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I Know People Can Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 138 People

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    People can change, but you can't change people.
    MovingForward28 MovingForward28 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2010

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    Faith.....

    Just be a bit patient and listen to them.....
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 29, 2011

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    For The Good Or For The Bad......

    I call it the Jekyll and Hyde syndrome and have witnessed it several  times in my life. When they change from a Hyde to a Jekyll, it's a good thing and makes us want to applaud.  It can restore our faith in humankind and bring smiles to faces and joy to our...
    giggles4488 giggles4488 56-60, F 11 Responses Jun 17, 2010

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    I know I can change, especially my mind.

    I start chatting with people and I get to know them at first I am like yeah I like them, he/she is nice and then I start chatting to them more getting to know them how they act/react. What they talk about and what they want to talk about. It's just quite annoying sometimes how I...
    Meyrinfields Meyrinfields 16-17, F Feb 3

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    One Bad Choice Don'T Equal Damnation

    Larry Bohn, Nelson Pettis and Jon Fowler are three prison inmates that are currently at Larch Corrections Center in Washington. They may be in prison, but they are also heroes.   Three boys between the ages of 8 and 16 were kayaking down Salmon...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 24, 2013

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    People Can Change

    There's2 option:  People either change for the better or for the worse.I would never ask someone to change for me.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 12, 2011

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    Do They Want To?

    Or for that matter...do they need to and what is that based on? Everyone is capable of changing, they just have to have the desire.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 11, 2011

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    Would Be Surprised

    If people didn't change.   Experiences and life mold a person and their views. To say that your the same person that you were a year ago or even two years ago is folly.  Change happens, things with me have changed and now that I look back on old stories and finding how I was...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 6 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    For I Have !

    I know anyone can change as long as they put there minds to it . I have been though the proverbial wringer and now have changed and feel better about myself too .
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 8 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    I have changed. I am a totally different person than I was four years ago. I have new friends, a plan for my future, and I am happy. I want new things out of life and i have...
    texasdiamond texasdiamond 18-21, F Oct 4

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    This is quite hard for me to write. I am a very busy person, I work 7 days a week (2 days charity work, 5 days full time) I run the house, look after my rescue animals attending as...
    fuerza23 fuerza23 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    It's been 5months since I broke up with my ex girlfriend ..Im suffering ..I asked her to tell me " I don't love you " , I asked her to tell me the truth ,but she never did. Thought...
    elmong elmong 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    I knew a guy when we were kids, but we grew up in different cities, I met him again over 3 years ago, and as soon as we recognized each other we started dating. He was the type who...
    Aurora90 Aurora90 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Sometimes I smile to a random stranger. I'm happy when they smile back at me. And it's quite funny when they look at their back (maybe they think i'm smiling at someone behind them...
    Rinkika Rinkika 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I am always trying to make this world a better place for everyone. I don't see color, religion, sexual preference I see everyone as inhabitants of Earth. Life is like a pond and...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband is not the man for me. I have been with him for 17 years and whilst he has some good qualities it's the bad ONE that I can't live with. He's a drunk. Mind u according to...
    Cflo Cflo 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 30

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    Have You Ever Felt That If You Cant Change Something Its Better Off Left Alone? Who Felt This Way? -Feed Back
    tanasia tanasia 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 4

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    After 5 years, my husband is moving out. In July he told me he thought he was gay. It's October now, and the movers are coming this week or next. I don't want to be here during...
    joujoubee joujoubee 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    It's true I think one single person can change your life forever, that's Sebastian in the picture he has helped me overcome many things and is still helping me accomplish things I...
    ayumipamyurin ayumipamyurin 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I'm glad I can't read minds though but sometimes I'd like to. If everyone could mind read , life would be pretty strange , you would know someone within a few seconds from first...
    NobbyWolf NobbyWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I am so glad people can't read my thoughts! Some people who I would love to sleep with don't need to know that I think of them like that as often as I do!
    jerseyboy93 jerseyboy93 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Thank God people can't read my thoughts. Its like my own personal diary that I know no one can read.
    AwesomeErica AwesomeErica 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 12

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    I am honestly happy people can't read my thoughts otherwise they might possibly think i need a straight jacket. Also my thoughts aren't exactly the best when it comes to people. If...
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    It's empowering. You can think whatever you want about whatever situation you are in. You get to decide how you're going to experience everything. That people cannot read your...
    SMS64 SMS64 46-50, M Sep 22

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    Open minded and sometimes outspoken but overall I am glad people cannot read my thoughts . The things I don't say is probably the things that would hurt you the most
    EricTheHooper EricTheHooper 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 23

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    my thoughts are so funny sometimes, and stupid, and i'm freaking glad people cannot hear them. plus my teachers would have been always aware that im not paying attention at all.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    want someone to give me an advice my husband didnt call me for to weeks cuz i fight with him about why he careless about me he was travel and he didnt call me on the phone and i...
    ladyfafy ladyfafy 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    A Fat Pig Who Degrades Her Boyfriend On Internet. ..druggie, pothead, can't get up, beats the sh.t out of her, gambler Yea she's trustworthy hon....haaaaahaaaa
    happinessisthway23 happinessisthway23 46-50, F 4 hrs ago

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    It's been a while since I've been on Guessing I'm going to blog things not to sure.. But I've made change.. I've started to go back to school and further my medical career. I'm...
    GoddessHalo GoddessHalo 22-25, F Sep 28

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    Life is a TRIP sometimes. I am trying to accept the fact: I will trip countless times. Like an awkward penguin sliding down the slope of an iceberg, you've got to accept your...
    theAnonMouse theAnonMouse 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 22

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    My past is full of regrets. The usual stuff: things I've said to people, things I didn't say. Then, people I've let slip out of my life. There's one person in particular that I...
    Hellcat43 Hellcat43 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I used to be happy. Until I experienced the world worst breakup. We knew each other for five years, dated for eight months, and have been broken up for two years...and I still...
    NikkiNova NikkiNova 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    Ive been talking to this girl since freshman year in high school and she basically became my best friend throughout high school. Ive had feelings for her since about sophomore year...
    Desko12 Desko12 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 7

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    My husband and I went to an ice cream shop yesterday and when the young man took our money I told my husband that I thought he had the cutest smile and asked if I could tell him...
    lalalagirl40 lalalagirl40 41-45, F 9 Responses Oct 12

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    Who else thinks Morgan Freeman the number one person who changes peoples life's ?
    madison57 madison57 13-15, M Sep 22

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    Change the things I can...and the wisdom to know the difference... Isn't this the serenity prayer? Death will always be very difficult to accept especially if it's a beloved pet...
    Shewolfiie69 Shewolfiie69 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 22

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    I just broke up with my boyfriend a couple of hours ago for putting his hands on me. I, stupidly, thought I could make things work between us when I was just dealing with the...
    TheMeBMini25 TheMeBMini25 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 28

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    This is the division of difference.. Is anyone else tired of being here? Is anyone else tired of being not advanced? Is anyone else tired of the reckless, unreasonable, illogical...
    Artimas Artimas 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    I am in a relationship with a female. I never ever thought I would start dating a female until this one girl asked me to kiss her and if we feel the spark to pursue it. We kissed...
    moeco moeco 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok does anyone really have an answer .... Life itself it's so easy ...everywhere you go everything you do everything you touch if it's alive you do it with love... Simple right...
    longingone longingone 41-45, M Sep 25

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    I read this study which everyone has heard of of this person who survived jumping off from a bridge when asked he said if one person had smiled at him that day he wouldn't have...
    Plungeintoadream Plungeintoadream 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    When I was little I was physically, verbally, and sexually abused. I try to move past my past but it seems nearly impossible. I don't sleep at night, I have picked up some nasty...
    tinyec96 tinyec96 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 2

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    I can't change my past, I can't change my childhood. I'll never be able to change how I was treated when I was little or the events that still occur today. But I can make a...
    safetoread safetoread 51-55, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    I am letting go off the past, it's hurt me but I am also stronger because of it. So from now on I am going to concentrate on helping people, instead of self-pity. People have had...
    Rachael95 Rachael95 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    A person can definitely change your life, there is no doubt about that. Everyone that comes into your life changes it. I think that we learn something about ourselves from everyone...
    alhsya02 alhsya02 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm fifteen and my mom died a week ago. People say try and get your mind off of her. They don't know that every little thing reminds me of her, it hurts.
    movingwoman movingwoman 13-15, F 13 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I like smiling at people. I like smiling in general, but more so when it's at strangers. I live in a place where most people ignore others. I try not to be like that. I don't want...
    aprilcatastrophe aprilcatastrophe 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 25