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I Know We All Cope Differently To Being Hurt

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    We’re All Different, Yet We All Hurt

    Everyone is different and has their own way of dealing with pain. While we’re all different, many of us have a… “kind” or “genre” of how we manage. Some people need a shoulder to cry on. They need to tell someone, or someones, about what bothers them. They need to...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 8 Responses May 21, 2011

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    we all cope differently..with healthier way of coping methods or ..a way thats not so healthy..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Cope Differently

    Since each individual is different then it is normal that we all cope differently too to being hurt.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 12, 2011

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    And...

     most of us do self medicate in one fashion or another.
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    I Understand This

    I really do understand that people have their own ways of dealing with things. Mine is to be honest about my feelings about things. Not judging, just honest. I won't lie and say that every way of coping is a good way, because let's face it, some ways are just hurtful to others...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Everyones Different

    Everyone reacts to different situations differently, the same with being hurt. I normally just sit in my room and cry or I sit outside at night in a tree and talk to myself about what's bothering me and then I normally end up crying or I cut. I cut everyday, it's a warm pain, a...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F Sep 19, 2011

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    Even If They Hard To Accept!

    It's part of being human. It's something our brain does naturally.. and we often have little say in it. And every single person is unique! There are some recognized ways of coping but we all have various ways and combinations that work best for us as individuals...Most ways are...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Jan 22, 2011

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    Love hurts, love scars Love wounds, and mars Any heart, not tough Or strong enough To take a lot of pain Take a lot of pain Love is like a cloud Holds a lot of rain Love hurts...
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    I've been hurt and used so many times I now sort of expect for people to do it again. I'm in a relationship with someone that was/is my best friend. I'm so afraid that he is going...
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    I am just a man with these broken dreams and failures i need friends i hate being alone but it doesn't matter if every one has a place to be but their ain't no room for me
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    My best friend. I loved him, and still do, so much. I literally spend my weekends sitting alone crying wishing I knew why he would cut me out of his life. I called him my Prince, I...
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    It's almost like I'm numb now. I can't even feel anymore.
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F Jul 3

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    I can't cope. I've had enough.. I don't know how I'm meant to cope with all this stress. I'm 15 not 45! I shouldn't be worrying about half the things I worry about! I should be...
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    I'm beginning to understand that love goes beyond good qualities, good looks and social status. It's simply loving and wanting to be around the person because they are themselves...
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    Thinking of you is all i ever really do, Trying not to cry is a mission in my eyes, I miss you so much that i can't help but to cry, I'm so in love with you that my heart can't...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    This is true but way to much I hide myself away where I'm safe from being hurt. I try to be someone I'm not but I'm not very good at it because being me IS really all I know how to...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 1 Response Jun 30

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    casicat casicat 22-25, F Jul 13

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    RayneZ RayneZ 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 11

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    lovelymarie21 lovelymarie21 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    How you spent all your life being faithful but i guys everyone gets cheated on once in a lifetime. I just thought i wouldn't ever be on the same boat! :( everything hurts me...
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    BoronActiniumOxygenNitrogen BoronActiniumOxygenNitrogen 13-15, F Jul 1

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    Don't call me baby or babe thinking that's gonna get me to do something for you or give in to what you want. Not every girl is so naive and fall for that type of stuff. Especially...
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