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I Know What My Problem Is

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    My problem is everyone's problem.  I am not free.  Freedom is paradoxical.  If freedom was to do whatever we willed then no-one would be free.  - if someone could hit me in the face because he felt like it and he was free to do it, then we all would be...
    discofunkster discofunkster 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    i thought always that people around me could be

    better,,, that anybody should try to be a good person, but i never asked myself if i am a good person or not...if i am good with the way i treat my friends or being fair enough with my family who lives far away from me , if my desicion to be away from them was good or not!! i...
    MoongirlDA MoongirlDA 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 22

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    Let Myself Be As I As I Am

    I know what my problems are, I take ownership of my prolems, but finding the courage to overcome my problems its almost like re-shaping everything I know and facing the unknown. Forgiving myself for what is done seems almosts immposible. I fear the unknown and judgement, shame...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24, 2012

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    Struggles With Everything !

    Sometimes i Honestly dont know Whether Im going or coming , because I am Just absolutely Busy! All the time, Im being pulled left and right by my Job which is A priority (CAUSE HOW ELSE WILL BILLS GET PAID ) , familyy & friends. Sometimes I just dont know how i maintain SANE...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    Fixing It Is Another Matter

    I know what it is and what I should do, but the courage to do it is still low. I want to do it so that my life will get better.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jan 21, 2013

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    Change!

    Change happens everyday of our lives whether or not if it was planned or not. We have to learn to adapt and accept things for what they truly are. I personally is very fond of change and I embrace it very much. Although, It may be tiring to go through so many changes especially...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F Oct 27, 2012

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    I Miss

    my problem isi have never gotten over the loss of my wife so young and all the things we had planed on doing as adults, the trips we talked about the journey we wanted to make with our lifes think the biggest reason is i was not withher when she was killed in such away and never...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Feb 28, 2012

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    Get It Together

    I always tend to let people to still my joy. I learning that life is just way tooo short for me to constantly dwell on what people say, and think about me . My feelings are always being challenged and everytime i fall for the Oke Doke! :) . I know im human, and its okay to...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F Feb 26, 2012

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    I'm Spinning My Wheels And Not Going Anywhere

    I've been a professional dog groomer for about four years now, and have done just about everything I can think of to improve my skills and my career. I'm probably a solid B+ in terms of grooming ability, and feel like I'm not going to learn anything more at the current shop where...
    CanineRoyale CanineRoyale 26-30, F Aug 18, 2013

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    The Absense Of You

    I'm so lost, the absence of you is everywhere I look. When you left you took a part of me who else can I turn to. I know well never be together again strange how we allways dreamt that we'll be together for eva. The pain is my only reminder that you once existed,
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    Feeling Down, Doing Nothing About It, Not Asking For Help

    I have just seen an obscure pathway to a revelation, and gone through it.I saw a picture of a tree. A certain user was incredibly impressed by said tree. I had an impulse to write (they know I write sensible things mostly) "Yeah but, izza tree innit?", and take the backslaps that...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    For A Life Time

    I've done allot of soul searching, everybody has problems but even after allot soul searching I realized that the pain and hurt is mostly what I brought upon myself and that my biggest problem is fear. I fear people, I fear failure, I fear being hurt and I fear rejection...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    My husband and I are going through something very personal right now and it's slowly tearing our marriage apart. All I can say here is I hurt him and made him feel like I didn't...
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    I'm trying to be positive, trying to find a hobby to keep myself occupied, but it's not working. It probably doesn't help that its the start of the summer holidays and my son is at...
    russianpenguin23 russianpenguin23 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    The other day, my co-worker was showing me people on Tinder, and one of the men that showed up was someone I knew. He is my ex-boyfriend's brother. Well the problem is, his brother...
    Navia55 Navia55 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    So it's 2:30am and I've been on EP for more hrs then id care to admit. I don't know what I'm doing with my life. I don't know whether or not I wanna be a part of this world any...
    NPkid97 NPkid97 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 4

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    With all this Robin Williams suicide discussion, I have had a nerve hit. I am 22 years old and lost my uncle to suicide when i was 18. He was only 28 and was very close to me. I...
    MrJosiah MrJosiah 22-25, M Aug 12

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    I know what true love is. I may be young, but I know what love is and what it means. It's when you look at that one person and all the bad things they've done and all their faults...
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    As a kid my parents were never the affectionate type, never said 'I love you', never hugged or kissed each other let alone us kids. I wouldn't say I had a bad childhood as we had a...
    megannicole1996 megannicole1996 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    JodieJay101 JodieJay101 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 26

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    When I was 17, I got pregnant with my oldest. He was a premature baby, so I got little to hardly any time to bond with him the first 3 months of his life. I spent 6 days a week...
    Krissysheart Krissysheart 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I don't know what to do next year. I know I should study at university next year. But what? I love psychology but I don't want to work in one place the whole time. Most people said...
    Firechidist Firechidist 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    He texted saying he wanted a minute and it seemed like a snap at me. I didnt want to bother him but he is busy and i guess i didnt pick up on that in time. And he said last time to...
    bmsartwell bmsartwell 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    Hey everyone, Last night when my boyfriend and I got home from a nice family gathering.....he found out his friend passed away who served in Afghanistan with him. I don't know...
    sarah143757 sarah143757 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I love him, yes I want him to be mine, yes But it’s impossible, yes I’m having hard time defining what we have been going through. I’m having hard time positioning myself to...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I do not know what I want to do with my life in the future. I had a few interests, but none of them would make a sufficient amount of money to live off of. It's terrible knowing...
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    EmptyHusk EmptyHusk 22-25 1 Response Jul 22

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    I get into these relationships that seem to be going really well and then it's like as soon as we get serious, everything goes wrong. I live with my boyfriend who I've been with...
    Christuh Christuh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Life right now I great sorta. I love being at school because I do well, I have lots of friend and I get along with everyone, so school is great. At home it's ok but my parents...
    kat99rebal kat99rebal 13-15, F Jul 24

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    i keep trying to tell my mum that i don't know any more. when i was little i always wanted to be a nurse but after being rejected from university 3 times and 3 other ones not even...
    makeitsomeday makeitsomeday 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    You know what annoys me? When I ask some something like "what's up?" "What are you doing?" "How are you?" They always respond by answering my question, but never ask me back...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I left my husband about 2 and 1/2 years ago. We were together for 7 years and we have 3 beautiful children together, but our marriage was toxic. He was extremely emotionally...
    Octoberbreeze Octoberbreeze 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I have a really big crush (or more than that...) on an older woman. She is in her late-forties to early-fifties and I am in my mid-twenties. I should say now that she is in a...
    kendallwakesup kendallwakesup 22-25 Jul 27

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    What do you think? I feel pretty down beat about myself but I wanna know what you lot have to say?
    emowulf emowulf 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 27

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    So, I've met this guy.. He's actually a cousin of one of my good guy friends. He's insanely cute, really nice, caring too but is very VERY shy. This is a semi huge deal for me...
    EBAAA EBAAA 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F Jul 28

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    kico4 kico4 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Haha, I feel weird writing this but, I've always wondered this. Obviously I know what it feels like to women, but I've always been curious as to what guys feels when they're having...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    But God always save me. I got so sick before i almost died. Pain. Death i know what it feels like. Been to a lot of accidents but jst almost seems like someone is trying to save me...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I said some pretty ****** up things to my best friend, i said i wanted to hurt her, cut her, i dont know what is wrong in my mind, i love her so much. I want to punish myself so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 4

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    bobthespider bobthespider 18-21 Aug 6

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    Yuri1396 Yuri1396 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    littledreamgirl littledreamgirl 13-15, F Aug 13

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