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I Know What Its Like to Be Abandoned

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    I Feel Like My Husband Abandoned Me!

    About 6 years ago, he began to be distant, being away more and more. I would ask him what is really going on? He would answer defensively, " can't a man go to work or hang out?" I knew something was not right! You know ladies, when we feel that intuition it is 100...
    justicia justicia 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Abandoned Again...

    When I was four years old my Dad left us for his *****. He never looked back. Mom tried to get the child support through the navy but Dad would fill out papers every month to have it stopped. We were living in a roach infested apartment next to a sewage ditch with rats...
    phukkdup phukkdup 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2009

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