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I Know Men Can Be Rape Victims Too

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 508 People

    Male Victim Of Assault And Attempted Rape

    Maybe this isn't the correct place but I'm well aware from my own experience that male rape can occor. This was last year, I was 19 at the time. I'm a fit, strong and athletic guy but something like this takes away your confidence. I was walking home one night (not through a...
    ShannonT ShannonT
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2011

    Male Being Abused

    I am 18, in great shape, blonde hair, blue eyes. I am a 100% straight male. But for 6 weeks my dad's best friend and his brother, Ben, have been sexually abusing me in unspeakable ways. Roy and his brother Fred invited me over for a weekend when my parents were away. When I got...
    1 Response Feb 5, 2013

    Raped Over And Over By My Uncle And His Friends

    When I was 8 my parents used to take me to my Aunts cottage and I was there for the summer. The first day my uncle said go for a swim and then meet me in the boat house. He also said forget your bathing suite. So I swam and he called me and showed me a barrel and then he got...
    Wayne12345 Wayne12345
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Apr 13, 2013

    I have never told anyone

    but I was raped from the age of 5 till I was 12 . Buy 10 different men and made to do child **** . I don't want to put on a story now but will when I have the strength. From ripjr
    Ripjr Ripjr
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

    Raped In My Teens

    For reasons I won't go into here, I started cross-dressing in my teens. When I was 17, we were on holiday and I was walking alone along a beach at dusk, wearing a summer dress. A man approached me, presumably trying to pick me up, but when he got close enough to get a good look...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

    My Story

    I was raped when I was 14 by two guys that were in thier early thirties. They took thier time, set me up with **** and friendship, and when the time was right they moved in. Funny thing is, I loved it. We played together for alomst a year.
    vincedoey vincedoey
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Nov 26, 2011

    At 6 Years Old.

    I was 6 when a family friend repeatedly raped me. She was a woman in her 20s, someone I had come to trust, and who was living with my family for a short time. I remember that each time, I felt like there was something wrong about this, but was too scared to say or do anything...
    DonCarlo DonCarlo
    36-40, M
    Oct 9, 2012

    Lost In The Past And Worried About My Future

    Im am a 23 year old streight guy. I was gay raped by a man in the middle of the town after waiting for a taxi home after nightclubbing. My friends had gone home and while i was waiting for my taxi i was manipulated into walking away with a guy that claimed he was leading me to...
    cjnx123 cjnx123
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 28, 2012
    Qqqsharky Qqqsharky
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    Male Survivor

    So... It's irritating at times to hear that some don't believe it happens to guys too. A well published statistic say that 1 in 4 females, and 1 in 7 males have been sexually abused by age 18, I think... Anyway. I was raped by some college guys when I was 15. Hanging out on the...
    imagemakin imagemakin
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

    I Was Made To Believe I Should Be Raped As A Punishment

    On 2 weeks summer camp with the BB"S age 12 we were stationed in log cabins with bunk beds my top bunk was at the end next to the captains private room the bottom bunk was empty first night he would check everyone was asleep with a small torch most pretending to be asleep he...
    rachelusissy rachelusissy
    31-35, M
    Apr 5, 2013

    It is 3 AM here and I can`t sleep again,

    thinking about my friend, who was survivor (may be still is I don`t know if he is alive or not at the time). I have to share, need to, because now I am the only one who knows and don`t know how to deal with it. Dosn`t help me being survivor too... it seems to me it was much...
    Mellangela Mellangela
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 27, 2014

    Day My Life Almost Ended

    When I was twelve years old I was raped and sodomized by my best friends mom. My best friend at the time was a girl my age. Her mom found us looking and touching each other in an old tool shed. She flipped out and dragged both of us to the house nude and proceeded to beat us...
    titan28115 titan28115
    36-40, M
    12 Responses May 5, 2012

    Went Back To Where It Happened

    When I was a kid my best friend raped me. Over the last couple years I've finally been able to start dealing with it. It took 18 years for me to admit it to anyone. Even now only my wife, my best buddy and my counselor know about it. I've tried a few times to write about it...
    crowseye crowseye
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2011

    Gang Raped By 10 Women

    This is just a brief summary of an actual crime that happened on the 22.10.10 / 10.22.10 10 Papua New Guinea women are being held in custody after they kidnapped a 17 year old boy and attacked him using machetes and kitchen knives and at least four women are reported for...
    hhue hhue
    26-30, F
    17 Responses Nov 22, 2010

    I was young when it started,

    I remember liking the attention from an older boy. I was 6 and he was 9 or 10. Throughout the years I craved attention like that, and eventually became very promiscuous in my teen years. My father was never around, became an alcoholic soon after I came out. I was signed to a...
    matthewquinn matthewquinn
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

    Damn Fake Smile

    I am john and i am19. Something far worst then being raped by a person is being raped by a person you trusted, you love, your own family. I was 8 and i was allowed to sleep over a cousins house. It was me, my two girl cousins, and him. At this time he was 14 or 16 i'm not sure...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Oct 27, 2012

    I Know Boys Can Be Rape Victims Too.... The Three Times I Was Violated Before I Was 18

    i never had step parents; my mom and dad are still together. Sure my dad beat us kids regularly, but we thought that was normal. i lived in the same house throughout my childhood. i should have had a normal childhood; i didn't. i guess normal is overrated. i was first sexually...
    biker2bfemmed biker2bfemmed
    51-55, M
    1 Response Apr 10, 2013


    The first time I was 4 and my older brother molested me and my younger brother we did tell my mom and Dad which they had him sent away. When I was 13 my cousin raped me at knife point this is the first time I had a guy inside me it hurt bad. When I was 15 I was sent to...
    gboy6969 gboy6969
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 12, 2012

    I know they can be, because I have been raped.

    And what's worse, he was my older cousin.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2016


    I am watching Law and Order SVU and it happenes to be one that a guy gets attacked. Most people don't think that men can be raped, but that is NOT the case. men can be just as much of a victim as a woman can be! I don't think people are aware of that. I think a Lot of men are...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2010

    This Is What Happened To Me.

    I met her in School, gave up my family for her. When I was 23 we found a place together and the first year was good, but then she started going to the pub a lot (I didn't drink back then and still don't). When she used to come back from the pub she used to beat me and tell me...
    edgyfox edgyfox
    31-35, M
    14 Responses Jun 28, 2013

    I been told that I was raped

    but I don't feel I was due to the fact I was curious and let my stepfather, his brothers, nephew, and drug dealer have sex with me. I was only 14 at the time it started but I had already been having sex with a 3 month younger cousin and a couple of classmates when I was 13.
    Michelle1976 Michelle1976
    41-45, T
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2015


    I was a 16yr male & was rapped. By an older man. If any one wants the details just ask me
    mojooooo mojooooo
    51-55, M
    10 Responses Apr 17, 2013


    I know men can be rape victims too. Most people think that men are suppose to be strong, and are suppose to be able to fight off everything. However that is so wrong. Men can be victims of sexual violence too. Not just woman, and I wish more people would realize it. So many men...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 27, 2013

    Male Rape

    Male Rape In 2002, one in every eight rape victims were male. (RAINN, 2003) Yes, men can be victimized. No, it does not mean you are weak. Rape is NEVER the victim's fault.        Being victimized does not mean there's anything wrong with you and it...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    24 Responses Jan 22, 2011

    My Bestfrien's Dad

    ,...I was at my best friend's house...drinking, smoking, the usual..!!!! It was past 1 when I decided to bestie J, was already asleep, she couldnt drive me so her dad told me he would take me home...i was ok with that, i knew him forever so no worries....i had just...
    idontwannadream idontwannadream
    18-21, M
    19 Responses Nov 29, 2012

    as a young kid I was "adopted" by a family from

    age 9--there were a lot of men in the family. They were neighbors and they told me there were too many females around me--I was a kid growing up in a family of mostly women. The men were notorious for being sexual predators and as fate would have it, I became like them--a sexual...
    lookerq lookerq
    51-55, M
    Jul 12, 2015

    At 16

    I lost my virginity to a group of woman that I did not know. For a long time I did not acknowledge it because of the nature of it. It took me over 20 years to acknowledge that I had been raped. I did not have a lot of experience with girls at that time. I had dated a bit and...
    johndarb johndarb
    41-45, M
    Oct 2, 2013

    I Once, Twice, Three Times Molested ... And Then I Was Groomed And Raped.

    The first time was actually ongoing between ages 5-7. Mom had a boyfriend, Bill, with whom she'd get drunk. Invariably he would take me down into the basement, turn me over his knee, beat my *** with his calloused mechanic hands, and then when the pain turned to numbness he would...
    Jerielle Jerielle
    46-50, T
    1 Response Oct 30, 2012

    I was rape from the age of 5 till I was 12.

    I don't want do go in to the details never done that before. It started with my dad when I was 5. then he use to bring me out when he had his mates were over witch was every weekend I was 6. Then he started to sell me to 3 to 5 men at a time I never left my room 5 years I was 6...
    Ripjr Ripjr
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Dec 11, 2013

    He Took Advantage

    I had recently started going to the gym to try and get fit and tone my body up. There was an Instructor who did my induction he was cute and handsome and I was not the best at hiding my attraction i suppose. He flirted back like he did with everyone. After several months of going...
    harmedspirit harmedspirit
    Jul 17, 2013

    Raped At 13 And 14 Years Old By My Aunt And Guitar Teacher

    When I was 13 years old I was raped by my maternal Aunt. She's 10 years younger than my Mother and is a social studies teacher at a Jr High School. During the summer when I was 13 years old, I stayed with my Aunt because my Mom and Dad were relocating to another base. I was an...
    painofshame painofshame
    36-40, M
    7 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    No Harder

    One of the biggest arguments against allowing women into combat arms is also one of the biggest loads of crap. They state that a woman could be raped if captured. What makes this argument total crap is the fact that men can be raped too. In fact, when you get right down to it it...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    41-45, T
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2013

    I think my friend is in trouble.

    I'm worried about him so much I can't sleep at night. He was raped when he was younger. Molested, I guess, by his uncle. He eventually told him mom. She threw his uncle out of the house, said he was getting help. She told him to never tell his father. His mother made him feel...
    gandalfthegreen gandalfthegreen
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2014

    So Sorry

    I was raped as a young kid, by a female baby sitte. I can't imagine what would be like for a woman to be internally violated. I would love to take that pain away from all of you. :€
    willhope willhope
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

    Why I Hate Christmas

    Anybody who has read my other stuff would know my mom touched for nine years. This is the story of another abuser, one I only encountered for a few hours. I've never once shared this story in any form beyond "I was raped by a man in an alley on Christmas". So, this is the first...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx
    18-21, M
    9 Responses May 17, 2011

    Lost My Virginity In Jail

    I was sent to jail for 6 months for "Domestic Violence" at least thats what her attorney told the court. After I was taken into custody it wasn t more then 24 hours before I was sent to a unit with an assigned cell and a cellie already in it, and he had convinced me to suck him...
    afrika afrika
    56-60, M
    16 Responses Apr 16, 2011

    Male Rape.

    I have experienced this personally and have met a number of other men who suffered the same fate. I was unfortunate in my choice of gay bars where I had met a guy who asked if I would like a drink. Being a very sociable person I accepted and we got chatting. We had a couple of...
    breakback69 breakback69
    61-65, M
    1 Response Sep 26, 2011

    yes, indeed they can.

    I have a friend who was in the army and he tells me of his experiences. There was usually a power play--a stronger guy asserting dominance over the group would show it by forcing a weaker member to perform oral or anal sex. A known victim was then fair game for others.
    lookerq lookerq
    51-55, M
    Jul 26, 2015
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