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I Know My Son Hates Me But I Don't Know Why

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    I Know My Son Hates Me But I Don't Know Why

    My son is grown, over 40 years old.  I have tried over and over to continue a loving relationship with him. Five years ago this year, he phoned and yelled at me for 20 minutes and then told me, "we are not Mother and Son, but just two adults".   Two and a half years later...
    snowhite66 snowhite66 66-70 2 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Ok here goes, my son was the sweetest little boy

    when he was 14 he had an eye injury that left him blind in one eye. I'm not good at this so bare with me please. After his accident I had PTSD and I now worry about everything. My son is now 18 doing great in school has a beautiful girlfriend of 3 years and everybody tells me...
    Mom40 Mom40 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Why Do You Hate Me??

    I have asked myself this very question for quite some time now. I have yet to find an answer that fits. I know that, at some point or another, kids say they hate their parents. But that feeling passes usually, doesn't it?? Let's walk down the road of the last 3+ years to explain...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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