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I Know Men Can Be Rape Victims Too

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 507 People

    I know they can be, because I have been raped.

    And what's worse, he was my older cousin.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    I been told that I was raped

    but I don't feel I was due to the fact I was curious and let my stepfather, his brothers, nephew, and drug dealer have sex with me. I was only 14 at the time it started but I had already been having sex with a 3 month younger cousin and a couple of classmates when I was 13.
    Michelle1976 Michelle1976
    41-45, T
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2015
    Qqqsharky Qqqsharky
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    It is 3 AM here and I can`t sleep again,

    thinking about my friend, who was survivor (may be still is I don`t know if he is alive or not at the time). I have to share, need to, because now I am the only one who knows and don`t know how to deal with it. Dosn`t help me being survivor too... it seems to me it was much...
    Mellangela Mellangela
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 27, 2014

    I have never told anyone

    but I was raped from the age of 5 till I was 12 . Buy 10 different men and made to do child **** . I don't want to put on a story now but will when I have the strength. From ripjr
    Ripjr Ripjr
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

    This Is What Happened To Me.

    I met her in School, gave up my family for her. When I was 23 we found a place together and the first year was good, but then she started going to the pub a lot (I didn't drink back then and still don't). When she used to come back from the pub she used to beat me and tell me...
    edgyfox edgyfox
    31-35, M
    14 Responses Jun 28, 2013


    I was a 16yr male & was rapped. By an older man. If any one wants the details just ask me
    mojooooo mojooooo
    51-55, M
    10 Responses Apr 17, 2013

    No Harder

    One of the biggest arguments against allowing women into combat arms is also one of the biggest loads of crap. They state that a woman could be raped if captured. What makes this argument total crap is the fact that men can be raped too. In fact, when you get right down to it it...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    41-45, T
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2013

    So Sorry

    I was raped as a young kid, by a female baby sitte. I can't imagine what would be like for a woman to be internally violated. I would love to take that pain away from all of you. :€
    willhope willhope
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2013


    I know men can be rape victims too. Most people think that men are suppose to be strong, and are suppose to be able to fight off everything. However that is so wrong. Men can be victims of sexual violence too. Not just woman, and I wish more people would realize it. So many men...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 27, 2013

    My Bestfrien's Dad

    ,...I was at my best friend's house...drinking, smoking, the usual..!!!! It was past 1 when I decided to bestie J, was already asleep, she couldnt drive me so her dad told me he would take me home...i was ok with that, i knew him forever so no worries....i had just...
    idontwannadream idontwannadream
    18-21, M
    19 Responses Nov 29, 2012

    Damn Fake Smile

    I am john and i am19. Something far worst then being raped by a person is being raped by a person you trusted, you love, your own family. I was 8 and i was allowed to sleep over a cousins house. It was me, my two girl cousins, and him. At this time he was 14 or 16 i'm not sure...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Oct 27, 2012

    It Goes Unreported More I Think

    think with males it goes unreported more i know it happened thought a church baby sitter that raped all 5 of us kids then an uncle that raped me and other knew it was going on but did not care as it was not the first it also use to happen many times in boot camp i think as the...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Feb 24, 2012

    Went Back To Where It Happened

    When I was a kid my best friend raped me. Over the last couple years I've finally been able to start dealing with it. It took 18 years for me to admit it to anyone. Even now only my wife, my best buddy and my counselor know about it. I've tried a few times to write about it...
    crowseye crowseye
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2011

    My Story

    I was raped when I was 14 by two guys that were in thier early thirties. They took thier time, set me up with **** and friendship, and when the time was right they moved in. Funny thing is, I loved it. We played together for alomst a year.
    vincedoey vincedoey
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Nov 26, 2011

    Male Victim Of Assault And Attempted Rape

    Maybe this isn't the correct place but I'm well aware from my own experience that male rape can occor. This was last year, I was 19 at the time. I'm a fit, strong and athletic guy but something like this takes away your confidence. I was walking home one night (not through a...
    ShannonT ShannonT
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2011

    Why I Hate Christmas

    Anybody who has read my other stuff would know my mom touched for nine years. This is the story of another abuser, one I only encountered for a few hours. I've never once shared this story in any form beyond "I was raped by a man in an alley on Christmas". So, this is the first...
    xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx xXxAnonymousxWriterxXx
    18-21, M
    9 Responses May 17, 2011

    Male Rape

    Male Rape In 2002, one in every eight rape victims were male. (RAINN, 2003) Yes, men can be victimized. No, it does not mean you are weak. Rape is NEVER the victim's fault.        Being victimized does not mean there's anything wrong with you and it...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    24 Responses Jan 22, 2011


    As a little girl who was sodomized by my father; when I was in a sexual abuse survivors group and ****** survivors group...there were many men there, too.  I know it's a myth that men can't be raped.  Also in Minnesota inthe 60's there was a notorious family of sexual...
    theimpaler1923 theimpaler1923
    1 Response Dec 13, 2010

    Male Survivor

    So... It's irritating at times to hear that some don't believe it happens to guys too. A well published statistic say that 1 in 4 females, and 1 in 7 males have been sexually abused by age 18, I think... Anyway. I was raped by some college guys when I was 15. Hanging out on the...
    imagemakin imagemakin
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Dec 13, 2010

    Gang Raped By 10 Women

    This is just a brief summary of an actual crime that happened on the 22.10.10 / 10.22.10 10 Papua New Guinea women are being held in custody after they kidnapped a 17 year old boy and attacked him using machetes and kitchen knives and at least four women are reported for...
    hhue hhue
    26-30, F
    17 Responses Nov 22, 2010


    I am watching Law and Order SVU and it happenes to be one that a guy gets attacked. Most people don't think that men can be raped, but that is NOT the case. men can be just as much of a victim as a woman can be! I don't think people are aware of that. I think a Lot of men are...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2010
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