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I Know My Wife Trades Sex For Favors

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    This is a problem for me. I don't know how to ask for help. There were times when I could've solved all my problems just by asking for help. There were willing people, I remember...
    migs1910 migs1910 26-30, M Oct 17

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    Watched a stranger feel up my wife's skirt in the night club tonight. Very exciting.
    Stky2001 Stky2001 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 20

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    Well, I'm a girl, and my best friend is also a girl, just to clear that up. When we first met, I was kind of closed up. I didn't like to be touchy with people. A bunch of my...
    refusingtogiveup refusingtogiveup 18-21, F Oct 12

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    I didn't for the first time but I am remembering it. I just got out of a long time relationship so I am thinking about this. Lol. She was blonde, a cheerleader. I was a football...
    Secondtimer Secondtimer 31-35, M Oct 17

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    Don't mind the experience subject. But my mom bleached my favorite sweater and it said do not bleach the first time was fine then the second time didn't go well it has these metal...
    misfitoutsider misfitoutsider 13-15, F Oct 12

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    This week was another eye opened in the troubles with my wife and family. For years I wondered what I had done that was so wrong that my father and his friends would actually...
    toughth toughth 56-60 6 days ago

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    As above my wife has Multiple Sclerosis that is in a progressive stage, she is totally disabled now, requires feeding etc, we no longer have a sexual relationship due to her...
    JMC663 JMC663 31-35, M Oct 21

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    House of Mirrors - My STBX said the creepiest thing to me last night. He came into my bedroom (I moved into the guest room 4 months ago), sat on the edge of my bed (which he hasn...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 29 Responses Oct 13

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    I think I just discovered why I ended up in an emotionally abusive controlling marriage. I always thought you had to look at your parent of the opposite sex. For me I think it...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    When I had a conversation with my wife about our sex life, which turned into an argument, she said"you knew what you were getting yourself into when we married". WTF!!? I married...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 9 Responses Oct 20

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    This Must be the PlaceSo it was, I think, a couple of years ago.  My wife gave me for my birthday one of those big maps with the magnetic pin-like doodads that you stick on it...
    mistery2me mistery2me 46-50, M 6 Responses Oct 17

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    I'm about to turn 29, I've been with my wife since I was 18. We are about to have a baby, and almost everyone around me thinks I have a great life. In truth I am absolutely dying...
    Drallab Drallab 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 14

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    WoW. Being very supportive, my wife is having and an op on her cervix thursday, anyway tonight she just said to me I can't have sex for 8 weeks after the op... Why why did she...
    celtusa celtusa 46-50, M 17 Responses Oct 21

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    Hi good morning. I can sympathize with your feelings. In my own marriage after 25 years. There was no more sex. For two years. It began to build the wall in between us. My wife at...
    sunney55 sunney55 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Attended a party recently and a beautiful woman began speaking to me near the food table. She was 50-55 i would say... Amidst the loud music, she kept leaning into me to...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    Test results came back for me...no low T or thyroid imbalance, so any sort of anxiety or irritability is all being controlled by my head and not a chemical/hormonal imbalance...
    HopefulDude HopefulDude 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Sexuality is a state of mind you can choose at any given time. That's not to say I don't believe in gay or straight, but more that the options are there if people want to take them...
    omgwut omgwut 41-45, M 5 Responses Oct 22

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    I am feeling lost, or losing a part of myself. I love my husband, and he loves me. But we have not had sex for 4 years. We actually are a very good team, we work together, we...
    LostSophya LostSophya 26-30, F 18 Responses Oct 24

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    It's because it's none of my business and private, that's why I want to know about her sex life. She won't talk to me about it and so, I'm stubborn and want to know about it. It's...
    policeExperiment policeExperiment 22-25 1 Response Oct 2

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    If you knew you were going to live another 20-30 or so years would you be willing to remain in a sexless marriage or would you divorce? According to this quiz, I will live...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 17 Responses Oct 13

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    Overcoming the emotional abuse.. It's been a rough few days over here. A couple I met through my ex and have been close friends with for ten years are splitting up. When I left ex...
    liltree liltree 31-35, F 16 Responses Oct 8

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    Why not have a normal clean conversation? Is that too much to ask for? Am I shooting for the stars here? I don't talk about sex, I know nothing about sex, nor do I care to learn.
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F Oct 13

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    Higher love. And baser desires. I'm still kinda dwelling on my h's explosion at me last weekend. One of the things he told me was the 'he fell in love with my mind'. Which is...
    elkclan elkclan 41-45, F 9 Responses Oct 20

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    H asked me to come to bed last night, to cuddle. I agreed, with the stipulation that he cuddle me, which he did. He fussed because I didn't remove my clothes. Sorry, but that...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 8 Responses Oct 1

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    I miss touch. I mean, I really miss being touched. The kind of touch that conveys intimacy and a real personal affection with someone special. I no longer fantasize about sex...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 46-50, F 27 Responses Oct 8

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    I MUST learn how to live celibate. It is difficult at best. This is something that I never expected out of life. I gave more than my share to my sexless marriage. We had been...
    HAR1978 HAR1978 46-50, F 16 Responses Oct 11

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    So this morning I was very worried about my boyfriend due to the fact that in his last letter he talked about how much his knees hurt him. I got very worried because I know he had...
    HisRightBoobie HisRightBoobie 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We've been together for about a year and a half, and we've been sexless for a year. Our love is deep and we would so anything for each other but he...
    yourstruly06 yourstruly06 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So wife is gone for two days on a business trip. When we were hugging and saying our goodbyes I said, "I'm gonna miss you", to which she replied,"I know". That hurt. It's times...
    Dartanian Dartanian 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 19

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    The end is near for my 26 yr marriage and I feel devastated. I know all my reasons for leaving were valid but still feels painful. It is not what I wanted. I wanted to see the...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 19 Responses Oct 21

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    He said he misses me.. And how we used to be. He asked if I could ever forgive him. He asks what else he can do.. I have no answers for him.. I don't miss how we were. I don't...
    kathryn30 kathryn30 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 7

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    If you think your partner is withholding sex for control, where else do you see signs of them being controlling?
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 8

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    Before caller ID, I used to let men call me. Caller ID killed phone sex for me.
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 7 Responses Oct 11

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    My wife would leave for work and I would call my lover. She lived 2 blocks away and I would call her and set the time so she could put on a Fredericks of Hollywood outfit to tease...
    marshall24 marshall24 56-60, M Oct 12

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    I certainly see a lot of articles that say "I found out my spouse is cheating/having an affair". Some of these articles mention that the marriage was not going well. But I have...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 10 Responses Oct 16

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    My first love left me 3 years ago by text for someone else. We had been together 2+ years. It came out of the blue, she had text me saying 'I don't want us to ever split up, please...
    gw2211 gw2211 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 18

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    Yeah I'll never understand the people that do. Don't try explaining it to me though, that's so boring. Sex, for a girl, involves sharing the entrance to their womb with a man...
    DeathIsPartDinosaur DeathIsPartDinosaur 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    They were here a while back... but now they are no where to be found... it's interesting... they came to this place for the first time... only to send an inquiry to me... on an...
    uxirusu uxirusu 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am ALWAYS facing, every week, some awkward situation where people I've known for years, or teachers that knows everyones name calls me out and says "You, I don't know your name...
    minnielong minnielong 16-17, F Oct 6

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    I grew up in the south so being me hasn't always been easy. I grew up loving girly things and connected more with girls than boys.I knew from an early age that if i wanted to...
    Pantyjacker78 Pantyjacker78 36-40, T Oct 18

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    i Don't know.. they ask questions that seem so unknown to me they tell me things that i seem to know but can not grasp i don't know is my answer frustrated they show but their...
    KearBrooke KearBrooke 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I know I'm asking for trouble, but feel free to have a look
    Bogart67 Bogart67 41-45, M Oct 3

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    I guess we can all use a little inspiration from time to time. I know I was looking for some this morning when I was annoyed and offended to find a rude comment on my whiteboard...
    WindSylph WindSylph 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    ยท Be fuel ready. Despite which type of fuel powers your generator in instances of want, have more readily available. Becoming organized will pay dividends when the lights head out...
    Laurenazrj90 Laurenazrj90 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 20

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    If you are injured, the process of taking a case to court is not fun, but it can make the difference in your long term health and financial well being. In addition, you will help...
    neinsteinassociates neinsteinassociates 26-30, M Oct 23

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    The struggle within of right and wrong. Logic telling you to run, yet the heart is begging and pulling you to stay and never let go. The emotions so strong that it is a constant...
    ThoughtFulMoments ThoughtFulMoments 36-40, F 3 Responses