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I Know What a Gentlemen Is

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    Rambling

    I believe underneath it all we are needing to feel we are the best at something. In this world there is always someone better at cooking, football, lactating, skating, sewing, or whatever you're into. There is a basic need left unrequited. We need to feel we are the best at...
    lovingexpress lovingexpress 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    I Am One

    I'm probably freaky, odd, weird, crazy, but at least I'm a gentleman.
    weirdcolor weirdcolor 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Very Much So

    I know what a gentleman is and due to being brought up by one, was very able, easily to see those qualities in others.  Sometimes, there are those that hide behind the language and actions of a gentleman, but that is in order to ensnare, a true gentleman is through and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 4, 2008

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    Why A Gentleman Is So Appealing

    Okay, this is my first post on EP, so I guess I'll briefly introduce myself to start with. I'm teenage girl, but WAIT - please don't write me off as any other teenage girl and think that I don't have a clue what I'm talking about. I'm mature, I know the real value of a...
    omgitsEMILY omgitsEMILY 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    I was raised to be a gentleman. I was raised to respect my elders. That women are a precious thing to be treasured. That ones family is sacred above all else. That a man has a duty to protect his neighbor. Every man is supposed to conduct himself in a way that reflects well...
    sidkerr sidkerr 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 25, 2013

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    Cardinal Newman

    Hence it is that it is almost a definition of a gentleman to say that he is one who never inflicts pain. This description is both refined and, as far as it goes, accurate. He is mainly occupied in merely removing the obstacles which hinder the free and unembarrassed action of...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

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    Not Any Such Left

    ANYWHERE WORLDWIDE.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 3 Responses Jan 29, 2010

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    This,Dear Reader, Is What George Bernard Shaw, Has To Say About The Subject...

    A gentleman, is one who puts more into the world, than he takes out. ~George Bernard Shaw~
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M Apr 13, 2013

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    Attracted To A Gentleman

    i'm always attracted to a gentleman   a man who'll open the door and pull out the chair for you. who'll protect you when you're in a crowd
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2010

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    I'm A Gentlemen

    I'm a gentleman,Will help you,On your way,Through thick and thin,Like any gentleman would.
    mrraincoat mrraincoat 46-50 May 4, 2012

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    Kipling

    Growing up I was taught early to love the written word. Ideas, feelings, hopes, warnings, dreams. As I grew I found my self drawn to the works of Kipling and two poems in particular shaped my idea of what a man should be...
    sidkerr sidkerr 22-25, M Jul 14, 2013

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    I Love Gentlemen

    Yes, I know there are many gentlemen left in this world.  I have met a lot of them lately.  He was the man who opened the door and the helped me pick up the contents of my laptop bag when it burst last week.  He is the man that calls me during his only free time...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Feb 20, 2010

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    Knowing What A Gentlemen Is

    Having had a good upbringing my father taught me at a very early age that a gentlemen is somebody who gets out of the bath to use the toilet.
    billstickers billstickers 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    George Bernard Shaw A Quote

    People become attached to their burdens sometimes more than the burdens are attached to them. George Bernard Shaw
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M Sep 2, 2013

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    Do This...

    A gentleman will bring you flowers on your first date, particularly 1 single flower, and not a rose of red, but a rose of yellow. A gentleman will hold the door open for you and close the door behind you as you're getting into a car. A gentleman will open every and all doors for...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Feb 10, 2009

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    Matters Of Honor

    I wonder sometimes if part of the decline of gentlemanly behavior is partly because we no longer respect or expect some one to hold to codes of honor. There was a time with a man insulted your mother or your wife you could call them out and either they could apologize or you...
    sidkerr sidkerr 22-25, M Jun 27, 2013

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