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I Know People Make Excuses Not To Speak To Me

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    i have stopped talking to my cousin jacob, him and me used to be so close, or so i thought i realized yesterday that not even jacob really knows me! everyone thinks they know me but they don't, hell i don't even know ! anyway i stopped talking to jacob because every-time i talk...
    happyrainbow happyrainbow 13-15, F Jun 21, 2013

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