I Know What I Need,want and Deserve In a Relationship

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    I want to be with a "good" Christian man

    who will be a good "father" and husband. I want to be a good wife and mother.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 18

    This weekend was tough.

    It usually is. It's nice to have weekends away from work to spend time together. What a crock. As always. I feel so empty. Robotic. There isn't anything that keeps me going. I feel like I am wasting away. Sometimes I know where I should be heading. Sometimes I don't. I feel...
    airzm airzm
    31-35, F
    Sep 28, 2015

    My husband has an anger problem.

    I'm really passive and soft. But little things will turn him into this mean raging man. The rest of the time he's super affectionate. Often inappropriately so in public. If I don't feel super kissy because I'm tired or stressed from school or busy working on something, he can...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 2, 2015

    I Know Myself

    My needs, wants and what I think I deserve are all very specific to myself.   My needs are similar to most any other human being and probably very similar to most women. I need to belong, feel safe and freely love in my relationships with others. I need to be loved and...
    fightn4me fightn4me
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Apr 27, 2012

    For over a year I have settled

    for so much less than I deserve. I deserve the truth in a relationship. I deserve a mate that I don't have to share.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 15, 2014

    In my room I have a picture on the wall

    that has provided me joy for many years. This picture shows a beautiful stream with clear water, graceful rushes along the shore and patches of cottonwood trees that provide shaded shelter on sunny days. The picture hangs on the wall in my room. It is my picture. On the...
    wantadoover wantadoover
    56-60, M
    Feb 8, 2015

    What I want: older, Passionate,

    romantic, loyal, respectful, caring, ambitious, mature, masculine, wrapped up in something Nordicish, 6ft or over, medium to large build with either thick lush hair or shaved bald, worked hands, long thick legs, light eyes, a sexy smile, a thick package and some nice tats wouldn...
    RoseMarie86 RoseMarie86
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 1

    I Know I Know

    Only I almost never get it. Everybody else lives something else, has different "standards"> their anti-standards are "lie, betray, traps, manipulations". Mine are normal, exactly the opposite -> therefore I am always ALONE. In love, in...
    Thought1 Thought1
    22-25
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2009

    P4 - So Stinking Miserable...

    I'm so stinking miserable. Juz got finished talking to husband for the 1 billionth that I am miserable with him and that I am not staying in this relationship. As always, he is speechless. Can't ever form words or sentences, this guy! ugggh... It hurts so much. Meeting and...
    airzm airzm
    31-35, F
    Feb 20, 2012

    loyalty, honesty, caring,

    respect. Thus is what I need, want, and deserve, that's what I give and what I want to receive. *a thick package and tats would be a plus tho. :D lmao
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015

    All I ever truly wanted from a relationship.

    . Was to be there for someone to show someone how it feels to be loved. That's the true beauty of a relationship. To give someone your all and your commitment. To have their needs on your mind at ALL times. So many failed attempts. When you start realizing that you don't get the...
    backwardglances backwardglances
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

    I dont need to be hurt on purpose

    nor do I need to be your moral compass or supply your need for adoration or be your servant - do all the thing that you dont want to or feel you are to good to do. I just would like - I dont need anything- a person who is kind at peace happy , has that special glitter in their...
    blonde10 blonde10
    36-40, F
    Apr 29, 2015

    I think I've finally figured out what I want

    and need from a relationship of love. First, an equal relationship, as opposed to a one sided love. There must be an equal give and take. I'm a person who values love highly. I realize that I go all out every time in my relationships, and so I guess who I'm looking for is...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    But dating still isn't easy.

    People don't listen to me .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015

    A List Of Qualities- Finally!

    I have often come across the relationship advice saying that you need to make a list of qualities you seek in a guy. I have resisted the idea thinking it is wrong to place a potential soulmate in a box. I have been open to dating different types of guys. And I have dated guys who...
    tree12 tree12
    31-35
    Jan 9, 2012

    My wants and needs seem to just coincide with

    each other. They are both important to me. The person I want/need in a relationship is someone who makes me feel important. Someone who is my bestfriend, my advisor, my soul mate, my biggest fan, who sees no one other than me. Someone that I can live my entire life with, has the...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123
    22-25, F
    Jun 30, 2014
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014
    41-45, M
    Feb 28

    A man with a British accent

    or a deep voice is so damn attractive:) those are my ultimate weakness... Hahah **** Sakes.
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13
    22-25, F
    Oct 17, 2014
    LittleBallOfFire LittleBallOfFire
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015

    After 8 failed intense relationships,

    you just got super clear on who you are, yr flaws, yr need and what you can offer.. the most important part is knowing yr weaknesses.. you need to know what kind of bad traits you can't tolerate with and which of yr flaws that need to be worked on.. it will help you from...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i
    70+, M
    Apr 30, 2015

    Perfect Guy For Me

    Im probably one of those people who are picky and have standards when it comes to a future relationship, but isnt everyone. The guy for me has to be smart, caring, cute, and probably fine too lol. He has to be sweet, funny, but not too crazy with the jokes. He also doesnt have to...
    meekgurl meekgurl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2011

    I want a guy who I am attracted

    and have chemistry to be head over heels for me. I want someone who makes me laugh, allows me to constants give and he still gives back. I want someone to support me as much as I support him. Close my age, would like a guy with amazing eyes. . .(blond would be nice too) i know...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    What I Expect In A Relationship

    if someone asked you....What do you want and need and deserve in a relationship? You would think that most people would have similar responses.You would think that there would be commonalities between most responders, and so your desires for a type of relationship should be easy...
    neuilly neuilly
    61-65, F
    14 Responses Oct 9, 2011

    Tentative List:

    What I don’t want: Act like a girl have aids (or other stds/ major health risks) try to tell me what to do/control me be another race be shorter than me think they are right ALL the time undermine me about my own life rely on me completely set unrealistic expectations hit me...
    angeldancer angeldancer
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2012

    Connection I thrive on deep conversation

    and passion I want a chemistry that type where you feel each other's heat and can't keep away from each other passion laughter romance shared interests open forum to be heard
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2014

    Too Much Pressure?

    It might be considered the ideal to have one person who fulfills all your needs in life.  But isn't that an awful amount of pressure to put on one person?  You could make a list of the things you need and search the world to find the person who can satisfy all of them...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    11 Responses Sep 6, 2009

    What I Want

    My brother asked me the other day what are the traits you want in a husband and I thought about it and the traits I want are a person who will leave me alone most of the time. I want a person who can do there own thing without having to cling to me ever second. Someone who is...
    fae430 fae430
    22-25
    1 Response Mar 7, 2013

    I know what I want now

    and what I need in a relationship/partnership. 1. Someone who loves their job as much as I love mine. 2. Is able to give & take similar awkward open jokes and serious talks without getting offended. 3. Kind and also able to be patient without being too encouraging. 4. Is self...
    BlueSkysAreCold BlueSkysAreCold
    26-30, F
    Mar 18, 2015

    Finding The Perfect Partner

    People will ask me: And so, what kind of person are you looking for next time around? And my reply is: well the same kind of person I originally thought I married. The only difference is, next time I want the assumptions that he is honest, is not secretive, or not controlling to...
    neuilly neuilly
    61-65, F
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2012
    energymustmove energymustmove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2015

    Not Asking For Much, Just......

    Love, loyalty, honesty, friendship, passion, communication, laughter, Love.
    Waymor Waymor
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Apr 30, 2013

    What I want doesn't exist.

    Simple as that.
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes
    26-30, F
    Oct 19, 2015

    I'm 18 and I know my need

    and want are going to change from times to times. I do know what I deserve. And I know I'm too beautiful and independent to wait around for temporary attachment :)
    masmelo masmelo
    18-21, F
    Apr 7, 2015

    We have had our final talk about “all” of

    the issues that I was having. The zoning out on the phone looking to buy snakes that are $800 a pop when we need a new car because besides our air not working the transmission is slowly heading out the shop told us. Having a vehicle in Florida “with working air conditioning...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2014

    Or maybe I don't. He kept saying there is no

    pleasing me...what the hell does that mean anyway?
    candycoatedunicorn candycoatedunicorn
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 8, 2015

    All Or Nothing Kinda Girl

    Take me or leave me, Love me or hate me, Stay or go, friends or lovers I hate to feel the confusions of what people really want from me ... I don't like to be pulled one way and then pushed the other ... I am who i am and i can't change me to make someone else happy, i wouldn't...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2013

    I believe that bad past relationships make you

    grown and realize what you really want and deserve. Even a bad ex serves for something.
    macabre00 macabre00
    26-30, F
    Jul 14, 2015

    Relationship....yes I Look For Specifics

    Well, life is full of surprises. I have discovered flirting is fun. I have experienced people surprising me to extremes I could not envision if I tried. All in all, there is a fun part going on in EP. If I were asked what type of girl really would be what I need can be...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2012

    I Need I Deserve, Where Are You?

    Everyone needs to be loved mentally and physically. I like everyone else should be able to find a true love that I can grow old with. A love that can be shared, explored and built upon. I need honesty because with honesty comes trust. Doesn't everyone deserve one real...
    Sync47 Sync47
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 6, 2009

    Tonight again the heart is heavy sadness is

    clutching it so much time gone by so many precious and golden years went wasted life is like wet wood neither alights nor subsides ....... Where is the power of prayer my faith says all prayers get piled up in his Court never wasted or discarded when they will be answered only...
    anasteel2 anasteel2
    41-45, F
    Aug 22, 2014

    I don't get why I'm always the one that's got

    to love more. Why do I have to have this unbelievable urge for him and it feels like I carry more inside then him. I just want someone who I can trust, support me as much as I do them , have lots of sex with, and never get sick of.
    CammieBx CammieBx
    18-21, F
    Apr 15, 2014

    I'm a big guy. Always the largest in the room.

    So why do I want a small girl? (Not meaning young). I am sooo attracted to tiny women. There's a woman that lives near me. She's about 4'11"" thin, long hair, athletic and she doesn't take any **** from me. Most people are scared of me but not her. I like it. I want to go...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 23, 2014

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