I Know I'm Being Stupid But Yes I Get Jealous Sometimes

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    I Know I Know... =(

    I can't help it, and I know how stupid I am, but yes, I get jealous from time to time....... =(
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2010

    So my boyfriend is asleep rn just saw his post

    on ep about how he hates his life and him just saying those words just broke my heart he's an amazing guy and im trying so hard just to keep him happy but nothing is working..and when he says stuff like that it makes me jealous because it makes me feel that..maybe im not good...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2015

    Part 1: Before I could care less.

    .. a boyfriend could flirt, text, or kiss another girl as long as he wasn't having sex with her I didn't even raise an eyebrow and even if he did I'd still probably not even give a damn. I think it's because I knew he was just a boyfriend and that our relationship could&would be...
    LUzunov LUzunov
    22-25, F
    Jul 10, 2015

    KNOWING that the grass seems greener,

    even when it may be a brown mess or pile of dirt doesn't stop me from FEELING jealous at times. I get that I've got things going for me that the people I went envy don't, but I feel like I'd trade some of those things in a heartbeat for other things. The good thing, though, is...
    mickitg mickitg
    46-50, T
    1 Response Sep 18, 2015

    With Winter Formal- the biggest dance of the

    year- coming at the end of the month, guys have started asking girls out. My best friend is the typical miss beauty queen and guys are already lining up to ask her hand in being their date. I, on the other hand, have never been asked out. I'm whatever about it. But deep down, I...
    caseygrace01 caseygrace01
    18-21, F
    Jan 2, 2014

    I Hate Being Jealous

    I seriously have a jealousy problem. Normally it is of my close friends, but anyone can be a victim of my jealousy. My first best friend I hated her, because I was jealous of her. I am doing better with this problem but I still get jealous sometimes. It is mostly people who I am...
    Peep22 Peep22
    22-25, F
    Dec 17, 2010

    I get so jealous when girls try to flirt with

    my boyfriend with me around. Since girls don't want to listen I'm just going to flip as loud as I can into the owner of the store kick me out. My boyfriends at the time just play with me and we be talking and stuff but then girls would try to interrupt our conversation. I'm...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2015

    Part 2: I almost played him

    when we first started dating. I mean he was just supposed to be another guy I used but I couldn't do it to him and it doesnt help that I fell in love with him instantenously. He didn't jump at the opportunity for sex we just sat and talked and he showed all sorts of efforts for...
    LUzunov LUzunov
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    I know that I will get jealous

    if I ever had a relationship. I am just so traumatized of my guys trying to checking out my friends and other girls right in front of me just because im open minded and non judgemental. There's a limit. A guy who will get pass my friends for me is a guy I'd love to meet. They...
    Rambunctshezz Rambunctshezz
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    My friend is told a lot

    that she is very pretty by the boys in our school. And i have like twice but not as much.. I feel so jealous.. She is my friend but sometimes I would like her to be ugly
    angi26 angi26
    13-15, F
    Sep 11, 2015

    There's this guy and he used to love one of my

    friends. He now says he loves me and I love him too. But yesterday he called me her name when we were kissing. And they're real cute together.
    cheshiregirlll cheshiregirlll
    16-17, F
    Aug 8, 2015

    This sounds wired but I'm jealous of my

    boyfriends relationship with his dog. He stokes him talks to him plays with me and it makes me feel jealous! One time he cuddled his dog in his sleep and I actually started crying because he was cuddles his dog instead of me 😭
    Brookedrumm Brookedrumm
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2015

    Ashamed Of This

    || I know that in my case, it's fear of abandonment. It goes right back to childhood. Why, oh why, are childhood things so powerful?
    SmartKat SmartKat
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Dec 3, 2013

    Feeling like this doesn't upset,

    annoy or anger me. I just get embarrassed admitting it. I've never been the jealous type and in the past I've never really cared about this type of stuff but with him I can't control it. I get jealous over the smallest things.. I get jealous hearing stories about ex...
    Shiningstar26 Shiningstar26
    18-21, F
    Sep 20, 2014

    So guys... My boyfriend is away working on a

    cruise for a week and I just moved to his country and don't really know anyone here. I know that he is really having a great time, he has free food, gym, swimming pool plus they will go with the cruise round Italy and Malta... I am scared/jealous/worried that he will meet...
    KoalaMars KoalaMars
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 2, 2015

    I wish I could be different

    and secure in my own skin but I'm not. I no longer trust before not trusting. I no longer think innocent before guilty. Worst of all, I no longer think I'm worth being loyal to. Because an ex cheated on me, both my mind and my brain are forever altered. I tolerated this...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 6

    I'm jealous of one of my close friends ,

    she has it all , the looks and the money...
    secret687 secret687
    16-17, F
    Jul 9, 2015

    Like, I hate it when my bf mentions how pretty

    another girl is... even though he thinks I'm beautiful. Ok, he says it like, "Oh so and so looks cute today..." and I say bitterly, "Yeah, she's alright. I've seen better" He tells me I'm beautiful and I'm only his, but I guess I want to be the only girl in his eyes. IDK...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Apr 6

    Uncontrollable

    Althought my boyfriend understands the pain of being cheated on, I always worry that he'll cheat on me or leave me for someone else. Whenever he mentions another girl I instantly become jealous reguardless of who she is. I feel as though they are trying to steal him from me and I...
    AdorableCaterpillar AdorableCaterpillar
    18-21, F
    Apr 13, 2012

    Facebook Jealousy

    so here is a little funny story about my sometimes unwarranted jealousy... I was looking at some photos of my boyfriend on facebook...photos he had been tagged in by friends... He had recently been at a restaurant with some friends and had missed coming to see a softball game...
    brittanyranee brittanyranee
    22-25
    1 Response Sep 6, 2010

    I'm jealous when it seems others are having

    more fun or a happier life than me. I see younger people esp the ones that seem to have a lot going for them (looks, youth, intelligence, resources, good family) and I get jealous.
    Avetaw Avetaw
    66-70, F
    5 Responses Sep 17, 2015

    Idk why but I get jealous over stupid stuff,

    like if I like someone and they like someone else I get stupid jelious I think it's because I'm scared I'm going to lose that person. I hate feeling like this help me
    SassyNclassy04 SassyNclassy04
    31-35, F
    Jun 29, 2015

    I'm jealous of.....the guy i like I never try

    to tell him......that i have a crush on him because he's always hanging out and kissing my Best friend and i know is wrong, because she has another boyfriend !!!!!! and something else.....he will never have a crush on me because im not good enough LOL :(...
    newcarlis newcarlis
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    i am jealous whenever the insecurity attacts me.

    . so I could say most of the time.. I get jealous to indah.. you seem like so caring around her. and the picture of you simply making body contact with indah or debo is killing me. My heart feel so hurt and I think I am just about to cry.. I know jealoussy type of girl is...
    meandmythought meandmythought
    26-30, F
    Sep 20, 2015

    Dilemma

    .....this is stupid, But I have to get this off my chest. We both moved on and have lives with other people. But Everytime we talk NO MATTER WHO WERE WITH... It still feels like the feeling you gave me in high school... And seeing you happy with someone else does get me jealous...
    BorderlineMind BorderlineMind
    22-25, F
    Dec 27, 2012
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