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I Know We All Cope Differently To Being Hurt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 71 People

    I Understand This

    I really do understand that people have their own ways of dealing with things. Mine is to be honest about my feelings about things. Not judging, just honest. I won't lie and say that every way of coping is a good way, because let's face it, some ways are just hurtful to others...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    Group Title Sais It..

    we all cope differently..with healthier way of coping methods or ..a way thats not so healthy..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Even If They Hard To Accept!

    It's part of being human. It's something our brain does naturally.. and we often have little say in it. And every single person is unique! There are some recognized ways of coping but we all have various ways and combinations that work best for us as individuals...Most ways are...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Jan 22, 2011

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     most of us do self medicate in one fashion or another.
    NyxInvictus NyxInvictus 41-45 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    Cope Differently

    Since each individual is different then it is normal that we all cope differently too to being hurt.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 12, 2011

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