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I Know We All Cope Differently To Being Hurt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 67 People

    I Understand This

    I really do understand that people have their own ways of dealing with things. Mine is to be honest about my feelings about things. Not judging, just honest. I won't lie and say that every way of coping is a good way, because let's face it, some ways are just hurtful to others...
    StarliteRose StarliteRose 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2010

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    We’re All Different, Yet We All Hurt

    Everyone is different and has their own way of dealing with pain. While we’re all different, many of us have a… “kind” or “genre” of how we manage. Some people need a shoulder to cry on. They need to tell someone, or someones, about what bothers them. They need to...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 8 Responses May 21, 2011

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    Cope Differently

    Since each individual is different then it is normal that we all cope differently too to being hurt.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 12, 2011

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    And...

     most of us do self medicate in one fashion or another.
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 3 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    Group Title Sais It..

    we all cope differently..with healthier way of coping methods or ..a way thats not so healthy..
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Even If They Hard To Accept!

    It's part of being human. It's something our brain does naturally.. and we often have little say in it. And every single person is unique! There are some recognized ways of coping but we all have various ways and combinations that work best for us as individuals...Most ways are...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Jan 22, 2011

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    Every time I find someone I like I push them away because I'm afraid of getting hurt. I don't want to be hurt again so I'm hurting others. I just want to get better and be able to...
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    I have no clue if you even know how much you hurt me without even saying a word. You will always be a challenge to me now and it sucks. I want to feel like I am his only one, but...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F Dec 7

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    Hey, I want to take this off my chest as soon as possible, it's consuming me. I don't know if there is something wrong with me, if I look like an absolute freak or if I just look...
    tempusfugittt tempusfugittt 18-21 Dec 2

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    I SWEAR LOVE HURT LIKE HELL , I don't know in hell I keep letting him back n my life n he just keep walking all on me and hurting my feelings ugh it's so hard when you really love...
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    Being hurt is the reason I have trust issues...
    Pinkaboo168 Pinkaboo168 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I hope not because that wouldn't be right.. Be yourself certainly and be proud of knowing yourself .. If your being forced into something you don't feel is right .. Say no and if...
    Homejames Homejames 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    I know all forms of abuse.. But to this day I have not been able to tell anyone. I have been beaten, drowned under water. Friends I no longer have. Life seems pointless.
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    ZenDoll ZenDoll 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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