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I Know We All Cope Differently To Being Hurt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 67 People

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     most of us do self medicate in one fashion or another.
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    Cope Differently

    Since each individual is different then it is normal that we all cope differently too to being hurt.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 12, 2011

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    Group Title Sais It..

    we all cope differently..with healthier way of coping methods or ..a way thats not so healthy..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Even If They Hard To Accept!

    It's part of being human. It's something our brain does naturally.. and we often have little say in it. And every single person is unique! There are some recognized ways of coping but we all have various ways and combinations that work best for us as individuals...Most ways are...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Jan 22, 2011

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    I Understand This

    I really do understand that people have their own ways of dealing with things. Mine is to be honest about my feelings about things. Not judging, just honest. I won't lie and say that every way of coping is a good way, because let's face it, some ways are just hurtful to others...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    We’re All Different, Yet We All Hurt

    Everyone is different and has their own way of dealing with pain. While we’re all different, many of us have a… “kind” or “genre” of how we manage. Some people need a shoulder to cry on. They need to tell someone, or someones, about what bothers them. They need to...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 8 Responses May 21, 2011

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    I'm a very insecure person. I've been this way for as long as I can remember. I'm a sensitive person and get my feelings hurt very easily. When I was young, I would get picked...
    JennieThorne JennieThorne 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I have a friend.Her name is lets say Ms.X.we both were really close friends.At the beginning of first two semesters everything was fine.I finally felt I got a best buddy.But as...
    MaddyBale MaddyBale 18-21, F Mar 12

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    No matter how many times I seem to trust in people the ones close test to me are the ones that can hurt me the most. I've been lied and stabbed in the back by those I thought I...
    Yubikiri Yubikiri 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Real women help each other up. Not push each other down.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 6

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    That sad moment when you realize you're the least important person in the group, and it really wouldn't be different if you weren't there..
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    No matter how close I get to anybody I always have my guard up. I only let people get as close to me as I want them because everyone leaves me at some point. Nobody's really been...
    Playlist98 Playlist98 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    12 Truths About Defensive Behavior - BY LINDA CARROLL Here are 12 truths about defensiveness — what it is and why it happens — that can help us better understand this self...
    imurfriend imurfriend 26-30, F Mar 5

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    I should not say that all men have hurt me. I do not think that all men are evil or blame everyone in my life but I have been hurt by a lot of men. I don't want to be bitter and I...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    My fiance passed away 18 months ago in a tragic accident. Following his death I've dealt with several other disheartening family medical problems, spent months in the hospital with...
    tiara29 tiara29 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    I am feeling very sad this evening my very dear uncle has been battling with Parkinson's for Twenty years... My dear Auntie is his carer and she is 75 years old finding it really...
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Matchmaking I don't like being set up by the wrong people because Means I will be set up with the wrong girl. Get it. I really don't feel good about people doing matchmaking when...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 3

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    Everyday hearts are broken Despite how much we try to deny It hurts us so much It makes us feel so hurt We cry and cry Well I hurt and cried over his inflicting abuses No one...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I have faced many challenges in my life and all I want to say is that BE BRAVE while I was in Highschool i was that shy and quiet girl towards year 7 and 8 (beginning of highschool...
    MyPreciousHeart MyPreciousHeart 18-21, F Mar 6

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    im tired of being hurt and broken hearted;(
    taken102 taken102 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It hurts that he doesn't even know how much he's hurting me.
    girlwiththe girlwiththe 13-15, F Mar 1

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    how would you guys do if !! u flirt with someone from the first sight ...and in th next day they wont answer ur calss !! and if u call with a different number they would answer but...
    typic1990 typic1990 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 2

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    Sometimes when I lay down at night, I think about how bored I am with my life. I don't think that I am depressed, but I do think that if I had the option to just stop right now...
    Anon1697 Anon1697 18-21, M Mar 15

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    uggghh..I totally hate teenagers!!! they think they are so smart but guess what?! I'm 10 times craftier because I was a teen too!! granted it was a long time ago but I know all the...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 5

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    Why must our bodies be Imperfected by sicknesses I want to help people but I don't have the knowledge yet and probably can't get it for a while but in not completely stupid...
    natsufairy12 natsufairy12 13-15, M Mar 13

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    sometimes to know all new people from nowhere maybe makes you feel so happy just right away
    nunuhadiyati nunuhadiyati 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I truly love being a mom. This is why I had children over the years and I am pregnant again now. My teenagers all love me being their moms too. I am not easy and I am not hard...
    olderfemalesunbathing olderfemalesunbathing 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I could go back to every laugh, But I don't wanna' go there anymore, And I know all the steps up to your door, But I don't wanna' go there anymore. Talk to the wind, talk to the...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Mar 3

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    Ive been looking for someone to talk to but they all ended up being perverts :/
    aceisthename aceisthename 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 11

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    This life wow! I just don't know what I feel anymore. I just know I'm tired. I have these dreams of driving through the country air. Fresh and beautiful trees. Green pretty grass...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 31-35, F Mar 18

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    I can't tell anyone how I feel. The people around me would rather think I'm quiet and awkward, but no one knows all that I am and what I've felt inside...I must move on, and hope...
    soul7 soul7 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    I started university september 2013 and shortly before that I'd looked online to find other people who were going to be going to the same one, and started talking to a boy who I'll...
    apismellifera4 apismellifera4 18-21, T Mar 15

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    I isolate. I have PTSD. I'm not just saying that, it's my therapists diagnosis. She says that's why I spend so much time alone, why I don't trust easily, why I work so much. I'm...
    veiledsadness veiledsadness 56-60, F Mar 6

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    I am new to being a step mom and concerned about the toll it is taking on my recent marriage. I am very sure in my desire to remain childless, to focus on my career and enjoy my...
    mlm121 mlm121 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been thnhking lately that it is not good for me to be with a man that does not love God as much as i do. That nagging feeling that I'm doing something wrong. That insecure...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was so close to loving him. I mean, I always noticed him, I always loved his mentality and his carelessness. But it was only until he let me in that I found myself truly losing...
    borderlinesymmetry borderlinesymmetry 13-15, F Mar 14

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    Feeling numb. Sometimes the pain becomes too much bear. It's one thing to be hurting, but it's another thing when it interferes with your everyday functioning in life. You know...
    peachtree24 peachtree24 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I knew if anyone knew then theyed look differently at me so I kept my mouth shut as years went on and I knew by the age of 6 I wasnt normal ...the things about me arent normal and...
    lostbrokeheart lostbrokeheart 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    My brother keeps on hitting me and hurting me lately. I know that he has done it all my life but now I cant stand it. I cant cope with the pain it causes. I really want to leave...
    oceaneyes97 oceaneyes97 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I'm in a LDR, and have been now for right at a year. I feel as though my efforts aren't matched. I give selflessly and love him unconditionally. I know everyone expresses love...
    missteen2 missteen2 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I have this tendency to push a guy if i know im falling for him. I hated myself for that, i hated myself for being me. Its like im this invention made to be disastrous. So okay...
    AbstractExistence AbstractExistence 18-21 Mar 8

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