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I Know Men Can Be Rape Victims Too

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 460 People

    Male Rape.

    I have experienced this personally and have met a number of other men who suffered the same fate. I was unfortunate in my choice of gay bars where I had met a guy who asked if I would like a drink. Being a very sociable person I accepted and we got chatting. We had a couple of...
    breakback69 breakback69 61-65, M 2 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    Lost My Virginity In Jail

    I was sent to jail for 6 months for "Domestic Violence" at least thats what her attorney told the court. After I was taken into custody it wasn t more then 24 hours before I was sent to a unit with an assigned cell and a cellie already in it, and he had convinced me to suck him...
    afrika afrika 56-60, M 16 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    So Sorry

    I was raped as a young kid, by a female baby sitte. I can't imagine what would be like for a woman to be internally violated. I would love to take that pain away from all of you. :€
    willhope willhope 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    I was rape from the age of 5 till I was 12.

    I don't want do go in to the details never done that before. It started with my dad when I was 5. then he use to bring me out when he had his mates were over witch was every weekend I was 6. Then he started to sell me to 3 to 5 men at a time I never left my room 5 years I was 6...
    Ripjr Ripjr 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    Raped Over And Over By My Uncle And His Friends

    When I was 8 my parents used to take me to my Aunts cottage and I was there for the summer. The first day my uncle said go for a swim and then meet me in the boat house. He also said forget your bathing suite. So I swam and he called me and showed me a barrel and then he got...
    Wayne12345 Wayne12345 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 13, 2013

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    I Once, Twice, Three Times Molested ... And Then I Was Groomed And Raped.

    The first time was actually ongoing between ages 5-7. Mom had a boyfriend, Bill, with whom she'd get drunk. Invariably he would take me down into the basement, turn me over his knee, beat my *** with his calloused mechanic hands, and then when the pain turned to numbness he would...
    Jerielle Jerielle 46-50, T 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    I think my friend is in trouble.

    I'm worried about him so much I can't sleep at night. He was raped when he was younger. Molested, I guess, by his uncle. He eventually told him mom. She threw his uncle out of the house, said he was getting help. She told him to never tell his father. His mother made him feel...
    gandalfthegreen gandalfthegreen 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    It Isnt Rape Son

    They say it isnt rape.. that men cant be raped.... and while I do not in any way compare it to the damage and feelings that happen with rape of women... I still think it is. I was 7 years old when my innocence was taken from me. It was the holiday season, and my parents were...
    MsMarcy MsMarcy 41-45 4 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I have never told anyone

    but I was raped from the age of 5 till I was 12 . Buy 10 different men and made to do child **** . I don't want to put on a story now but will when I have the strength. From ripjr
    Ripjr Ripjr 18-21, M Dec 7, 2013

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    My Story

    I was raped when I was 14 by two guys that were in thier early thirties. They took thier time, set me up with **** and friendship, and when the time was right they moved in. Funny thing is, I loved it. We played together for alomst a year.
    vincedoey vincedoey 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    Yes

    I know men can be rape victims too. Most people think that men are suppose to be strong, and are suppose to be able to fight off everything. However that is so wrong. Men can be victims of sexual violence too. Not just woman, and I wish more people would realize it. So many men...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 27, 2013

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    Gang Raped By 10 Women

    This is just a brief summary of an actual crime that happened on the 22.10.10 / 10.22.10 10 Papua New Guinea women are being held in custody after they kidnapped a 17 year old boy and attacked him using machetes and kitchen knives and at least four women are reported for...
    hhue hhue 26-30, F 17 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    No Harder

    One of the biggest arguments against allowing women into combat arms is also one of the biggest loads of crap. They state that a woman could be raped if captured. What makes this argument total crap is the fact that men can be raped too. In fact, when you get right down to it it...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 2 Responses Mar 29, 2013

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    I came to know about male rape accidentally

    while watching a film that started with the brutal scene of a sexual assault to a young boy. After that, I looked for thay and discovered new things, and now it is the matter I'm fighting for. I feel so bad for male rape victims, and I want to help as much as I can.. so, if you...
    actuelly actuelly 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 19

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    Male Survivor

    So... It's irritating at times to hear that some don't believe it happens to guys too. A well published statistic say that 1 in 4 females, and 1 in 7 males have been sexually abused by age 18, I think... Anyway. I was raped by some college guys when I was 15. Hanging out on the...
    imagemakin imagemakin 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    He Took Advantage

    I had recently started going to the gym to try and get fit and tone my body up. There was an Instructor who did my induction he was cute and handsome and I was not the best at hiding my attraction i suppose. He flirted back like he did with everyone. After several months of going...
    harmedspirit harmedspirit 31-35 Jul 17, 2013

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    Why I Hate Christmas

    Anybody who has read my other stuff would know my mom touched for nine years. This is the story of another abuser, one I only encountered for a few hours. I've never once shared this story in any form beyond "I was raped by a man in an alley on Christmas". So, this is the first...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx 18-21, M 9 Responses May 17, 2011

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    Male Victim Of Assault And Attempted Rape

    Maybe this isn't the correct place but I'm well aware from my own experience that male rape can occor. This was last year, I was 19 at the time. I'm a fit, strong and athletic guy but something like this takes away your confidence. I was walking home one night (not through a...
    ShannonT ShannonT 18-21, M 5 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    I Was Only 4

    My father let me have a sleep over in the backyard when I was a kid. I was 4 and my dad insisted I have someone older with me. He had the neighbor 15 yr old boy sleep over. I still wore diapers and when the teen saw my diaper he told me I was a big boy. he zipped our sleeping...
    flooberflooters flooberflooters 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    Lost In The Past And Worried About My Future

    Im am a 23 year old streight guy. I was gay raped by a man in the middle of the town after waiting for a taxi home after nightclubbing. My friends had gone home and while i was waiting for my taxi i was manipulated into walking away with a guy that claimed he was leading me to...
    cjnx123 cjnx123 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 28, 2012

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    Male Being Abused

    I am 18, in great shape, blonde hair, blue eyes. I am a 100% straight male. But for 6 weeks my dad's best friend and his brother, Ben, have been sexually abusing me in unspeakable ways. Roy and his brother Fred invited me over for a weekend when my parents were away. When I got...
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    Went Back To Where It Happened

    When I was a kid my best friend raped me. Over the last couple years I've finally been able to start dealing with it. It took 18 years for me to admit it to anyone. Even now only my wife, my best buddy and my counselor know about it. I've tried a few times to write about it...
    crowseye crowseye 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    It is 3 AM here and I can`t sleep again,

    thinking about my friend, who was survivor (may be still is I don`t know if he is alive or not at the time). I have to share, need to, because now I am the only one who knows and don`t know how to deal with it. Dosn`t help me being survivor too... it seems to me it was much...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I Know Boys Can Be Rape Victims Too.... The Three Times I Was Violated Before I Was 18

    i never had step parents; my mom and dad are still together. Sure my dad beat us kids regularly, but we thought that was normal. i lived in the same house throughout my childhood. i should have had a normal childhood; i didn't. i guess normal is overrated. i was first sexually...
    biker2bfemmed biker2bfemmed 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    Hi

    i was raped by my exgf and her 8 friends it make me sad that she would do that to me know i had a new gf at the time
    Qqqsharky Qqqsharky 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    At 16

    I have had this posted as a confession for a long time. Thought I would post it here as well- My first sexual encounter happened when I was 16. For a long time I did not acknowledge it because of the nature of it. It took me over 20 years to acknowledge that I had been raped. I...
    johndarb johndarb 41-45, M Oct 2, 2013

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    Y

    The first time I was 4 and my older brother molested me and my younger brother we did tell my mom and Dad which they had him sent away. When I was 13 my cousin raped me at knife point this is the first time I had a guy inside me it hurt bad. When I was 15 I was sent to...
    gboy6969 gboy6969 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    Male Rape

    Male Rape In 2002, one in every eight rape victims were male. (RAINN, 2003) Yes, men can be victimized. No, it does not mean you are weak. Rape is NEVER the victim's fault.        Being victimized does not mean there's anything wrong with you and it...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 24 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Was Raped

    i was raped by my exgf and her friends they used me to pleasure them
    Qqqsharky Qqqsharky 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    My Story.

    The first time, I was six. We had just moved into a new house, and I always played with the girl that lived in the house behind me, she was eight. One day when I was there, she told me she liked girls. I paid no mind to it, I was young. Then she tried to kiss me and I said no and...
    Rachel182 Rachel182 13-15 Oct 23, 2012

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    I was young when it started,

    I remember liking the attention from an older boy. I was 6 and he was 9 or 10. Throughout the years I craved attention like that, and eventually became very promiscuous in my teen years. My father was never around, became an alcoholic soon after I came out. I was signed to a...
    matthewquinn matthewquinn 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Damn Fake Smile

    I am john and i am19. Something far worst then being raped by a person is being raped by a person you trusted, you love, your own family. I was 8 and i was allowed to sleep over a cousins house. It was me, my two girl cousins, and him. At this time he was 14 or 16 i'm not sure...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    This Is What Happened To Me.

    I met her in School, gave up my family for her. When I was 23 we found a place together and the first year was good, but then she started going to the pub a lot (I didn't drink back then and still don't). When she used to come back from the pub she used to beat me and tell me...
    edgyfox edgyfox 26-30, M 15 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    Day My Life Almost Ended

    When I was twelve years old I was raped and sodomized by my best friends mom. My best friend at the time was a girl my age. Her mom found us looking and touching each other in an old tool shed. She flipped out and dragged both of us to the house nude and proceeded to beat us...
    titan28115 titan28115 36-40, M 12 Responses May 5, 2012

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    Raped In My Teens

    For reasons I won't go into here, I started cross-dressing in my teens. When I was 17, we were on holiday and I was walking alone along a beach at dusk, wearing a summer dress. A man approached me, presumably trying to pick me up, but when he got close enough to get a good look...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    My Bestfrien's Dad

    ,...I was at my best friend's house...drinking, smoking, the usual..!!!! It was past 1 when I decided to leave...my bestie J, was already asleep, she couldnt drive me so her dad told me he would take me home...i was ok with that, i knew him forever so no worries....i had just...
    idontwannadream idontwannadream 18-21, M 18 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    I Was Made To Believe I Should Be Raped As A Punishment

    On 2 weeks summer camp with the BB"S age 12 we were stationed in log cabins with bunk beds my top bunk was at the end next to the captains private room the bottom bunk was empty first night he would check everyone was asleep with a small torch most pretending to be asleep he...
    rachelusissy rachelusissy 31-35, M Apr 5, 2013

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    Raped At 13 And 14 Years Old By My Aunt And Guitar Teacher

    When I was 13 years old I was raped by my maternal Aunt. She's 10 years younger than my Mother and is a social studies teacher at a Jr High School. During the summer when I was 13 years old, I stayed with my Aunt because my Mom and Dad were relocating to another base. I was an...
    painofshame painofshame 36-40, M 7 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Rapped

    I was a 16yr male & was rapped. By an older man. If any one wants the details just ask me
    mojooooo mojooooo 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    At 6 Years Old.

    I was 6 when a family friend repeatedly raped me. She was a woman in her 20s, someone I had come to trust, and who was living with my family for a short time. I remember that each time, I felt like there was something wrong about this, but was too scared to say or do anything...
    DonCarlo DonCarlo 36-40, M Oct 9, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I was raped when I was 15 by an 18 year old who I knew and kept seeing because he was a family friend. After I always thought I would never get straight again but then when I was...
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    I'm 15. Momma left me for drugs. Dad is dead. I have 8 brothers n sisters I've never met. Been abused and beaten. And sexually abused more than I can count. Got raped last year got...
    hatemylife1234 hatemylife1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Hell why not lol i like curvy women so if you got it be proud of it and flaunt it aha don't let society tell you us men what a girl we'd either flatten or snap in half aha no we...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M Sep 7

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    Honestly it's just sorta started recently, I get in these moods where anything I think about or someone says can just make me cry and I don't know why. Even though I feel like I...
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F Sep 7

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    Exactly. Life can seem like you're going in circles... Sometimes you have to start all over and see where plan "A" failed and then proceed.
    seotelkniwt seotelkniwt 61-65, F Sep 1

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    I would love to teach a young woman how to enjoy their body to the fullest and open up their desire to explore their sexuality!
    wantayounglady wantayounglady 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I. Am. I also want to state right here that not just Woman are victims of Rape. There are men, chidlren of both genders, and yes women. Please don't sterotype this as a thing that...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I told. Finally, I told. And I'm proud of myself. Yeah, there's been questions, and lots of them, but the evidence is good apparently. I'm just so scared, you know? This is going...
    Betruetoyourselfxx Betruetoyourselfxx 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 1

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    I have been raped 3 times by different guys. One was my dad when I was 3, then the other two were ***** guys. I didn't even know them. They drugged me and had their way. Only 3...
    UnstableSammi UnstableSammi 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Jenipe Jenipe 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I am so happy being a forever single as a black woman. I can't stand being around men for too long because men have a natural need to control and hate hearing women issues. Men...
    inspirelove inspirelove 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    "Why doesn't she just leave?" "Leaving an abusive relationship actually entails substantial risks for women. In fact, their risk of being killed increases by 75% when they leave...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5