I Know I Should Break Up With Him But

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    I Know I Should Break Up With Him But.....

    My boyfriend and I have not been together for too long. Only 10 months or so. But in that time I have experienced a recurring patten of let downs on his behalf. He is constantly making excuses for not doing things with me. For instance, friends birthdays, get togethers, even...
    PhenomenalWoman PhenomenalWoman
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 25, 2008

    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for nearly a year and we love each other. There is however an inbalance in our relation as he feels a lot stronger for me than I feel for him, he wants to get married and create a family with me. I am however very doubtful about continuing with him as we have very different...
    Alexandra34 Alexandra34
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2015

    How can you be sure that this one great person

    isn't the one for you? Emotionally, he is a perfect man. Everything you can wish for, a good listener, takes care of you, gentle, kind, very loving, considerate and much more. But you need to take care of him as you would a child. He never remembers appointments, doesn't take...
    theoddfossie theoddfossie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2015

    I Just Don't Know How to Do This!

    We have been together for almost seven years. I finally decided that I had to tell him it was over, so I waited and waited and finally I did, right before going on a nine day work related trip to Singapore. His first response was: "Fine, but you are the one moving out"...
    Leian Leian
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    Should I Break Up With Him?

    about 2 months ago my boyfriend, mark of a little over a year and i got in a huge fight and he broke up with me, swore at me, and spit on me. he has never done such a thing before but we were in a very heated argument and he had gotten up in my face and was saying very hateful...
    thecityneversleeps thecityneversleeps
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2013

    Sometimes you need to take a step back

    and find out who you really are.You wrote your own script and no one can play your role better than yourself.Know what makes you happy and avoid the opposite . People will say that you need to be strong , but always try to pick your own battle. You don't have to be in a...
    selfdiscovery101 selfdiscovery101
    22-25, F
    Apr 6, 2015

    Forever Confusing

    I know that I should break up with him, but I also am totally completely sure that I shouldn't. I'm in high school, but I'm very mature for my age, especially when it comes to perceptions and relationships. I've been dating some one who is also in high school, one year older. We...
    ParisianPrincess ParisianPrincess
    16-17
    1 Response Aug 9, 2009
    malishka123 malishka123
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 7, 2015

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