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I Know People Really Do Care About Looks

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    I care about looks I mean I'm not saying you

    have to be some American eagle super model but I have to be physically attracted to you for me to even consider anything with.
    Syydnee Syydnee 18-21, F May 5, 2014

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    Really though.. No matter how much we all

    pretend personality is the only thing that matters.. We all care about looks. Call me a shallow ******* if you want, but, yeah. It matters.
    xAnonxx xAnonxx 13-15, F 2 Responses May 5, 2014

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    I feel like they don't know the warning signs. The obvious ones include the "I'm fine/okay"s, twitching, and sitting with my head down. Not to mention not meeting someone's eyes...
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    But I am not allowed. I dislike hugging generally and it seems whenever I get close enough to want to do that to someone it tends to be with people I can't, I am not sure what is...
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    I don't see the point of judging someone based on something they can't change. Chose who you talk to based on their personality, not how cute they are. Because in the end, you have...
    Etherealrose Etherealrose 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My friends. When they find out that I am basically doomed for death from my severe drugs, to my insomnia, to my cutting, to my unhealthy and uncontrollable problem of seeing dead...
    MatildaBlack MatildaBlack 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I have a crush on someone, when I first met him we became friends and I would always joke and tease with him, but then I discovered I had a crush on him and now I'm more shy with...
    Nordic5angel Nordic5angel 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    You are wilting, so slowly. Every step you take seems frozen in time, completely focused upon and an eerie silence follows. You feel so alone, but I am here. You can't tell me...
    TinkerTheTock TinkerTheTock 22-25, F Mar 3

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    I have never felt more ignored and abandoned ever in my whole entire life then tonight.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When it comes to the people I care about, I'd take a bullet for them without hesitating. When someone insults them I get really angry. I can't help but get defensive!
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Its been two mornings and two nights not talking to Tim ,I don't know if he is hurting but I am torn apart I cry all the time I miss his voice so much my chest hurts .I want to...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Story of my life actually, Im always heartbroken, and people I care about so much only care too little for me.
    clamsbeestrees clamsbeestrees 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    You can do almost anything to me, and if you don't keep pressing it....I'll usually find some level of forgiveness.... The people I care about are an entirely different matter, and...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    I know people don't care about me so why should I care about them? I have loved ones who care about me and they're the only ones I need. I was taught to always treat others how I...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Have you ever been asked the question, "What Super-Power would you want to have?" I always chose mind-reading because I wanted to know what others thought about me. However, I...
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    First post. Hello. I am 22 and I'm a uni student with an over-zealous mother. And by over-zealous I mean 'constantly interfering with my life and making me feel worse about myself...
    iNeedSpace iNeedSpace 18-21, M 23 hrs ago

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    Why should worry or care about other people opinion. Not caring I know that I can't get hurt
    grgbyce978 grgbyce978 56-60, M 1 day ago

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    The only ones I do care about are my loved ones. People in general not so much. I mean, why should I care for people in general? It's exhausting.
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F Mar 8

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    I feel that deep down my parents don't care about me as much as they do my brother. All they care about is me getting straight A's in everything, which isn't easy for me, they...
    Red2266 Red2266 18-21, M Mar 19

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    I'm a guy, so maybe nobody will care about what I have to say..but I want to get this off my chest. I want to end it all but I'm too afraid too, I want to cut..but what if I cut to...
    UnwantedHuman UnwantedHuman 18-21, M 6 Responses Mar 20

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    "So why don’t we celebrate international men’s day?" “what about children’s day?” Those are the ones I’ve seen so far today and I know people spam it every year and...
    faeriepool faeriepool 18-21 1 Response Mar 7

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F Mar 6

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    I hurt my best friend in a way she shouldn't have experience. so I she was avoiding me. and i was frustrated. It hurt me so much that she is keep avoiding. so I talked to a good...
    shatee shatee 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I like certain shows but I care about the characters - not the actors. They're people just like us.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    The irony of this experience though is that people are complaining about celebrities in this group meaning you're caring and giving them attention lmao ;-;
    lunamoon12 lunamoon12 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Some people on here need a picture of you before they talk to you, meanwhile the guy I really like is someone I started liking before I even knew what he looked like.
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    I've shared my deepest secrets with you and it wasn't even awkward with you. I don't know maybe it's just that some people bring the best in you.We have fought Lol and I cried more...
    ThisIsMeYeah ThisIsMeYeah 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I have personal confidence issues with my body and wonder what other people would think if they had the chance to see it. I only get a biased opinion from those around me i know...
    colby21 colby21 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Looks should be just a plus not the whole equation. You can be the sexiest man/woman ever but if you can't 'wow' me with conversation then it's a no. I get turned on by good...
    mocho2699 mocho2699 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Raewyn95 Raewyn95 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Looks can make me fear. But my mind probes. The car may look spooky. Or gross. But the driver is probably worthy. Of praise and love and caring. So me probes.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 20

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    sometimes i really feel that people love me and so but i feel that they just love me in a way that is disrespected and i feel that they use me somehow , i know that all the blame...
    Lifesucks94 Lifesucks94 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F Mar 14

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    Forever putting people before me. I care more about someone who cares less for me. It's heart breaking. I don't ever want to feel like this again..
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