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I Know the Importance of Trust

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    I Do My Best To Be Open And Helpful

    I'm not sure if this is the right category to post this story in.  I want to talk about my values and the path I follow based on those values.  I think a strong theme amoung these values is trust, so I will attempt this story here. One of my core values is being...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 8, 2010

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    Have Issues ... Lessons Learned

        Ever since my childhood i was taught that strange men, and even known ones, can be dangerous and therefor i should be careful. If your ever in a situation and you get a bad feeling then get away and steer clear of them. And always, always have a back up plan...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2009

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    You Can't Have A Relationship Without It

    I think a relationship is like a three leg stool and those three legs are trust, respect and honesty. When you are missing one of the three, the relationship will fail and fall over.
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    He's Wonderful, So Why Can't I?

      We met 3 months ago, started seeing each other almost immediately. I'm crazy about him in all kinds of ways, i've never met a better match. But whenever i feel close to letting him in i shut down. I suppose you can tell that i've been hurt in the past. It was...
    ladybugchai ladybugchai 18-21, F Dec 6, 2009

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    Trust Is Everything ..

    No trust No relationsNo Honesty No relationsNo love No gloryNo trust .. = NothingI respect and trust my significant other and have been always treated the same way ... 
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    With Out Trust You Have Nothing

    i listen to alot of people of all ages and from all walks of life and the most come thing i hear is some thing along the lines of "i dont know if i can trust my significant other". it seems to me that if you can no longer trust then, you need to think over why you dont trust then...
    kattarrin kattarrin 22-25, F Mar 19, 2012

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    You Are Who You Are

    Trust is important, especially in relationships. It's what makes relationships work. If you can't trust your lover, your life partner, then whats the point of even trying to be with them? You can't control them, just let them be who they are going to be. Just have to be honest...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Oct 3, 2008

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    Pathological Liar

    When I was an adolescent I did a class drugs, stole, got into fights, lied, etc...then I went to prison.  Since then I have grown into a beautiful young man..However I pathologically lie to my Mum because she always stresses me out about anything and...
    juantwo juantwo 26-30, M Dec 11, 2009

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    Cheating

    For three decades I've been working in a trade where nobody is to be trusted.  Especially the colleagues.  It was part of the game and everybody knew.  We were comrades, ready for any treacherous trick.  Elderly guys.   Cheating and back stabbing...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 3 Responses Feb 15, 2010

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    It Is Key

    Trust is key to any relationship. but especially and without question marraige. So much is put into that bond and committment and you just want to and need to believe that that person is there for you and committed to you after all of your sacrifices. Me and my husband lack that...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    Love without trust is a wheelbarrow without a wheel; it will not take you anywhere.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I want to trust people. I really do! I've been backstabbed by my closest and bestest friends during high school. I stood up for them, I would have fought for them( was about to too...
    ReachingSoul ReachingSoul 22-25, F Jul 12

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    Sadly that isn't always the case for my boyfriend... Over the past two years, my boyfriend has run into many of his ex girlfriends, old friends, girls on websites, and it always...
    0hSheanBreeze012 0hSheanBreeze012 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Wolf Spirit Animal The wolf offers some of the most striking animal meanings in the realm of spirit animals. The power of the wolf brings forth instinct, intelligence, appetite...
    Skylar2000 Skylar2000 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    About The Importance Of Respect „We are not Cain, Lord. We have not slain our brother. But our words are often sharp as a knife. We are not Cain, Lord. We have not thrown a...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Jul 3

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    Panda Spirit Animal The panda is a powerful spirit animal inspiring tranquil strength and determination. Under its soft and fuzzy appearances, this animal totem brings forth the...
    Skylar2000 Skylar2000 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    How do I move on toward trusting someone again when I still have doubt? I don't know if it will go away but it has to. I love him and I have to overcome this issue in order to be...
    hysgirl hysgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    My relationship is very dependent on trust and honesty. We have a somewhat long distance relationship. I trust him not to get in trouble or compromise our relationship and he...
    larisahhh larisahhh 26-30, F 55 mins ago

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    It's massively difficult to if you've been let down by them time and time again. I think the only people I truly trust are my family. Oh, and my cat too.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I have trust issues with people period. I don't care if it's my family (Who don't care about ******* you over) friends, or boyfriend. I want to change, but it's hard.
    NicoleMeagan NicoleMeagan 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I'm so tired of my life I'm so tired of having to hide who I am what I am i wish i could be accepted into this world and I always feel rejectedI feel like I have no friends no one...
    brianbrianna brianbrianna 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    Is 7 " normal or smallish ..I don't trust gfs to give true answers
    Imaopenbook Imaopenbook 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    I don't trust people at all, and the few people who have earned my trust know better than to break it. I have been backstabbed more times than I thought possible to withstand. Out...
    BloodMoonWolfbane BloodMoonWolfbane 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    We gotta get passed fears to be able to trust.Trust it is not only to hope for the best and wish we wont get hurt...we gotta start trusting ourselves too. This means...if you...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 6

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    trust is something to be earn, for some it takes an instant for others, weeks and some months.... I sadly am in the first category, I tend to trust to easily. I fell in the trap...
    womanonly womanonly 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Sometimes I literally think my soul is exhausted from the experience of trusting people. Meaning when you first meet someone everything is new rather it's a friendship or a...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    people except me to tell my life story so easily like things didnt happen that changed me. many people have gone through what i have and are perfectly fine and are happy people. i...
    internationalinspire internationalinspire 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am so angry for trusting my best friend. He was my best friend. The one that I thought would cover my back if someone were to hurt me, but what I found out... For the past 7...
    LynEdma LynEdma 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Owl Spirit Animal The owl spirit animal is emblematic of a deep connection with wisdom and intuitive knowledge. If you have the owl as totem or power animal, you’re likely to...
    Skylar2000 Skylar2000 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I don't know, all my life i have found it hard to trust anyone , the first time i tell someone a secret i made sure it was the smallest one i could possibly think of , and next...
    Theworldismyhell Theworldismyhell 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Bear Spirit Animal In the kingdom of spirit animals, the bear is emblematic of grounding forces and strength. This animal has been worshiped throughout time as a powerful totem...
    Skylar2000 Skylar2000 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    You have one chance to earn my trust, but if I catch you in a lie then I will never trust you again. Everyone I've ever been with has cheated on me. Not just some, all of them...
    pastelstars pastelstars 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Honestly, It's hard to trust others. Everytime when I do, I realize that the person just wanted something I had and they take it or use me and walk away. Walk away like it was easy...
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    This may appeal to be your regular, cliché, stereotypical 'I have trust issues' post. One cannot deny the simple fact that actually, yes, it is that. My trust issues stemmed from...
    boneache boneache 18-21, F Jul 12

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    Am i the only one who have trusting issues?! :( It seriously sucks who ever i trust just let me down and they dont worth to be trusted am i fool and dump? Am really tired if...
    sollloo sollloo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I have trust issues. I haven't ways had them, in my younger years I trusted without fear of pain or betrayals but I can't function like that anymore. When I was 19 I started...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    At work, personally, by family. Who can you trust? I knkw this may sound hypocritical, but yes, I had an affair, I am married snd she was single. She chased me, professed her...
    midliferevelation midliferevelation 46-50, M Jul 4

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    It's not people I don't trust, it's relationships and friendships. The people themselves are usually fine, it's easy to find people you can trust once you know what lies look like...
    sammykins101 sammykins101 22-25, M Jul 5

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    I've been distance for a while and not trusting anyone around me. I know I am missing out on life because of this and I need to start putting myself out there. Even writing this...
    carolpam carolpam 22-25, F Jul 8

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    It must be a pain in the *** trying to break my walls down at times, I try to be as open with new people as I can but sometimes it's hard because I do not know them either...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    I've never really been able to trust anyone ever since my best friend betrayed me by telling my biggest secret to everyone else. And because I've never gotten over my trust issues...
    NekoAnya NekoAnya 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I've been going out with the same guy for a year now, but 4 months ago there was a bump in the road of our relationship. Ok so, my boyfriend is 17 and I'm 14 we met on a trip to...
    Julianna2406 Julianna2406 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I learned the hard way in losing trust in my parents. Last week during an argument, my dad claimed:" I could care less about you, my mom died already, there's no worse feeling. I...
    confusedsoul88 confusedsoul88 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Every time I trust I end up betrayed. My last act of trust was when I trusted my ex concerning our two young children. He wanted to see them,be a part of their lives,and act like...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Today I finally came to the conclusion that I am too quick to give someone my trust. And even though he once made me wonder if completely giving it up was the right choice, I...
    Liburtygirl Liburtygirl 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Japan Company Trust Organization "JCTO" is an anti-fraud organization in Japan. With Headquarter in Tokyo, the Organization registers real Japanese companies with physical address...
    erickmoose erickmoose 26-30, M Jul 6

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    TRUST NO1 .. TRUST YOURSELF FIRST!.. When you have to ask yourself can i trust this person .. Thats a sign right thur NOT TO TRUST!!..
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I trusted you We met online I never thought we would meet You pushed, we met I began to fall for you I expected to to leave Never talk to me again But you didn't You came back You...
    kenzieburr kenzieburr 16-17, F Jul 16

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