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I Know We All Cope Differently To Being Hurt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 67 People

    Cope Differently

    Since each individual is different then it is normal that we all cope differently too to being hurt.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 12, 2011

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    And...

     most of us do self medicate in one fashion or another.
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    Even If They Hard To Accept!

    It's part of being human. It's something our brain does naturally.. and we often have little say in it. And every single person is unique! There are some recognized ways of coping but we all have various ways and combinations that work best for us as individuals...Most ways are...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Jan 22, 2011

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    I Understand This

    I really do understand that people have their own ways of dealing with things. Mine is to be honest about my feelings about things. Not judging, just honest. I won't lie and say that every way of coping is a good way, because let's face it, some ways are just hurtful to others...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Group Title Sais It..

    we all cope differently..with healthier way of coping methods or ..a way thats not so healthy..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    We’re All Different, Yet We All Hurt

    Everyone is different and has their own way of dealing with pain. While we’re all different, many of us have a… “kind” or “genre” of how we manage. Some people need a shoulder to cry on. They need to tell someone, or someones, about what bothers them. They need to...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 8 Responses May 21, 2011

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    I wish i had a shut of switch for my emotions. I honestly dont want to feel anything for anyone anymore. Im so sick of opening my heart and my trust to people and just being hurt...
    Gertrude95 Gertrude95 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I have been hurt so many times in the past, I care so much for a woman. She is wonderful,We have had lengthly conversations and i care very much for her , but now my worst fears...
    Richard1970 Richard1970 41-45 Jan 3

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    Woman have hurt me for so long, i can't even remember the last time i was happy around one,i find myself withdrawn around them. Also very uneasy , but this nagging in my head to...
    Richard1970 Richard1970 41-45 3 Responses Jan 5

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    I know not all men are horrible just most of them so if you have a good one never let them go
    Kimberlee123 Kimberlee123 41-45, F Jan 7

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    pain leads to growth and i can almost blame myself for my own pain. would lov ed to meet someone that's real and open to the things we have been kept from about ourselves and who...
    luke5573 luke5573 41-45 Jan 7

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    j. geils band....What A SONG !! Why, Women, DO YOU DO ME SO WRONG ?!! Making me Suffer, IGNORING what "I" Like BY DOING WHAT I DON'T like................
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 3 days ago

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    I am writing this incase anyone else finds themselves in a similar situation . . . Please do not worry about me, I have been free of this relationship for 7 years now. I am a lot...
    elimarie7 elimarie7 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    The point of no return lying here in the middle of no where, I don't want to close my eyes from what I see is disappearing faces all around me not wanting them to fade. The voices...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 2

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    Being alone is better than being hurt constantly. It's better than being lied to. It's better than falling for someone that don't really want you. At least when you're alone the...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 14

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    I love someone and now she is gone. why dose it hurt so? I know it will all pass but that dose'nt make it easier. I could spend time with a number of others but I would rather be...
    1969tracyg 1969tracyg 41-45, M Jan 18

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    Well I don't know exactly what I did but my knee hurts like hell and now I got sent to an urgent care fml! Ua and then getting looked at ugh I hate being hurt I can't lift my foot...
    Camocrossing Camocrossing 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    he's hurt me so much and I just go right back to him when he wants me to cuz I love him so much I don't think he knows how much he has hurt me... I know I've hurt him but that was...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I have seen this title and the stories behind it so many times, it makes me puke. People make it seem men are the only ones who cheat and hurt their significant other, but what a...
    Godsmack23 Godsmack23 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    I just wanted you to know, that I won't hurt you. I want to show you what real love is. I want to prove to you that not everyone you let in will hrt you. I wanna be the one to put...
    BrokenSilence22 BrokenSilence22 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    • In advance of obtaining the to start with payment in the insurance business, the plan holder must wait for a few days. This is known as possibly the waiting around or cooling...
    William7035cob3 William7035cob3 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    but i don't know how to say anything. How can you tell your friends or family or anyone at all how much you hurt everyday? How hard it is just to get up in the morning because...
    irishlassy98 irishlassy98 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    That's how it happens. Some version of that story is true for almost every homeless person out there. It happens because of not being loved. Because of not having supportive...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M Jan 10

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    That's how it happens. Some version of that story is true for almost every homeless person out there. It happens because of not being loved. Because of not having supportive...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    I try so hard to be perfect my boyfriend.... But all he does is hurt me.... I say one wrong thing and he cuts and makes me feel like I'm completely useless... I try to help but...
    Fitnessfreakmuch Fitnessfreakmuch 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    As I enter the world of showbiz, I am just a little coward to be in a life where in I am not. Who truly loves me or not, I do not know. I don't know anything. All I know is that I...
    AinaRosales AinaRosales 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm too young to be in relationships. I've always known that, but I needed to prove myself wrong. Of course that wouldn't work. I've almost lost count of how many long distance...
    ColourfulHopes ColourfulHopes 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    EP is a cesspool of depravity and a killground for the psychopathic/sociopathic and mentally ill. If you are new to EP and you are expecting to be supported by people, you wont be...
    zanzibargem zanzibargem 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    I have been to the hairdressers many time with my wife just to watch her get a haircut. Most times it was only a trim which is still good to watch, I loved it when she was caped up...
    grahamaa grahamaa 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    I think people mistake my kindness for weakness. Maybe I'll just start being an ******* all the time. Being nice gets you nowhere but walked over....
    sluttybrownie sluttybrownie 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Like always, I'm always left out on things, and no one really cares about me. I attempted and tried to socialize with people at a gathering, but I was never welcomed to join any...
    caactas caactas 16-17, T 1 Response Jan 2

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    Talking is about knowing someone else not being polite
    savigirl14 savigirl14 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I think we all are spiritual beings prisoned in human body. Most people don't realize this because they are to busy listening to their minds and ignoring their souls
    tntbmi01 tntbmi01 66-70, M 2 Responses Jan 10

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    What is more, some rather frivolous selections cost greater than the difference between minimal-end and significant-stop LASIK. In fact, would not it be improved to forgo the $995...
    Ryan4715izr0 Ryan4715izr0 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    You can pretend this is fiction if you like. His name was Joey (it wasn't, of course). He, like me, was an unchosen red diaper baby; the son of two powerful underground Communists...
    Brainyblonde Brainyblonde 66-70, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Happy New Year Wishing all you lovely people of EP a grand 2015. Hours away from a new start, a brand new year I feel so exhilirated and anxious. I have never been this...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I'm good at lieing about myself only my internet. Bestie knows all about me she said that's she is hear for me and ect she is beautiful and amazing 😍 all my friends think I have...
    BiXwolfsXbears BiXwolfsXbears 13-15, F Jan 7

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    I hate standardized tests. I feel as though, these tests treat intelligence as a "one size fits all". As though intelligence is a mere bubble. If I am terrible at math and science...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Crush the crystals up right up until They are really completely dissolved (if you don't you are going to end up getting a grainy serum) Carefully pour your serum into your glass...
    Anthonick826k7ka4 Anthonick826k7ka4 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    I guess happiness is not for me. Maybe I would love myself more in another lifetime. Or maybe in my next life, I wouldnt have to worry people liking me, because I have bunch of...
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I love to know all the myths and philosophy hidden behind them...
    Ujjukush Ujjukush 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 15

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    I live in central illinois. Well this one house was very old. Everyday you would hear a party going on upstairs like people having fun and laughing even if you were home alone...
    Xychorite Xychorite 16-17, M Jan 17

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    Unrequited love is like one of the worst things in life for anyone. I knew a guy named Hernan for a year now since January. I remember when I first met him in class, I was afraid...
    AziaLee AziaLee 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    If you could go back in time to the point of some of the most regretful decisions of your life...would any of these what you consider to be poor choices be too risky too choose any...
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    So today in my government class we watched a video about a group of Muslims in Georgia who wanted to build a mosque, and the negative reactions from the rest of the community...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 12

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