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I Know We All Cope Differently To Being Hurt

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    we all cope differently..with healthier way of coping methods or ..a way thats not so healthy..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Even If They Hard To Accept!

    It's part of being human. It's something our brain does naturally.. and we often have little say in it. And every single person is unique! There are some recognized ways of coping but we all have various ways and combinations that work best for us as individuals...Most ways are...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Jan 22, 2011

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    I Understand This

    I really do understand that people have their own ways of dealing with things. Mine is to be honest about my feelings about things. Not judging, just honest. I won't lie and say that every way of coping is a good way, because let's face it, some ways are just hurtful to others...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Cope Differently

    Since each individual is different then it is normal that we all cope differently too to being hurt.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 12, 2011

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    And...

     most of us do self medicate in one fashion or another.
    NyxInvictus NyxInvictus 41-45 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    I would just like to erase all the memories I have with him and make it disappear because he was a waste of love and it hurts thinking about it and what he did , I want all the...
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    I always thought before this happen that hate is a strong word but I realize that it is true but I feel that I hate myself for letting it happen and hate my ex for what he did . He...
    ternat567 ternat567 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I mever had a really good control over my emotions. Iv done alot a drugs when i was younger and becoming older i just want to succeed in life. I had alot of moments when i...
    Bittersky Bittersky 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    It's again my fault. I wasn't a good friend to him. I am and was an idiot. I should have known. He is an amazing person. He is kind and sweet. He is very considerate. And most of...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    yeah they do exist! but I think that the ones who claim to be nice, actually aren't nice at all. :/ someone who says that you don't love him cause you rather being treated bad...
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Hey everyone I'm new here. I have no children of my own, but I am engaged to someone with three daughters. We have been together for more than 6 years. He has three daughters who...
    stepmom2be1990 stepmom2be1990 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Being able to appropriate a culture and make a profit off of it because it's "fashionable" or a "trend". Bindis, Native American headdresses, dreads, henna tattoos, "man buns...
    Slayoncee Slayoncee 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I miss you momma....I know I didn't grow up with you right next to me all the time...But you used to sing to me on the phone.....I had to listen to you cry every night...I had to...
    Ana1amber Ana1amber 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My mom has setup for me to be a scapegoat for herself so my family thinks I'm such a bad person and no one will take the time to spend with me to find out for themselves. It sucks...
    cauzaud cauzaud 31-35, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    My mom has setup for me to be a scapegoat for herself so my family thinks I'm such a bad person and no one will take the time to spend with me to find out for themselves. It sucks...
    cauzaud cauzaud 31-35, F 11 hrs ago

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    My parents got divorced 3 years ago and i never got attention growing up but this last year was the first time i got tickled. it was my dads girlfriend. she and her three...
    jwengler2020 jwengler2020 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    When you thought it's yours when it's not. Now I know why I like specific things. Solving a puzzle without the right answer is hard, taking the next level is not easy and...
    etude etude 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    I'm posting a lot about this b/c at this moment, it does consume me... I've held it in SO long and i have no one that can relate to for this and it's all coming out and I feel i'm...
    mammamialove mammamialove 26-30, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Seriously. Don't push me. Just don't. I don't like it. I rarely even Allow it. And if I Let you push me?? Don't think it's going to continue being a privilege I grant you...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 17 hrs ago

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    I'm a bigger girl myself, and ive just left school last month. I think its unfair that overweight girls and boys have to go through their school and teenage years worrying about...
    abbiecinnamon abbiecinnamon 16-17 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I know I may not be the sharpest pencil in the bunch, but that doesn’t mean that I’m stupid either. I’ve been told my some of my so-called friends, teachers and even some of...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Resisting him is ready. I'm a very important guy because I know how to resist him. If he's in your mind insult him and fight back. Don't be a proxy and just forget it. If your...
    VolenoieFoote VolenoieFoote 31-35, M 21 hrs ago

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    Resisting him is ready. I'm a very important guy because I know how to resist him. If he's in your mind insult him and fight back. Don't be a proxy and just forget it. If your...
    VolenoieFoote VolenoieFoote 31-35, M 21 hrs ago

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    Just spent 1hr talking on the phone with my friend cause she called me and she was depress and she was having bad thoughts and she said she was afraid of hurting herself so she...
    ImTheQueenFYM ImTheQueenFYM 16-17, F 22 hrs ago

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    I know I'm on here. I just came to post this. I decided it would be best for my best friend(online) and I to just stop talking. I told him today. Why you ask? Because I clearly...
    CyanideY CyanideY 13-15, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Right now I'm working at a factory my mom used to work in. I wish I helped her out more around the house, knowing all the people she'd dealt with and the fatigue she comes home...
    JuanJohnJ3rry JuanJohnJ3rry 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said:- "Acquire knowledge and impart to the People."- "Four things support the world: the learning of the wise, the justice of the great, the prayers of...
    PosterGirl PosterGirl 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    - Choosing the right boat There’s around five hundred from which to choose, which include regular Turkish gulets to catamarans and Motor yachts.Yacht charter operators in...
    Andrew0369nbp8 Andrew0369nbp8 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Doesn't it sucks that the one person you love and trust is the one who actually hurts you the most. Because of them you just decide to shut down and not let yourself to be open to...
    Livelife0532 Livelife0532 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    me and my girlfriend have this incredible relationship. we are everything to each other (mommy/ daddy, baby of both gender, playmate, best friend, lover, etc.) and we'll we have...
    deepdon deepdon 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I have had very strange dreams and out of body experience. And I need help understanding what's happening. I don't know of I'm an angel getting ready for battle or what. Please...
    Hartleyhaha Hartleyhaha 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I don't know anybody who love being judge instantly without getting to know them.
    23rdcamp 23rdcamp 66-70 5 days ago

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    By two different people, actually. The manager and the assistant manager. They live together, work together, and both influence every decision the other makes. You can see how that...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Honestly who HASN'T been hurt in their lives? Sometime, somewhere, someone is going to let you down. It's just a given. Now if you are constantly being hurt by others, then maybe...
    LonesumnTx LonesumnTx 51-55, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's amazing that I can call him and tell him I had tumours removed in surgery and he suggests I should move two hours away to where I don't know anyone for work. Says he's busy...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just am. I don't know if it's being lonely, or whatever.
    PrestoAgitato PrestoAgitato 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Being hurt is just a part of life i guess.. But you could choose to ignore and have it on you for a while, or you could face it and it will go eventually
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Hear me out, please. I want to know whether I am being immature or whether my reasoning is right. For convenience sake I'll refer to the people in question by their initials; 'A...
    malinov malinov 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I lost it yesterday for the first time with my love, and it hurt me more than it hurt him. I was reeling for hours after that. There are so many lessons in love. Even though he...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife 46-50, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've been diagnosed with depression for several months now and I can't shake the feeling that I have nobody but my parents but even some people know that you don't tell or want to...
    AnonymousTeen493 AnonymousTeen493 13-15, M Jul 22

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    Kirit0kun Kirit0kun 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 22
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