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I Know That Just Because You Smile Doesnt Mean You Are Happy

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    Masks

    smiles to be me is like wearing a mask to convince the world that u are fine and that people will stop asking how u are or whats wrong if u are not smiling. if you smile people will think that u are ok when really u feel like shouting or crying. i have worn these masks so often...
    icanthide icanthide 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 6, 2012

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    My Mum

    I was a child, the world was nothing but a theme park to me, my mum was the shelter I was protected in from the outside world to keep this perfect image in my head. I have been through a lot but it was all of no value. My Mum smiled the whole time, but I never sensed true...
    IndescribableAgony IndescribableAgony 18-21, F Jul 21, 2012

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    At A Crossroad

    the last 20 yrs i've lived w/ my husband and now my life as i know it is over. i have a large, loving family but the person they know no longer exists. i have no idea what i'm going to do now...i feel all alone w/ nothing to show and no one i can trust. i'll be 52 and never...
    broken52 broken52 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2013

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    It Is A Must When Working With Customers Face To Face

    Sometimes i just dont want to speak to anyone early in the morning let alone smiling but when you are working with customers you just have to put everything aside and become friendly. I know most people dont do this early in the morning but i do it because i dont like being...
    ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique 22-25, F Aug 20, 2012

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    "Father's Day" - Not a hug,

    a kiss, a "I love you daddy", from either of my grown kids. Oh well! Swallow your pain and carry on. ...Smile
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 15, 2014

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    A Smile That Can Light Up A Room

    I've been told that I have a "smile that can light up a room," but to be honest, that smile hides so much. I find myself frequently smiling when I'm around others, but the truth is that inside, I don't always genuinely feel happy. I want to feel happy, I just don't seem to know...
    prettyblueeyes09 prettyblueeyes09 22-25, F Aug 9, 2013

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    Faking It With The Best Of Them

    Just like everyone else, I hide behind fake smiles because it is easier than explaining my tears. I can be quite humorous when I want to be and I can make you laugh at the drop of a hat. However the fun girl with the twinkling eyes is the same girl that sometimes cries herself to...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    Happy New Year Everyone Wishing You Guys All

    The Best And Good Health Hopefully 2014 will be good to all of us :))
    Dimforest Dimforest 18-21, M Dec 31, 2013

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    You Hide

    You hide behind your smile but you don't fool me. I know you feel like crying sometimes so instead you smile and laugh and then look the other way. He says ''you alright?'' and you reply ''yeh'' in this chirpy voice. But behind that chirp there is agony and sorrow ... something i...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 24, 2013

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    Smiles Can Lie

    People smile through sadness and pain all the time. I know I do. Smiling takes up much less time and energy than crying. A smile can be a quick lie. I think when people laugh is when they are happy, even if the happiness is short lived. Laughing takes more time than a smile and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 28, 2012

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    Everlasting Smile

    Smile....u are on candid camera...or it is say "cheez"... i flash my smile to all who knows me and to those who do smile if we came across each other in certain function as a courtesy and respect. but a smile never reflects the truth feeling of oneself.... we can smile thou...
    enchantingjade enchantingjade 36-40 3 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    I Wonder.

    So many things I do wonder. Things that play on my mind to often, that make so many lesions on my heart. It's all still new to me. Things I can hardly fathom. Kickin my sleep in the gut and my brains outta breathe. Where will things finally stand? I can't even take the smallest...
    Katarina2012 Katarina2012 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2013

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    I'm just going to act like it doesn't hurt me

    and fake a smile and pretend everything's okay. Maybe one day they'll see the pain that hides behind this strong smile. Maybe one day they'll realize what they've done. Maybe one day they'll be sorry.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Nov 1, 2014

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    Smileing

    will in the same token smileing dosent mean happy. not smileing dosent mean im not happy ether. funny how that works huh.... its odd but its true it takes somone really knowing me to know whats going on with me
    orangeagent676 orangeagent676 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 29, 2012

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    Dear whoever is reading this,

    I understand how rough life could be. I just want to let u know that things will get better. Keep holding on just a little bit longer. I know u feel like nobody really cares. you’re wrong. I care, otherwise I wouldn’t be posting this. you’re not alone, we may be miles away...
    Dimforest Dimforest 18-21, M Dec 30, 2013

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     You wanna fly, you got to give up the sh!

    ts that weighs you down .. :)
    Dimforest Dimforest 18-21, M Jan 8, 2014

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     Your skin isn't paper,

    don't cut it. Your face isn't a mask, don't cover it. Your size isn't a book, don't judge it. Your life isn't a film, don't end it. You are beautiful the way you are .. :))
    Dimforest Dimforest 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2014

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    Faking It...

    I do it. So I'm sure everyone else does. There are those days when you feel like crap and nothing can make you happy. The only reason you smile is if you're forced to be friendly. It comes out so fake. But most of the time people don't care, they just go about their day...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    It's really true! You smile to everyone!

    And if someone is asking you, if your okay?And answer is yes! But deep inside bleeding big time but you don't need to let anyone know because you don't need their sympathy. Sometimes it suck!🙊
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 7, 2013

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    Not everyone is happy

    when they smile. Sometimes it takes all that person has to force out a smile and pretend that everything is alright when all they wanna do is cry or scream. Breathe out the bad and inhale the good. Let go of the bullshit and try to always be positive. Look at the brighter side...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 26-30, F Mar 3, 2014

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    I Wish

    I wish some day I could smile like I used to, or laugh until my stomach hurts :DSome day...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2012

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    Sheild

    a smile can cover every emotion today a smile can cover many things it can cover hurt and hoplessness it can cover anger and rage it can cover hate and love it can cover sadness and tears it can cover happiness and joy it could be real or fake some use it as a sheild to keep...
    MusicWhore MusicWhore 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5, 2012

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    Looking In The Wrong Places??

    i been looking for someone who can show me love and respect who can be with me even though we haven't had sex. sadly that's all what guys want from me and it ****** me off! I wish I CAN fINd someone who would love me forever and wouldn't leave me I hate feeling lonely the word...
    Googlenun Googlenun 18-21, F Jun 14, 2013

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    Nonexistent

    There's one thing that I have felt through out my life, it's the one feeling that just absolutely gets under my skin. Being ignored by some one I dont know doesn't bother me to much but it irritates me. But when some one I care about does it, it's a different story. I absolutely...
    Katarina2012 Katarina2012 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2012

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    Looking In The Wrong Places??

    i been looking for someone who can show me love and respect who can be with me even though we haven't had sex. sadly that's all what guys want from me and it ****** me off! I wish I CAN fINd someone who would love me forever and wouldn't leave me I hate feeling lonely the word...
    Googlenun Googlenun 18-21, F Jun 14, 2013

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    Be possitive, stay happy don't let the

    negativity or the drama of the world get you down.. SMILE!! :))
    Dimforest Dimforest 18-21, M Jan 26, 2014

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    I Get It...

    ...but i totally am called out every single time i fake smile because apparently i wear my emotions on my sleeve. i can never ever hide what i'm feeling; happy, sad, confused, effed up, nada, nothing, can't hide it.it's both a curse and a blessing. sometimes i do just want to be...
    notholdingback notholdingback 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    i wanted to try this because i saw everybody else doing it. im actually 18 years old but i just have one of those young faces. i wanted to know what you guys think. do i look good...
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    There is some really weird men on here. As soon as a girl puts up a picture of her on the 'I want to know if you think Im attractive' experience, instantly that girl is beautiful...
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