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I Know I Should Break Up With Him But

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    Should I Break Up With Him?

    about 2 months ago my boyfriend, mark of a little over a year and i got in a huge fight and he broke up with me, swore at me, and spit on me. he has never done such a thing before but we were in a very heated argument and he had gotten up in my face and was saying very hateful...
    thecityneversleeps thecityneversleeps 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    I Know I Should Break Up With Him But.....

    My boyfriend and I have not been together for too long. Only 10 months or so. But in that time I have experienced a recurring patten of let downs on his behalf. He is constantly making excuses for not doing things with me. For instance, friends birthdays, get togethers, even...
    PhenomenalWoman PhenomenalWoman 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know How to Do This!

    We have been together for almost seven years. I finally decided that I had to tell him it was over, so I waited and waited and finally I did, right before going on a nine day work related trip to Singapore. His first response was: "Fine, but you are the one moving out"...
    Leian Leian 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Forever Confusing

    I know that I should break up with him, but I also am totally completely sure that I shouldn't. I'm in high school, but I'm very mature for my age, especially when it comes to perceptions and relationships. I've been dating some one who is also in high school, one year older. We...
    ParisianPrincess ParisianPrincess 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2009

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    His feelings for me changed somewhere along the way. I stayed very much in love with him and he started just wanting to spend less and less time with me. He became more distant...
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    I've known him for around seven years & always thought he was charming & handsome guy, but we weren't very close. This year it has changed, we spend almost everyday together for...
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    I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year, yes a year. I have tried but all I feel is annoyed most of the time. He is a really nice guy, and I think part of the...
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    averagecomplicatedhuman averagecomplicatedhuman 18-21, F Aug 30

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    he ask me to go out with him there is one problem with that this is my first time going out on a real date with some one so i'm really excited
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    I love him because i want to prove something for my self.. I love him because i want to make sure that he loves me then I'll break his heart , at the same time I hate him because...
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    bananafruit bananafruit 16-17, F Aug 19

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    Sigh. I like him soo much. I've known him since 2nd grade and now we are sophomores. We hardly talk 😭😭
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    He loves me I know that. But he act like i'm nothing to him . My man is so afraid from his feeling to me . Ah men.
    mmo94 mmo94 18-21, F Aug 29

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    Yes. Sometimes I can strangle my man when he acts like a douche head but I love him to death.
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    coltan108 coltan108 13-15, M Aug 29

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    the problem is if the door opens, is it really open or is it just cracked with someone on the other side who don't want you there. Be diligent but careful
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    Yea, god gives you something to jump out of. Lol
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