Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Know What I Need,want and Deserve In a Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,066 People

    All Or Nothing Kinda Girl

    Take me or leave me, Love me or hate me, Stay or go, friends or lovers I hate to feel the confusions of what people really want from me ... I don't like to be pulled one way and then pushed the other ... I am who i am and i can't change me to make someone else happy, i wouldn't...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    But dating still isn't easy.

    People don't listen to me .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Finding The Perfect Partner

    People will ask me: And so, what kind of person are you looking for next time around? And my reply is: well the same kind of person I originally thought I married. The only difference is, next time I want the assumptions that he is honest, is not secretive, or not controlling to...
    neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Boyfriend Doesn't Believe In Being In Love. Am I Wasting My Time???

    I Believe In Love My Boyfriend Says, Being In Love Doesn't Exist. Am I Wasting My Time??? By: Me Written on November 12th, 2012 I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We've dated for a year before we became a couple. We share some of the same...
    toxicgame toxicgame 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't get why I'm always the one that's got

    to love more. Why do I have to have this unbelievable urge for him and it feels like I carry more inside then him. I just want someone who I can trust, support me as much as I do them , have lots of sex with, and never get sick of.
    CammieBx CammieBx 18-21, F Apr 15, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Relationship....yes I Look For Specifics

    Well, life is full of surprises. I have discovered flirting is fun. I have experienced people surprising me to extremes I could not envision if I tried. All in all, there is a fun part going on in EP. If I were asked what type of girl really would be what I need can be...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 15, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Or maybe I don't. He kept saying there is no

    pleasing me...what the hell does that mean anyway?
    candycoatedunicorn candycoatedunicorn 36-40, F 1 Response May 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    energymustmove energymustmove 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What I Want

    My brother asked me the other day what are the traits you want in a husband and I thought about it and the traits I want are a person who will leave me alone most of the time. I want a person who can do there own thing without having to cling to me ever second. Someone who is...
    fae430 fae430 22-25 1 Response Mar 7, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My wants and needs seem to just coincide with

    each other. They are both important to me. The person I want/need in a relationship is someone who makes me feel important. Someone who is my bestfriend, my advisor, my soul mate, my biggest fan, who sees no one other than me. Someone that I can live my entire life with, has the...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F Jun 30, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    For over a year I have settled

    for so much less than I deserve. I deserve the truth in a relationship. I deserve a mate that I don't have to share.
    sml4 sml4 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm a big guy. Always the largest in the room.

    So why do I want a small girl? (Not meaning young). I am sooo attracted to tiny women. There's a woman that lives near me. She's about 4'11"" thin, long hair, athletic and she doesn't take any **** from me. Most people are scared of me but not her. I like it. I want to go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A List Of Qualities- Finally!

    I have often come across the relationship advice saying that you need to make a list of qualities you seek in a guy. I have resisted the idea thinking it is wrong to place a potential soulmate in a box. I have been open to dating different types of guys. And I have dated guys who...
    tree12 tree12 26-30 Jan 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What I Expect In A Relationship

    if someone asked you....What do you want and need and deserve in a relationship? You would think that most people would have similar responses.You would think that there would be commonalities between most responders, and so your desires for a type of relationship should be easy...
    neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 14 Responses Oct 9, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hell Yeahh

    I want a long lasting relationship with I guy I want to be around all the time and who loves and cherishes me. There are three types of guys out there- the very attractive douchebags, the nice guys who arent so cute, and the attractive nice guys that are all gay. There are maybe...
    Nic00l Nic00l 16-17, F Nov 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    We have had our final talk about “all” of

    the issues that I was having. The zoning out on the phone looking to buy snakes that are $800 a pop when we need a new car because besides our air not working the transmission is slowly heading out the shop told us. Having a vehicle in Florida “with working air conditioning...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I dont need to be hurt on purpose

    nor do I need to be your moral compass or supply your need for adoration or be your servant - do all the thing that you dont want to or feel you are to good to do. I just would like - I dont need anything- a person who is kind at peace happy , has that special glitter in their...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F Apr 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not Asking For Much, Just......

    Love, loyalty, honesty, friendship, passion, communication, laughter, Love.
    Waymor Waymor 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tonight again the heart is heavy sadness is

    clutching it so much time gone by so many precious and golden years went wasted life is like wet wood neither alights nor subsides ....... Where is the power of prayer my faith says all prayers get piled up in his Court never wasted or discarded when they will be answered only...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F Aug 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    All I ever truly wanted from a relationship.

    . Was to be there for someone to show someone how it feels to be loved. That's the true beauty of a relationship. To give someone your all and your commitment. To have their needs on your mind at ALL times. So many failed attempts. When you start realizing that you don't get the...
    backwardglances backwardglances 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Somebody To Love

    you know that old song by jefferson airplane "somebody to love"? well thats me. i know exactly what i want. i want that kind of girl who i can gaze at the stars with at night, who i can hold in my arms until the world ends, who i can tell her she's beautiful every day, who i...
    depend779 depend779 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 22, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    loyalty, honesty, caring,

    respect. Thus is what I need, want, and deserve, that's what I give and what I want to receive. *a thick package and tats would be a plus tho. :D lmao
    MyCircus MyCircus 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A man with a British accent

    or a deep voice is so damn attractive:) those are my ultimate weakness... Hahah **** Sakes.
    BrutallyHonest13 BrutallyHonest13 22-25, F Oct 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I know what I want now

    and what I need in a relationship/partnership. 1. Someone who loves their job as much as I love mine. 2. Is able to give & take similar awkward open jokes and serious talks without getting offended. 3. Kind and also able to be patient without being too encouraging. 4. Is self...
    BlueSkysAreCold BlueSkysAreCold 22-25, F Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Need I Deserve, Where Are You?

    Everyone needs to be loved mentally and physically. I like everyone else should be able to find a true love that I can grow old with. A love that can be shared, explored and built upon. I need honesty because with honesty comes trust. Doesn't everyone deserve one real...
    Sync47 Sync47 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    After 8 failed intense relationships,

    you just got super clear on who you are, yr flaws, yr need and what you can offer.. the most important part is knowing yr weaknesses.. you need to know what kind of bad traits you can't tolerate with and which of yr flaws that need to be worked on.. it will help you from...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M Apr 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Know I Know

    Only I almost never get it. Everybody else lives something else, has different "standards"> their anti-standards are "lie, betray, traps, manipulations". Mine are normal, exactly the opposite -> therefore I am always ALONE. In love, in...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    In my room I have a picture on the wall

    that has provided me joy for many years. This picture shows a beautiful stream with clear water, graceful rushes along the shore and patches of cottonwood trees that provide shaded shelter on sunny days. The picture hangs on the wall in my room. It is my picture. On the...
    wantadoover wantadoover 56-60, M 1 Response Feb 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Connection I thrive on deep conversation

    and passion I want a chemistry that type where you feel each other's heat and can't keep away from each other passion laughter romance shared interests open forum to be heard
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Too Much Pressure?

    It might be considered the ideal to have one person who fulfills all your needs in life.  But isn't that an awful amount of pressure to put on one person?  You could make a list of the things you need and search the world to find the person who can satisfy all of them...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 11 Responses Sep 6, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Prove to a girl you don't care

    and she'll chase you; prove to a women you don't care and she'll replace you.
    MPLF93 MPLF93 18-21, F 1 Response May 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 18 and I know my need

    and want are going to change from times to times. I do know what I deserve. And I know I'm too beautiful and independent to wait around for temporary attachment :)
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Perfect Guy For Me

    Im probably one of those people who are picky and have standards when it comes to a future relationship, but isnt everyone. The guy for me has to be smart, caring, cute, and probably fine too lol. He has to be sweet, funny, but not too crazy with the jokes. He also doesnt have to...
    meekgurl meekgurl 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 7, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Read This, Please.

    I don't care what you personally think about this, nor will i ever change who i am just because you like sexual things. i am a kind hearted man, and i know what i want in a relationship. and i know what i will never have exist in my life until i'm married to the right woman - sex...
    McdonaldsVomit McdonaldsVomit 22-25, M May 21, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've been doing some thinking about what I

    really need from this new guy should I ever meet him. and if I'm presented with anything less it's not happening. what I need right now is someone that is going to restore my faith in people. That's gonna look after me and care for me and show me the meaning of true love... a...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Know Myself

    My needs, wants and what I think I deserve are all very specific to myself.   My needs are similar to most any other human being and probably very similar to most women. I need to belong, feel safe and freely love in my relationships with others. I need to be loved and...
    fightn4me fightn4me 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tentative List:

    What I don’t want: Act like a girl have aids (or other stds/ major health risks) try to tell me what to do/control me be another race be shorter than me think they are right ALL the time undermine me about my own life rely on me completely set unrealistic expectations hit me...
    angeldancer angeldancer 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    At the moment I always think I know what I want and then I am there and I have it and I realize I want more. So technically I always know what I want until I need more.
    imOddlyshy imOddlyshy 26-30, F 1 Response May 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I know what I want to do with my life now. It has been a dream of mine since I could talk. I need to design, build, modify and race cars. I have been getting quite down and...
    KiwiRota KiwiRota 18-21, M May 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have no idea what I am doing. I am going to college but I don't know what I want from it or from life itself. It's overwhelming me.
    Lynnd520 Lynnd520 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just acceptance.. appreciation...being happy with each other completely, not wanting to change your partner in anyway just to fit into what YOU want... I mean it's okay to help...
    TyrannosaurusRexx TyrannosaurusRexx 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i know exactly what i want and i am learning not to settle and i have to risk a little bit sometimes
    DiaLeigh DiaLeigh 26-30, F 2 Responses May 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wanted to become a EMT or an interior designer but my teacher told me to think realistically. Now I don't know what to do with myself
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know I want love first of all , but I need stability, loyalty, kindness and just someone who will care for me.
    OohlalaMimi OohlalaMimi 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need honesty, loyalty and respect from someone who'll love and accept me as I am, make me laugh and make me want to be better.
    heartmusic678 heartmusic678 22-25, F 1 Response May 15

    Your Response

    Cancel