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I Know My Son Hates Me But I Don't Know Why

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    Why Do You Hate Me??

    I have asked myself this very question for quite some time now. I have yet to find an answer that fits. I know that, at some point or another, kids say they hate their parents. But that feeling passes usually, doesn't it?? Let's walk down the road of the last 3+ years to explain...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    I Know My Son Hates Me But I Don't Know Why

    My son is grown, over 40 years old.  I have tried over and over to continue a loving relationship with him. Five years ago this year, he phoned and yelled at me for 20 minutes and then told me, "we are not Mother and Son, but just two adults".   Two and a half years later...
    snowhite66 snowhite66 66-70 2 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Ok here goes, my son was the sweetest little boy

    when he was 14 he had an eye injury that left him blind in one eye. I'm not good at this so bare with me please. After his accident I had PTSD and I now worry about everything. My son is now 18 doing great in school has a beautiful girlfriend of 3 years and everybody tells me...
    Mom40 Mom40 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    We have a very loving home

    and raised 3 children. Our son who is 19 has been very distant from us for awhile now. He treats me and his father like we are nothing but trash. My husband will come home from work and knock on his door to say hi and try to engage him in any type of conversation but he will...
    periwinklemom periwinklemom 51-55, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    MantisReligiosa MantisReligiosa 66-70, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    You didn't know it when you said "Hello." You didn't know that I thought about you afterwards until sweat beaded my skin and you didn't know that I wore myself out, thinking of you...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't believe in God. When I say it out loud, it's hard for me to understand why. I've always believed in God as a kid. I was raised that God heals all and we must pray everyday...
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    Yes I do. I do not think anyone being honest don't like to receive attention.
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    to have a boyfriend or girl friend it is only ever about looks figure how good you are in bed 3 main thing's men or women go for I don't have eny of them advantages I just don't...
    susangoga susangoga 31-35, F a week ago

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    When you don't feel happy, I'll love you LOL! When you feel lonely and sad, you can think about the new place you want to go, the country you want to travel to and the good things...
    HappyOrUnhappy HappyOrUnhappy 13-15, M a week ago

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    I don't know where all the love went in my marriage? There was a day that I felt she was the best thing in my life, in a way still feel so! But the lose of intimacy has taken it's...
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    I am a disappointment. I am nothingness in the sense of the word. I don't belong here. I've known this for a very long time. life and love are not deserved here. not then not now...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I think the problem is, a lot of times, parents don't try to understand. I don't think mine ever do. There's a video by a YouTuber called SuliBreaks, called "Parents are the...
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    Honestly I'd rather they just dissappeared. Sure let me know that it's going to happen but don't bother with the goodbye scene cos I just hate crying. Ugh.
    HannahSavannah HannahSavannah 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 21

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    I'm about to start 8th grade but people say I look like I'm old enough to be in college?! I'm not sure if it's my face, or my body, or the way I dress (because I dress a little...
    Iz108 Iz108 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    why do you hate on me so? look i'm only trying to be all i can be and somehow stand apart from the rest of the idiots, and only long enough to become a lovable nightmare that...
    SaveaMouseEataPussy SaveaMouseEataPussy 51-55, M Jul 20

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    I feel like I'm just here looking down on myself watching myself just go through the motions. like I'm on autopilot. most of the time I feel like I've lost all interest in life...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M Jul 19

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    I know that suicide isn’t allowed in Christianity. But I have already failed God. I am already a walking sin. I’m nothing worth saving. I’m nothing worth pitying. I am...
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    Hi my name is Preston and I have lived a long and sad 16 years of life. For so long I have wondered why am I so different, why do I care about others more than myself, why do I...
    myfriendscallmeDePreston myfriendscallmeDePreston 16-17, M Jul 16

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    She lived with us for eight months and moved out while we were on vacation. Now that she isn't here, she doesn't call me or answer my calls. I am the forgotten child.
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    I've been that option to others. But no more. Actually, better idea, if you treat me as an option, that's how I'll treat you. Seems fair to me.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Jul 16

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    Just being realistic, YOLO...my new mantra...put options on hold too see where things were going. I don't see it as controlling or needy, just respectful...
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