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I Know What I Need,want and Deserve In a Relationship

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    I want a man who isn't afraid to share his

    feelings, who is respectful, honest, sexy, intelligent, has a sense of humor, likes to have fun and try new things. Who is confident with himself, adores me, thinks I'm beautiful, smart, funny, and fun. If you have some or all of these qualities then please add me:)
    Hope70 Hope70 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    I Have Lived And Loved, But Still Something Is Missing

    I have been in three serious long relationships, my present one, was fantastic the first two years and then Life happened. What I mean by this is, there were many events that took a toll on me and my whole family. My relationship started plummeting in a downward spiral and...
    2BnLove 2BnLove 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 29, 2010

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    Thank You Ex's

    I've had many failed relationships for the past 5 years. I've been cheated on,emotionally abusived, been treated like **** & ect. But I made it through - - I am glad that I've went through all that bullshit with my ex's. It made me who I am today. I'm not gonna lie, but every...
    AdviceFromLizzie AdviceFromLizzie 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 3, 2008

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    What I... Need- I'd like to think nothing... Want all you want, but you shouldnt need.... you can't need things from a separate being, I dont think its healthy.... need leads to dependence, and that can destroy both of you...   Want- my wants at the moment are ridiculous...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Read This, Please.

    I don't care what you personally think about this, nor will i ever change who i am just because you like sexual things. i am a kind hearted man, and i know what i want in a relationship. and i know what i will never have exist in my life until i'm married to the right woman - sex...
    NimprodiTorgue NimprodiTorgue 22-25, M May 21, 2013

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    P4 - So Stinking Miserable...

    I'm so stinking miserable. Juz got finished talking to husband for the 1 billionth that I am miserable with him and that I am not staying in this relationship. As always, he is speechless. Can't ever form words or sentences, this guy! ugggh... It hurts so much. Meeting and...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F Feb 20, 2012

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    Relationship....yes I Look For Specifics

    Well, life is full of surprises. I have discovered flirting is fun. I have experienced people surprising me to extremes I could not envision if I tried. All in all, there is a fun part going on in EP. If I were asked what type of girl really would be what I need can be...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    Hell Yeahh

    I want a long lasting relationship with I guy I want to be around all the time and who loves and cherishes me. There are three types of guys out there- the very attractive douchebags, the nice guys who arent so cute, and the attractive nice guys that are all gay. There are maybe...
    Nic00l Nic00l 16-17, F Nov 27, 2012

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    So...

    How come I got the opposite?!?How can a guy completely manipulate the situations so that you'll believe he's something he's not for a long time...?!?You wake up one day and you find that he's not what he claimed to be.  He's not what he pretended to be.  He never was... what he...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F May 2, 2011

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    Trust

    In a relationship TR[US]T is everything and if you don't have it you have nothing ! Distrust will lead to controlling tendency's and accusations that will cause fights and a stress on a relationship <3
    Tooheartlessx3 Tooheartlessx3 18-21, F Jul 29, 2011

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    Tentative List:

    What I don’t want: Act like a girl have aids (or other stds/ major health risks) try to tell me what to do/control me be another race be shorter than me think they are right ALL the time undermine me about my own life rely on me completely set unrealistic expectations hit me...
    angeldancer angeldancer 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2012

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    I don't get why I'm always the one that's got

    to love more. Why do I have to have this unbelievable urge for him and it feels like I carry more inside then him. I just want someone who I can trust, support me as much as I do them , have lots of sex with, and never get sick of.
    waldeinsamkeit waldeinsamkeit 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Do I Ever!

    I know what I deserve, want, and need alright. A lot of the time though, in every relationship I've been in thus far has lacked one of those. Whether it may be my deserve, my want, or my need. I wonder if it's possible to have all of these taken care of at once? *daydreams*
    Strikerfreeze Strikerfreeze 18-21, M Sep 3, 2011

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    It's Really Just True Love

    Yes... True Love is just that....true. If a huge lie passes my partners lips, I feel betrayed. First and foremost, the lover I choose must not deceive my heart. Everything else grows from there.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Not Asking For Much, Just......

    Love, loyalty, honesty, friendship, passion, communication, laughter, Love.
    Waymor Waymor 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    Heart's Desire

    In relationships I seek a genuine partner, a serious relationship that will turn something meaningful. It's very easy to find a woman who will wander into my life, play various games (that ultimately are self-interest based) and who will get scared away for various different...
    MFBG MFBG 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 12, 2012

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    All Or Nothing Kinda Girl

    Take me or leave me, Love me or hate me, Stay or go, friends or lovers I hate to feel the confusions of what people really want from me ... I don't like to be pulled one way and then pushed the other ... I am who i am and i can't change me to make someone else happy, i wouldn't...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    I Know I Know

    Only I almost never get it. Everybody else lives something else, has different "standards"> their anti-standards are "lie, betray, traps, manipulations". Mine are normal, exactly the opposite -> therefore I am always ALONE. In love, in...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    What I Expect In A Relationship

    if someone asked you....What do you want and need and deserve in a relationship? You would think that most people would have similar responses.You would think that there would be commonalities between most responders, and so your desires for a type of relationship should be easy...
    neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 14 Responses Oct 9, 2011

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    no reservations

    Once upon a time, I didn't know. It is cliche' but true, you have to love yourself before you are capable of loving anyone else.  It's even more true in order to actually let another's love reach you. Now I know all that I want, need and deserve.  I'll never settle...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 8 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    Perfect Guy Just For Me

    I know i am one of those people who are picky and have standards when it comes to a future relationship, but isnt everyone? I have thought over and pulayed out in my mind how i want my future boyfriend/husband to be in the relationship. The guy for me has to be smart, cute maybe...
    meekgurl meekgurl 18-21, F Dec 7, 2011

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    I Never Get Wat I Want Or Need

    IVE BEEN IN SEVERAL RELATIONSHIPS IN THE PAST 3 YEARS AND IT ALWAYS TURNS OUT THE SAME WAY. I ALWAYS END UP BREAKING UP WITH THE OTHER PERSON BECAUSE MY TRUST ALWAYS SEEMS TO GET VIOLATED. IM SO TIRED OF THAT HAPPENING TO ME. ALL I ASK FOR IS HONESTY, AND TIME. BUT NEVER DOES...
    michelledggs michelledggs 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2008

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    A List Of Qualities- Finally!

    I have often come across the relationship advice saying that you need to make a list of qualities you seek in a guy. I have resisted the idea thinking it is wrong to place a potential soulmate in a box. I have been open to dating different types of guys. And I have dated guys who...
    tree12 tree12 26-30 Jan 9, 2012

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    What I Want

    My brother asked me the other day what are the traits you want in a husband and I thought about it and the traits I want are a person who will leave me alone most of the time. I want a person who can do there own thing without having to cling to me ever second. Someone who is...
    fae430 fae430 22-25 Mar 7, 2013

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    I Need a Woman Who Will Per...

    I need a woman who will perform a striptease for me whenever I ask her to , because I deserve it.
    leonardmaltomeal leonardmaltomeal 51-55, M 4 Responses Sep 6, 2009

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    Perfect Guy For Me

    Im probably one of those people who are picky and have standards when it comes to a future relationship, but isnt everyone. The guy for me has to be smart, caring, cute, and probably fine too lol. He has to be sweet, funny, but not too crazy with the jokes. He also doesnt have to...
    meekgurl meekgurl 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 7, 2011

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    I'm a big guy. Always the largest in the room.

    So why do I want a small girl? (Not meaning young). I am sooo attracted to tiny women. There's a woman that lives near me. She's about 4'11"" thin, long hair, athletic and she doesn't take any **** from me. Most people are scared of me but not her. I like it. I want to go...
    largemuscledmale largemuscledmale 36-40, M Mar 23

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    Perfect Guy Just For Me

    I know i am one of those people who are picky and have standards when it comes to a future relationship, but isnt everyone? I have thought over and pulayed out in my mind how i want my future boyfriend/husband to be in the relationship. The guy for me has to be smart, cute maybe...
    meekgurl meekgurl 18-21, F Dec 7, 2011

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    I Need I Deserve, Where Are You?

    Everyone needs to be loved mentally and physically. I like everyone else should be able to find a true love that I can grow old with. A love that can be shared, explored and built upon. I need honesty because with honesty comes trust. Doesn't everyone deserve one real...
    Sync47 Sync47 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2009

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    My Boyfriend Doesn't Believe In Being In Love. Am I Wasting My Time???

    I Believe In Love My Boyfriend Says, Being In Love Doesn't Exist. Am I Wasting My Time??? By: Me Written on November 12th, 2012 I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We've dated for a year before we became a couple. We share some of the same...
    toxicgame toxicgame 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

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    I Know Myself

    My needs, wants and what I think I deserve are all very specific to myself.   My needs are similar to most any other human being and probably very similar to most women. I need to belong, feel safe and freely love in my relationships with others. I need to be loved and...
    fightn4me fightn4me 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    :)

    I know what i deerve in a relatinship a healthy. Trust is a must a huge must, someone i can really be myself with the real me, there has to be there has to be a level of layalty. will not stand for disrespect in a relationship or in gerneral really.i will not stand for being...
    Tawny26 Tawny26 26-30, F Jul 30, 2011

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    Finding The Perfect Partner

    People will ask me: And so, what kind of person are you looking for next time around? And my reply is: well the same kind of person I originally thought I married. The only difference is, next time I want the assumptions that he is honest, is not secretive, or not controlling to...
    neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 3 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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