I Know My Boyfriend Is Ashamed Of Me

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    We date for 7 months,

    I'm the one with the more exclusive education and job (I'm a lawyer and study now for B.Sc in Biology and working as independent writer, tutor in a course in some law school here and translator, he cheats in his studies to be a history teacher), but he never introduced me to his...
    yuli1984 yuli1984
    31-35, F
    Dec 21, 2013

    Maybe He Is Right??

    Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years now.. we have no kids and plan on getting married once he is established. Recently, he has been working out a lot and has been getting more muscular, but has been complaining about me alot. He says that I have let myself go and its a shame...
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2011

    Oh Boy...

    Soo I've never done anything like this before, I never thought I would need to turn to some strangers on the internet for some advice but, I guess there's a first time for everything. So I am in a long distance relationship with a man which i met online in Second life almost two...
    DazedNConfuzed1 DazedNConfuzed1
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 2, 2012

    Too Happy And Giddy And Eccentric

    My boyfriend admitted that there are some things that I did awhile ago that embarrassed him. Such as; getting overly excited to see him in school (although I wasn't intending to, I was surprised, I threw my arms out, and I squealed "There he is!" ) and he got ratted on for months...
    theshinypenguin theshinypenguin
    1 Response Aug 4, 2011

    Interracial Love?

    My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 6 months his parents know nothing of me, he doesnt want the people he works with to find out and i feel like im a hidden secret or something. Like he is embarrassed to be seen with me. Sad part is we live together and what put the...
    Lenia92 Lenia92
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

    So we have been together

    for 7 years. He and I were eating lunch and he said "I'm going to this baby shower thing with my friends on Sunday" Now this wouldn't have been an issue but I know the lovely couple and I'm actually related to the father! So I asked my boyfriend if I could join and he said no...
    Barista123 Barista123
    1 Response Mar 21, 2014

    Diffrent From The Others.

    It sucks a lot when you find out that your boyfriend is ashamed of you especially at my age. Don't take it wrong that I'm young or anything just high school love sucks. Well my love life sucks. Me and my boyfriend had gotten together over the summer. The thing that makes it worst...
    loveme1850 loveme1850
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2013

    I Hate To Admit It But It Seems Like It Is..

    Hi I am going to tell you a few things that my boyfriend has done to me. I would like some feed back or comments about what you think is going on because I am vary confused. Me and my boyfriend moved in together about 4 mouths ago, we get along okay not great. We do have a...
    urkah91 urkah91
    5 Responses Apr 28, 2012

    My Boyfriend Is Embarrassed Of Me Because I Have A Child....

    I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year and a half.  But before that we were co-workers and he was my best friend. First I think I should give you a short background.I was in a long term relationship when we met.  But he was new to the area and being the type...
    outpostinmyhead outpostinmyhead
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2011

    Long Road Going Nowhere

    I have been with my boyfriend for about 12 years off and on. I would say we have been together probably 8 years of that time. It has always been a struggle because of how I look. I am white, tall, and overweight. I am not severly overweight or anything just overweight. He is...
    hopeless214 hopeless214
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2013

    My boyfriend took me to get my allergy shot

    today and then dropped me off straight after. Like what the ****? Why didnt you have anything planned for us? Why did you even offer to take me in the first place? And then when we got to my house all he said was "See you later I guess" and that was the end of it. I'm pretty...
    comp0sur3 comp0sur3
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    He Says He Isn't

    I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now so the relationship is still young. He loves me and I'm head over heels. He does a lot of sweet things and he's really the best! I already feel like I don't deserve him because he's an awesome person, but mainly because he could...
    KrissyFree KrissyFree
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2013

    Won't Take Me To A Wedding

    I've been going out with my bf for almost 3 years. A couple of days ago he receives an invitation to his best friend's sister's wedding. So I ask him if he's allowed to have dates and tells me that he is. So I assume "Oh cool a wedding to go to" I'm excited that we finally get to...
    vanillawafers123 vanillawafers123
    3 Responses May 24, 2012


    I have boyfriend, that I think he is ashamed of me and won't tell no one that he is in a relationship with me. It can be Facebook or us hanging out.. His friends can pass by and he won't tell no one he is with me.. He say that his family and friends care to much for him... And...
    1 Response Jan 24, 2013

    Empty Kisees

    Whenever were around his friends, he's distant or tries to stay away from me. Or when were talking he'll be like, "I'll introduce you to [some friend], when you get skinny." He makes me feel like I'm not good enough. I am a heavy set woman now, but before I was pregnant...
    modernhigh modernhigh
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Nov 17, 2009

    It Hurts

    well weve gone out a lot and he asked me out agine i love him a lot and i care we are in a long distince relashionship but he wont tell any one with me and i talk to him about it and he sayes he wont tell anyone he sayes he is afraid of what pepole think becaues we have gone out...
    azrantrey azrantrey
    18-21, F
    May 24, 2012

    Wondering If I'm The Loser

    Well hello to all! First off, I'm sorry that everyone here is in this position & I want you all to know that I'm hoping it gets better for you <3 also this is kinda long so I get it if you don't read it. I just need to get this off my chest. I'm 17. I found my first love at...
    Breezyartista Breezyartista
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 6, 2013

    We have been together

    for 9 months and throughout our entire relationship he is always casual. He tells me he loves me and I truely believe him. I am a black girl dating a white guy.. When we are around people of my race he is okay with PDA in fact he initiates it but when we go to white populated...
    BeautifulZAgirl BeautifulZAgirl
    22-25, F
    Jan 4, 2014
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