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I Know We All Cope Differently To Being Hurt

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    we all cope differently..with healthier way of coping methods or ..a way thats not so healthy..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    I Understand This

    I really do understand that people have their own ways of dealing with things. Mine is to be honest about my feelings about things. Not judging, just honest. I won't lie and say that every way of coping is a good way, because let's face it, some ways are just hurtful to others...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Even If They Hard To Accept!

    It's part of being human. It's something our brain does naturally.. and we often have little say in it. And every single person is unique! There are some recognized ways of coping but we all have various ways and combinations that work best for us as individuals...Most ways are...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Jan 22, 2011

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    Cope Differently

    Since each individual is different then it is normal that we all cope differently too to being hurt.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 12, 2011

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     most of us do self medicate in one fashion or another.
    NyxInvictus NyxInvictus 41-45 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    i was bullied in middle school and high school. and now, on here, i'm occasionally faced by them. sometimes not getting messages back hurts too. i just feel rejected.
    cosmosdrift cosmosdrift 31-35, F 9 mins ago

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    I know this is gonna sound like those absolutely ridiculous love stories but hear me out please... This guy who I consider one of my best friends we dated for a year & a half now...
    cocososowowo cocososowowo 16-17, F 11 mins ago

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    i like being the working class hero though. it felt romantic slaving away at my burger job, going home late nights, catering to people with more money than i'd make in ten years...
    kpl2014 kpl2014 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I've always been big, both relatively tall and fat. When i was a kid I had a lot of problems with self esteem stemming from it, but as I've gotten older and the body positivity...
    vicariousCollector vicariousCollector 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    What does it matter if I live or die when supposedly the person the care most in the world for you puts a restraining order on you advice about really wanted to be with you want...
    monkeygun monkeygun 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    Don't Follow Me (meant to be spoken word) You are posting photos with friends. You are documenting other's lives through a telephoto lens. You are hanging out with your kin...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    For almost two months, you've been gone, my white furred angel... After fourteen years of your fur all over everything, your sudden death hit me hard. I'm getting a tattoo, in your...
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've noticed that in conversations & arguments no matter how little or small that your pride & ego is what really fuels that fire. We can know we are dead wrong but can't stand it...
    amazinggracious amazinggracious 51-55, F 2 days ago

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    Joe Davis is just... how can you put it other than, simply one of the best people you'll ever meet on this planet. Joe has a lot going for him in his life. A wonderful and close...
    kristaconway kristaconway 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am in love with someone. She is my closest friend and she knows. She has a boyfriend whom she seems to care a great deal about. Even as a friend, i feel like an outsider... She...
    tytimmy tytimmy 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    He absolutely has, and does. Sometimes his answer is 'yes', sometimes 'no', or sometimes, 'wait'! Remember...God works in His timing, not yours. We must have patience. While we may...
    GraceIsMine GraceIsMine 66-70, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't have a clue where to start this but I will say thank you to anyone who finds the time to read this. The thoughts and memories that are in my head make me think this will...
    Valtboy Valtboy 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I was pregnant, everyone felt the need to tell me all about their horrific child birth stories (scaring me half to death) , how hard it would be to cope with the physical...
    AlreadyOwned7379 AlreadyOwned7379 36-40, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am the one ignoring. I see your text come through I am still very mad at you Trying to ask for forgiveness Seeing your text bring me bliss I may even smile Look at it for...
    heartbreakhurts heartbreakhurts 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    so apperantly my best friend didn't text me or call me for nearly a week.. the last time we spoke "properly" was on friday last week.. a friend of mine came from another city to...
    leyelaxx leyelaxx 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    so apperantly my best friend didn't text me or call me for nearly a week.. the last time we spoke "properly" was on friday last week.. a friend of mine came from another city to...
    leyelaxx leyelaxx 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    so apperantly my best friend didn't text me or call me for nearly a week.. the last time we spoke "properly" was on friday last week.. a friend of mine came from another city to...
    leyelaxx leyelaxx 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    The day my son said "I love you mamma", made me know all the work I put in is worth it. He's learning from me. It fills my heart completely up. I love him.
    trin2013 trin2013 26-30, F a week ago

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    Faith is not knowing what the future holds, but knowing who holds the future. When you feed your faith, your fears will starve to death. It's about stepping out, when you don't...
    GraceIsMine GraceIsMine 66-70, F a week ago

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    I've hurt and annoyed my girlfriend, but I have no idea what I've done. What's worse is that because I'm unable to let it go, I keep pushing her to find out what's wrong and I end...
    tomthaniel tomthaniel 22-25, M Aug 26

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    It's hurt when your best friend you been best friends (jack) with for 7 years, says that I don't want to be friends anymore because of I being paranoid of this girl named Teagan...
    mblan11 mblan11 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I just want to get some things off my chest because I can't tell anyone in real life, especially about the plastic surgery. Here goes, put your emo shades on. (And for the love of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 26

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    I truly am tired of it. I don't enjoy hating people. I don't enjoy acting like a b**** to my family. I hate myself when I yell or say or do crappy things. It makes me feel horrible...
    lmichelle8907 lmichelle8907 26-30, F Aug 25

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    Some Indians from India pretend or seriously don't know that they have Blood relations with some of us in Guyana, Trinidad, and Suriname. As of today, instead of Some Indians...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Aug 24

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    I'm still trying to figure out how to cope with not having a father in my life. I have 3 older siblings, the oldest being 25. My father left when I was almost 2 years old. And...
    alittleloveandsunshine alittleloveandsunshine 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    My dad has been in and out and completely out after maybe 12 or 13 yrs old for me. I didn't even get calls for my birthday. Now he occasionally texts me maybe 1-2 times every other...
    FutureVet2014 FutureVet2014 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I'm tired! I'm tired of always taking care of everybody. I've got 1 younger brother, and my parents are divorced. It's actually frustrating when you have divorced parents, we live...
    Livetillmadness Livetillmadness 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    My life is filled with mix emoations, I've always loved my mom so much. I still love her more then anything. I recently moved out of my mom's house because of my stepdad and how...
    SpideyAlyx SpideyAlyx 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    Everytime I try to wear a skirt, and that's not often, maybe 4/5 times a year, everytime my mom hurts me with her words. And I know I'm not a skinny girl, and I know I need to...
    maskabuchi maskabuchi 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I really have no idea what to do:/ A couple weeks ago I went on holiday with my dad and while I was away my mum went onto my laptop and she read through my conversation to my best...
    skyealexandra skyealexandra 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    ya n not everyone knows the difference, either
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 22

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    I honestly don't really know whether he loves me or not right now. However, I made the mistake of believing that my ex never loved me. I was wrong then and I won't make that...
    cherryxblossom cherryxblossom 26-30, F Aug 20

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    I talked to my ex after what was a couple months. We actually had a conversation this time. I decided to be frank with him and asked him what he wanted from me. He said he wanted...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Aug 19

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    Ive been married for a year and a half to my husband. When we were dating I didn't mind he was previously married but now that we are married I hate being number two like it's bad...
    bchp1963 bchp1963 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    My Fiance and I have been engaged just over 2 weeks not and his mom and sister haent said anything :/ we know that tey know about it and it hurts they wint even tell us what they...
    DrDeathDefying DrDeathDefying 18-21, F Aug 18

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    This is gonna be long but this is my experience - my story. I come from a complicated family background. You can say I don't know much about my parent's stories since they never...
    Abcak937 Abcak937 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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