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I Know My Husband Is Also A Father Figure To Me

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    When I was really young my parents got divorced and my dad left us I dont remember him at all, but I always wanted a father figure and I believe I could benefit from it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 19

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    my biological father left my mother and I when I was 2 years old, and moved back to his home state MO. I'm now 23 with a 3 year old and I've seen him twice since I was 2, my...
    sh56388 sh56388 22-25, F Apr 9

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    Need a person to talk to, in feeling down about so many things /:
    goingplaces1 goingplaces1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost 12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I did something that was so hard for me to do a couple of weeks ago. I said Kaddish for both my father as well as my son together. It has been hard to say it for my dad for the...
    PerryGrosser PerryGrosser 51-55, M Apr 10

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    I lost my father 19 years ago 1 month before my 2nd birthday. He was killed by a drunk driver. :'( It really sucks not growing up with a father figure, I don't even know what he...
    LonelyAJ LonelyAJ 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 23

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    My father left before I was born and had a mother that didnt give 2 *****. But I like it better that way. I was able to be my own father figure and learn from my own mistakes and...
    XxSaintsEyesxX XxSaintsEyesxX 16-17, M Mar 29

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    Another outlet of why I don't trust easily anymore. He was nice before, but before he came my stepdad, he beat me. He promised that he'll be a good father figure after the wedding...
    HottRoddTX HottRoddTX 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I have a step-father four years ago, and I don't like my step-father. First, I thought I don't like him because he's the one that my mom had affaire with and he's the one that...
    Fearlessheart13 Fearlessheart13 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I know useless facts about the human body (mostly skin conditions) I have always wanted to be in dermetology but didn't work out so now i just educate myself about it I actually...
    shwaigy shwaigy 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I grew up my whole life not knowing who my father is. I would really like to know though and ask all the questions I've been wanting to ask for a while now.
    stephy1999 stephy1999 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Here's what i want: I tell you ten things about me. You then try and ask me about the ten thing's I've mentioned and then you mention 10 things about you! 1. I am a Filippino born...
    FrankDoesNothing FrankDoesNothing 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I had modeling jobs the past three nights. I usually don't do that to myself, but decided to to for it. One day at a community art center, one with a professional artist and...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M 3 hrs ago

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    It takes two to tango and make a baby. It is also important for the mother and father to raise that baby too. Women can not play the man's role effectively. Also, men can not...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I'm not sure how well I will be received here but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I know he's cheating again and I've tried so hard to cope and forgive him . But he's at it again and I couldn't leave him we have kids and I cannot financially survive he also...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am a 40 year old guy. I'm married and have a 9 year old son. I am better friends with my wife than a lover. In fact sex has been an issue since she was pregnant. We haven't slept...
    kpm666e kpm666e 36-40, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My father abused my mother, especially while she was impregnated, potentially inducing labor. I never knew him, he left when I was young. I am fifteen now and I've recently learned...
    GrimAndInUtterDismay GrimAndInUtterDismay 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't have a husband yet, but will do soon... I hope he is interested enough to want to participate... I'd like to do this for him... I've heard and read so many good things...
    kotahi kotahi 46-50, F 11 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I want to leave him for my freedom and my kiddos freedom. The freedom to have friends, lunch, time with my family, money, a place that I can call my own. He doesn't hold me hostage...
    jennadventurous jennadventurous 36-40, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    It's been almost 3 months since he passed... I miss him more and more every day. He was my best friend , love of my life, father of my children. He was big man with a badge with an...
    shannonb78 shannonb78 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    PMEWhite PMEWhite 31-35, M Apr 8

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    I am a 29 year old mother of two who is married to a man who has been self destructing for almost the entire last decade. When we met we were only 19 & I was too naive to see how...
    yogibird85 yogibird85 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    My Oldest Son Wants To Be a Felon Just Like Me- My oldest son turned 22 a few months ago and has had run ins with the law since he was 15 for relatively minor things such as...
    ArgentineJailbird ArgentineJailbird 36-40, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Welcome to Founderism the Founding Fathers American religion The Founding Fathers "Founderism" religion shall treat the Founders as actual ascended Deities/patriotic Gods(because...
    ToniaD ToniaD 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I have got married 6 months back . My husband mostly talks abt his father who doesn't help me or my husband either physically or financially he has rented house in his native , he...
    vidh vidh 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    My husband cheated on me with prostitutes. Two a month ago, and once in 2012, when we were separated. He had that one come to our house while our kids were sleeping upstairs. These...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    For The Love of Sage- All troubles in my 17 year marriage begin with a little girl called Sage. She is the mixed race child my husband fathered during his 1st year in America...
    FromBehindTheIronCurtain FromBehindTheIronCurtain 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    My father uses "honor thy father and mother" as a way to control me. I'm 23 and he wants me to put him over my obligations to pay rent and buy groceries
    maggie4857 maggie4857 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I can't believe I'm in this position. He seemed to be the antithesis of the things that worried me most about my father. They say you tend to marry your father and my father was...
    TennesseeTina TennesseeTina 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am 27, I lost my father to lung cancer 3 weeks ago he was 67, i feel so sad and alone and i feel that there's nothing to live for anymore. what breaks my heart more is that i...
    DadysGirl DadysGirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I am spending the afternoon at poolside listening to the sounds of the afternoon, the birds calls, the crickets chirp, the noise of the nearby traffic, while observing the...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I wish I had had a real Father. A dad that loved and cherished me and my brothers. My dad is an emotionally abusive man. He is also a severe narcissist. I stopped speaking to him...
    Howyahorse Howyahorse 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I don't think I can forgive my husband for the way that he acted when my father got sick and passed away from prostate cancer after a 10 year battle against it. My dad was pretty...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband. An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    Mothers provide the gentle, caring side of raising a child, and fathers provide the supportive, strength. Or vice versa. I don't label genders
    rapfordays rapfordays 18-21, F 6 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    My father passed away the middle of last year. A few years ago I "made amends"or so called, with him. We emailed between calls. I was able to communicate easier with him thru email...
    ozarkG ozarkG 36-40 1 Response Mar 22

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    I have been married for 24 years. I have two children in college. My husband doesn not text, call , email or even talk to me. A little background info, his father died last year...
    jobop13 jobop13 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    You would think that since she is his ex-girlfriend that I wouldn't have to deal with her but she just wont leave him alone. I guess he started talking to her a little over a year...
    kdmb kdmb 22-25, F Mar 27

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    My husband of 10 years is very insensitive towards me and my feelings. He just doesn't care at all. Two days back we had a fight and I left home at 9 in the morning (I am stay at...
    MITheOnlyOne MITheOnlyOne 31-35 1 Response Mar 30

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    In a few days my husband and I will have been married for 30 years. He is a GOOD man. Neither of us have ever cheated on the other. He doesn't drink. He's never been abusive...
    ThisiswhatIwant ThisiswhatIwant 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I wish I could live with my mom. :( My dad is an alcoholic and he abuses me everyday. I try to go get help but he stops me from even leaving the house..! I just don't know what to...
    CadyWelch CadyWelch 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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