I Know My Father Cheated

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    I had to keep it for a secret

    for 3 years. I couldn't take it anymore so I had to tell my mom. It turns out this wasn't the only time he had an affair. He had one 6 years ago , and my mom stayed with him after that. She's still with him after she found out about the "second" time. I know there have been even...
    hannahc28 hannahc28
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2014

    Well...

    i actually don't KNOW know, but i strongly strongly suspect. meaning that i believe that he did, but i don't have an official admission to it. and i'm really not interested in getting one. i'd prefer it left as a slight question mark, actually.
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2008

    Being Nosy Turned Out to Be a Bad Thing.

    When I was 14, I pulled up a file on my dad's laptop, which I was using without his permission. It said,  "You have no passion. You have no libido. You have no desire. I am sick of living like this. I am going to leave you and find some fun for myself."...
    thegermanzipper thegermanzipper
    18-21
    1 Response Dec 29, 2008

    Nearly 15 years ago in my last summer

    before going off to university I found out that my father was cheating on my mother on a regular basis for a number of years. My allegiance, if you can call it that, is with my mother so I told her everything I knew and they ended their sorry excuse of a relationship (he worked...
    Synapse81 Synapse81
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    A Heart That Bleeds

    Suddenly I felt a sharp pain in my back. Something pierced my heart and the pain rushed to my chest. I looked down and found an arrow's head sticking out from chest. From the arrow dripped my blood. I never thought to question who fired the arrow... that never crossed my mind...
    Vix3n Vix3n
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 28, 2010

    And It Messed Up My Already Messed Up Childhood

    My parents cheated on each other. They got divorced when I was 5. I HATED my dad's girlfriend and my mom's boyfriend. When I was 7, they realized they couldn't live without each other and got re-married. I still hate that they did that to each other, and to us. I have really...
    eyes eyes
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 21, 2007

    Cheated and Cheating.

    I thought it is about time I clear up my strong feelings about cheaters and the other woman. Just some back story, my father works overseas but lives here. My Mum and him have a happy marriage and a good healthy sex life. My dad cheated on my Mum about 4 years ago, I found...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Oct 13, 2007

    The First Man To Break My Heart Is My Dad.

    My parents are married for 16 years. they loved each other so much, especially my mom (who is religious) always thanked god for saving her by bringing him. (her previous husband was abusive/ a cheater/a liar). my dad loved her, and he loved me a lot too, because he did everything...
    jessica212121 jessica212121
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

    My Dead Father Cheated - Just Found Out.

    I honestly don't know what to make of it and how to react having just found the above out. . Firstly I am honestly shocked and have a little hate now for my dead father. I will explain.....   It all happened like this. My mother was recently going through some old...
    obentoman obentoman
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2009

    He Names His Secret Kid the Same As Me...

    My father worked out of town most of the time so we all used to joke that he had a secret family some place out there.  Well skip forward to my Junior year in college.  I went to see a counselor for some therapy to deal with some other issues and the lady walked into...
    hobolady hobolady
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2009

    Not a Good Man

    I remember one day my father taking me to a local water park but I didn't have a swim suit. He told me it was ok to play in my short and T and sent me on my way. As I went up and down the slide I could see him sitting on a picnic table talking to the woman that worked there. When...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 5, 2007
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