I...
    SolomonSaul SolomonSaul 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My wife/sub and I are seeking a woman that might be interested in a poly relationship with us. Hoping to find a woman in her early 20s like my wife. If we find the right person...
    daddy4slut daddy4slut 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I was 24, just moved to a new city thousands of kilometres away from everyone I knew. I was scared and in a new relationship with a man that was wrong for me. My health was...
    TooTired2Think TooTired2Think 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I have been in this exact same place  over half a dozen times before.  Why haven't I learned by now?  From hour to hour  and even minute to minute I NEVER know who you'll...
    girlofnirvana girlofnirvana 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I was in one, well at least I think I was. I feel embarrassed thinking back about it but at the same time it was what I wanted and still wish for. I was 12 years old, being the...
    flowerchildx flowerchildx 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    My life had always been a lonely one. And I had always been someone who never wanted to hurt people with lies. I think I stopped feeling comfortable with who I am around the age of...
    junliga junliga 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I met my boyfriend in Feb of this year. We met online and what really attracted me to him was that he was a single parent like me and seemed to be stable. He talked a good game and...
    cdanois cdanois 22-25, F Aug 14

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    It all started back in 2011 when I was 18, just a few months away from turning 19. I had been using a site called flashflashrevolution.com because I was interested in the game it...
    HillyHana HillyHana 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    31 days ago I had my 3rd abortion. Within these 31 days I have barely allowed myself to cope with my feelings because I had so much at stake and couldn't afford to be depressed. My...
    inmysoul0505 inmysoul0505 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm going to do this, ok. And I'm NOT going to cry, no. When I was 7 my father left us. I am a child of 7, the youngest, and the only girl. It was tough on most of us when my...
    gigglesounds gigglesounds 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I had a termination last week after saying I would never have one. Until you're put in that situation and forced to make the hardest decision of your life, a person should not be...
    bebefore bebefore 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 29

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    I am so glad I found this group! I have been looking on experience project for something like this! It is truly my day :) I am looking for a deeper relationship- not...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F Jul 29

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    My story might be different from the other stories. I have been in a unhealthy relationship for 34 years. That's how long we have been married. We have no children. I think it all...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Im 38 we tried to conceive via surrogate in Jan 2014 it didn't work and we had no extra embryos to work with for another try. On July 4th 2014 I found out I have Endometrial cancer...
    supersad2014 supersad2014 36-40, F Aug 7

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    After reading horror-story after horror-story about abortion online, I was surprised at how tolerable the physical procedure was for me. I am pro-choice, but I believe in...
    elvinchild elvinchild 26-30, F Aug 14

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    When you live in a small town, you don't think about someone harming you...Everyone knows everybody, people are either very charming, reserved, or just take everyone for granted..I...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 2 Responses